{"id":176248,"date":"2026-05-12T22:49:31","date_gmt":"2026-05-12T22:49:31","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/lt\/176248\/"},"modified":"2026-05-12T22:49:31","modified_gmt":"2026-05-12T22:49:31","slug":"netekti-isgyvenancia-diarchy-zvaigzde-sokiravo-zmoniu-zinutes-noriu-paklausti","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/lt\/176248\/","title":{"rendered":"Netekt\u012f i\u0161gyvenan\u010di\u0105 \u201eDiArchy\u201c \u017evaig\u017ed\u0119 \u0161okiravo \u017emoni\u0173 \u017einut\u0117s: \u201eNoriu paklausti…\u201c"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Socialiniame tinkle D. Gai\u010di\u016bnait\u0117-Dirm\u0117 pavie\u0161ino nauj\u0105 \u012fra\u0161\u0105.\u00a0\u00a0<\/p>\n

Jame moteris pasidalijo savo mintimis apie tai, k\u0105 ji pamat\u0117 vie\u0161ojoje erdv\u0117je pasidalijusi apie skaud\u017ei\u0105 augintinio netekt\u012f.\u00a0<\/p>\n

Moteris nesl\u0117p\u0117, kad kai kurie \u017emoni\u0173 \u017eod\u017eiai gerokai nustebino.\u00a0<\/p>\n

\u201e\u0160iomis dienomis, kai dalinuosi savo netektimi, pama\u010diau du visi\u0161kai skirtingus pasaulius. Viename \u2013 j\u016bs\u0173 begalin\u0117 \u0161viesa ir palaikymas, u\u017e kur\u012f esu giliai d\u0117kinga. Kitame \u2013 \u0161altas cinizmas, bandantis pamokyti, kaip \u201eteisingai\u201c ged\u0117ti ir kaip \u201etur\u0117\u010diau\u201c jaustis.<\/p>\n

Vis dar da\u017enai sakoma: jei mir\u0117 ne \u017emogus, n\u0117ra ko ir verkti. Gavau komentar\u0173, kad li\u016bd\u0117ti vie\u0161ai d\u0117l augintinio netekties yra \u201ekoktu\u201c. Tai bandymas sug\u0117dinti, \u012fsprausti \u012f r\u0117mus ir liepti savo jausmus palikti tik sau…<\/p>\n

Noriu paklausti \u2013 nuo kada meil\u0117 tapo r\u016b\u0161iuojama? Nuo kada i\u0161tikimyb\u0117, trukusi metai i\u0161 met\u0173, tampa ma\u017eiau vertinga tik tod\u0117l, kad ji buvo keturkoj\u0117?<\/p>\n

Mano atsakymas paprastas: tas, kuris moka myl\u0117ti gyv\u016bn\u0105, moka myl\u0117ti ir \u017emog\u0173. Jokia netektis<\/a> n\u0117ra \u201ema\u017ea\u201c, o geb\u0117jimas u\u017ejausti yra did\u017eiausia \u017emogaus vertyb\u0117. O tas, kuriam kito a\u0161aros d\u0117l gyv\u016bno netekties sukelia \u201ekoktum\u0105\u201c, parodo savo paties emocin\u012f skurd\u0105. Toks i\u0161\u0117jo manifestas…<\/p>\n

A\u010di\u016b visiems, kurie suprantate, kad \u0161irdis d\u016b\u017eta ne pagal vadov\u0117l\u012f, o pagal tai, kiek stipriai myl\u0117jai.<\/p>\n

Pakalb\u0117kime apie empatij\u0105 ir emocin\u012f cinizm\u0105. Ar skausmas turi \u201egaliojimo licencij\u0105\u201c? Kokia j\u016bs\u0173 nuomon\u0117?\u201c \u2013 klaus\u0117\u00a0ji.<\/p>\n

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Kvie\u010diame atrasti nauj\u0105 tv3.lt turin\u012f! Nuo \u0161iol portale j\u016bs\u0173 laukia ne tik kasdien nauji testai<\/a>, bet ir kry\u017eia\u017eod\u017eiai <\/a>\u2013 i\u0161bandykite savo \u017einias, spr\u0119skite ir smagiai praleiskite laik\u0105. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Socialiniame tinkle D. Gai\u010di\u016bnait\u0117-Dirm\u0117 pavie\u0161ino nauj\u0105 \u012fra\u0161\u0105.\u00a0\u00a0 Jame moteris pasidalijo savo mintimis apie tai, k\u0105 ji pamat\u0117 vie\u0161ojoje…\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":176249,"comment_status":"","ping_status":"","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[21],"tags":[28283,57,43,113,55,48,54,51,49,50,37,39,36,38,40,45,23,44,114,53,42,56,47,41,46,58,52],"class_list":{"0":"post-176248","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-pramogos","8":"tag-2026-05-12-152500","9":"tag-daiktai","10":"tag-dienos-kronika","11":"tag-entertainment","12":"tag-gatves-tekstai","13":"tag-gyvenimas","14":"tag-interneto-pievos","15":"tag-keliones","16":"tag-kultura","17":"tag-laisvalaikis","18":"tag-lietuva","19":"tag-lietuviu","20":"tag-lithuania","21":"tag-lithuanian","22":"tag-lt","23":"tag-mokslas-ir-it","24":"tag-naujienos","25":"tag-pasaulis","26":"tag-pramogos","27":"tag-projektai","28":"tag-rinktiniai-tekstai","29":"tag-simtmecio-portalas","30":"tag-sportas","31":"tag-tv3-lt","32":"tag-verslas","33":"tag-video","34":"tag-zaidimai"},"share_on_mastodon":{"url":"https:\/\/pubeurope.com\/@lt\/116564050795114250","error":""},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/lt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/176248","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/lt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/lt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/lt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/lt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=176248"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/lt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/176248\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/lt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/176249"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/lt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=176248"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/lt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=176248"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/lt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=176248"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}