{"id":23072,"date":"2025-10-17T05:10:09","date_gmt":"2025-10-17T05:10:09","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/lv\/23072\/"},"modified":"2025-10-17T05:10:09","modified_gmt":"2025-10-17T05:10:09","slug":"ilgi-esam-kopa-bet-kazu-zvanu-ka-nav-ta-nav-zilnieces-rubinas-skaidrojums","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/lv\/23072\/","title":{"rendered":"Ilgi esam kop\u0101, bet k\u0101zu zvanu k\u0101 nav, t\u0101 nav: z\u012blnieces Rub\u012bnas skaidrojums"},"content":{"rendered":"

Ikviens no mums
\nzina k\u0101du p\u0101ri, kas gadiem ilgi ir attiec\u012bb\u0101s, m\u012bl viens otru, dz\u012bvo kop\u0101, labi
\nsaprotas, bet k\u0101zu zvani t\u0101 ar\u012b klus\u0113. Kam\u0113r da\u017ei saka, ka t\u0101 ir vi\u0146u kop\u012bg\u0101
\nizv\u0113le, citi dom\u0101, ka tur kaut kas tom\u0113r nav l\u012bdz galam skaidrs. Un nereti
\nvienam no partneriem sirds dzi\u013cumos tom\u0113r gribas k\u0101zas, bet, kad runa non\u0101k
\nl\u012bdz laul\u012bb\u0101m, vienm\u0113r atrodas k\u0101ds \u201cne tagad\u201d, \u201cnav \u012bstais br\u012bdis\u201d vai \u201ckam to
\nvisp\u0101r vajag\u201d. \u0160\u0101das situ\u0101cijas m\u0113dz ievilkties gadiem, radot spriedzi un
\nneizpratni \u2013 vai
\nt\u0101 tie\u0161\u0101m ir tikai izv\u0113le, vai ar\u012b sl\u0113pjas kas dzi\u013c\u0101ks? Atbildi uz \u0161o pi\u0146\u0137er\u012bgo
\njaut\u0101jumu sniedz z\u012blniece Rub\u012bna<\/a> ar gadiem ilgu pieredzi
\ncilv\u0113ku likte\u0146u las\u012b\u0161an\u0101 un \u0123imenes laimes sak\u0101rto\u0161an\u0101.<\/p>\n

Kad m\u012blest\u012bba sastopas ar ener\u0123\u0113tiskiem \u0161\u0137\u0113r\u0161\u013ciem<\/p>\n

Laul\u012bbas
\nvilcin\u0101\u0161an\u0101s ne vienm\u0113r noz\u012bm\u0113, ka m\u012blest\u012bbas nav. Da\u017ek\u0101rt cilv\u0113ku bremz\u0113
\niepriek\u0161\u0113j\u0101s s\u0101pes, bailes zaud\u0113t br\u012bv\u012bbu vai pat zemapzi\u0146as saj\u016bta, ka kaut
\nkas attiec\u012bb\u0101s v\u0113l nav l\u012bdzsvar\u0101. Rub\u012bna st\u0101sta, ka aiz \u0161\u0101diem gad\u012bjumiem
\nnereti sl\u0113pjas ar\u012b ener\u0123\u0113tiski mezgli, kas k\u0101 neredzamas saites kav\u0113 attiec\u012bbu
\nizaugsmi l\u012bdz laul\u012bbai. P\u0101ra starp\u0101 var b\u016bt biju\u0161\u0101s attiec\u012bbas, sarauti
\nsol\u012bjumi vai pat skaud\u012bbas \u0113nas no malas. Z\u012blniece skaidro, ka \u0161\u0101d\u0101s attiec\u012bb\u0101s
\nbie\u017ei j\u016btams neizskaidrojams smagums, it k\u0101 viss b\u016btu labi, bet kaut kas l\u012bdz
\ngalam nav. T\u0101 var b\u016bt karmiska m\u0101c\u012bba, kas abiem partneriem j\u0101izdz\u012bvo, pirms
\nvi\u0146i var spert soli t\u0101l\u0101k. K\u0101ds no vi\u0146iem var nest iepriek\u0161\u0113j\u0101s dz\u012bves
\nsol\u012bjumus vai nesaska\u0146as, kas neapzin\u0101ti atspogu\u013cojas \u0161aj\u0101 dz\u012bv\u0113 un izpau\u017eas k\u0101
\nbailes no ap\u0146em\u0161an\u0101s vai v\u0113l\u0113\u0161an\u0101s saglab\u0101t neatkar\u012bbu.<\/p>\n

