{"id":39588,"date":"2025-11-04T09:17:09","date_gmt":"2025-11-04T09:17:09","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/lv\/39588\/"},"modified":"2025-11-04T09:17:09","modified_gmt":"2025-11-04T09:17:09","slug":"vardarbiba-gimene-ir-vesela-sistema-to-iemacamies-tapat-ka-est-ar-karoti-vai-staigat-raksts","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/lv\/39588\/","title":{"rendered":"Vardarb\u012bba \u0123imen\u0113 ir vesela sist\u0113ma \u2013 to iem\u0101c\u0101mies t\u0101pat k\u0101 \u0113st ar karoti vai staig\u0101t \/ Raksts"},"content":{"rendered":"

Vardarb\u012bba \u0123imen\u0113 ir vesela sist\u0113ma. Sieviete, kas cie\u0161 no vardarb\u012bbas, pati var k\u013c\u016bt vardarb\u012bga pret saviem b\u0113rniem. Vardarb\u012bgu uzved\u012bbu m\u0113s iem\u0101c\u0101mies \u2013 t\u0101pat k\u0101 \u0113st ar karoti vai staig\u0101t, skatoties, k\u0101 to dara cilv\u0113ki, kas ir mums apk\u0101rt, Latvijas Radio raid\u012bjum\u0101 “\u0122imenes studija” nor\u0101d\u012bja Valsts policijas Galven\u0101s krimin\u0101lpolicijas p\u0101rvaldes psiholo\u0123e Dace Landmane un Valsts prob\u0101cijas dienesta Prob\u0101cijas programmu noda\u013cas vad\u012bt\u0101ja Krista Skara.<\/p>\n

Vardarb\u012bba \u0123imen\u0113 nereti tiek normaliz\u0113ta<\/p>\n

“\u0122imenes studija”<\/p>\n

\""\u0122imenes<\/p>\n

Izgaismo pieredzi un viedok\u013cus par aktu\u0101l\u0101m \u0123imenes attiec\u012bbu, vesel\u012bbas un izgl\u012bt\u012bbas t\u0113m\u0101m.<\/p>\n

Klausies podk\u0101st\u0101 sev \u0113rt\u0101 laik\u0101 un \u0161\u0101d\u0101s lietotn\u0113s – Spotify<\/a>, Apple<\/a>. Jauna epizode katru darba dienu. Epizodes garums 50 min\u016btes.<\/p>\n

Vardarb\u012bbai var b\u016bt daudz un da\u017e\u0101di c\u0113lo\u0146i. M\u016bsdien\u0101s tas ir pla\u0161s j\u0113dziens. Varam run\u0101t gan par emocion\u0101lu vardarb\u012bbu pret otru cilv\u0113ku, gan fizisku, ekonomisku un seksu\u0101lu. L\u012bdz ar to ar\u012b cilv\u0113ki, kurus ieliekam kategorij\u0101 “varm\u0101kas”, var b\u016bt \u013coti da\u017e\u0101di un ar da\u017e\u0101d\u0101m uzved\u012bbas izpausm\u0113m, nor\u0101d\u012bja Landmane.<\/p>\n

“S\u0101kot ar emocion\u0101lu aizsk\u0101rumu, beidzot ar \u013coti smagiem miesas boj\u0101jumiem un ar\u012b ar personas n\u0101vi. L\u012bdz ar to es negrib\u0113tu teikt, ka visi \u0161ie vardarb\u012bbas veic\u0113ji ir vien\u0101d\u0101 kategorij\u0101 liekami. T\u0101 nav monog\u0101ma grupa, t\u0101 ir \u013coti variat\u012bva grupa ar da\u017e\u0101d\u0101m izpausm\u0113m,” Landmane pauda.<\/p>\n

