{"id":310145,"date":"2026-01-29T17:42:18","date_gmt":"2026-01-29T17:42:18","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ie\/310145\/"},"modified":"2026-01-29T17:42:18","modified_gmt":"2026-01-29T17:42:18","slug":"vera-star-brenda-blethyn-addresses-living-separately-from-her-husband-michael-mayhew-after-50-years-together-as-she-opens-up-about-their-unconventional-home-life","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ie\/310145\/","title":{"rendered":"Vera star Brenda Blethyn addresses living separately from her husband Michael Mayhew after 50 years together as she opens up about their unconventional home life"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">Vera star <a style=\"font-weight: bold;\" target=\"_self\" href=\"https:\/\/www.dailymail.co.uk\/tvshowbiz\/brenda-blethyn\/index.html\" id=\"mol-ba09e9f0-fcfe-11f0-9b2e-ab515d7977ad\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">Brenda Blethyn<\/a> remains remarkably cheery, despite announcing that she is\u00a0now living separately from her husband Michael Mayhew, after 50 years together.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">But the actress, 79, has revealed her spouse hasn&#8217;t moved far, admitting a new interview he&#8217;s just downstairs in another flat in their building, after they struggled to come to an agreement over the temperature of their home.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">Speaking to <a style=\"font-weight: bold;\" class=\"\" rel=\"nofollow noreferrer noopener\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.prima.co.uk\/leisure\/celebrity\/a70021798\/brenda-blethyn-prima\/\">Prima Magazine<\/a>, Brenda, who married art director Michael in 2010 after they began dating in 1975, shared that the arrangement has been working well for them, but won&#8217;t be forever as they look to find a better home together.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">She said: &#8216;My husband and I have taken the flat beneath ours as he&#8217;s always cold, I&#8217;m always hot, and I&#8217;d say, &#8221;Oh, I&#8217;m going to open a window&#8221;, and he&#8217;d say &#8221;Oh, no, don&#8217;t do that, turn the heat on,&#8221; so we needed a bigger place.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">&#8216;I&#8217;m hearing more and more of couples adopting that way of living permanently, but, for us, it will be readjusted once we find somewhere appropriate.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">&#8216;The dog is happy as he&#8217;s got two different places to go \u2013 he prefers to be with me, though.&#8217;\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>   <img decoding=\"async\" id=\"i-35263848079b48c4\" src=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ie\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/105927251-15508467-image-a-6_1769684122359.jpg\" height=\"951\" width=\"634\" alt=\"Vera star Brenda Blethynremains remarkably cheery, despite announcing that she is now living separately from her husband Michael Mayhew, after 50 years together\" class=\"blkBorder img-share\" style=\"max-width:100%\" loading=\"lazy\" \/>   <\/p>\n<p class=\"imageCaption\">Vera star Brenda Blethynremains remarkably cheery, despite announcing that she is now living separately from her husband Michael Mayhew, after 50 years together<\/p>\n<p>   <img decoding=\"async\" id=\"i-5c5ae9378c576ae\" src=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ie\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/105927909-15508467-image-a-7_1769684137272.jpg\" height=\"988\" width=\"634\" alt=\"But the actress has revealed her spouse hasn't moved far, admitting a new interview he's just downstairs in another flat in their building (the couple are pictured in 2013)\" class=\"blkBorder img-share\" style=\"max-width:100%\" loading=\"lazy\" \/>   <\/p>\n<p class=\"imageCaption\">But the actress has revealed her spouse hasn&#8217;t moved far, admitting a new interview he&#8217;s just downstairs in another flat in their building (the couple are pictured in 2013)<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">After Brenda bid farewell to her long-running role in ITV&#8217;s Vera last month, the actress revealed that even as she approaches 80 she still has no plans to retire\u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">She said: &#8216;I&#8217;m lucky to have been working all this time. In fact, when I was 65, I was thinking, &#8221;Do I retire now? Maybe that&#8217;s what I&#8217;m supposed to do?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">&#8216;And then Vera came along. Now I&#8217;m nearly 80 and I&#8217;m not thinking about retiring at all \u2013 though perhaps I will cut back a bit and spend more time at home.&#8217;<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">Brenda has since swapped Vera for a glamorous role in Channel 4&#8217;s A Women Of Substance, and the star said it was &#8216;lovely&#8217; to dress up in more lavish looks.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">She said: &#8216;After Vera, playing this role [Brenda plays Emma Harte] was a bit of a rags to riches tale for me, too. They&#8217;re both strong women, but they&#8217;re very different kettles of fish. It was lovely to dress up in nice clothes for a change.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">&#8216;The outfits were exquisite and very different to Vera&#8217;s wardrobe, although a lot of her costumes were actually rather nice, it was just the way she wore them. I&#8217;ve kept quite a few of her blouses.&#8217;<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">Back in January 2025, Vera&#8217;s last ever episode showed detective Brenda as a troubled teenager &#8211; and the heartbreaking decision that changed her life forever.