{"id":191955,"date":"2025-11-21T04:26:18","date_gmt":"2025-11-21T04:26:18","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ie\/191955\/"},"modified":"2025-11-21T04:26:18","modified_gmt":"2025-11-21T04:26:18","slug":"im-a-celebs-vogue-williams-says-spencer-matthews-was-not-for-her-as-she-opens-up-on-disaster","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ie\/191955\/","title":{"rendered":"I&#8217;m A Celeb&#8217;s Vogue Williams says Spencer Matthews was &#8216;not for her&#8217; as she opens up on &#8216;disaster&#8217;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Vogue Williams has opened up about her first meeting with husband Spencer Matthews, admitting she didn&#8217;t think he was &#8216;for her&#8217; and that he was a &#8216;man made of red flags&#8217;<\/p>\n<p><strong class=\"Strong_strong__e2x35 __className_6103b8\">Matt Jackson<\/strong> Trendswatch Content Editor<\/p>\n<p>09:37, 20 Nov 2025<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ie\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/0_Hyde-Park-Winter-Wonderland-Preview-Night-2024-Arrivals.jpg\" alt=\"LONDON, ENGLAND - NOVEMBER 20: Vogue Williams and Spencer Matthews attend the Hyde Park Winter Wonderland Preview Night 2024 on November 20, 2024 in London, England. (Photo by Shane Anthony Sinclair\/Getty Images) \" loading=\"eager\"  \/>(Image: Getty Images)<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\" publication=\"dublinlive\">Vogue Williams initially decided husband Spencer Matthews was &#8220;not for her&#8221; after they met whilst filming a reality <a class=\"TextLink_text-link__dBSS0 TextLink_enabled__dJF3l\" href=\"https:\/\/www.dublinlive.ie\/all-about\/television\" target=\"_blank\" aria-label=\"televisionLink opens in a new tab.\" tabindex=\"0\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">television<\/a> programme. The Irish presenter was preparing to compete on <a class=\"TextLink_text-link__dBSS0 TextLink_enabled__dJF3l\" href=\"https:\/\/www.dublinlive.ie\/news\/celebs\/im-celebritys-vogue-williams-shares-32896161\" target=\"_self\" aria-label=\"\" tabindex=\"0\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">Channel 4&#8217;s The Jump when she encountered Spencer in 2017.<\/a><\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\" publication=\"dublinlive\">This came shortly after the Irish podcaster&#8217;s separation from <a class=\"TextLink_text-link__dBSS0 TextLink_enabled__dJF3l\" href=\"https:\/\/www.dublinlive.ie\/all-about\/westlife\" target=\"_blank\" aria-label=\"WestlifeLink opens in a new tab.\" tabindex=\"0\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">Westlife<\/a> star <a class=\"TextLink_text-link__dBSS0 TextLink_enabled__dJF3l\" href=\"https:\/\/www.dublinlive.ie\/all-about\/brian-mcfadden\" target=\"_blank\" aria-label=\"Brian McFaddenLink opens in a new tab.\" tabindex=\"0\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">Brian McFadden<\/a>. Vogue reveals former <a class=\"TextLink_text-link__dBSS0 TextLink_enabled__dJF3l\" href=\"https:\/\/www.dublinlive.ie\/all-about\/made-in-chelsea\" target=\"_blank\" aria-label=\"Made in ChelseaLink opens in a new tab.\" tabindex=\"0\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">Made in Chelsea<\/a> star Spencer had a girlfriend at the time and &#8220;didn&#8217;t seem in very chatty form&#8221; when they first crossed paths.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\" publication=\"dublinlive\">Had Spencer been available, she worried a relationship wouldn&#8217;t &#8220;have gone very well&#8221; regardless because he &#8220;was yet to form a serious bone in his body&#8221; <a class=\"TextLink_text-link__dBSS0 TextLink_enabled__dJF3l\" href=\"https:\/\/www.dublinlive.ie\/news\/celebs\/im-celebritys-vogue-williams-shares-32896161\" target=\"_self\" aria-label=\"\" tabindex=\"0\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">whilst Vogue often found herself &#8220;getting serious quickly&#8221;.<\/a><\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\" publication=\"dublinlive\">However, Vogue says the pair &#8220;got on famously&#8221; after Spencer turned up wearing tracksuit bottoms, slippers, and &#8220;reeking of booze&#8221;.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\" publication=\"dublinlive\">In her book, Big Mouth, Vogue writes: &#8220;I had done a lot of work with my therapist up to this point; we had decided that if I continue to fall for guys I felt I needed to fix or help I was just repeating a pattern and that it always ended the same way (disastrously).