{"id":285380,"date":"2026-01-15T07:57:07","date_gmt":"2026-01-15T07:57:07","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ie\/285380\/"},"modified":"2026-01-15T07:57:07","modified_gmt":"2026-01-15T07:57:07","slug":"jay-leno-admits-people-seem-shocked-hes-standing-by-his-wife-after-dementia-diagnosis","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ie\/285380\/","title":{"rendered":"Jay Leno admits people seem &#8216;shocked&#8217; he&#8217;s standing by his wife after dementia diagnosis"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">Jay Leno says people are &#8220;so shocked&#8221; he&#8217;s stayed by his wife&#8217;s side after her dementia diagnosis.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">The 75-year-old former late night talk show host has stood by his wife Mavis &#8211; who was diagnosed with advanced dementia in early 2024 &#8211; but admitted some people seem surprised he&#8217;s stuck to his marital vows.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">He told the Life Above The Noise With Maria Shriver podcast: &#8220;I\u2019ve said this a bunch of times, you take a vow when you get married and people are stunned\u2026<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">They\u2019re so shocked that you would live up to it.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">Jay married Mavis, now 79, in 1980 after meeting at the Comedy Store in Los Angeles.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">In April 2024, he was granted conservatorship of her, following her diagnosis with the illness &#8211; which causes a decline in thinking, memory, and reasoning skills &#8211; but it appears some people expected him to move on.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">He added: &#8220;My favourite thing was \u2014 this is the most Hollywood thing. A guy said to me, \u2018So, are you gonna get a girlfriend now?\u2019<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">\u201c\u2018Well no, I have a girlfriend. I\u2019m married. Married 45 years.\u2019 \u2018Yeah, but you know what I mean.\u2019 \u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">The TV veteran pointed out he and his wife are &#8220;kinda in this together&#8221;, even if society seems surprised when you&#8217;re &#8220;just doing the right thing because you&#8217;re supposed to&#8221;.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">He said: \u201cThat used to be the norm, and then when you strayed that was the out of whack part.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">&#8220;Now the out of whack part is fairly common, and staying and doing what you\u2019re supposed to do is stunning to people.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">Meanwhile, Jay previously admitted he&#8217;s thankful his wife hasn&#8217;t forgotten him because of her condition.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">Back in November, he told Today: &#8220;I understand what it is, so you can&#8217;t blame someone&#8230;<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">&#8220;She&#8217;s not forgetting me. That hasn&#8217;t happened yet. She seems extremely comfortable now. And she seems happy, and she seems contented. It&#8217;s actually okay. It&#8217;s good. I enjoy taking care of her&#8230;<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">&#8220;I enjoy her company, like if I&#8217;m working on a car, she&#8217;d sit over there with a book and read.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">&#8220;It was just very \u2014 well, it still is, very comfortable. Before she had this, I would always go home after the Tonight Show, cook dinner for her, and we&#8217;d watch TV. The only difference is now you just can&#8217;t really talk about a lot of things&#8230;<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">&#8220;You know, I can see the smile. I can tell when she&#8217;s happy. 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