{"id":195514,"date":"2026-05-05T22:02:49","date_gmt":"2026-05-05T22:02:49","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/lv\/195514\/"},"modified":"2026-05-05T22:02:49","modified_gmt":"2026-05-05T22:02:49","slug":"meitin-si-ir-pedeja-aploksne","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/lv\/195514\/","title":{"rendered":"Meiti\u0146, \u0161\u012b ir p\u0113d\u0113j\u0101 aploksne"},"content":{"rendered":"

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Liep\u0101j\u0101 pavasaris vienm\u0113r atn\u0101k cit\u0101d\u0101k nek\u0101 citur Latvij\u0101. Te nav l\u0113na atku\u0161\u0146a \u2013 te ir ass, s\u0101\u013c\u0161 j\u016bras v\u0113j\u0161, kas izdzen\u0101 p\u0113d\u0113jos m\u0101ko\u0146us, un saule, kas p\u0113k\u0161\u0146i s\u0101k kars\u0113t t\u0101, ka gribas nomest ziemas m\u0113te\u013cus jau marta vid\u016b.<\/p>\n

\u0160ogad pavasaris Liep\u0101jas iel\u0101s ien\u0101ca reiz\u0113 ar skumj\u0101m zi\u0146\u0101m m\u016bsu \u0123imen\u0113. T\u0113vs, kur\u0161 p\u0113d\u0113jos gadus klusi dzisa m\u016bsu vecaj\u0101 Karostas dz\u012bvokl\u012b, beidzot bija devies m\u016b\u017e\u012bb\u0101.<\/p>\n

Mamma Rasma uz b\u0113r\u0113m ierad\u0101s no Sp\u0101nijas. Vi\u0146a tur bija nodz\u012bvojusi piecpadsmit gadus, str\u0101d\u0101jot un s\u016btot m\u0101j\u0101s katru nopeln\u012bto eiro. Vi\u0146a bija m\u016bsu \u0123imenes neredzamais motors, kas darbin\u0101ja visu \u2013 s\u0101kot no manu studiju apmaksas un beidzot ar t\u0113va d\u0101rgaj\u0101m proced\u016br\u0101m.<\/p>\n

Kad es vi\u0146u ieraudz\u012bju izk\u0101pjam no lidostas taksometra pie m\u016bsu m\u0101jas durv\u012bm, es sastingstot paliku st\u0101vot uz trotu\u0101ra. Zem vi\u0146as viegl\u0101, gai\u0161i zil\u0101 pavasara m\u0113te\u013ca, kas pland\u012bja v\u0113j\u0101, skaidri iez\u012bm\u0113j\u0101s apa\u013cums, ko nevar\u0113ja sajaukt ne ar ko citu. Mamma bija gaid\u012bb\u0101s. 52 gadu vecum\u0101.<\/p>\n

Taj\u0101 br\u012bd\u012b man pr\u0101t\u0101 pazib\u0113ja simtiem jaut\u0101jumu, bet b\u0113ru dienas klusums un godbij\u012bba ne\u013c\u0101va tos uzdot ska\u013ci. M\u0113s visi \u2013 es, mans br\u0101lis Normunds un da\u017ei tuv\u0101kie radi \u2013 aizvad\u012bj\u0101m t\u0113vu p\u0113d\u0113j\u0101 gait\u0101.<\/p>\n

P\u0113c ceremonijas m\u0113s atgriez\u0101mies m\u0101j\u0101s. Saule jau riet\u0113ja virs ostas celt\u0146iem, kr\u0101sojot debesis purpura kr\u0101s\u0101, un m\u0113s ar mammu aps\u0113d\u0101mies virtuv\u0113, kur v\u0113l joproj\u0101m smar\u017eoja p\u0113c t\u0113va iecien\u012bt\u0101s t\u0113jas.<\/p>\n

\"L\u012bgai<\/a>Citi lasaL\u012bgai (36) no C\u0113s\u012bm p\u0113k\u0161\u0146i kont\u0101 ien\u0101ca 3000 euro summa, bet v\u012bra Ginta r\u012bc\u012bba p\u0113c tam lika r\u012bkoties strauji<\/a><\/p>\n

Mamma l\u0113n\u0101m novilka m\u0113teli, it k\u0101 beidzot atbr\u012bvojoties no k\u0101da smaga sloga. Vi\u0146a iz\u0146\u0113ma no somas biezu, baltu aploksni un nolika to uz koka galda starp mums.<\/p>\n