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">In January 2024 it was confirmed that the programme would return, but the next would be the end.<\/p>\n<p>Join the debate<\/p>\n<p class=\"questionText--qEDdN\">Do YOU think living separately can work well for long-term couples?<\/p>\n<p>   <img decoding=\"async\" id=\"i-1774b848abaa9a5b\" src=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ie\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/105927245-15508467-image-a-8_1769684338800.jpg\" height=\"951\" width=\"634\" alt=\"Speaking to Prima Magazine, Brenda, who married art director Michael in 2010 after they began dating in 1975, shared that the arrangement has been working well for them\" class=\"blkBorder img-share\" style=\"max-width:100%\" loading=\"lazy\" \/>   <\/p>\n<p class=\"imageCaption\">Speaking to Prima Magazine, Brenda, who married art director Michael in 2010 after they began dating in 1975, shared that the arrangement has been working well for them<\/p>\n<p>   <img decoding=\"async\" id=\"i-d4ec0ee3d794c1b8\" src=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ie\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/105927249-15508467-image-a-9_1769684420369.jpg\" height=\"951\" width=\"634\" alt=\"She said: 'I'm hearing more and more of couples adopting that way of living permanently, but, for us, it will be readjusted once we find somewhere appropriate'\" class=\"blkBorder img-share\" style=\"max-width:100%\" loading=\"lazy\" \/>   <\/p>\n<p class=\"imageCaption\">She said: &#8216;I&#8217;m hearing more and more of couples adopting that way of living permanently, but, for us, it will be readjusted once we find somewhere appropriate&#8217;<\/p>\n<p>   <img decoding=\"async\" id=\"i-1f33f2977db793fa\" src=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ie\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/105927253-15508467-image-a-11_1769684517245.jpg\" height=\"951\" width=\"634\" alt=\"After Brenda bid farewell to her long-running role in ITV's Vera last month, the actress revealed that even as she approaches 80 she still has no plans to retire\" class=\"blkBorder img-share\" style=\"max-width:100%\" loading=\"lazy\" \/>   <\/p>\n<p class=\"imageCaption\">After Brenda bid farewell to her long-running role in ITV&#8217;s Vera last month, the actress revealed that even as she approaches 80 she still has no plans to retire<\/p>\n<p>   <img decoding=\"async\" id=\"i-5f22e64c07454786\" src=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ie\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/105927247-15508467-image-a-10_1769684516178.jpg\" height=\"875\" width=\"634\" alt=\"The March 2026 issue of Prima is now on sale\" class=\"blkBorder img-share\" style=\"max-width:100%\" loading=\"lazy\" \/>   <\/p>\n<p class=\"imageCaption\">The March 2026 issue of Prima is now on sale<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">And viewers were finally given an insight into Vera&#8217;s younger years &#8211; which have never been touched upon before.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">Fans find out that when she was just 12 years old she had to balance her own grief and also look after her dad.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">Indeed, the hardships that she endured when she was a youngster shaped her into the resilient person that fans know and love.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">Brenda has since hinted that\u00a0she would return to Vera against all odds &#8211; but on a strict condition.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">The hit series aired 56 episodes across 14 series over 14 years &#8211; and fans were gutted when it was revealed that it was over earlier this year.\u00a0\u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">This Morning hosts Alison Hammond and Dermot O&#8217;Leary were very keen to address the rumours that the programme was going to make a return to our screens, and if she would ever go back.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">Alison said: &#8216;Is it true, those rumours?&#8217;<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">Brenda shot back: &#8216;Well, no, I don&#8217;t think so&#8230; I think they&#8217;ve got rid of the set! But somebody asked me would I ever go back?<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">&#8216;I said If they were doing a special&#8230; certainly, yes, I&#8217;d leap at it. That&#8217;s unlikely to happen, I&#8217;m too busy!&#8217;<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">The March 2026 issue of Prima is now on sale.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Vera star Brenda Blethyn remains remarkably cheery, despite announcing that she is\u00a0now living separately from her husband Michael&hellip;\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":310146,"comment_status":"","ping_status":"","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[268],"tags":[151687,434,6016,118,18,117,19,17,2770,438],"class_list":{"0":"post-310145","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-celebrities","8":"tag-brenda-blethyn","9":"tag-celebrities","10":"tag-channel-4","11":"tag-dailymail","12":"tag-eire","13":"tag-entertainment","14":"tag-ie","15":"tag-ireland","16":"tag-itv","17":"tag-tvshowbiz"},"share_on_mastodon":{"url":"https:\/\/pubeurope.com\/@ie\/115979625833768161","error":""},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/310145","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=310145"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/310145\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/310146"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=310145"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=310145"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=310145"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}