Vardarb\u012bba p\u0113c defin\u012bcijas ir varas un kontroles \u013caunpr\u0101t\u012bga izmanto\u0161ana \u2013 kait\u0113t, dar\u012bt p\u0101ri, moc\u012btu otru cilv\u0113ku, un visur, kur ir asimetriskas varas attiec\u012bbas, vardarb\u012bbas potenci\u0101ls ir kl\u0101teso\u0161s, pauda soci\u0101lantropolo\u0123e, Latvijas Universit\u0101tes docente Zane Linde-Ozola.<\/p>\n

“Tas var b\u016bt v\u012brietis pret sievieti, skolot\u0101js \u2013 skol\u0113ns, vec\u0101ks \u2013 b\u0113rns. Proti, visur, kur ir \u0161\u012b varas asimetrija, \u0161is vardarb\u012bbas potenci\u0101ls ir iesp\u0113jams, ta\u010du k\u0101ds to izmanto, bet k\u0101ds \u2013 neizmanto,” Linde-Ozola nor\u0101d\u012bja.\u00a0<\/p>\n

Ir iemesls, k\u0101d\u0113\u013c vardarb\u012bba ir tik izplat\u012bta. Cilv\u0113ki nereti nosliecas par labu vardarb\u012bbai, jo tas ir efekt\u012bvs veids, k\u0101 pan\u0101kt savu \u2013 k\u0101 ieg\u016bt taisn\u012bbas un apmierin\u0101juma saj\u016btu, k\u0101 ieg\u016bt varu.\u00a0<\/p>\n

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“Pirmk\u0101rt, \u013coti daudzi varm\u0101kas darbojas ar p\u0101rliec\u012bbu, ka vi\u0146iem ir ties\u012bbas uz vardarb\u012bbu, ka tas ir kaut kas, kas vi\u0146iem pien\u0101kas.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n

Tas ir veids, k\u0101 notur\u0113t savas varas poz\u012bcijas,\u00a0tas ir veids, k\u0101 notur\u0113t kaut k\u0101du taisn\u012bbas saj\u016btu, k\u0101 c\u012bn\u012bties par kaut k\u0101du savu atrieb\u012bbu vai atmaks\u0101\u0161anu,” skaidroja Linde-Ozola.<\/p>\n

\u0145emot v\u0113r\u0101, ka vardarb\u012bba ir efekt\u012bvs veids, k\u0101 varm\u0101k\u0101m sasniegt m\u0113r\u0137us, turkl\u0101t to pavada p\u0101rliec\u012bba un saj\u016bta, ka vi\u0146iem uz to ir ties\u012bbas, ir \u0101rk\u0101rt\u012bgi gr\u016bti izaicin\u0101t \u0161o uzved\u012bbu un main\u012bt \u0161o cilv\u0113ku p\u0101rliec\u012bbu, ka ir j\u0101izmanto citi uzved\u012bbas mode\u013ci attiec\u012bbu veido\u0161an\u0101 ar saviem partneriem, b\u0113rniem un citiem sabiedr\u012bbas locek\u013ciem.<\/p>\n

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“Turkl\u0101t, ja m\u0113s run\u0101jam par vardarb\u012bbu \u0123imen\u0113 vai vardarb\u012bbu int\u012bmo partneru starp\u0101, protams, ka tas ir ilgsto\u0161s process, kur \u0161\u012b vardarb\u012bba l\u0113n\u0101 gar\u0101 tiek normaliz\u0113ta, akcept\u0113ta un k\u013c\u016bst par \u013coti ikdieni\u0161\u0137u dz\u012bves un attiec\u012bbu sast\u0101vda\u013cu,” nor\u0101d\u012bja Linde-Ozola.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n

Vardarb\u012bba \u0123imen\u0113 ir vesela sist\u0113ma<\/p>\n

Konfliktsitu\u0101cijas risin\u0101t ar vardarb\u012bbas pal\u012bdz\u012bbu cilv\u0113ks iem\u0101c\u0101s no t\u0101, ko redz apk\u0101rt, bet ar\u012b no savas pieredzes un tiem attiec\u012bbu mode\u013ciem, kas kalpoju\u0161i par piem\u0113ru.<\/p>\n