\u2014 Aija, meiti\u0146, \u2014 vi\u0146a teica, skatoties tie\u0161i man ac\u012bs. \u2014 \u0160\u012b ir p\u0113d\u0113j\u0101 liel\u0101 aploksne, ko es jums dodu. Esmu nol\u0113musi, ka no \u0161\u012b br\u012b\u017ea finansi\u0101lais atbalsts beigsies.<\/p>\n

Es s\u016bt\u012b\u0161u d\u0101vanas mazb\u0113rniem dzim\u0161anas dien\u0101s, es pal\u012bdz\u0113\u0161u, ja notiks kas patie\u0161\u0101m kritisks, bet es vairs nevaru un negribu b\u016bt j\u016bsu past\u0101v\u012bgais ien\u0101kumu avots.<\/p>\n

Es skat\u012bjos uz vi\u0146u un tad uz vi\u0146as v\u0113deru. Taj\u0101 br\u012bd\u012b es sajutu t\u0101du k\u0101 nodev\u012bbu.<\/p>\n

\u2014 Es redzu, ka nevari, \u2014 es atteicu, un mana balss skan\u0113ja aizlauzti. \u2014 Tev tagad ir citi priorit\u0101tes, vai ne?<\/p>\n

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Piecpadsmit gadi, kas velt\u012bti citam: Ko m\u0113s beidzot saprat\u0101m p\u0113c tik ilga klusuma<\/p>\n

Kop\u0161 2011. gada, kad mamma dev\u0101s uz Sp\u0101niju, m\u0113s ar Normundu bij\u0101m pieradu\u0161i pie noteiktas k\u0101rt\u012bbas. Vi\u0146a str\u0101d\u0101ja Alikantes pus\u0113, kopa m\u0101jas un d\u0101rzus bag\u0101tiem pension\u0101riem, bet m\u0113s \u0161eit, Liep\u0101j\u0101, sa\u0146\u0113m\u0101m naudas p\u0101rskait\u012bjumus.<\/p>\n

\"Tikai<\/a>Citi lasaTikai piens un \u0137iploks: k\u0101 20 min\u016bt\u0113s pagatavot pilnu rituli garda m\u0101jas siera<\/a><\/p>\n

Normunds ar \u0161o naudu pabeidza j\u016brskolu, es iek\u0101rtoju savu pirmo dz\u012bvokli, un m\u0113s abi vienm\u0113r zin\u0101j\u0101m \u2013 ja pietr\u016bks naudas jaun\u0101m kurp\u0113m vai auto remontam, mamma pal\u012bdz\u0113s.<\/p>\n

M\u0113s nekad nebij\u0101m vi\u0146ai pras\u012bju\u0161i, k\u0101 vi\u0146a tur j\u016btas. M\u0113s nekad nebij\u0101m interes\u0113ju\u0161ies, vai vi\u0146ai pa\u0161ai pietiek naudas jaunai kleitai vai vakari\u0146\u0101m restor\u0101n\u0101.<\/p>\n

M\u0113s uztv\u0113r\u0101m vi\u0146as darbu k\u0101 pa\u0161saprotamu pien\u0101kumu. Mamma ta\u010du ir stipra, mamma iztur\u0113s. Mammai nekas cits dz\u012bv\u0113 vairs nav vajadz\u012bgs, k\u0101 tikai redz\u0113t m\u016bs laim\u012bgus \u0161eit, Latvij\u0101.<\/p>\n

\u2014 Mamm, tu ta\u010du sol\u012bji, \u2014 es m\u0113\u0123in\u0101ju iebilst. \u2014 Tu teici, ka m\u0113s esam tava vien\u012bg\u0101 \u0123imene un ka tu dar\u012bsi visu, lai mums kl\u0101tos lab\u0101k. Normundam tikko piedzima meiti\u0146a, man darb\u0101 tagad ir gr\u016bti laiki\u2026 K\u0101 m\u0113s tagad pa\u0161i?<\/p>\n

Mamma viegli nop\u016bt\u0101s un uzlika roku uz sava v\u0113dera.<\/p>\n

\u2014 Aija, j\u016bs esat pieaugu\u0161i. Jums abiem ir p\u0101ri tr\u012bsdesmit. Es jums pal\u012bdz\u0113ju piecpadsmit gadus. Esmu atdevusi visu savu jaun\u012bbu un sp\u0113ku, lai j\u016bs nejustu tr\u016bkumu.<\/p>\n

