{"id":168900,"date":"2026-06-20T09:48:18","date_gmt":"2026-06-20T09:48:18","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/iran\/168900\/"},"modified":"2026-06-20T09:48:18","modified_gmt":"2026-06-20T09:48:18","slug":"shanti-house-battles-the-odds-to-save-israels-abandoned-youth","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/iran\/168900\/","title":{"rendered":"Shanti House battles the odds to save Israel&#8217;s abandoned youth"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"article-paragraph-section article-body-paragraph\">It doesn\u2019t take a PhD in anthropology, political science, or sociology, or an above-average IQ, to discern that this country has its fair share of existential challenges on its plate. Some of those clearly come from without, but there are also plenty of domestic issues that need our urgent attention.<\/p>\n<p class=\"article-paragraph-section article-body-paragraph\">One of those is the pressing matter of youngsters who, for one reason or another, find themselves out on the street, without the safe haven of the family home, and without the sense of security, emotional as well as physical, that is essential to teenagers taking their steps towards adulthood and into the maze of minefield pathways that winds its way through life.<\/p>\n<p>One of the major players in this life-saving field is Shanti House. With three branches dotted around the country \u2013 Tel Aviv, the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.jpost.com\/israel-news\/article-899012\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Negev<\/a>, and a recent addition in Jerusalem \u2013 Shanti House has been doing its utmost for over four decades to provide less privileged members of the younger generation, between the ages of 14 and 21, with a helping hand, a warm embrace, and a tangible, loving anchor and support.<\/p>\n<p class=\"article-paragraph-section article-body-paragraph\">These are frequently kids who have run away from dysfunctional family situations, having fled from violent parents and, sometimes, life-threatening circumstances. Substance abuse often follows as the children find themselves cast out on the jagged edges of society, exposed to all manner of danger and exploitation.<\/p>\n<p class=\"article-paragraph-section article-body-paragraph\">Shanti House opened for business in 1984 after its founder, Mariuma Klein, learned of the severity of the problem across the country. This wasn\u2019t the result of in-depth professional research studiously overseen by academics.<\/p>\n<p><img alt=\"THE NEGEV\u2019S Shanti House center offers at-risk youngsters therapeutic horseback riding, hydrotherapy, art therapy, and communing with nature.\" loading=\"lazy\" width=\"822\" height=\"829\" decoding=\"async\" data-nimg=\"1\" style=\"color:transparent\" src=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/iran\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/726216.jpeg\"\/>THE NEGEV\u2019S Shanti House center offers at-risk youngsters therapeutic horseback riding, hydrotherapy, art therapy, and communing with nature. (credit: ALON GREGO)<\/p>\n<p class=\"article-paragraph-section article-body-paragraph\">Klein had a very real, firsthand understanding of the plight of hundreds of youngsters fighting for survival in a world that didn\u2019t seem to care or, at the very least, offered little in the way of solutions to their predicament.<\/p>\n<p class=\"article-paragraph-section article-body-paragraph\">Now, sexagenarian Klein has stood steadfast at the helm of her life\u2019s work throughout, navigating her way through trying logistical, financial, and emotional rapids to keep the institution afloat. She is not just some kind soul extending a hand and a hug to those less fortunate than herself.<\/p>\n<p class=\"article-paragraph-section article-body-paragraph\">She has been there, and been through all of that, and has a very personal handle on what the residents of Shanti House endured before they walked through the institution\u2019s welcoming gate \u2013 battered, bruised, scarred, and without too much trust in the adult world around them. A world that, at best, had turned its back on them and, at worst, had subjected them to cruelty and torment.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI was approaching the end of my military service,\u201d Klein recalls in her book The Shanti House Way, which came out in 2015, with an updated version released in 2024. \u201cI was not yet 20, and my partner was 25 years older than me.\u201d\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>They were living in her boyfriend\u2019s former caf\u00e9 when Klein suddenly came up with the idea of opening up the place to \u201canyone who needs a place to eat a <a href=\"https:\/\/www.jpost.com\/judaism\/article-898476\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Shabbat<\/a> meal, anyone who wants to sit down together with living souls hungry to sit around the same family table.