{"id":4724,"date":"2025-08-17T10:56:09","date_gmt":"2025-08-17T10:56:09","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ie\/4724\/"},"modified":"2025-08-17T10:56:09","modified_gmt":"2025-08-17T10:56:09","slug":"perfect-matchs-ad-smith-on-matching-with-ollie-sutherland","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ie\/4724\/","title":{"rendered":"\u2018Perfect Match\u2019\u2019s AD Smith on Matching With Ollie Sutherland"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>                  <img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ie\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/2fce4178cd8248e0c10a8f0adfc9f050cc-perfectmatch-ad.rhorizontal.w700.jpg\" class=\"lede-image\" data-content-img=\"\" width=\"700\" height=\"467\" style=\"width:100%;height:auto;\" fetchpriority=\"high\"\/> <\/p>\n<p class=\"clay-paragraph\" data-editable=\"text\" data-uri=\"www.vulture.com\/_components\/clay-paragraph\/instances\/cmedas39v000i0jfkn5nknmsr@published\" data-word-count=\"130\">Amber Desiree \u201cAD\u201d Smith\u2019s time in Netflix\u2019s reality-TV universe constantly proves her levelheadedness and commitment to the long game. While her time on <a href=\"https:\/\/www.vulture.com\/tv\/love-is-blind\/\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Love Is Blind<\/a> might not have ended as planned (she got <a href=\"https:\/\/www.vulture.com\/article\/love-is-blind-ad-smith-on-clay-matthew-and-being-single.html\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">blindsided<\/a> by her fianc\u00e9, Clay Gravesande, at the altar), after spending her summer on <a href=\"https:\/\/www.vulture.com\/tv\/perfect-match\/\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Perfect Match<\/a> and leaving with <a href=\"https:\/\/www.vulture.com\/tv\/love-is-blind-uk\/\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Love Is Blind: UK<\/a> star Ollie Sutherland, she\u2019s redefining what it means to win a reality dating competition<strong>. <\/strong>Just like last season, Perfect Match season three featured a lot of drinks, sexy games, and drama. While the rest of the contestants mixed and matched with varying success, any viewer with a pulse could see the instant chemistry between Sutherland and Smith from the moment he started teaching her how to throw the word innit into a sentence.<\/p>\n<p class=\"clay-paragraph\" data-editable=\"text\" data-uri=\"www.vulture.com\/_components\/clay-paragraph\/instances\/cmedat2cj000u3b78pash1hke@published\" data-word-count=\"136\">But chemistry alone wouldn\u2019t guarantee an easy path to victory. Like any couple, the two faced challenges, specifically, Smith getting eliminated from the villa and Sutherland kissing former Love Island contestant Justine Ndiba and lying to Smith about it when they reunited. Still, Smith always kept her head in the game and managed to reenter the competition at the cocktail mixer, where half of the men in the villa were much too comfortable flirting with and kissing women who were not their current matches, even though Smith was sitting right next to them, quietly watching everything. When she returned to the house and told all of the women what their men were up to, the men knew they had been played. By the finale, Smith and Sutherland appeared to be the strongest match and likely victors.<\/p>\n<p class=\"clay-paragraph\" data-editable=\"text\" data-uri=\"www.vulture.com\/_components\/clay-paragraph\/instances\/cmedat2k6000v3b78lge4yor7@published\" data-word-count=\"104\">So how the hell did <a href=\"https:\/\/www.vulture.com\/tags\/too-hot-to-handle\/\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Too Hot to Handle<\/a> star Lucy Syed and Dated &amp; Related alum Daniel Perfetto, who was one of the naughtiest boys at the mixer, wind up winning the title of \u201cperfect match\u201d and the free vacation only to break up weeks later? Your guess is as good as Smith\u2019s. But after nearly playing a flawless game only to end up in second place, she\u2019s not too stressed about it. After all, she got the guy and the happy ending. As <a href=\"https:\/\/people.com\/ad-smith-and-ollie-sutherland-talk-about-their-baby-on-the-way-exclusive-11775129\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">revealed<\/a> ahead of the Perfect Match premiere, Smith and Sutherland are engaged and preparing to welcome a baby girl.<\/p>\n<p class=\"clay-paragraph\" data-editable=\"text\" data-uri=\"www.vulture.com\/_components\/clay-paragraph\/instances\/cmedat2tw000w3b78ab65sr9h@published\" data-word-count=\"103\"><strong>Coming into Perfect Match, were you optimistic that you would find that lasting, real-life love?