<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ie\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/0_vogueJPG.jpg\" alt=\"The pair's children will be at home\" loading=\"lazy\"  \/>Vogue will be leaving her husband Spencer and three children behind while she enters the jungle(Image: Instagram)<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\" publication=\"dublinlive\">&#8220;Spencer, being a man made of red flags, was not for me I decided, and I didn&#8217;t really fancy him anyway so it was all good. I did, however, love his personality.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\" publication=\"dublinlive\">Vogue reveals her mates &#8220;really wanted me to sleep with Spencer&#8221;. And whilst she told them it &#8220;wasn&#8217;t on the cards,&#8221; she insisted he would become a &#8220;permanent member of their friendship group&#8221;.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\" publication=\"dublinlive\">Spencer and Vogue&#8217;s love story began to unfold, leading to their engagement in January 2018 during a trip to see the Lion King in London&#8217;s West End.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\" publication=\"dublinlive\">They tied the knot in June 2018 at the Glen Affric estate in Scotland, a property owned by Spencer&#8217;s family.<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ie\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/0_EE-BAFTA-Film-Awards-2023-Red-Carpet-Arrivals.jpg\" alt=\"LONDON, ENGLAND - FEBRUARY 19: Vogue Williams and Spencer Matthews attend the EE BAFTA Film Awards 2023 at The Royal Festival Hall on February 19, 2023 in London, England. (Photo by Joe Maher\/BAFTA\/Getty Images for BAFTA)\" loading=\"lazy\"  \/>Spencer and Vogue met in 2017(Image: Getty Images for BAFTA)<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\" publication=\"dublinlive\">The couple are now proud parents to three children &#8211; Theodore, Gigi and Otto. Vogue has candidly confessed that she would have &#8220;swiped past&#8221; Spencer if they&#8217;d encountered each other on a dating app.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\" publication=\"dublinlive\">She shared this insight during an episode of Vogue and Amber, while offering advice to a listener struggling with online dating. Vogue noted: &#8220;You&#8217;re just judging someone completely on the way they look.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\" publication=\"dublinlive\">&#8220;And I always say this, Spencer is obviously gorgeous, but he wouldn&#8217;t have been my type when we met. And I would have swiped past him on a dating app.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\" publication=\"dublinlive\">&#8220;And then we met, and we were mad about each other because we just loved each other&#8217;s personalities. So, I think trying to meet somebody in real life, although it can be hard, can be a really amazing thing.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\" publication=\"dublinlive\">Vogue has recently embarked on her own adventure in the I&#8217;m A Celebrity&#8230;Get Me Out of Here! jungle. This comes nine years after Spencer&#8217;s brief stint on the show, where he withdrew after just five days into the competition.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Vogue Williams has opened up about her first meeting with husband Spencer Matthews, admitting she didn&#8217;t think he&hellip;\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":191956,"comment_status":"","ping_status":"","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[75],"tags":[18,117,19,17,6638],"class_list":{"0":"post-191955","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-entertainment","8":"tag-eire","9":"tag-entertainment","10":"tag-ie","11":"tag-ireland","12":"tag-vogue-williams"},"share_on_mastodon":{"url":"https:\/\/pubeurope.com\/@ie\/115585796311581846","error":""},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/191955","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=191955"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/191955\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/191956"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=191955"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=191955"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=191955"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}