{"id":35541,"date":"2025-11-08T14:59:04","date_gmt":"2025-11-08T14:59:04","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/lt\/35541\/"},"modified":"2025-11-08T14:59:04","modified_gmt":"2025-11-08T14:59:04","slug":"indre-burlinskaite-apie-patycias-ar-musu-visuomeneje-tai-tapo-norma","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/lt\/35541\/","title":{"rendered":"Indr\u0117 Burlinskait\u0117 \u2013 apie paty\u010dias: ar m\u016bs\u0173 visuomen\u0117je tai tapo norma?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>\u201eInstagram\u201c, o tuo pa\u010diu ir \u201eFacebook\u201c paskyrose pasidalijusi \u201ereels\u201c vaizdo \u012fra\u0161u, kuriame \u012fam\u017einta, kaip ji d\u017eiaugiasi sulaukusi dovanos, I. Burlinskait\u0117 v\u0117l sulauk\u0117 komentar\u0173 lavinos.<\/p>\n<p>\u201ePo ligos dar vertini tu\u0161tyb\u0119?\u201c \u2013 dr\u012fso v\u0117\u017eiu sirgusios Indr\u0117s paklausti viena komentator\u0117.<\/p>\n<p>\u201eKokios ligos? Ji nesirgo jokia liga. \u010cia lengvatikiams pudrino smegenis. Jos ligonin\u0117s palatos buvo plastikos chirurgijos palatos\u201c, \u2013 ankstesnei komentatorei r\u0117\u017e\u0117 kita. <\/p>\n<p>\u201eSmegen\u0173 nusiurbimo operacij\u0105 jai dar\u0117\u201c, \u2013 pyk\u010diu pratr\u016bko kita. <\/p>\n<p>Ir tai tik dalis nemaloni\u0173 pasisakym\u0173.<\/p>\n<p>\u201ePastaruoju metu pastebiu, kad paty\u010di\u0173 ir negatyvo socialiniuose tinkluose \u2013 ypa\u010d \u201eFacebook\u2019e\u201c \u2013 vis daug\u0117ja. Po beveik kiekvienu mano \u012fra\u0161u pasipila neigiami komentarai: paty\u010dios, u\u017egauliojimai, bandymai menkinti. Kartais net atrodo, kad jokios ribos jau neb\u0117ra\u201c, \u2013 reaguodama \u012f juos, socialiniuose tinkluose neseniai kalb\u0117jo Indr\u0117. <\/p>\n<p>D\u0117l \u0161ios prie\u017easties ji sak\u0117 jau ne kart\u0105 svars\u010diusi i\u0161trinti \u201eFacebok\u201c paskyr\u0105. <\/p>\n<p>\u201eMane sulaiko tai, kad visi \u012fra\u0161ai i\u0161 \u201eInstagram\u201c automati\u0161kai persikelia ir ten \u2013 o tai svarbu d\u0117l per\u017ei\u016br\u0173 bei u\u017esakov\u0173. Be to, kartais reklamos u\u017esakovai pra\u0161o pasidalinti turiniu ir \u201eFacebook\u2019e\u201c. Tad kol kas dar i\u0161lieku \u0161ioje platformoje. <\/p>\n<p>\u0160iandien, gerdama rytin\u0119 kav\u0105, tiesiog pagalvojau: kaip sunkiai m\u016bs\u0173 \u201eFacebook\u2019o\u201c komentatori\u0173 armija dirba! Tok\u012f \u201esvarb\u0173 darb\u0105\u201c jie atlieka \u2013 pila purv\u0105 ant kit\u0173 \u017emoni\u0173, menkina, \u017eemina. Jiems tai, matyt, suteikia ka\u017ekok\u012f pasitenkinim\u0105.<\/p>\n<p>Paprastai a\u0161 \u012f tokius dalykus nereaguoju \u2013 nebeskaitau komentar\u0173, numoju ranka. Per tiek met\u0173 i\u0161mokau suprasti, kad visa tai \u2013 ne apie mane, o apie juos pa\u010dius. Ta\u010diau \u0161iandien u\u017ekabino. Gal tod\u0117l, kad ir mano artimi \u017emon\u0117s sureagavo \u2013 buvo li\u016bdna matyti tiek neapykantos po visi\u0161kai paprastu, d\u017eiaugsmingu \u012fra\u0161u\u201c, \u2013 kalb\u0117jo Indr\u0117. <\/p>\n<p>Komentarai pasipyl\u0117 po \u201ereels\u201c vaizdo \u012fra\u0161u, kuriame Indr\u0117 d\u017eiaugiasi sulaukusi dovanos.  <\/p>\n<p>\u201eKa\u017ekam, pasirodo, mano d\u017eiaugsmas tapo prie\u017eastimi i\u0161lieti pykt\u012f. Per \u0161\u012f laik\u0105 supratau vien\u0105 dalyk\u0105: tu diva esi tada, kai esi silpna, kai esi negra\u017ei, kai jauti skausm\u0105 \u0161irdy. Tada tu visiems esi diva. Bet kai atsistoji ant koj\u0173&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Linkiu visiems, kurie susiduria su tuo pa\u010diu, suprasti: tai ne apie jus. Tai apie tuos \u017emones, kurie taip elgiasi.<\/p>\n<p>Ir visai nenuostabu, kad vis daugiau talenting\u0173, k\u016brybing\u0173 \u017emoni\u0173 i\u0161vyksta i\u0161 Lietuvos, nebenori \u010dia gr\u012f\u017eti, duoti interviu, eiti \u012f renginius. Nes kad ir kaip atrodysi, kad ir k\u0105 pasakysi \u2013 vis tiek atsiras, kas pils purv\u0105.<\/p>\n<p>A\u0161 savo stipryb\u0117s jau turiu. Jos reik\u0117jo tada, kai sirgau, kai i\u0161 ties\u0173 buvo sunku. O dabar suprantu \u2013 visa kita yra tik triuk\u0161mas\u201c, \u2013 kalb\u0117jo I. 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