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"article-paragraph-section article-body-paragraph\">This still-developing country may have plenty to crow about \u2013 inter alia, its trailblazing hi-tech industry, the excellence we continue to churn out across all artistic disciplines, and, let\u2019s face it, the mere fact that Israel is still a going concern. But the socioeconomic divide continues to widen and deepen, leaving many Israelis unable to buy homes and others struggling to keep up with soaring rent.<\/p>\n<p class=\"article-paragraph-section article-body-paragraph\">The youngsters Klein and her Shanti House team cater to don\u2019t have that problem, for all the wrong reasons. They simply don\u2019t have anywhere they can call home in the core sense most associated with that concept. That is, until they step through the portal of one of the Shanti House facilities, either on their own initiative or pursuant to a referral from the welfare authorities.<\/p>\n<p>Shanti House has gained recognition among other similar facilities\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Shanti House is now an officially recognized institution to which cases are referred by other facilities, including those of state ilk, that find they are unable to help. Klein was awarded the Israel Prize in 2022 for her sterling work over so many years and was one of the torchlighters at the state <a href=\"https:\/\/www.jpost.com\/tags\/independence-day\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Independence Day<\/a> ceremony back in 2000. There are other kudos in her impressive bio.<\/p>\n<p class=\"article-paragraph-section article-body-paragraph\">All of which is a far cry from the days when she was in dire straits herself, mirroring the desperate life circumstances that continue to bring teenagers to her doorstep in a last-ditch attempt to right their existential ship and, in many instances, in a very real sense, save their lives.<\/p>\n<p class=\"article-paragraph-section article-body-paragraph\">Sadly, Klein went through the mill herself, several times, and is all too keenly aware of the emotional mountains her charges have to climb if they are to stand any chance of somehow getting back on track and not slipping back into a vicious circle of violence, sexual promiscuity and abuse, and addiction.<\/p>\n<p class=\"article-paragraph-section article-body-paragraph\">Sitting with the irrepressible 61-year-old Shanti House founder and CEO, it is hard to believe she was once out on the street herself, a refugee from her own dysfunctional family and prey to all kinds of nefarious characters and social outcasts.<\/p>\n<p class=\"article-paragraph-section article-body-paragraph\">Klein harnesses that checkered backdrop not only as a source of strength and motivation for herself; she also shares it with at-risk youngsters in the hope that her own fight for survival and success against all the odds will inspire others to follow suit.<\/p>\n<p class=\"article-paragraph-section article-body-paragraph\">\u201cOf course, I tell them about myself and what I went through,\u201d she states. \u201cI tell them everything. I tell them how my father abandoned me, about the extreme violence I was subjected to from my mother, as an only daughter \u2013 by the way, I am full of compassion for them now,\u201d she slips in without missing a beat. \u201cYou learn the way to get to that.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"article-paragraph-section article-body-paragraph\">There is, sadly, more to Klein\u2019s story: \u201cI was sexually abused when I was five and raped at the age of 17,\u201d she adds, almost matter-of-factly. \u201cI lived on the streets of Boston and ate food from dumpsters,\u201d she says.<\/p>\n<p class=\"article-paragraph-section article-body-paragraph\">Klein was born in New York, made aliyah with her parents when she was two years old, and spent part of her teenage years back in the States with her mother. That didn\u2019t go well, and she relocated back to Israel to a boarding school.<\/p>\n<p class=\"article-paragraph-section article-body-paragraph\">At the age of 20, she found herself pregnant \u2013 she discovered her condition too late to even consider having an abortion \u2013 with her now 40-year-old daughter, who, surprise, surprise, goes by the name of Shanti. Klein is now a proud mother of two and a besotted grandmother to Shanti\u2019s kindergarten-aged daughter.