“\u013boti daudzos gad\u012bjumos tas tiek ar\u012b apbalvots, sakot, piem\u0113ram, \u2013 nu, tu esi k\u0101rt\u012bgs vecis, re k\u0101 tu par\u0101d\u012bji tai savai sievietei vietu, malacis, t\u0101 turpin\u0101t\u2026 To pa\u0161u m\u0113s redzam ar\u012b pla\u0161\u0101k\u0101s soci\u0101laj\u0101s norm\u0101s, kur tas ir t\u0101 k\u0101 sagaid\u0101ms, ka v\u012brietis b\u016bs galvenais, un vi\u0146\u0161 noteiks un lems, un visi, kas m\u0113\u0123in\u0101s apstr\u012bd\u0113t vai g\u0101zt vi\u0146u no \u0161\u012bm varas poz\u012bcij\u0101m, sa\u0146ems p\u0113c nopelniem,” skaidroja Linde-Ozola.<\/p>\n

Tiesa, ka v\u012brie\u0161i bie\u017e\u0101k b\u016bs fiziski vardarb\u012bgi, kam\u0113r sievietes bie\u017e\u0101k slieksies uz emocion\u0101l\u0101s vardarb\u012bbas pusi, ta\u010du vardarb\u012bba \u0123imen\u0113 ir vesela sist\u0113ma, uzsv\u0113ra Landmane, kur\u0101 varm\u0101kas un cietu\u0161\u0101 lomas nereti savijas kop\u0101 un main\u0101s.\u00a0<\/p>\n

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“Vien\u0101 situ\u0101cij\u0101 cilv\u0113ks var b\u016bt cietu\u0161ais, bet taj\u0101 pa\u0161\u0101 laik\u0101 vardarb\u012bgs pret saviem nepilngad\u012bgajiem b\u0113rniem, t\u0101p\u0113c jaut\u0101jumi par vardarb\u012bbu \u0123imen\u0113 ir \u013coti kompleksi jaut\u0101jumi,” nor\u0101d\u012bja Landmane.\u00a0<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n

Valsts prob\u0101cijas dienesta Prob\u0101cijas programmu noda\u013cas vad\u012bt\u0101ja Krista Skara papildin\u0101ja vardarb\u012bbas defin\u012bciju, uzsverot, ka t\u0101 tiek pielietota m\u0113r\u0137tiec\u012bgi, lai nodar\u012btu p\u0101ri un t\u0101dej\u0101di kaut ko g\u016btu sav\u0101 lab\u0101. Vardarb\u012bba nav nejau\u0161a.\u00a0<\/p>\n

“Savuk\u0101rt run\u0101jot par dzimumu sadal\u012bjumu, p\u0101rst\u0101vot krimin\u0101lsoda izpildi, es dom\u0101ju, tas neb\u016bs p\u0101rsteigums, ka liel\u0101k\u0101 da\u013ca, kas non\u0101k par vardarb\u012bbu valsts prob\u0101cijas dienest\u0101, tie ir v\u012brie\u0161i \u2013 pilngad\u012bgi v\u012brie\u0161i. Mazs, \u013coti mazs procents ir sievietes. Ja run\u0101jam par sieviet\u0113m, visbie\u017e\u0101k t\u0101 ir vardarb\u012bba pret nepilngad\u012bgajiem \u2013 t\u0101tad pret b\u0113rniem. Ja run\u0101jam par v\u012brie\u0161iem, tie ir t\u012b\u0161i, smagi miesas boj\u0101jumi,” nor\u0101d\u012bja Skara.<\/p>\n