<\/strong><br \/>I\u2019m optimistic that I\u2019ll find something real in Whole Foods. I think love is out there, so it\u2019s not a matter of me going on a TV show to find love. That was an opportunity that was presented, and I was excited to meet other people, make new friends, spend the summer away, and have a good time. The fact that it played out the way it did makes it even better, but I\u2019ve always been a lover girl. Perfect Match just made it a bit easier for me.<\/p>\n<p class=\"clay-paragraph\" data-editable=\"text\" data-uri=\"www.vulture.com\/_components\/clay-paragraph\/instances\/cmedat33v000y3b78az7zzi1j@published\" data-word-count=\"60\"><strong>You and Ollie seemed to lock in instantly. How did it all feel in the moment?<\/strong><br \/>It felt as amazing as it looked. I didn\u2019t know he was going to be there; he didn\u2019t know I was going to be there, and just to have a spark like that immediately is, I think, what everybody wants when you\u2019re looking for love.<\/p>\n<p class=\"clay-paragraph\" data-editable=\"text\" data-uri=\"www.vulture.com\/_components\/clay-paragraph\/instances\/cmedat3aa00103b78mvz4e825@published\" data-word-count=\"71\"><strong>Why do you think Daniel and Lucy wound up winning over you and Ollie despite that connection?<\/strong><br \/>You know, that is an answer I\u2019ll never fully know because I can\u2019t tell you what was in everyone\u2019s heads. I think they saw a little more drama with Ollie and me and a little less with Lucy and Daniel. I don\u2019t know. Because Daniel and Lucy\u2019s was a little bit more behind the scenes.<\/p>\n<p class=\"clay-paragraph\" data-editable=\"text\" data-uri=\"www.vulture.com\/_components\/clay-paragraph\/instances\/cmedat3gj00123b78jj3oyzy7@published\" data-word-count=\"46\"><strong>Were you frustrated that they won and then broke up a couple of weeks later?\u00a0<\/strong><br \/>I wouldn\u2019t say frustrated. I mean, what is \u201cwinning\u201d and \u201closing\u201d in Perfect Match? It\u2019s not like <a href=\"https:\/\/www.vulture.com\/tv\/love-island\/\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Love Island<\/a>, where you have a $100,000 prize. You\u2019re just going on vacation afterward anyway.<\/p>\n<p class=\"clay-paragraph\" data-editable=\"text\" data-uri=\"www.vulture.com\/_components\/clay-paragraph\/instances\/cmedat5it00143b789szxkjoi@published\" data-word-count=\"139\"><strong>On shows like these, it seems like the conversations you wind up having off-camera are the ones that solidify the bond. What were you and Ollie\u2019s conversations like behind the scenes, and how did they confirm to you that this was the real deal? What stuck out?<\/strong><br \/>I wouldn\u2019t say any conversation in particular really stuck out. It was more the behavior and character that I observed off-camera that made all the difference for me.\u00a0There\u2019s a lot of joking and playing and a lot of fun times on-camera, but off-camera, there are moments where you are just alone with your person and you get to see a different side of them. That was what made it easier for me to fall for Ollie. I think the TV world was getting a different version and view of him than I was.<\/p>\n<p class=\"clay-paragraph\" data-editable=\"text\" data-uri=\"www.vulture.com\/_components\/clay-paragraph\/instances\/cmedat5oy00163b785gaksn11@published\" data-word-count=\"62\"><strong>I was really bummed to see you get kicked out of the resort, even briefly. What are the accommodations like for the singles outside the resort? <\/strong>You know what it is. It\u2019s not the best place to be. You don\u2019t want to be outside the house, regardless of where you\u2019re being sent. But obviously, they don\u2019t send you to, like, a graveyard.<\/p>\n<p class=\"clay-paragraph\" data-editable=\"text\" data-uri=\"www.vulture.com\/_components\/clay-paragraph\/instances\/cmedat63a00183b7898g1h09p@published\" data-word-count=\"78\"><strong>It would be awful if it were like <\/strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.vulture.com\/tv\/survivor\/\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\"><strong>Survivor<\/strong><\/a><strong> and they were like, \u201cNow you\u2019re sleeping on the beach!\u201d<\/strong><br \/>Even if you\u2019re sent to the palace, being ripped away from somebody that you\u2019re building a connection with and not knowing if you\u2019re going to see them again, it doesn\u2019t really matter where you end up. I would rather spend 90 days and 90 nights in the villa with Ollie than be placed in some castle away from him unexpectedly.<\/p>\n<p class=\"clay-paragraph\" data-editable=\"text\" data-uri=\"www.vulture.com\/_components\/clay-paragraph\/instances\/cmedat6d6001a3b78kj5zn76b@published\" data-word-count=\"109\"><strong>You were upset when you found out Ollie had covered up this kiss with Justine. How did you overcome that?<\/strong><br \/>A lot of conversation, a lot of rebuilding trust, and having the talks that you don\u2019t really want to talk about, and just realizing that if this is something that I did see potential in, that I would have to let my guard down again and trust that he is the man he says he is.