<\/p>\n<p class=\"article-paragraph-section article-body-paragraph\">That, no doubt, helps her to keep her feet on the ground and her heart in the right place as she continues to pound her invaluable beat and put in a shift or two to proffer a lifeline to youth who have been dealt a bad hand by the very people who should be providing them with a safe harbor, love, and a solid grounding before they step out from their domestic confines to, hopefully, forge their own course through the big outside world.<\/p>\n<p class=\"article-paragraph-section article-body-paragraph\">Klein says she knows \u2013 from rich personal and professional experience \u2013 there\u2019s no quick fix. \u201cI call it the cholent treatment,\u201d she chuckles. \u201cYou have to take it slowly, keep it on a low flame. It takes time.\u201d<\/p>\n<p><img alt=\"ISRAEL PRIZE RECIPIENT Klein uses her own tough start to life to help others.\" loading=\"lazy\" width=\"632\" height=\"492\" decoding=\"async\" data-nimg=\"1\" style=\"color:transparent\" src=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/iran\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/726217.jpeg\"\/>ISRAEL PRIZE RECIPIENT Klein uses her own tough start to life to help others. (credit: Leon Yakobov)<\/p>\n<p>She came across that precious realization quite some time ago. \u201cI have known this since the 1980s. Any person who has experienced <a href=\"https:\/\/www.jpost.com\/israel-news\/article-898609\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">trauma<\/a>, you have to create a safe place for them. You have to allow them time to develop trust, and to see there are others like them.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\"article-paragraph-section article-body-paragraph\">\u201cThese [Shanti House] places help with post-trauma because there are other children like you. You are not alone. You are part of a group where you feel you are among equals, also with regard to the tough things you have been through. And the others are surviving and continuing on with their lives.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"article-paragraph-section article-body-paragraph\">Trust is the operative word here.<\/p>\n<p class=\"article-paragraph-section article-body-paragraph\">\u201cThe kids need to discover faith in someone, in someone professional who can help them. We have psychologists here and practitioners who can help with addictions. We have lots of different kinds of treatment here. One of the most important things for battle fatigue or post-trauma for children is that they have a safe environment. If you have that, you can start to trust someone,\u201d she says.<\/p>\n<p>The facility gives kids something to get excited about<\/p>\n<p>The road to recovery also requires having something to look forward to. Sounds like something straight out of a <a href=\"https:\/\/www.jpost.com\/israel-news\/culture\/article-893836\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Viktor Frankl<\/a> book, a feted Austrian neurologist, psychiatrist, philosopher, and, more pertinently, Holocaust survivor.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\"article-paragraph-section article-body-paragraph\">The best-known of Frankl\u2019s 39-strong bibliography is Man\u2019s Search for Meaning, which chronicles his experiences in Dachau and Auschwitz and how having some goal, some purpose, in life can help keep one on an even emotional keel, and literally keep them alive in the most trying of situations.<\/p>\n<p class=\"article-paragraph-section article-body-paragraph\">It is a school of thought to which Klein wholeheartedly subscribes. \u201cI know Frankl and his work,\u201d she says. \u201cHe is one of my sources of inspiration.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"article-paragraph-section article-body-paragraph\">This thought features prominently in the Shanti House remedial equation. \u201cThere is someone here whose dream is to do anything connected to the sea,\u201d Klein enlightens me. \u201cHe is interested in marine geology, anything marine. And he is gradually moving in that direction. He has started to build his process [of recovery].\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"article-paragraph-section article-body-paragraph\">Shanti House, she says, devotes substantial resources to helping the youngsters achieve their ambitions, thereby boosting their sense of self-worth and enabling them to channel their energy and talents toward tangible outcomes.<\/p>\n<p class=\"article-paragraph-section article-body-paragraph\">\u201cIf, for example, we have a young girl who wants to study psychology,\u201d she says, \u201cor something to do with emotional therapy, we will get a grant for her, so she can continue on to higher education after she finishes her military service.