Without naming names, the “Let\u2019s Get Loud” singer joked that she could “give a Ted Talk on human behavior, emotional intelligence<\/a> and dysfunctional relationships,” cracking up as she said the last part.<\/p>\n “PhD in narcissists,” she added with a laugh.<\/p>\n Lopez and her “Office Romance” costar Brett Goldstein had both been asked by a reporter from Elle UK<\/a> what they could speak about with expertise that didn\u2019t involve acting.<\/p>\n VALERIE BERTINELLI SAYS SHE MISSED NARCISSISTIC RED FLAGS IN RELATIONSHIPS: ‘MADE ME QUESTION MY SELF-WORTH’<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n Jennifer Lopez joked she could teach a seminar on narcissists. (Valerie Macon\/AFP)<\/p>\n She also later professed, “This is my good era. This is my happy era,” adding that when she began filming “Office Romance,” “I felt like it was starting a new time of my life. I had just went through a lot of changes in<\/a> my life \u2026 actually it began like a year before, but it rolled into all of this time. This past year has some of the best times of my life.”<\/p>\n She added, “Everything\u2019s kind of changed and shifted for me in the last couple of years.”<\/p>\n She said the “other great era of my life was when I had my kids. I do remember that as a very magical time.”<\/p>\n Lopez, who finalized her divorce with Ben Affleck<\/a> last year, has been married four times.<\/p>\n She was married to actor Ojani Noa at the beginning of her career for just one year, from 1997 to 1998, then she was married to backup dancer Cris Judd for about two years, from 2001 until 2003.<\/p>\n LIKE WHAT YOU\u2019RE READING? CLICK HERE FOR MORE ENTERTAINMENT NEWS<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n Marc Anthony and Jennifer Lopez are seen on stage with their twins in 2009. (Kevin Mazur\/WireImage)<\/p>\n She then dated Affleck, and the couple got engaged before calling it quits in 2004.<\/p>\n JENNIFER LOPEZ, BEN AFFLECK FINALIZE DIVORCE AFTER 2-YEAR MARRIAGE<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n Her longest marriage was to singer Marc Anthony, with whom she shares her only two children, twins born in 2008.<\/p>\n She and Anthony wed in June 2004 and their divorce was finalized in 2014.<\/p>\n Ben Affleck and Jennifer Lopez are seen together in 2024. (Mega\/GC Images)<\/p>\n The “Maid in Manhattan” actress began seeing Affleck again in 2021. She announced their second engagement the next year, and a few months later, they eloped. By 2024, they’d split again, and in 2025, their divorce was finalized.<\/p>\n CLICK HERE TO SIGN UP FOR THE ENTERTAINMENT NEWSLETTER<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n Last year, the 56-year-old called their divorce “the best thing<\/a> that ever happened to me.”<\/p>\n Jennifer Lopez is seen with her second husband, Cris Judd, in 2002. (Frank Micelotta\/ImageDirect)<\/p>\n “Because it changed me,” she told “CBS Sunday Morning.” “It helped me grow<\/a> in a way that I needed to grow, become more self-aware. I’m a different person now than I was last year\u2026 I realized that the joy is in living and these moments and really embracing life and everything that it brings to you, for the lessons that it brings.”<\/p>\n![\"Jennifer](\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ie\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/jennifer-lopez-governors-awards-fox-news-001-scaled.jpeg\")
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