{"id":215101,"date":"2025-12-04T14:01:17","date_gmt":"2025-12-04T14:01:17","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ie\/215101\/"},"modified":"2025-12-04T14:01:17","modified_gmt":"2025-12-04T14:01:17","slug":"just-between-us-your-gut-is-everything-kate-brayden-on-cheating-betrayal-and-beginning-again","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ie\/215101\/","title":{"rendered":"Just Between Us: \u2018Your gut is everything\u2019 \u2013 Kate Brayden on cheating, betrayal and beginning again"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"Jennifer Zamparelli hosts the 'Just Between Us' podcast.\" src=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ie\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/bdec8255-239c-4ef8-b629-d57bf792297e.jpg\" loading=\"eager\" width=\"100%\" data-testid=\"article-image\"  \/><\/p>\n<p class=\"indo-ebe0ecc6_root indo-ebe0ecc6_caption1 indo-300db776_none indo-91174671_secondary indo-66f0fec7_regular indo-1d70522a_marginbottom0 indo-1d70522a_marginleft0 indo-1d70522a_marginright0 indo-1d70522a_margintop3 indo-b48c4984_left\" style=\"color:var(--color-grey-60)\">Jennifer Zamparelli hosts the &#8216;Just Between Us&#8217; podcast.<\/p>\n<p class=\"indo-ebe0ecc6_root indo-ebe0ecc6_paragraph indo-300db776_none indo-91174671_primary indo-1d70522a_marginbottom0 indo-1d70522a_margintop0 indo-b48c4984_inherit\" style=\"color:var(--color-primary-80)\">In this episode, Jennifer sits down with journalist Kate Brayden, who experienced two very different experiences of infidelity almost a decade apart. The first, in her early 20s, spiralled into toxicity and self-blame; years later, counselling helped her name what happened and begin to reclaim her self-worth. The second revealed something else entirely: incompatibility, insecurity, and a moment of self-sabotage that forced a hard reset.<\/p>\n<p class=\"indo-ebe0ecc6_root indo-ebe0ecc6_paragraph indo-300db776_none indo-91174671_primary indo-1d70522a_marginbottom5 indo-1d70522a_margintop0 indo-b48c4984_inherit\" style=\"color:var(--color-primary-80)\">Kate shares what it\u2019s like to live through both stories &#8211; the denial, the detective work, the sudden clarity, and how she moved from heartbreak to healing. They discuss the culture of silence around cheating, why shame keeps us stuck, and how to build a support system that helps you leave, stay, or simply pause and breathe. From boundaries to \u201cwriting your own rules,\u201d from monogamy to non-monogamy, and from apology to genuine accountability, this is an honest look at what repair can (and can\u2019t) look like.<\/p>\n<p class=\"indo-ebe0ecc6_root indo-ebe0ecc6_paragraph indo-300db776_none indo-91174671_primary indo-1d70522a_marginbottom5 indo-1d70522a_margintop0 indo-b48c4984_inherit\" style=\"color:var(--color-primary-80)\">There\u2019s also practical wisdom: listen to your gut; watch how someone handles their phone, their moods, and the truth; notice when alcohol and insecurity are driving decisions; and remember that remorse and respect matter. And if you\u2019re afraid to find out who you are on your own, that might be the sign it\u2019s time to try.<\/p>\n<p class=\"indo-ebe0ecc6_root indo-ebe0ecc6_paragraph indo-300db776_none indo-91174671_primary indo-1d70522a_marginbottom5 indo-1d70522a_margintop0 indo-b48c4984_inherit\" style=\"color:var(--color-primary-80)\">A note for listeners: at points, this conversation references domestic abuse. It\u2019s handled with care and ultimately turns toward hope, but please take care while listening.<\/p>\n<p class=\"indo-ebe0ecc6_root indo-ebe0ecc6_paragraph indo-300db776_none indo-91174671_primary indo-1d70522a_marginbottom5 indo-1d70522a_margintop0 indo-b48c4984_inherit\" style=\"color:var(--color-primary-80)\">Just Between Us is an Irish Independent podcast hosted by Jennifer Zamparelli. New episodes every Thursday, wherever you get your podcasts.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Jennifer Zamparelli hosts the &#8216;Just Between Us&#8217; podcast. 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