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"article-paragraph-section article-body-paragraph\">Naturally, in order to get to university or college, one first has to graduate from high school. There are some for whom that is a steeper hill to climb.<\/p>\n<p class=\"article-paragraph-section article-body-paragraph\">There are two kids here who are about to join the army. One was abandoned by his mother when he was five years old, and his father joined some kind of cult group in Tiberias. His childhood was very difficult \u2013 there was lots of abuse. He came to us around 18 months ago, when he was around 16 or 17.<\/p>\n<p class=\"article-paragraph-section article-body-paragraph\">Amram completed his high school studies, and he is going to join the army and attend Havat Hashomer [IDF basic training camp in the Lower Galilee] to become a combat soldier. He couldn\u2019t believe it. He never thought he\u2019d achieve that, Klein shares.<\/p>\n<p class=\"article-paragraph-section article-body-paragraph\">Levi Amram is a gleaming beacon of hope for anyone down on their luck and short on optimism. I sat down with the 18-year-old at Shanti House in Tel Aviv for a chat about his dark past and his far brighter present and future.<\/p>\n<p class=\"article-paragraph-section article-body-paragraph\">It was hard to equate the confident young man, with his open face and inviting smile, with the tale of woe he recounted. Klein says she looks on in awe, pride, and joy at Amram and his ilk.<\/p>\n<p class=\"article-paragraph-section article-body-paragraph\">\u201cWhen you see a child who had no dreams, who felt abandoned and transparent, who had no idea what they were going to do with their life, and then you see the light that comes out of them, and the hope, it is simply amazing,\u201d she says.<\/p>\n<p>Youngsters from <a href=\"https:\/\/www.jpost.com\/israel-news\/article-899646\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">haredi\u00a0<\/a>(ultra-Orthodox) families, apparently, have another hurdle to navigate. \u201cThey often have no background in secular subjects, like history, geography, and mathematics,\u201d Klein notes. \u201cThey simply aren\u2019t taught such things. So they have more ground to make up if they want to take their bagrut (matriculation) and pursue a profession.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Many kids are choosing non-violence and self-reflection to heal<\/p>\n<p class=\"article-paragraph-section article-body-paragraph\">Amram is, indeed, an impressive character to behold. He hardly stopped smiling as we talked in the shade of the inviting center&#8217;s inner quadrangle in south Tel Aviv, with its polychromatic exterior.<\/p>\n<p class=\"article-paragraph-section article-body-paragraph\">\u201cI have been here for almost two years,\u201d he says. \u201cI come from a haredi home, and I went through a lot before I came here. There was violence, sexual violence, at home.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"article-paragraph-section article-body-paragraph\">It was time to get out.<\/p>\n<p class=\"article-paragraph-section article-body-paragraph\">\u201cI had to get away from the violence,\u201d Amram recalls. He went through a slew of boarding schools and hostels, but initially, things did not go well. \u201cYou go there, and you find even more options for substance abuse \u2013 alcohol and drugs.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"article-paragraph-section article-body-paragraph\">But Amram was made of sterner stuff. \u201cAfter a while, I realized that wasn\u2019t helping. It was like trying to climb up a slope, and then you spill oil on it, and you slip further down.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"article-paragraph-section article-body-paragraph\">Help was on its way from Shanti House.<\/p>\n<p class=\"article-paragraph-section article-body-paragraph\">\u201cI was at another place [for at-risk youth], and I met someone called Shauli from here. I told him I wasn\u2019t happy there and I was looking for a place that was less like an institution and more like a home,\u201d he shares.<\/p>\n<p class=\"article-paragraph-section article-body-paragraph\">He gradually cleaned up his substance abuse act and took on a sunnier, healthier approach to himself and the world around him \u2013 both physically and emotionally.<\/p>\n<p class=\"article-paragraph-section article-body-paragraph\">\u201cI had therapy, and I worked on myself,\u201d Amram states.<\/p>\n<p class=\"article-paragraph-section article-body-paragraph\">Shanti House fit the bill, and despite stiff resistance from the state welfare authorities, who preferred to send him to a military boarding school, Amram stuck to his non-violent guns and, with Shauli\u2019s help, eventually relocated to Klein\u2019s welcoming, family-oriented center.