{"id":266690,"date":"2026-01-04T11:53:07","date_gmt":"2026-01-04T11:53:07","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ie\/266690\/"},"modified":"2026-01-04T11:53:07","modified_gmt":"2026-01-04T11:53:07","slug":"how-i-changed-my-personality-in-six-weeks","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ie\/266690\/","title":{"rendered":"How I changed my personality in six weeks"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"sc-9a00e533-0 eZyhnA\">Neuroticism is not the only personality dimension that can cause psychological vulnerabilities. Sauer-Zavala says high levels of conscientiousness can tip into perfectionism, something I relate to. The interventions Sauer-Zavala suggests for this make my skin crawl: &#8220;Figure out what 80% of your best job is, do that and stop there and see what happens,&#8221; she says. &#8220;Or send an email with a typo, or leave work at five o&#8217;clock every day this week. It&#8217;s usually the most anti-climactic thing.&#8221;\u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-9a00e533-0 eZyhnA\">I compulsively check and re-check any bit of work or correspondence before I send it off. After Sauer-Zavala&#8217;s comments, I try to stop myself before doing a final-final-final check on a bit of corporate work, and just send it. I can&#8217;t help opening it once more afterwards and spot what I see as a glaring error, the close repetition of a certain word. I feel a pang \u2013 see! But of course she&#8217;s right, it doesn&#8217;t matter in the slightest, and I quickly forget about it.<\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-9a00e533-0 eZyhnA\">By the end of my six weeks of experimentation, I didn&#8217;t feel radically different, but I did feel pretty good. The moment had come to re-take the test. Early on, I sensed that I might evince some changes. In answer to a question about whether I was &#8220;outgoing and sociable&#8221;, I felt sure I would have previously disagreed. This time, I had six weeks of unignorable data in front of me. Objectively, I had socialised, often with strangers, and had a not bad time. So maybe I was sociable after all. The researchers were right that acting in a certain way can change your perception of yourself.<\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-9a00e533-0 eZyhnA\"><b id=\"more-like-this:\" class=\"sc-d16436d-0 gnUCoQ\">More like this:<\/b><\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-9a00e533-0 eZyhnA\">\u2022 <a target=\"_self\" href=\"https:\/\/www.bbc.com\/future\/article\/20250915-the-ancient-origins-of-todays-personality-types\" class=\"sc-f9178328-0 iCaRzc\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">Our 2,500-year-old mania for personality types<\/a><\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-9a00e533-0 eZyhnA\"><a target=\"_blank\" href=\"\" class=\"sc-f9178328-0 iCaRzc\"\/>\u2022 <a target=\"_self\" href=\"https:\/\/www.bbc.com\/future\/article\/20250619-does-birth-order-shape-your-personality\" class=\"sc-f9178328-0 iCaRzc\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">How birth order shapes your personality<\/a><\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-9a00e533-0 eZyhnA\"><a target=\"_blank\" href=\"\" class=\"sc-f9178328-0 iCaRzc\"\/>\u2022 <a target=\"_self\" href=\"https:\/\/www.bbc.com\/future\/article\/20200313-how-your-personality-changes-as-you-age\" class=\"sc-f9178328-0 iCaRzc\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">How your personality changes as you age<\/a><\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-9a00e533-0 eZyhnA\">Answering questions like this helped push me from the 30th percentile on extraversion to the 50th. On agreeableness, I also hugely improved, shifting from the 50th to the 70th percentile. It seemed that thinking nice things about people had indeed made me more positively disposed to humanity. On neuroticism, I showed a marked improvement, dropping from the 83rd percentile to 50th. I stayed roughly the same on conscientiousness and openness.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Neuroticism is not the only personality dimension that can cause psychological vulnerabilities. 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