{"id":618434,"date":"2026-08-03T16:41:18","date_gmt":"2026-08-03T16:41:18","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ie\/618434\/"},"modified":"2026-08-03T16:41:18","modified_gmt":"2026-08-03T16:41:18","slug":"i-got-fired-twice-it-led-me-to-start-my-own-company","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ie\/618434\/","title":{"rendered":"I Got Fired Twice. It Led Me to Start My Own Company."},"content":{"rendered":"<p>This as-told-to essay is based on a conversation with <a target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.linkedin.com\/in\/alexstephany\" data-track-click=\"{&quot;click_type&quot;:&quot;other&quot;,&quot;element_name&quot;:&quot;body_link&quot;,&quot;event&quot;:&quot;outbound_click&quot;}\" rel=\" nofollow noopener\">Alex Stephany<\/a>, founder of Beam. It has been edited for length and clarity.<\/p>\n<p>I was always a good student, but when I <a target=\"_self\" href=\"https:\/\/www.businessinsider.com\/oxford-grad-couldnt-get-job-pet-sit-avoid-paying-rent-2025-4\" data-track-click=\"{&quot;element_name&quot;:&quot;body_link&quot;,&quot;event&quot;:&quot;tout_click&quot;,&quot;index&quot;:&quot;bi_value_unassigned&quot;,&quot;product_field&quot;:&quot;bi_value_unassigned&quot;}\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">graduated from Oxford<\/a> and entered the workforce, I immediately felt like a fish out of water. <\/p>\n<p>One of my first weekends working as a lawyer, I went on a <a target=\"_self\" href=\"https:\/\/www.businessinsider.com\/how-to-plan-corporate-retreat-successful-inspiring-team-building-2024-1\" data-track-click=\"{&quot;element_name&quot;:&quot;body_link&quot;,&quot;event&quot;:&quot;tout_click&quot;,&quot;index&quot;:&quot;bi_value_unassigned&quot;,&quot;product_field&quot;:&quot;bi_value_unassigned&quot;}\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">corporate retreat<\/a>. I remember feeling that everyone else in the room was much better suited to the work of being a lawyer than I was.<\/p>\n<p>Two years later, when my contract was up, I wasn&#8217;t surprised that my employer didn&#8217;t renew it. I tried my hand at <a target=\"_self\" href=\"https:\/\/www.businessinsider.com\/america-top-management-consulting-firms-list-2026-1\" data-track-click=\"{&quot;element_name&quot;:&quot;body_link&quot;,&quot;event&quot;:&quot;tout_click&quot;,&quot;index&quot;:&quot;bi_value_unassigned&quot;,&quot;product_field&quot;:&quot;bi_value_unassigned&quot;}\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">management consulting<\/a>, but even in a different job, I felt ill at ease in the corporate world. I was fired from the consulting role after about four years.<\/p>\n<p>That was quite scary. I had been really successful in life as a student, but I worried I was ill-suited to adulting. At Oxford, everyone became a doctor, lawyer, banker, or consultant \u2014 if I couldn&#8217;t <a target=\"_self\" href=\"https:\/\/www.businessinsider.com\/sam-altman-career-advice-2020-1\" data-track-click=\"{&quot;element_name&quot;:&quot;body_link&quot;,&quot;event&quot;:&quot;tout_click&quot;,&quot;index&quot;:&quot;bi_value_unassigned&quot;,&quot;product_field&quot;:&quot;bi_value_unassigned&quot;}\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">succeed in those careers<\/a>, I worried I wouldn&#8217;t succeed at all.<\/p>\n<p>A smartphone unlocked new career options for me<\/p>\n<p>I was lucky that I could go home and <a target=\"_self\" href=\"https:\/\/www.businessinsider.com\/lived-with-parents-adult-now-neighbors-benefits-2026-7\" data-track-click=\"{&quot;element_name&quot;:&quot;body_link&quot;,&quot;event&quot;:&quot;tout_click&quot;,&quot;index&quot;:&quot;bi_value_unassigned&quot;,&quot;product_field&quot;:&quot;bi_value_unassigned&quot;}\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">live with my parents<\/a>. I didn&#8217;t have children to support. Even so, I had some really dark moments in the months after I was fired. I just didn&#8217;t know what to do with my life. Being fired not once, but twice, felt like proof that I was bad at adulting.<\/p>\n<p>It became worse as I entered my 30s. I was doing some <a target=\"_self\" href=\"https:\/\/www.businessinsider.com\/working-multiple-freelance-jobs-businesses-2025-9\" data-track-click=\"{&quot;element_name&quot;:&quot;body_link&quot;,&quot;event&quot;:&quot;tout_click&quot;,&quot;index&quot;:&quot;bi_value_unassigned&quot;,&quot;product_field&quot;:&quot;bi_value_unassigned&quot;}\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">writing work<\/a>, but I was embarrassed to be underemployed at this stage of life. When friends wanted to catch up, I worried about being the object of their pity.<\/p>\n<p>During that time, I wasn&#8217;t spending much money. Because of that, I got a smartphone late. Once I had it in my hands, however, I saw it was going to transform everything. I started going to tech events and <a target=\"_self\" href=\"https:\/\/www.businessinsider.com\/how-to-get-a-job-at-a-startup-2020-10\" data-track-click=\"{&quot;element_name&quot;:&quot;body_link&quot;,&quot;event&quot;:&quot;tout_click&quot;,&quot;index&quot;:&quot;bi_value_unassigned&quot;,&quot;product_field&quot;:&quot;bi_value_unassigned&quot;}\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">applying to startups<\/a>. I would walk into rooms feeling shy and embarrassed, but force myself to ask people for coffee. That&#8217;s when my <a target=\"_self\" href=\"https:\/\/www.businessinsider.com\/got-fired-from-job-deserved-it-2024-1\" data-track-click=\"{&quot;element_name&quot;:&quot;body_link&quot;,&quot;event&quot;:&quot;tout_click&quot;,&quot;index&quot;:&quot;bi_value_unassigned&quot;,&quot;product_field&quot;:&quot;bi_value_unassigned&quot;}\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">life started to change<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>I became CEO, then founded my own company<\/p>\n<p>I don&#8217;t want to downplay how traumatic and upsetting being fired was. But looking back, I can see how being fired was a catalyst for my career. Now, when I&#8217;m asked about the people who helped me, I name those bosses who fired me from roles I wasn&#8217;t good at.<\/p>\n<p>I got hired in the startup space and eventually became the CEO of JustPark, an app that connects Londoners with parking. In 2017, I founded Beam, which uses AI to better empower social service workers. We have about 200 employees worldwide, and the technology is used in five countries.<\/p>\n<p>Years of being underemployed forced me to build resilience and adaptability that have served me well as a CEO. People who have only been successful in life aren&#8217;t suited to work in a startup, because you&#8217;re constantly failing when you try to get something off the ground.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;ve found success in social entrepreneurship<\/p>\n<p>Today, I know that I&#8217;m not fundamentally bad at being an adult. I&#8217;m just not wired for a corporate, institutional role. That makes sense, because I&#8217;ve always been a bit of a rebel. Entrepreneurship is a much better role for me.<\/p>\n<p>While the average tech CEO might strive to be like Elon Musk, billionaires aren&#8217;t my role models. My family always taught me that successful people are those who help others, and that&#8217;s who I grew up admiring. My great-grandfather was a businessman who helped Jews resettle in London before World War II. He was a social entrepreneur before that, as a term \u2014 and I&#8217;m proud to follow in his footsteps.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"This as-told-to essay is based on a conversation with Alex Stephany, founder of Beam. 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