Bet tagad man ir j\u0101s\u0101k dom\u0101t par savu dz\u012bvi. Es ar\u012b gribu justies m\u012bl\u0113ta un vajadz\u012bga ne tikai k\u0101 naudas maks.<\/p>\n

\u2014 Sajusties m\u012bl\u0113ta? \u2014 es apstulbu un mirkli nesp\u0113ju atrast \u012bstos v\u0101rdus, lai izteiktu savu neizpratni. \u2014 Mamm, tev ir piecdesmit divi gadi, un tu esi gaid\u012bb\u0101s! Vai tu maz aptver, k\u0101da b\u016bs cilv\u0113ku reakcija?<\/p>\n

\"Ko<\/a>Citi lasaKo pievienot maltajai ga\u013cai puf\u012bgumam: gatavojam sul\u012bgas kotletes bez maizes \u2013 3 lab\u0101k\u0101s alternat\u012bvas<\/a><\/p>\n

Ko par to padom\u0101s visi m\u016bsu kaimi\u0146i \u0161eit, Liep\u0101j\u0101, un ko teiks radinieki, kad to uzzin\u0101s? Tas viss izklaus\u0101s p\u0113c kaut k\u0101da piln\u012bga nepr\u0101ta, kam ir gr\u016bti notic\u0113t! Kas visp\u0101r ir \u0161\u012b b\u0113rna t\u0113vs, un k\u0101 tas viss ir iesp\u0113jams?<\/p>\n

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Jolanta (34) realiz\u0113ja sapni par m\u0101ju Ventspil\u012b, ta\u010du pension\u0101res Tam\u0101ras r\u012bc\u012bba piespieda nomain\u012bt atsl\u0113gas<\/a><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n

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Sp\u0101nijas saules nosl\u0113pums Liep\u0101jas v\u0113j\u0101<\/p>\n

Mamma neizskat\u012bj\u0101s ne samulsusi, ne nokaun\u0113jusies.<\/p>\n

\u2014 Mans v\u012brs, Aija. Vi\u0146u sauc Huans. Vi\u0146\u0161 ir br\u012bni\u0161\u0137\u012bgs cilv\u0113ks, kuram pieder neliela ol\u012bvu birzs. M\u0113s esam prec\u0113ju\u0161i jau tr\u012bs gadus.<\/p>\n

Es jutos t\u0101, it k\u0101 zeme zem k\u0101j\u0101m b\u016btu s\u0101kusi \u0161\u016bpoties.<\/p>\n

\u2014 Tr\u012bs gadus? Un tu mums to nepateici? M\u0113s visu \u0161o laiku dom\u0101j\u0101m, ka tu tur viena pati raujies meln\u0101s mies\u0101s, lai m\u0113s \u0161eit var\u0113tu mier\u012bgi dz\u012bvot!<\/p>\n

\u2014 Es jums neteicu, jo zin\u0101ju, ka j\u016bsu vien\u012bg\u0101 interese b\u016bs \u2013 vai nauda joproj\u0101m n\u0101ks, \u2014 mamma mier\u012bgi turpin\u0101ja. \u2014 Ja es b\u016btu pateikusi, ka esmu laim\u012bga un man ir v\u012brietis, j\u016bs uzreiz s\u0101ktu satraukties, ka mana uzman\u012bba un l\u012bdzek\u013ci vairs netiks tikai jums.<\/p>\n

\"K\u0101p\u0113c<\/a>Citi lasaK\u0101p\u0113c paties\u012bb\u0101 nedr\u012bkst strauji atlaist saj\u016bgu un griezt st\u016bri l\u012bdz galam: k\u0101 darbojas auto meh\u0101nismi<\/a><\/p>\n

Es s\u016bt\u012bju naudu, es apmaks\u0101ju t\u0113va apr\u016bpi l\u012bdz p\u0113d\u0113jai dienai, es izpild\u012bju savu sol\u012bjumu pret j\u016bsu pag\u0101tni. Bet tagad es eju uz priek\u0161u.<\/p>\n

Man b\u016bs b\u0113rns, un man j\u0101r\u016bp\u0113jas par to, lai vi\u0146am b\u016btu m\u0101te, kas nav nodz\u012bta l\u012bdz sp\u0113ku izs\u012bkumam.<\/p>\n

Taj\u0101 vakar\u0101, kam\u0113r Liep\u0101jas j\u016bra aiz loga bangoja un v\u0113j\u0161 sit\u0101s stiklos, es sapratu, ka mana b\u0113rn\u012bba ir beigusies tie\u0161i \u0161obr\u012bd.<\/p>\n

