{"id":288233,"date":"2026-01-16T22:08:12","date_gmt":"2026-01-16T22:08:12","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ie\/288233\/"},"modified":"2026-01-16T22:08:12","modified_gmt":"2026-01-16T22:08:12","slug":"a-haunting-voicemail-derailed-new-york-heiress-marriage","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ie\/288233\/","title":{"rendered":"A haunting voicemail derailed New York heiress&#8217; marriage"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>COVID-19 pandemic aside, nothing could have been going better in Flobelle &#8216;Belle&#8217; Fairbanks Burden&#8217;s life; but then she received an earth-shattering call that changed everything.<\/p>\n<p>She had her own money, that was never the problem <strong>\u2014<\/strong> Burden descended from railroad tycoon Cornelius W. Vanderbilt, and her grandmother was socialite Babe Paley, whose only fault, according to Truman Capote, was that &#8216;she was perfect&#8217; <strong>\u2014<\/strong> instead, what concerned her was that the family unit she had built came crashing down around her.<\/p>\n<p>Burden, 56, was married to financier Henry Davis, 60, for 20 years. They share three children.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"500\" height=\"700\" src=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ie\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/GettyImages-455243379.jpg\" alt=\"MARTHA'S VINEYARD, EDGARTOWN, MASSACHUSETTS, UNITED STATES. Pic: Getty Images\" class=\"wp-image-2096718\"  \/>MARTHA&#8217;S VINEYARD, EDGARTOWN, MASSACHUSETTS, UNITED STATES. Pic: Getty Images<\/p>\n<p>The mum-of-three bore her soul for a New York Times article in which she detailed the moment her life was derailed.<\/p>\n<p>Burden, Davis, and their two youngest children were sheltering from the pandemic at their swanky $4.7million holiday home in Martha&#8217;s Vineyard in early 2020.<\/p>\n<p>Though the stability and routine was &#8216;delightful&#8217; at the beginning, Burden received a jarring call from an unknown number claiming her husband was having an affair with a 35-year-old woman.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"500\" height=\"700\" src=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ie\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/GettyImages-620591490.jpg\" alt=\"Henry Davis and Bell Davis attend NEW YORKERS FOR CHILDREN Fall 2008 Gala. Pic: Getty Images\" class=\"wp-image-2096719\"  \/>Henry Davis and Bell Davis attend NEW YORKERS FOR CHILDREN Fall 2008 Gala. Pic: Getty Images<\/p>\n<p>In an excerpt from her upcoming memoir, Strangers: A Memoir of Marriage, which was published in\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.thetimes.com\/life-style\/sex-relationships\/article\/husband-affair-perfect-marriage-ending-l635dkstz?gaa_at=eafs&amp;gaa_n=AWEtsqeGrlJPYstVMRv9bKKb7LI9RAjpfzQtIZP9qS13B7QoXv5OCHwEjsqCOYrWR7M%3D&amp;gaa_ts=696505c9&amp;gaa_sig=h-WWrE8Pgd00kQ8LOSkqMMP5Rf0vMGTJzmE9KvbSsNVdnivBuKXzk5WcV8hrAiAixWVyjYEfHkFgOTK9uXLf9g%3D%3D\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\"><a class=\"\" href=\"https:\/\/www.thetimes.com\/life-style\/sex-relationships\/article\/husband-affair-perfect-marriage-ending-l635dkstz?gaa_at=eafs&amp;gaa_n=AWEtsqeGrlJPYstVMRv9bKKb7LI9RAjpfzQtIZP9qS13B7QoXv5OCHwEjsqCOYrWR7M%3D&amp;gaa_ts=696505c9&amp;gaa_sig=h-WWrE8Pgd00kQ8LOSkqMMP5Rf0vMGTJzmE9KvbSsNVdnivBuKXzk5WcV8hrAiAixWVyjYEfHkFgOTK9uXLf9g%3D%3D\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\">The Times<\/a>, Burden recalls the haunting interaction.<\/p>\n<p>&#8216;&#8221;I&#8217;m trying to reach Belle&#8221;,&#8217; a man said in a voicemail. &#8216;&#8221;I&#8217;m sorry to tell you this, but your husband is having an affair with my wife&#8221;.&#8217;<\/p>\n<p>Trusting this stranger and that gut of hers, Burden confronted her husband about his infidelity. He allegedly admitted to having a relationship with a much younger woman whom he met through work.