<\/p>\n<p class=\"article-paragraph-section article-body-paragraph\">That changed everything for him. Amram found himself in the company of other youngsters with similar stories, who understood him and what he had been through. \u201cI didn\u2019t feel different,\u201d he says. \u201cI felt accepted by the others \u2013 the kids and the staff.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"article-paragraph-section article-body-paragraph\">It\u2019s been a long and rocky road for Amram, but he appears to have made it through the emotional and logistical quagmire in one piece and is now set to take his life to the next stage of personal positive growth.<\/p>\n<p class=\"article-paragraph-section article-body-paragraph\">\u201cYou can\u2019t help someone who doesn\u2019t want to help themselves,\u201d he observes.<\/p>\n<p class=\"article-paragraph-section article-body-paragraph\">\u201cI wanted to help myself and got so much from Mariuma and the others here. I didn\u2019t even think in terms of love, what it is to love myself, if I could give or get love, or if I was worthy of love at all. That wasn\u2019t even part of my thinking,\u201d he shares.<\/p>\n<p class=\"article-paragraph-section article-body-paragraph\">We return to the theme of dreams and Frankl\u2019s life-affirming ethos.<\/p>\n<p class=\"article-paragraph-section article-body-paragraph\">\u201cToday I finished my last bagrut examination,\u201d he tells me with palpable pride. \u201cI feel really good. My dream when I came here was to do my bagrut. I started from zero. I didn\u2019t have any grounding in that from my haredi home. I gradually closed down my [educational] gaps and, thank God, I finished today.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"article-paragraph-section article-body-paragraph\">The next rung on Amram\u2019s ladder to self-realization is the army.<\/p>\n<p class=\"article-paragraph-section article-body-paragraph\">\u201cIn six months, thank God, I\u2019ll join the Border Police. That was always my dream. I\u2019m sure it won\u2019t be easy in the Border Police, but I\u2019m not looking for an easy life,\u201d he says.<\/p>\n<p class=\"article-paragraph-section article-body-paragraph\">Clearly, thus far, the 18-year-old has not exactly been through a bed of roses, but now, with Shanti House\u2019s help, his challenges are of his own making \u2013 and I wouldn\u2019t bet against him making a success of his military service and anything he elects to take on as he finds his place in the world.<\/p>\n<p>None of the above comes cheap, and Shanti House is running a fundraising campaign, June 21-26. All donations to this life-saving venture will, naturally, be accepted with gratitude. For more information:\u00a0<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.jgive.com\/new\/en\/ils\/donation-targets\/172573\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">www.jgive.com\/new\/en\/ils\/donation-targets\/172573<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"It doesn\u2019t take a PhD in anthropology, political science, or sociology, or an above-average IQ, to discern that&hellip;\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":168901,"comment_status":"","ping_status":"","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":"","_share_on_mastodon":"0"},"categories":[33],"tags":[2738,5574,12272,37,503,10293,44308,50057],"class_list":["post-168900","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","category-israel","tag-child-abuse","tag-children","tag-haredi","tag-israel","tag-magazine","tag-sexual-violence","tag-social-workers","tag-therapy"],"share_on_mastodon":{"url":"https:\/\/pubeurope.com\/@iran\/116781810049409303","error":""},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/iran\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/168900","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/iran\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/iran\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/iran\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/iran\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=168900"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/iran\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/168900\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/iran\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/168901"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/iran\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=168900"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/iran\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=168900"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/iran\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=168900"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}