Tom\u0113r ne vienm\u0113r
\nc\u0113lonis ir tikai iek\u0161\u0113js. Reiz\u0113m attiec\u012bbas ietekm\u0113 ar\u012b \u0101r\u0113j\u0101s ener\u0123ijas,
\npiem\u0113ram, k\u0101da cita cilv\u0113ka apzin\u0101ta vai neapzin\u0101ta skaud\u012bba un slikta
\nv\u0113l\u0113jumi, kas var rad\u012bt spriedzi un nesaska\u0146as attiec\u012bb\u0101s.<\/p>\n

\u0160\u0101dos gad\u012bjumos
\nviens vai abi partneri var sajust nepamatotu spriedzi, aukstumu vai atk\u0101rtotus
\nkonfliktus, kas par\u0101d\u0101s it k\u0101 no nekurienes. Atbilde var b\u016bt mekl\u0113jama ar\u012b
\ndzimtas l\u0101stos, kad vair\u0101k\u0101s paaudz\u0113s atk\u0101rtojas viens un tas pats scen\u0101rijs \u2013 laul\u012bbas p\u0113k\u0161\u0146i izj\u016bk, partneri
\npaz\u016bd vai ar\u012b m\u012blest\u012bba vienm\u0113r paliek \u201cpusce\u013c\u0101\u201d. Rub\u012bna nor\u0101da, ka \u0161ie
\nscen\u0101riji var b\u016bt iestr\u0101d\u0101ti dzimtas ener\u0123\u0113tiskaj\u0101 lauk\u0101 un tie prasa dzi\u013cu
\natt\u012br\u012b\u0161anu, lai apburtais loks beidzot tiktu p\u0101rrauts. Kam\u0113r \u0161\u012b ener\u0123ija nav
\natt\u012br\u012bta, k\u0101zu zvani vienk\u0101r\u0161i nevar skan\u0113t. <\/p>\n

Z\u012blniece Rub\u012bna pal\u012bdz atv\u0113rt m\u012blest\u012bbas ce\u013cu<\/p>\n

Z\u012blniece Rub\u012bna ir
\npal\u012bdz\u0113jusi daudziem p\u0101riem, kuri gadiem dz\u012bvoju\u0161i kop\u0101 bez laul\u012bbas. P\u0113c
\nz\u012blnieces konsult\u0101cij\u0101m un ener\u0123\u0113tisk\u0101s t\u012br\u012b\u0161anas cilv\u0113ki jutu\u0161i p\u0101rmai\u0146as, k\u0101
\nrezult\u0101t\u0101 attiec\u012bb\u0101s par\u0101d\u012bjies vieglums, abpus\u0113ja v\u0113lme spert soli uz priek\u0161u,
\nun dr\u012bz p\u0113c tam n\u0101k ar\u012b ilgi gaid\u012bt\u0101s laul\u012bbas. Z\u012blniece Rub\u012bna<\/a> ne tikai lasa ener\u0123iju, bet
\nar\u012b iedod sp\u0113ku r\u012bkoties, main\u012bt domas, atlaist pag\u0101tni un pie\u0146emt m\u012blest\u012bbu
\npiln\u012bb\u0101. Tie\u0161i vi\u0146as sirsn\u012bg\u0101, cilv\u0113c\u012bg\u0101 pieeja padar\u012bjusi Rub\u012bnu par iem\u012b\u013cotu
\npadomdev\u0113ju gan jaun\u0101m meiten\u0113m, gan siev\u0101m, kuras grib atjaunot m\u012blest\u012bbu
\n\u0123imen\u0113.<\/p>\n

Ja ar\u012b j\u016bs ilgi
\nesat kop\u0101, bet k\u0101zas nen\u0101k, Rub\u012bna, z\u012blniece J\u0113kabpil\u012b, tel. 27141978 var pal\u012bdz\u0113t
\npaskat\u012bties dzi\u013c\u0101k. Vi\u0146a redz ne tikai to, kas notiek \u0101r\u0113ji, bet ar\u012b to, kas ir
\nener\u0123ijas l\u012bmen\u012b. Iesp\u0113jams, tie\u0161i tur sl\u0113pjas atbilde, k\u0101p\u0113c j\u016bsu ce\u013c\u0161 l\u012bdz
\nlaul\u012bbai kav\u0113jas.<\/p>\n

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