\u00a0Ever since that unfortunate incident, we haven\u2019t had any of those concerns. My main thing was, I need changed actions and changed behavior. That\u2019s all I really cared about, and that\u2019s all I\u2019ve gotten since.<\/p>\n<p class=\"clay-paragraph\" data-editable=\"text\" data-uri=\"www.vulture.com\/_components\/clay-paragraph\/instances\/cmedat6j7001c3b786jz0ad77@published\" data-word-count=\"71\"><strong>During the finale, Justine hinted that she doesn\u2019t think Ollie is your perfect match. Have you been able to talk to her since then? Has she come around?<\/strong><br \/>The relationship Ollie and I have is between only two people. It\u2019s just me and him involved. And anyone can say their opinion on our relationship, and they\u2019re entitled to it, but at the end of the day, it is just him and me.<\/p>\n<p class=\"clay-paragraph\" data-editable=\"text\" data-uri=\"www.vulture.com\/_components\/clay-paragraph\/instances\/cmedat6vj001e3b785so7so54@published\" data-word-count=\"134\"><strong>I\u2019m still shocked at how the guys at the mixer acted around you while they were away from their partners. Do you think that they sincerely thought that you were going to keep their secrets for them?<\/strong><br \/>I was mortified. I thought that with me being there, they would have a little bit of decorum. But listen, boys will be boys, right? I am a good actress, and I think in that moment, they thought I was one of the boys, because they love Ollie so much, and they thought he had me in check like that. I would have said whatever it took to get them to trust me because I really just wanted to see how they would behave. Like, \u201cYeah, no, I promise.\u201d \u201cAD, you pinkie swore!\u201d And I\u2019m like, \u201cSure did!\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"clay-paragraph\" data-editable=\"text\" data-uri=\"www.vulture.com\/_components\/clay-paragraph\/instances\/cmedat720001g3b78gaj5v88h@published\" data-word-count=\"112\"><strong>Ollie was kind of teasing you about the idea of having children together during the finale. When did that become a real conversation?<\/strong><br \/>Our future became a very real conversation extremely early in getting to know each other because we are both very Love Is Blind\u2013coded. We were asking hard questions, serious questions, real-life questions pretty early. It was very evident that we both wanted a family, children, and marriage. So it was never a surprise or a shock when we found the news that I was going to be bringing a little baby girl into this planet because it was something that we talked about very, very early on in our connection.<\/p>\n<p class=\"clay-paragraph\" data-editable=\"text\" data-uri=\"www.vulture.com\/_components\/clay-paragraph\/instances\/cmedat7bp001i3b78qny54awo@published\" data-word-count=\"86\"><strong>What\u2019s next in terms of public life? You\u2019re working on your <\/strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/@WhatstheRealityPod\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\"><strong>podcast<\/strong><\/a><strong> now. Where do things go from here?<\/strong><br \/>I\u2019m loving this podcast life. It\u2019s so fun. I\u2019m getting all the tea, all the gossip. I get everything firsthand and give the viewers a different view of their favorite reality stars. So I\u2019m enjoying that. As far as reality TV, I don\u2019t know what is in the pipeline for pregnant reality stars, so you probably won\u2019t see me for a while, and I am okay with that.<\/p>\n<p>  Related<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Amber Desiree \u201cAD\u201d Smith\u2019s time in Netflix\u2019s reality-TV universe constantly proves her levelheadedness and commitment to the long&hellip;\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":4725,"comment_status":"","ping_status":"","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[265],"tags":[5054,18,117,19,17,2009,127,5055,1445,128],"class_list":{"0":"post-4724","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-tv","8":"tag-chat-room","9":"tag-eire","10":"tag-entertainment","11":"tag-ie","12":"tag-ireland","13":"tag-love-is-blind","14":"tag-netflix","15":"tag-perfect-match","16":"tag-reality-tv","17":"tag-tv"},"share_on_mastodon":{"url":"","error":""},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4724","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=4724"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4724\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/4725"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=4724"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=4724"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=4724"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}