{"id":240783,"date":"2025-12-19T09:42:12","date_gmt":"2025-12-19T09:42:12","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ie\/240783\/"},"modified":"2025-12-19T09:42:12","modified_gmt":"2025-12-19T09:42:12","slug":"not-having-to-emigrate-is-a-privilege-now-more-than-ever-the-irish-times","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ie\/240783\/","title":{"rendered":"Not having to emigrate is a privilege, now more than ever \u2013 The Irish Times"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"c-paragraph paywall \">The great migratory flight is on. From Boston to Barbados to Brisbane, those who <a href=\"https:\/\/www.irishtimes.com\/abroad\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer nofollow noopener\" title=\"https:\/\/www.irishtimes.com\/abroad\/\">live abroad<\/a> are heading home for <a href=\"https:\/\/www.irishtimes.com\/tags\/christmas\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer nofollow noopener\" title=\"https:\/\/www.irishtimes.com\/tags\/christmas\/\">Christmas<\/a>. They will be resting their weary heads on air beds in box rooms next to long redundant exercise bikes. They will be greeted at the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.irishtimes.com\/tags\/dublin-airport\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer nofollow noopener\" title=\"https:\/\/www.irishtimes.com\/tags\/dublin-airport\/\">airport<\/a>, first with hugs then a reminder to get moving because as much as their father loves them, he hates paying \u201cthose robbing bastards\u201d for parking more. They will try not to count the days until they have to leave again, dreading the reverse journey to departures. The awful silence between a parent who wants the best for their children but longs to keep them close and a child racked with guilt, who wishes it didn\u2019t have to be this way. <\/p>\n<p class=\"c-paragraph paywall \">Those are the lucky ones. There are many others who can\u2019t afford the flight at all. From mid-December to mid-January air fares can double and sometimes triple, even though it\u2019s the exact same plane with the exact same staff levels and exact same tinfoiled gruel being served for dinner. That\u2019s because every airline knows Christmas over Zoom just isn\u2019t the same. <\/p>\n<p class=\"c-paragraph paywall \">Recently as a form of self-harm I\u2019ve been watching reunification videos at Dublin Airport. The one that got me good was a video of a woman waiting to welcome her grandchildren. It was their first trip to Ireland, her daughter having lived in Australia for 14 years. It\u2019s impossible to watch without welling up.<\/p>\n<p class=\"c-paragraph paywall \">But why does it have to be this way? Why are so many Irish grandparents and parents separated by seas? I don\u2019t know this particular family\u2019s story. But I do know that not everyone emigrates out of choice. My own family were economic migrants but if you ask them they would say they were economic refugees. The sad thing is I\u2019ve met people who emigrated half a century later from the same parts of Dublin who say the same. <\/p>\n<p class=\"c-paragraph paywall \">This is a tragedy. People leave their country when it has let them down \u2013 through lack of jobs, economic opportunity and now, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.irishtimes.com\/tags\/housing-crisis\" target=\"_self\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" title=\"https:\/\/www.irishtimes.com\/tags\/housing-crisis\">housing<\/a>. Do not swallow the line sold by those who have the responsibility to solve these problems but haven\u2019t, that Irish people simply come to Australia to top up their tans. Instead, ask if those with money and power are the ones with empty chairs at Christmas dinner? Are their children emigrating to Australia to work the mines or build the roads? Are their children working jobs outside of their degrees purely because it\u2019s on the sponsored skill list? Or were their children able to secure well-paying jobs and\/or live in one of the family\u2019s investment properties instead of paying \u20ac1,000 for a single room in an Irish city? Were they able to give them a deposit on a home? Being able to remain in Ireland is a privilege. It always has been, but now more so than ever. <\/p>\n<p class=\"c-paragraph b-it-article-body__interstitial-link\">[\u00a0<a aria-label=\"Open related story\" class=\"c-link\" href=\"https:\/\/www.irishtimes.com\/life-style\/people\/2025\/11\/28\/brianna-parkins-christmas-is-an-annual-organisational-olympics-that-defies-logic\/\" rel=\"noreferrer nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Brianna Parkins: I don\u2019t enjoy Christmas as much as I did as a kidOpens in new window<\/a>\u00a0]<\/p>\n<p class=\"c-paragraph paywall \">And the Irish Government response? Spending nearly half a million euro on ads asking \u201cyou built Sydney, now come and build back home\u201d \u2013 with no offer of matching Australian wages, pensions that employers pay on top of salary, or the government guarantee that allows them to buy a home with only a 5 per cent deposit. No offer to scrap USC to lower taxes, or help to find places to stay. Instead the Irish Government was relying on its \u201cresearch\u201d that said \u201clife can become difficult\u201d for Irish emigrants, and that it\u2019s \u201cas hard to buy and rent in major cities as it is in Ireland\u201d, including Sydney. <\/p>\n<p class=\"c-paragraph paywall \">I dropped out of maths at 16 and studied basic economics at the University of Wollongong (heard of it? No, exactly!). So it is genuinely terrifying that even I know how wrong that research is. I pay less rent on my apartment with uninterrupted water views of Sydney Harbour than I did on my last Irish place with a dodgy water heater off Cork Street. I applied to one place in Sydney and I got it. That\u2019s unheard of in Dublin. <\/p>\n<p class=\"c-paragraph b-it-article-body__interstitial-link\">[\u00a0<a aria-label=\"Open related story\" class=\"c-link\" href=\"https:\/\/www.irishtimes.com\/life-style\/people\/2025\/11\/02\/brianna-parkins-matching-christmas-pyjamas-social-media-gender-reveals-marathons\/\" rel=\"noreferrer nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Brianna Parkins: We need to end the trend of matching Christmas pyjamas. It\u2019s wrongOpens in new window<\/a>\u00a0]<\/p>\n<p class=\"c-paragraph paywall \">The only way I could afford to come back to Dublin is if the Irish Government hired me for a very specific role. The Department of Housing\u2019s recent <a href=\"https:\/\/www.irishtimes.com\/ireland\/housing-planning\/2025\/12\/09\/video-advising-young-people-how-to-move-back-in-with-parents-is-tone-deaf-td-says\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer nofollow noopener\" title=\"https:\/\/www.irishtimes.com\/ireland\/housing-planning\/2025\/12\/09\/video-advising-young-people-how-to-move-back-in-with-parents-is-tone-deaf-td-says\/\">\u201chow to move home with your parents\u201d campaign<\/a> aimed at a generation locked out of leaving home by the housing crisis suggests they have a Marie Antoinette-level ability to read the room. My job will be to stand at the back of the office and if anyone tries to suggest anything like that again I will ring a large \u201cAre you actually well\u201d bell. Think of the bad press and money we would save. We might just be able to use it to keep people home and at the Christmas table.<\/p>\n<p class=\"c-paragraph paywall \">Between this column being written and published, the worst terror attack on Australian soil was committed in the city where I live, Sydney. Our Jewish community was the target. I was on the ground at Bondi reporting last Sunday and while it\u2019s my job to find the words when there are none in a situation, I can\u2019t bring myself to write about it just yet. Thank you for your readership this year. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"The great migratory flight is on. 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