{"id":30803,"date":"2025-11-02T13:48:12","date_gmt":"2025-11-02T13:48:12","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/lt\/30803\/"},"modified":"2025-11-02T13:48:12","modified_gmt":"2025-11-02T13:48:12","slug":"stai-koks-laikas-nera-tinkamas-vykti-i-kapus-tiki-kad-sudrumsite-veliu-ramybe","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/lt\/30803\/","title":{"rendered":"\u0160tai koks laikas n\u0117ra tinkamas vykti \u012f kapus: tiki, kad sudrumsite v\u0117li\u0173 ramyb\u0119"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Etnolog\u0117 <a href=\"https:\/\/www.tv3.lt\/gaires\/egle-valente\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">Egl\u0117 Valent\u0117<\/a> pokalbio metu naujien\u0173 portalo <a href=\"https:\/\/www.tv3.lt\/programos\/tv3\/pilna\" target=\"_blank\" class=\"phrase\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">tv3<\/a>.lt skaitytojams i\u0161ry\u0161kino V\u0117lini\u0173 svarb\u0105, o taip pat nurod\u0117, koks paros metas n\u0117ra tinkamas kapin\u0117ms lankyti.<\/p>\n<p>\u201eNuo pa\u010di\u0173 seniausi\u0173 laik\u0173 V\u0117lini\u0173 periodas yra ypatingas. \u0160iomis dienomis mirusi\u0173j\u0173 v\u0117l\u0117s yra pagerbiamos, tad kaip tik tod\u0117l \u0161iuo laiku lankom\u0117s kapin\u0117se.<\/p>\n<p>Ten mes meld\u017eiam\u0117s u\u017e mirusi\u0173j\u0173 prot\u0117vi\u0173 v\u0117les, kad joms b\u016bt\u0173 lengviau patekti \u012f anapusin\u012f pasaul\u012f, \u012f \u0161vies\u0105\u201c, \u2013 pasakojo ji.<\/p>\n<p>  Kapini\u0173 lankymo etiketas <\/p>\n<p>Pasiteiravus pa\u0161nekov\u0117s, kokiais b\u016bdais kapin\u0117se reikt\u0173 pagerbti mirusiuosius, ji pasidalijo keliais i\u0161 j\u0173. Pasak jos, svarbiausias atributas yra \u017evak\u0117s, kuri\u0173 liepsna yra tarsi tiltas tarp dviej\u0173 pasauli\u0173.<\/p>\n<p>\u201eLabai svarbi yra \u017evak\u0117s \u0161viesa, ugnel\u0117, kuri yra kaip tiltas tarp m\u016bs\u0173 ir mirusi\u0173j\u0173. Tai v\u0117li\u0173 kelias, ap\u0161vietimas, \u0161viesa ir \u0161iluma.<\/p>\n<p>Kita vertus, taip pat \u017evak\u0117s yra m\u016bs\u0173 \u0161ird\u017ei\u0173 \u0161iluma, kuri\u0105 atne\u0161ame ir teikiame jiems. Tad \u017evak\u0117\u00a0yra tarsi ry\u0161io stiprinimo su mirusiais simbolis\u201c, \u2013 sak\u0117 ji.<\/p>\n<p>Pa\u0161nekov\u0117 prid\u0117jo, kad, remiantis senosiomis tradicijomis, kapin\u0117se taip pat b\u016bdavo keliamos puotos.<\/p>\n<p>E. Valent\u0117 pasakojo, kad mirusieji b\u016bdavo pagerbiami maistu, o taip pat dar iki \u0161i\u0173 dien\u0173 kai kurie \u201emaitina\u201c v\u0117les atne\u0161dami \u0161io to saldaus \u012f kapines.<\/p>\n<p>\u201e\u017dvak\u0117s ne taip seniai atsirado, o anks\u010diau b\u016bdavo keliami stalai, b\u016bdavo vai\u0161\u0117s ir puota kartu su mirusiaisiais.<\/p>\n<p>Tie laikai yra pra\u0117j\u0119, ta\u010diau ir dabar ka\u017ekas atne\u0161a bandel\u0119, saldain\u012f ar dar ka\u017ek\u0105 ir palieka kapin\u0117se\u201c, \u2013 nurod\u0117 ji.<\/p>\n<p>     <a href=\"https:\/\/www.tv3.lt\/Uploads\/UGallery\/photos\/ee\/69\/7a\/8f\/ee697a8ffc3e5c3960d9c0837297233d.jpg\" data-fancybox=\"photos-embed\" data-caption=\"V\u0117lin\u0117s (nuotr. Fotodiena.lt)\" target=\"_self\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\"> <img decoding=\"async\" class=\"photo-inside-article\" align=\"center\" alt=\"V\u0117lin\u0117s (nuotr. Fotodiena.lt)\" title=\"V\u0117lin\u0117s (nuotr. Fotodiena.lt)\" src=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/ee697a8ffc3e5c3960d9c0837297233d.jpg\" width=\"684\" height=\"654\" loading=\"lazy\" \/> <\/a>       Ko negalima daryti kapin\u0117se? <\/p>\n<p>Specialist\u0117s pasiteiravus, kuo kapin\u0117se u\u017esiimti nereik\u0117t\u0173, ji nurod\u0117 kelias veiklas. Pirmiausia, ji atkreip\u0117 d\u0117mes\u012f \u012f besaikius kiekius sodinam\u0173 arba atne\u0161am\u0173 gyv\u0173 g\u0117li\u0173.<\/p>\n<p>\u201eMes pagerbiame kapus sodindami, atne\u0161dami g\u0117li\u0173, ta\u010diau tai n\u0117ra b\u016btinas dalykas, nes metas pakankamai v\u0117sus.<\/p>\n<p>G\u0117l\u0117s \u017eiedas yra daugiau susij\u0119s su gyvybe, o su mirtimi neturi tiek bendro. Vis tik saikingas j\u0173 kiekis kaip pagarbos \u017eenklas yra galimas\u201c, \u2013 paai\u0161kino ji.<\/p>\n<p>Kitas veiksmas, kurio etnolog\u0117 patar\u0117 kapin\u0117se nedaryti, buvo triuk\u0161mavimas. Ji pasakojo, kad kapin\u0117s \u2013 tai rimties, o ne linksmybi\u0173 vieta.