{"id":72589,"date":"2025-09-19T02:25:08","date_gmt":"2025-09-19T02:25:08","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ie\/72589\/"},"modified":"2025-09-19T02:25:08","modified_gmt":"2025-09-19T02:25:08","slug":"easy-to-lose-sight-of","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ie\/72589\/","title":{"rendered":"&#8216;Easy to lose sight of&#8217;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>     <img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"data:image\/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP\/\/\/ywAAAAAAQABAAACAUwAOw==\" alt=\"Derek Gascoigne next to retired couple\" loading=\"eager\" height=\"517\" width=\"960\" class=\"yf-1gfnohs loader\"\/> Derek Gascoigne said you could be risking your retirement by dipping into your superannuation to help your kids. (Source: Getty\/UniSuper)      <\/p>\n<p class=\"yf-1090901\"><a data-i13n=\"cpos:1;pos:1\" href=\"https:\/\/au.finance.yahoo.com\/news\/100000-retirement-warning-as-generational-shift-erupts-for-working-australians-222848139.html\" data-ylk=\"slk:Older Australians;cpos:1;pos:1;elm:context_link;itc:0;sec:content-canvas;outcm:mb_qualified_link;_E:mb_qualified_link;ct:story;\" class=\"link  yahoo-link\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Older Australians<\/a> are being urged to think very carefully about how they <a data-i13n=\"cpos:2;pos:1\" href=\"https:\/\/au.finance.yahoo.com\/news\/inheritance-impatience-exposes-generation-of-australians-to-financial-abuse-as-54-trillion-wealth-transfer-looms-032435978.html\" data-ylk=\"slk:use their money to help their children;cpos:2;pos:1;elm:context_link;itc:0;sec:content-canvas;outcm:mb_qualified_link;_E:mb_qualified_link;ct:story;\" class=\"link  yahoo-link\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">use their money to help their children<\/a> or grandchildren. The <a data-i13n=\"cpos:3;pos:1\" href=\"https:\/\/au.finance.yahoo.com\/news\/little-known-bank-of-mum-and-dad-money-tactic-asian-boomers-are-using-to-help-buy-property-be-wary-200032777.html\" data-ylk=\"slk:Bank of Mum and Dad;cpos:3;pos:1;elm:context_link;itc:0;sec:content-canvas;outcm:mb_qualified_link;_E:mb_qualified_link;ct:story;\" class=\"link  yahoo-link\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Bank of Mum and Dad<\/a> has become the fifth-largest lender in Australia, as it is increasingly being tapped to help with <a data-i13n=\"cpos:4;pos:1\" href=\"https:\/\/au.finance.yahoo.com\/topic\/money\/\" data-ylk=\"slk:house deposits and everyday expenses;cpos:4;pos:1;elm:context_link;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\" class=\"link \" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">house deposits and everyday expenses<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p class=\"yf-1090901\">But some are choosing to dip into their <a data-i13n=\"cpos:5;pos:1\" href=\"https:\/\/au.finance.yahoo.com\/news\/superannuation-rule-leaving-aussie-workers-with-60000-less-at-retirement-shortchanged-060910985.html\" data-ylk=\"slk:superannuation for these mega-handouts;cpos:5;pos:1;elm:context_link;itc:0;sec:content-canvas;outcm:mb_qualified_link;_E:mb_qualified_link;ct:story;\" class=\"link  yahoo-link\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">superannuation for these mega-handouts<\/a>, which could have disastrous <a data-i13n=\"cpos:6;pos:1\" href=\"https:\/\/au.finance.yahoo.com\/news\/surprising-reason-retirement-costs-soar-033143795.html\" data-ylk=\"slk:effects on their retirement;cpos:6;pos:1;elm:context_link;itc:0;sec:content-canvas;outcm:mb_qualified_link;_E:mb_qualified_link;ct:story;\" class=\"link  yahoo-link\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">effects on their retirement<\/a>. Derek Gascoigne, private client adviser at UniSuper, told Yahoo Finance that older Aussies should tread carefully.<\/p>\n<p class=\"yf-1090901\">&#8220;Superannuation is obviously an easy source of cheap finance,&#8221; he said.<\/p>\n<p class=\"yf-1090901\">&#8220;It&#8217;s a lot easier than having to go back to the bank and perhaps get a loan themselves, but it gets particularly difficult when there&#8217;s no longer any employment.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"yf-1090901\">If you still have a few years of work left, you can tighten your belt and build that retirement nest egg back up while you act as the Bank of Mum and Dad.<\/p>\n<p class=\"yf-1090901\">But once you hang up the work boots forever, any handout will mean you have to ensure you have enough leftover for your own retirement.<\/p>\n<p class=\"yf-1090901\"><strong>Do you have a story? Email stew.perrie@yahooinc.com<\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"yf-1090901\">Separate research from UniSuper and <a data-i13n=\"cpos:10;pos:1\" href=\"https:\/\/au.finance.yahoo.com\/news\/generational-shift-in-bank-of-mum-and-dad-leaves-aussie-parents-74040-out-of-pocket-very-concerned-200009901.html\" data-ylk=\"slk:Mozo;cpos:10;pos:1;elm:context_link;itc:0;sec:content-canvas;outcm:mb_qualified_link;_E:mb_qualified_link;ct:story;\" class=\"link  yahoo-link\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Mozo<\/a> found the average Australian parent lends their children between $33,278 and $74,040 to help with a home loan.<\/p>\n<p class=\"yf-1090901\">&#8220;We&#8217;ve all boarded a plane and heard the safety briefing to fit your own mask before you help others,&#8221; Gascoigne told Yahoo Finance.<\/p>\n<p class=\"yf-1090901\">&#8220;This is a big one that people lose sight of, which is understanding exactly what the impact of taking a certain amount of capital away from the bucket early in retirement, and what that&#8217;s likely to mean for the longevity of their own money and their ability to be able to meet their own retirement objectives.