Valstij j\u0101b\u016bt pietiekami daudz instrumentiem<\/p>\n

Varm\u0101kas psiholo\u0123iski emocion\u0101lais profils nereti ir \u013coti sare\u017e\u0123\u012bts. Viens faktors viennoz\u012bm\u012bgi ir jau min\u0113t\u0101 attieksme un p\u0101rliec\u012bba, kas attaisno vardarb\u012bbu, bet t\u0101 ir tikai viena komponente.\u00a0<\/p>\n

V\u0113l viens \u0101rk\u0101rt\u012bgi svar\u012bgs main\u012bgais ir apreibino\u0161u vielu lieto\u0161ana, bet tikpat noteico\u0161s ir re\u0101lu prasmju tr\u016bkums risin\u0101t probl\u0113mas un run\u0101t par to, kas notiek, skaidroja Skara. \u0160ie visi ir faktori, kurus, ieguldot darbu un sa\u0146emot pal\u012bdz\u012bbu, ir iesp\u0113jams main\u012bt, mazin\u0101t vai pat nov\u0113rst.<\/p>\n

“Ta\u010du es gribu teikt, ka tai pal\u012bdz\u012bbai j\u0101b\u016bt \u013coti kompleksai un orient\u0113tai uz konkr\u0113tu probl\u0113mu. Policij\u0101 non\u0101ku\u0161ie cilv\u0113ki, kas iekr\u012bt taj\u0101 blok\u0101 “vardarb\u012bbas veic\u0113js”, b\u016bs da\u017e\u0101di \u2013 tur b\u016bs gan krimin\u0101llikuma p\u0101rk\u0101pumi, gan administrat\u012bvie p\u0101rk\u0101pumi, gan pagaidu aizsardz\u012bba pret vardarb\u012bbu. Mums tas spektrs un m\u0113r\u0137grupa ir \u013coti pla\u0161a,” skaidroja Landmane.<\/p>\n

L\u012bdz ar to ar\u012b \u0101rst\u0113\u0161anas vai pal\u012bdz\u012bbas metodes j\u0101pielieto m\u0113r\u0137tiec\u012bgi \u2013 atbilsto\u0161i konkr\u0113taj\u0101m vajadz\u012bb\u0101m.\u00a0<\/p>\n

“Tad, ja vi\u0146\u0161 non\u0101k prob\u0101cij\u0101, ieslodz\u012bjumu viet\u0101, t\u0101 jau ir pavisam cita m\u0113r\u0137grupa. Pie mums policij\u0101, v\u0113lreiz uzsv\u0113r\u0161u, non\u0101k ar\u012b cilv\u0113ki no izsaukumiem, kur ir pagaidu aizsardz\u012bba, kur ir l\u0113mumi par no\u0161\u0137ir\u0161anu. Mums t\u0101 grupa ir daudz pla\u0161\u0101ka,” nor\u0101d\u012bja Landmane.<\/p>\n

Vi\u0146as teiktajam pievienoj\u0101s ar\u012b Skara: “Grupa noteikti ir pla\u0161a, t\u0101p\u0113c ar\u012b no m\u016bsu puses m\u0113s saprotam, ka valstij ir j\u0101b\u016bt pietiekami daudz instrumentiem, lai sekm\u012bgi atrastu vajadz\u012bgo, prec\u012bz\u0101ko, lai str\u0101d\u0101tu gan ar policij\u0101 non\u0101ku\u0161ajiem, gan prob\u0101cijas dienest\u0101 non\u0101ku\u0161ajiem. Katram ir j\u0101b\u016bt \u0161iem instrumentiem, ko tad m\u0113s ar vi\u0146u dar\u012bsim.”<\/p>\n

Vardarb\u012bgu uzved\u012bbu iem\u0101c\u0101mies<\/p>\n

Turkl\u0101t, Skara papildin\u0101ja, noteikti nedr\u012bkst aizmirst par prevencijas pas\u0101kumiem, lai cilv\u0113ki l\u012bdz vardarb\u012bbai visp\u0101r nenon\u0101ktu, un \u0161aj\u0101 sada\u013c\u0101 skaidrojo\u0161ais un izgl\u012btojo\u0161ais darbs j\u0101s\u0101k jau agr\u0101 b\u0113rn\u012bb\u0101.\u00a0<\/p>\n