Ne tad, kad es pabeidzu skolu, ne tad, kad s\u0101ku str\u0101d\u0101t, bet tie\u0161i tagad, kad mamma beidzot pateica \u201cn\u0113\u201d.<\/p>\n

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Br\u0101\u013ca sa\u0161utums un skarb\u0101 atzi\u0146a P\u0101rventas daudzst\u0101vu namos<\/p>\n

Kad Normunds uzzin\u0101ja par mammas gaid\u0101mo mazuli un l\u0113mumu p\u0101rtraukt naudas s\u016bt\u012b\u0161anu, vi\u0146a reakcija bija v\u0113l as\u0101ka nek\u0101 man\u0113j\u0101. Vi\u0146\u0161 vienm\u0113r bija bijis mammas m\u012blul\u012btis, tas, kuram \u201cvair\u0101k vajadz\u0113ja\u201d.<\/p>\n

M\u0113s satik\u0101mies p\u0101ris dienas v\u0113l\u0101k neliel\u0101 kafejn\u012bc\u0101 pie Ro\u017eu laukuma. \u0100r\u0101 sp\u012bd\u0113ja spo\u017ea pavasara saule, cilv\u0113ki smaid\u012bja, bet Normunda seja bija tum\u0161\u0101ka par negaisa m\u0101koni.<\/p>\n

\u2014 Tas ir nepr\u0101ts, Aija! \u2014 vi\u0146\u0161 r\u012bst\u012bj\u0101s, malkojot kafiju. \u2014 K\u0101 vi\u0146a var\u0113ja? M\u0113s r\u0113\u0137in\u0101j\u0101mies ar to naudu vismaz l\u012bdz n\u0101kamajam gadam! Man ir aizdevums par ma\u0161\u012bnu, sieva v\u0113l ir m\u0101j\u0101s ar mazo\u2026 Vi\u0146a m\u016bs vienk\u0101r\u0161i pamet pusce\u013c\u0101!<\/p>\n

Un tas b\u0113rns\u2026 Vi\u0146ai t\u016bl\u012bt b\u016bs pensija, bet vi\u0146a tais\u0101s aukl\u0113ties? Kur\u0161 vi\u0146ai pal\u012bdz\u0113s, kad vi\u0146a netiks gal\u0101?<\/p>\n

(Turpin\u0101jumu par br\u0101\u013ca Normunda reakciju un to, k\u0101 m\u016bsu dz\u012bve main\u012bj\u0101s p\u0113c \u0161\u012bs p\u0113d\u0113j\u0101s aploksnes, lasiet n\u0101kamaj\u0101 lap\u0101)<\/p>\n

\"Zeme<\/a>Citi lasaZeme p\u0101rv\u0113rt\u012bsies \u201cbeton\u0101\u201d: likten\u012bga k\u013c\u016bda ar pelniem, ko pie\u013cauj pat pieredz\u0113ju\u0161i d\u0101rznieki<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Liep\u0101j\u0101 pavasaris vienm\u0113r atn\u0101k cit\u0101d\u0101k nek\u0101 citur Latvij\u0101. Te nav l\u0113na atku\u0161\u0146a \u2013 te ir ass, s\u0101\u013c\u0161 j\u016bras…\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":195515,"comment_status":"","ping_status":"","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[5],"tags":[23,28,29,32,33,22,30,31,35,39,38,36,37,34,40,20,26,27,24,25,21],"class_list":{"0":"post-195514","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-aktualitates","8":"tag-aktualitates","9":"tag-breaking-news","10":"tag-breakingnews","11":"tag-featured-news","12":"tag-featurednews","13":"tag-headlines","14":"tag-latest-news","15":"tag-latestnews","16":"tag-latvia","17":"tag-latvian","18":"tag-latviesu","19":"tag-latviesu-valoda","20":"tag-latviesuvaloda","21":"tag-latvija","22":"tag-lv","23":"tag-news","24":"tag-popularakas-zinas","25":"tag-popularakaszinas","26":"tag-top-stories","27":"tag-topstories","28":"tag-zinas"},"share_on_mastodon":{"url":"https:\/\/pubeurope.com\/@lv\/116524233915469718","error":""},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/lv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/195514","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/lv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/lv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/lv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/lv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=195514"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/lv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/195514\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/lv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/195515"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/lv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=195514"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/lv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=195514"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/lv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=195514"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}