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"500\" height=\"700\" src=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ie\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/105447079-15460201-Flobelle_Belle_Fairbanks_Burden_56_at_her_Martha_s_Vineyard_home-m-5_176832876142.jpeg\" alt=\"Pic: Belle Burden\/Instagram\" class=\"wp-image-2096717\"  \/>Pic: Belle Burden\/Instagram<\/p>\n<p>At first, Davis claimed the affair &#8216;meant nothing&#8217;, and was &#8216;over&#8217;, but the narrative quickly shifted. <\/p>\n<p>The New York heiress recalls her husband&#8217;s mistress attempting suicide after their relationship was uncovered. The next morning, Davis told her he wanted a divorce, packed a bag, and left for New York without so much as a &#8216;goodbye&#8217; to their daughters.<\/p>\n<p>During a call made from New York, Davis allegedly told Burden: &#8216;&#8221;&#8216;I thought I was happy but I&#8217;m not. I thought I wanted our life but I don&#8217;t.\u00a0I feel like a switch has flipped. I&#8217;m done.&#8221;&#8216;<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"500\" height=\"700\" src=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ie\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/SEI280585567.jpg\" alt=\"Society heiress reveals hedge funder husband's ice-cold move to prove he didn't want any custody of their children after dumping her for younger woman\" class=\"wp-image-2096722\"  \/>Pic: Belle Burden\/Instagram<\/p>\n<p>What came next was even more perturbing, as Davis said he didn&#8217;t want their Massachusetts home or New York apartment, and willingly handed over sole custody of their children to Burden.<\/p>\n<p>Burden, who was 50 at the time of the split, claims that one of the last things her estranged husband told her before he left was, &#8216;&#8221;You&#8217;ll be fine. You&#8217;re still young.&#8221;&#8216;<\/p>\n<p>Shortly after fleeing Martha&#8217;s Vineyard, Davis &#8216;bought a sleek new Manhattan apartment, [and] hired a well-known divorce lawyer&#8217;. The new home was far too small to play host to their children; this was not a family apartment.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1200\" height=\"700\" src=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ie\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/SEI280585224.jpg\" alt=\"Burden received a phone call while she was there, revealing her husband was having an affair. Pic: Google Maps\" class=\"wp-image-2096721\"  \/>Burden received a phone call while she was there, revealing her husband was having an affair. Pic: Google Maps<\/p>\n<p>&#8216;I still thought he would want to make a home for his children, that he wouldn&#8217;t follow through on his decision to have no custody and no overnights,&#8217; Burden said.<\/p>\n<p>Alas, Davis converted his second bedroom into a home office, leaving no space for visitors, and cementing his position as final.<\/p>\n<p>In her upcoming memoir, Burden mentions that Davis occasionally sees their three children for dinner and tennis matches, but hasn&#8217;t been involved in co-parenting.<\/p>\n<p>Burden remains their sole guardian, and claims there have been &#8216;no handovers or holidays since the day he left&#8217;.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"COVID-19 pandemic aside, nothing could have been going better in Flobelle &#8216;Belle&#8217; Fairbanks Burden&#8217;s life; but then she&hellip;\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":288234,"comment_status":"","ping_status":"","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[75],"tags":[18,117,19,17],"class_list":{"0":"post-288233","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-entertainment","8":"tag-eire","9":"tag-entertainment","10":"tag-ie","11":"tag-ireland"},"share_on_mastodon":{"url":"https:\/\/pubeurope.com\/@ie\/115907062237936246","error":""},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/288233","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=288233"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/288233\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/288234"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=288233"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=288233"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=288233"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}