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“Vardarb\u012bgu uzved\u012bbu m\u0113s iem\u0101c\u0101mies. Viselement\u0101r\u0101kais piem\u0113rs, es dom\u0101ju, ir k\u0101 m\u0113s iem\u0101c\u0101mies \u0113st ar karoti vai staig\u0101t uz div\u0101m k\u0101j\u0101m \u2013 m\u0113s skat\u0101mies, k\u0101 to dara cilv\u0113ki, kas ir mums apk\u0101rt.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n

B\u0113rni \u0101rk\u0101rt\u012bgi \u0101tri iem\u0101c\u0101s konfliktus risin\u0101t b\u013caujot, \u0101rk\u0101rt\u012bgi \u0101tri iem\u0101c\u0101s sevi aizst\u0101v\u0113t, augot vardarb\u012bg\u0101 \u0123imen\u0113. Ja ne piedz\u012bvojot, tad ar\u012b skatoties materi\u0101lus par vardarb\u012bgu uzved\u012bbu \u013coti \u0101tri to var iem\u0101c\u012bties, jo tas, kas k\u013c\u016bst skaidrs, ka tas \u013cauj \u0101tr\u0101k pan\u0101kt savu,” skaidroja Skara.<\/p>\n

Jo ilg\u0101k cilv\u0113ks nesa\u0146em nosod\u012bjumu vai nepiedz\u012bvo savas vardarb\u012bg\u0101s uzved\u012bbas sekas, jo sp\u0113c\u012bg\u0101k t\u0101 nostiprin\u0101s. L\u012bdz ar to laic\u012bga iejauk\u0161an\u0101s un prevencija ir \u0101rk\u0101rt\u012bgi b\u016btiska vardarb\u012bbas mazin\u0101\u0161an\u0101 un nov\u0113r\u0161an\u0101.\u00a0<\/p>\n

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“Atsauk\u0161os uz t\u0101du teicienu, ko ir teicis mans kol\u0113\u0123is, \u2013 ja b\u0113rni neciestu no vardarb\u012bbas, mums b\u016btu tuk\u0161as ieslodz\u012bjumu vietas.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n

To\u00a0ir \u0101rk\u0101rt\u012bgi svar\u012bgi saprast, ka vardarb\u012bga uzved\u012bba, agres\u012bva uzved\u012bba ir lip\u012bga \u2013 to m\u0101c\u0101s, to v\u0113ro, un t\u0101 ir lip\u012bga t\u0101p\u0113c, ka ir efekt\u012bva,” nor\u0101d\u012bja Skara.\u00a0<\/p>\n

B\u016btu labi, ja m\u0113s s\u0101ktu dom\u0101t<\/p>\n

Kl\u012bnisk\u0101 un vesel\u012bbas psiholo\u0123e, kr\u012bzes centra “Skalbes” valdes locekle Santa Laimi\u0146a-Rubene piekrita, ka visbie\u017e\u0101k cilv\u0113ki par savu uzved\u012bbu s\u0101k aizdom\u0101ties tad, kad sastopas ar savas r\u012bc\u012bbas sek\u0101m.<\/p>\n

“M\u0113s sab\u013caujam, pagr\u016b\u017eam, iesitam, manipul\u0113jam, bet tad p\u0113k\u0161\u0146i tas otrs cilv\u0113ks, piem\u0113ram, vairs nev\u0113las ar mums dz\u012bvot kop\u0101. Vai tas b\u0113rns par\u0101da to uzved\u012bbu, piem\u0113ram, b\u0113rnud\u0101rz\u0101 pagr\u016b\u017eot vai iesitot k\u0101dam. Tad m\u0113s varb\u016bt ar\u012b s\u0101kam dom\u0101t\u2026 B\u016btu \u013coti labi, ja m\u0113s k\u0101 sabiedr\u012bba vai katrs k\u0101 indiv\u012bds s\u0101ktu dom\u0101t, k\u0101da ir t\u0101 mana uzved\u012bba, kam t\u0101 ir pielipusi un ko es ar to savu uzved\u012bbu esmu nodar\u012bjis,” skaidroja Laimi\u0146a-Rubene.<\/p>\n

