{"id":161164,"date":"2025-11-03T21:46:09","date_gmt":"2025-11-03T21:46:09","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ie\/161164\/"},"modified":"2025-11-03T21:46:09","modified_gmt":"2025-11-03T21:46:09","slug":"mary-earps-interview-ex-england-goalkeeper-says-ive-not-written-the-book-to-tear-anyone-down","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ie\/161164\/","title":{"rendered":"Mary Earps interview: Ex-England goalkeeper says &#8216;I&#8217;ve not written the book to tear anyone down&#8217;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"ssrcss-1q0x1qg-Paragraph e1jhz7w10\">On Friday, Earps <a href=\"https:\/\/www.bbc.com\/news\/articles\/c620lyx5p17o\" class=\"ssrcss-k8mrr8-InlineLink e1kn3p7n0\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">told the BBC<\/a> she felt &#8220;ready and happy to share&#8221; that she is in a same-sex relationship with her partner Kitty.<\/p>\n<p class=\"ssrcss-1q0x1qg-Paragraph e1jhz7w10\">She says her time at Wolfsburg in 2018-2019 helped her see things differently, and though when she met Kitty it was &#8220;confusing&#8221;, she is proud of their relationship.<\/p>\n<p class=\"ssrcss-1q0x1qg-Paragraph e1jhz7w10\">&#8220;I don&#8217;t see sexuality as linear. I don&#8217;t label things. It&#8217;s being brave enough to say &#8216;yes, this is my relationship and I&#8217;m proud of that &#8211; I&#8217;m not ashamed&#8217;,&#8221; added Earps.<\/p>\n<p class=\"ssrcss-1q0x1qg-Paragraph e1jhz7w10\">&#8220;I have always tried to keep my relationships private but that isn&#8217;t realistic when you&#8217;re writing a book of integrity and authenticity.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"ssrcss-1q0x1qg-Paragraph e1jhz7w10\">During the 2023 Women&#8217;s World Cup, Earps reveals in the book that Kitty had a row with the goalkeeper&#8217;s dad after hearing &#8220;hurtful things&#8221; about their relationship.<\/p>\n<p class=\"ssrcss-1q0x1qg-Paragraph e1jhz7w10\">Earps worried if her family would ever accept Kitty in that moment.<\/p>\n<p class=\"ssrcss-1q0x1qg-Paragraph e1jhz7w10\">&#8220;My family mean a great deal to me and so does my relationship. There were difficulties we had to navigate but we&#8217;re through that now, thankfully,&#8221; she added.<\/p>\n<p class=\"ssrcss-1q0x1qg-Paragraph e1jhz7w10\">Having a family of her own has also been something in Earps&#8217; mind for a few years and she has frozen her eggs for later use in fertility treatment.<\/p>\n<p class=\"ssrcss-1q0x1qg-Paragraph e1jhz7w10\">&#8220;It was a crazy, invasive process. I would love to be a mum and have a family but I love playing football,&#8221; said Earps. <\/p>\n<p class=\"ssrcss-1q0x1qg-Paragraph e1jhz7w10\">&#8220;Some players go off and become pregnant which is their right and they do a fantastic job. I would prefer not to do that. I want to, hopefully if the universe allows it, have a child later down the line.<\/p>\n<p class=\"ssrcss-1q0x1qg-Paragraph e1jhz7w10\">&#8220;There were a few questions that I couldn&#8217;t answer. 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