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"yf-1090901\">The Association of Superannuation Funds <a data-i13n=\"cpos:11;pos:1\" href=\"https:\/\/au.finance.yahoo.com\/news\/superannuation-warning-as-amount-australians-need-to-comfortably-retire-rises-again-steep-061153845.html\" data-ylk=\"slk:recently revealed;cpos:11;pos:1;elm:context_link;itc:0;sec:content-canvas;outcm:mb_qualified_link;_E:mb_qualified_link;ct:story;\" class=\"link  yahoo-link\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">recently revealed<\/a> that couples now need $75,319 per year to have a comfortable retirement, while a single person would need $53,289 per year.<\/p>\n<p class=\"yf-1090901\">That means you could be axing a year&#8217;s worth of living by acting as the Bank of Mum and Dad.<\/p>\n<p class=\"yf-1090901\">Gascoigne urged older Aussies to look at what a &#8220;safe&#8221; amount of money would be to give to their kids or grandkids and not stretch beyond that.<\/p>\n<p> Story Continues  <\/p>\n<p class=\"yf-1090901\">He admitted the thought of his kids trying to get on the property ladder &#8220;keeps him awake at night&#8221;, but said it&#8217;s essential for older Aussies to strike the right balance of helping their kids while ensuring their retirement isn&#8217;t massively affected.<\/p>\n<p class=\"yf-1090901\">The UniSuper expert also said it&#8217;s worth understanding some of the issues that can pop up when gifting money.<\/p>\n<p class=\"yf-1090901\">&#8220;Sometimes when they&#8217;re helping out one child, there&#8217;s another sibling and then they feel obligated to repeat the handout for the other child,&#8221; he said.<\/p>\n<p class=\"yf-1090901\">&#8220;Also, they might give money to a child who buys a house with their partner. There are concerns around what happens to that if their own direct child passes away, or perhaps the relationship dissolves.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"yf-1090901\">But it&#8217;s not just property that mums and dads are pitching in for.<\/p>\n<p class=\"yf-1090901\">New ING research revealed that more than half (53 per cent) of parents surveyed are helping their adult kids with a range of other everyday expenses.<\/p>\n<p class=\"yf-1090901\">Here are the top five areas where Aussie parents lend a helping hand:<\/p>\n<ul class=\"yf-1woyvo2\">\n<li class=\"yf-1woyvo2\">\n<p class=\"yf-1090901\">Food (dining out or groceries) &#8211; 27 per cent<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<li class=\"yf-1woyvo2\">\n<p class=\"yf-1090901\">Medical expenses (dental, therapy) &#8211; 18 per cent<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<li class=\"yf-1woyvo2\">\n<p class=\"yf-1090901\">Rent\/mortgage assistance &#8211; 16 per cent<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<li class=\"yf-1woyvo2\">\n<p class=\"yf-1090901\">Car\/transport costs &#8211; 15 per cent<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<li class=\"yf-1woyvo2\">\n<p class=\"yf-1090901\">Phone bills &#8211; 13 per cent<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p class=\"yf-1090901\">ING revealed parents are giving $1,635 per month to assist their adult children.<\/p>\n<p class=\"yf-1090901\">But this appears to be much more of a new-age trend, with 76 per cent of Gen X parents pitching in for everyday expenses, compared to just 44 per cent of Baby Boomers.<\/p>\n<p class=\"yf-1090901\"><strong>Get the latest Yahoo Finance news &#8211; follow us on <\/strong><a data-i13n=\"cpos:12;pos:1\" href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/yahoofinanceaunz\/\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"slk:Facebook;cpos:12;pos:1;elm:context_link;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\" class=\"link \"><strong>Facebook<\/strong><\/a><strong>, <\/strong><a data-i13n=\"cpos:13;pos:1\" href=\"https:\/\/www.linkedin.com\/company\/yahoo-finance-australia-nz\/\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"slk:LinkedIn;cpos:13;pos:1;elm:context_link;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\" class=\"link \"><strong>LinkedIn<\/strong><\/a><strong> and <\/strong><a data-i13n=\"cpos:14;pos:1\" href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/yahoofinanceau\/\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"slk:Instagram;cpos:14;pos:1;elm:context_link;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\" class=\"link \"><strong>Instagram<\/strong><\/a><strong>.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>     <script async src=\"\/\/www.instagram.com\/embed.js\"><\/script><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Derek Gascoigne said you could be risking your retirement by dipping into your superannuation to help your kids.&hellip;\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":72590,"comment_status":"","ping_status":"","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[177],"tags":[49782,79,49781,18,49783,19,17,234,235,3887],"class_list":{"0":"post-72589","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-personal-finance","8":"tag-bank-of-mum-and-dad","9":"tag-business","10":"tag-derek-gascoigne","11":"tag-eire","12":"tag-everyday-expenses","13":"tag-ie","14":"tag-ireland","15":"tag-personal-finance","16":"tag-personalfinance","17":"tag-retirement"},"share_on_mastodon":{"url":"","error":""},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/72589","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=72589"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/72589\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/72590"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=72589"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=72589"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=72589"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}