Ta\u010du uz to, protams, ir sp\u0113j\u012bga t\u0101 sabiedr\u012bbas da\u013ca, kas prot reflekt\u0113t \u2013 paskat\u012bties uz sevi un savu uzved\u012bbu no malas, apzin\u0101ties, k\u0101 mana uzved\u012bba sabiedr\u012bb\u0101 un \u0123imen\u0113 ietekm\u0113 apk\u0101rt\u0113jos, un vajadz\u012bbas gad\u012bjum\u0101 ar\u012b mekl\u0113t pal\u012bdz\u012bbu.\u00a0<\/p>\n

“T\u0101 ir sabiedr\u012bbas da\u013ca, ko m\u0113s sagaid\u0101m, kas ir gatava zvan\u012bt, piem\u0113ram, uz vardarb\u012bbas mazin\u0101\u0161anas t\u0101lruni, un to ar\u012b m\u0113s redzam, ka taj\u0101 br\u012bd\u012b, kad tie\u0161\u0101m jau ir no\u0161\u0137ir\u0161anas l\u0113mums vai ir izsaukta pirmoreiz policija un pateikts, ka m\u0113s j\u016bs no\u0161\u0137irsim, ka \u0161is nav norm\u0101li, kas \u0161aj\u0101 \u0123imen\u0113 notiek, vai, piem\u0113ram, s\u0101k interes\u0113ties soci\u0101lais dienests un b\u0101ri\u0146tiesa, jo ar b\u0113rniem ir kaut k\u0101di izaicin\u0101jumi, tad cilv\u0113ks s\u0101k dom\u0101t \u2013 okey, kas ar mani notiek, un tad \u0161\u012b sabiedr\u012bbas vai vardarb\u012bbas veic\u0113ju da\u013ca ir gatava skat\u012bties, ko main\u012bt un k\u0101di ir t\u0101l\u0101kie so\u013ci,” st\u0101st\u012bja Laimi\u0146a-Rubene.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Vardarb\u012bba \u0123imen\u0113 ir vesela sist\u0113ma. Sieviete, kas cie\u0161 no vardarb\u012bbas, pati var k\u013c\u016bt vardarb\u012bga pret saviem b\u0113rniem. Vardarb\u012bgu…\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":39589,"comment_status":"","ping_status":"","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[5],"tags":[23,28,29,32,33,22,30,31,35,39,38,36,37,34,40,20,26,27,24,25,21],"class_list":{"0":"post-39588","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-aktualitates","8":"tag-aktualitates","9":"tag-breaking-news","10":"tag-breakingnews","11":"tag-featured-news","12":"tag-featurednews","13":"tag-headlines","14":"tag-latest-news","15":"tag-latestnews","16":"tag-latvia","17":"tag-latvian","18":"tag-latviesu","19":"tag-latviesu-valoda","20":"tag-latviesuvaloda","21":"tag-latvija","22":"tag-lv","23":"tag-news","24":"tag-popularakas-zinas","25":"tag-popularakaszinas","26":"tag-top-stories","27":"tag-topstories","28":"tag-zinas"},"share_on_mastodon":{"url":"https:\/\/pubeurope.com\/@lv\/115490681441345824","error":""},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/lv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/39588","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/lv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/lv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/lv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/lv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=39588"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/lv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/39588\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/lv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/39589"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/lv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=39588"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/lv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=39588"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/lv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=39588"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}