{"id":28008,"date":"2026-05-13T03:02:15","date_gmt":"2026-05-13T03:02:15","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/news\/28008\/"},"modified":"2026-05-13T03:02:15","modified_gmt":"2026-05-13T03:02:15","slug":"a-dying-son-his-detained-parents-and-a-race-to-reunite-before-the-end","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/news\/28008\/","title":{"rendered":"A Dying Son, His Detained Parents and a Race to Reunite Before the End"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"css-ac37hb evys1bk0\">Growing up, Kevin Gonzalez, 18, dreamed of going to college and becoming a lawyer. But as he lay in a hospital bed in Chicago this winter, his gaunt frame ravaged by colon cancer, those aspirations narrowed to one final wish: seeing his parents before he died.<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-ac37hb evys1bk0\">Fulfilling that dream meant a desperate fight against time in his final weeks of life as his father, Isidoro Gonzales Avil\u00e9s, and his mother, Norma Anabel Ramirez Amaya, sat in President Trump\u2019s immigration-detention system.<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-ac37hb evys1bk0\">Kevin Gonzalez, an American citizen, was being treated at the University of Chicago Medical Center, but his parents, Mexican citizens on the other side of the southwestern border, had already been deported multiple times after illegal crossings. That made it nearly impossible for them to get legal permission to return to the United States.<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-ac37hb evys1bk0\">So last month, relatives said, the parents decided to cross once again illegally, this time to see their dying son, only to be apprehended on April 14 near the Arizona border. As they sat in a detention center and Mr. Gonzalez\u2019s health faded, his family grew desperate. They pleaded his case to the Mexican consulate, to elected officials, to the news media, to anyone who would listen.<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-ac37hb evys1bk0\">The cancer had spread to his stomach and lungs, they said. He could not eat solid foods. They just wanted to reunite him with his parents.<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-ac37hb evys1bk0\">\u201cIt is the most important thing,\u201d his older brother, Jovany Ramirez, 23, said in a telephone interview from Chicago, where he spent the past few months helping care for Mr. Gonzalez.<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-ac37hb evys1bk0\">Department of Homeland Security officials asserted that Mr. Gonzalez\u2019s father had a criminal history beyond immigration violations. According to the agency, Mr. Gonzalez\u2019s father first entered the United States in 2000 and was charged with crimes that included sexual abuse, battery and theft. He was deported in 2011.<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-ac37hb evys1bk0\">The agency did not respond to a request for additional details about those charges, including whether any had resulted in convictions, and The New York Times was unable to independently find records of those charges.<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-ac37hb evys1bk0\">One of Kevin\u2019s aunts, Nancy Ramirez, did respond: \u201cHe has a past, from before he was with my sister, and we don\u2019t know anything about it,\u201d she said about Isidoro Gonzales Avil\u00e9s. \u201cThe important thing here is Kevin. He\u2019s not here anymore.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-ac37hb evys1bk0\">The Department of Homeland Security also said the parents had not requested humanitarian parole into the United States as they sought to get to their son in Chicago. They had applied for visitor visas, which were denied because of their earlier illegal entries.<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-ac37hb evys1bk0\">Kevin Gonzalez was born in Chicago but moved to Mexico when he was young and grew up there, his family said. He sometimes flew back to Chicago to visit relatives, go to doctor\u2019s appointments and get new lenses for his thick, black-rimmed glasses.<\/p>\n<p>Kevin Gonzalez and his mother, Norma Anabel Ramirez Amaya.Credit&#8230;via Nancy Ramirez<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-ac37hb evys1bk0\">The teen had recently been having stomach troubles and losing weight, no matter how much he ate, his family said. So when he returned to Chicago this winter, he underwent a series of tests and learned he had Stage 4 colon cancer, Nancy Ramirez said.<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-ac37hb evys1bk0\">As he grew frailer, Mr. Gonzalez, a dedicated student, insisted on keeping up with his homework from his Mexican high school, relatives said. His family bought him a maroon cap and gown and held a graduation ceremony in his hospital room.<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-ac37hb evys1bk0\">His family posted videos of a visitor giving Mr. Gonzalez a Mexican soccer jersey, and him sleeping to the strains of a guitar ballad being strummed at his bedside.<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-ac37hb evys1bk0\">On April 28, one of his doctors wrote <a class=\"css-yywogo\" href=\"https:\/\/www.telemundochicago.com\/noticias\/inmigracion\/liberan-padres-kevin-gonzalez\/2628215\/\" title=\"\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer nofollow\" target=\"_blank\">letters<\/a> pleading for his parents\u2019 release from immigration custody, according to a copy of the letter Mr. Gonzalez\u2019s family provided to Telemundo Chicago. \u201cKevin is not expected to survive long,\u201d a letter said. \u201cWe request urgent attention so that Kevin may spend the final days of his life with his family.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-ac37hb evys1bk0\">University of Chicago Medicine declined to comment on Mr. Gonzalez\u2019s case, citing privacy laws.<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-ac37hb evys1bk0\">This month, Kevin said goodbye to relatives in Chicago and flew to Durango, Mexico, to stay with his grandmother. His family figured they had a better chance at reuniting there than the United States.<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-ac37hb evys1bk0\">On Friday, a judge granted his parents an expedited release from immigration custody after they pleaded guilty to a misdemeanor charge of illegally crossing the border. They were deported Friday.<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-ac37hb evys1bk0\">Once in Mexico, Mr. Gonzalez\u2019s parents raced the 800 miles from the border city of Nogales to Durango, his brother said. With no direct flights, they caught a bus and made it to Mr. Gonzalez the next day.<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-ac37hb evys1bk0\">A <a class=\"css-yywogo\" href=\"https:\/\/www.nbcchicago.com\/news\/local\/chicago-teen-battling-terminal-cancer-dies-hours-after-reuniting-with-parents\/3934074\/\" title=\"\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer nofollow\" target=\"_blank\">video recorded<\/a> by Telemundo captured their reunion. Mr. Gonzalez called out, \u201cMama!\u201d She fell weeping into his spindly arms, as did her husband.<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-ac37hb evys1bk0\">Jovany Ramirez said he was glad his brother was able to hug their parents and tell his mother \u201cTe quiero mucho\u201d \u2014 I love you very much. But Mr. Ramirez said his parents\u2019 detention had stolen too much time.<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-ac37hb evys1bk0\">They were given \u201cnot even a day,\u201d Mr. Ramirez said, \u201conly hours.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-ac37hb evys1bk0\">His brother died on Sunday.<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-1n7yjps etfikam0\">Kirsten Noyes contributed research. Hamed Aleaziz contributed reporting from Washington, and James Wagner from Mexico City.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Growing up, Kevin Gonzalez, 18, dreamed of going to college and becoming a lawyer. 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