<\/p>\n<p>\u201eTriuk\u0161mauti nevalia niekur, nes beprasmis, kvailas triuk\u0161mas n\u0117ra malda, daina, harmonija ir derm\u0117, kurios tinkamos \u0161iai dienai\u201c, \u2013 nurod\u0117 ji.<\/p>\n<p>E. Valent\u0117 patar\u0117 at\u0117jus \u012f kapines susikaupti ir jeigu ne \u017eod\u017eiais, tai bent mintimis pasikalb\u0117ti su mirusiaisiais, taip atiduodant jiems pagarb\u0105.<\/p>\n<p> Kada negalima lankyti kapini\u0173? <\/p>\n<p>Galiausiai, pra\u0161nekus apie laik\u0105, kada galima lankyti kapines, o kada ne,\u00a0E. Valent\u0117 i\u0161sak\u0117 savo po\u017ei\u016br\u012f.<\/p>\n<p>Pasak jos, n\u0117ra patartina kapini\u0173 lankyti naktimis, nes tai ne tik nesaugu, ta\u010diau taip pat gali sudrumsti v\u0117li\u0173 ramyb\u0119.<\/p>\n<p>\u201eNaktis yra toks metas, kuris skirtas miegui ir buvimui namie. Juo labiau, kad m\u016bs\u0173 toks klimatas, kad naktimis b\u016bna \u0161alta, nesinori eiti i\u0161 nam\u0173.<\/p>\n<p>\u017dinoma, buvo tikima, kad nereikt\u0173 vaik\u0161\u010dioti naktimis po kapines. Juk, gal\u0173 gale, mes tamsoje nematome, neturime toki\u0173 aki\u0173, kaip kat\u0117s\u201c, \u2013 teig\u0117 ji.<\/p>\n<p>Pa\u0161nekov\u0117 prid\u0117jo, kad taip pat naktimis aktyvesn\u0117s m\u016bs\u0173 baim\u0117s, tad reik\u0117t\u0173 kliautis senov\u0117s i\u0161mintimi ir tamsiuoju paros metu ils\u0117tis.<\/p>\n<p>\u201e\u012evair\u016bs negeri nutikimai da\u017eniausiai nutinka tamsiuoju paros metu. Tai susieti su mirusiaisiais ka\u017ein ar verta, bet jeigu mes tikime, kad v\u0117l\u0117s naktimis aktyviau veikia, tai veikia labiau ir m\u016bs\u0173 baim\u0117s tamsiuoju paros metu.<\/p>\n<p>Tad, savaime suprantama, tamsa skirta miego b\u016bsenai, o \u0161viesa \u2013 tam, kad b\u016btume budr\u016bs, u\u017esiimtume savo veiklomis\u201c, \u2013 paai\u0161kino ji.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Etnolog\u0117 Egl\u0117 Valent\u0117 pokalbio metu naujien\u0173 portalo tv3.lt skaitytojams i\u0161ry\u0161kino V\u0117lini\u0173 svarb\u0105, o taip pat nurod\u0117, koks paros&hellip;\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":30804,"comment_status":"","ping_status":"","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[6],"tags":[8857,25,30,31,57,43,34,35,55,48,24,54,51,49,50,32,33,37,39,36,38,40,45,23,22,44,28,29,53,42,56,47,26,27,41,46,58,52],"class_list":{"0":"post-30803","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-antrastes","8":"tag-2025-11-02-123000","9":"tag-antrastes","10":"tag-breaking-news","11":"tag-breakingnews","12":"tag-daiktai","13":"tag-dienos-kronika","14":"tag-featured-news","15":"tag-featurednews","16":"tag-gatves-tekstai","17":"tag-gyvenimas","18":"tag-headlines","19":"tag-interneto-pievos","20":"tag-keliones","21":"tag-kultura","22":"tag-laisvalaikis","23":"tag-latest-news","24":"tag-latestnews","25":"tag-lietuva","26":"tag-lietuviu","27":"tag-lithuania","28":"tag-lithuanian","29":"tag-lt","30":"tag-mokslas-ir-it","31":"tag-naujienos","32":"tag-news","33":"tag-pasaulis","34":"tag-populiariausios-naujienos","35":"tag-populiariausiosnaujienos","36":"tag-projektai","37":"tag-rinktiniai-tekstai","38":"tag-simtmecio-portalas","39":"tag-sportas","40":"tag-top-stories","41":"tag-topstories","42":"tag-tv3-lt","43":"tag-verslas","44":"tag-video","45":"tag-zaidimai"},"share_on_mastodon":{"url":"","error":"Validation failed: Text character limit of 500 exceeded"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/lt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/30803","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/lt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/lt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/lt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/lt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=30803"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/lt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/30803\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/lt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/30804"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/lt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=30803"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/lt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=30803"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/lt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=30803"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}