{"id":279645,"date":"2026-06-28T16:01:19","date_gmt":"2026-06-28T16:01:19","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/no\/279645\/"},"modified":"2026-06-28T16:01:19","modified_gmt":"2026-06-28T16:01:19","slug":"uonsket-gravid-pa-faeroyene-stemplet-som-uegnet-til-a-bli-mor","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/no\/279645\/","title":{"rendered":"U\u00f8nsket gravid p\u00e5 F\u00e6r\u00f8yene: Stemplet som \u00abuegnet til \u00e5 bli mor\u00bb"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<ul class=\"_list_145nj_3 _list_64s2r_85 _unordered_145nj_106 text-sans-m\">\n<li class=\"_item_145nj_30\">Milia Egilsnes Anda kjempet for \u00e5 f\u00e5 abort p\u00e5 F\u00e6r\u00f8yene, som har en av Europas strengeste abortlover.<\/li>\n<li class=\"_item_145nj_30\">Etter mange m\u00e5neders kamp m\u00e5tte hun overbevise leger om at hun var \u00abuegnet\u00bb til \u00e5 v\u00e6re mor.<\/li>\n<li class=\"_item_145nj_30\">1. juli endres loven, og innf\u00f8rer selvbestemt abort innen 12 uker.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Vis mer <\/p>\n<p class=\"_paragraph_145nj_4 _paragraph_6fko5_10 layout-component text-serif-m layout-normal text-serif-m layout-padded\">Det var midt i innspurten av skolegangen. For Milia Egilsnes Anda og klassen hennes var russetiden rett rundt hj\u00f8rnet, og avgangselevene ble m\u00e5lt for \u00e5 bestille kl\u00e6r til feiringa. <\/p>\n<p class=\"_paragraph_145nj_4 _paragraph_6fko5_10 layout-component text-serif-m layout-normal text-serif-m layout-padded\">Mens m\u00e5leb\u00e5ndet strammet rundt hodet, kjente 18-\u00e5ringen kvalmen stige. <\/p>\n<p class=\"_paragraph_145nj_4 _paragraph_6fko5_10 layout-component text-serif-m layout-normal text-serif-m layout-padded\">Det ingen visste, var at hun var gravid. Ikke planlagt, og heller ikke \u00f8nsket. <\/p>\n<p><img alt=\"Kun to av buksene til Milia passet, da trinnet hennes forberedte seg til den f\u00e6r\u00f8yske varianten av russefeiring.  Foto: Privat\" class=\"_image_jw3bv_65 layout-component layout-normal\" data-fullscreen- data-track-element-type=\"Article image fullscreen\" data-track-name=\"ImageFullscreen\" decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" height=\"994\" itemprop=\"image\"  src=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/no\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/e29928d6-6fcc-3c4b-b547-2c503635dc31.jpeg\"  style=\"object-position:0% 0%\" width=\"746\"\/>Kun to av buksene til Milia passet, da trinnet hennes forberedte seg til den f\u00e6r\u00f8yske varianten av russefeiring.  Foto: Privat<\/p>\n<p class=\"_paragraph_145nj_4 _paragraph_6fko5_10 layout-component text-serif-m layout-normal text-serif-m layout-padded\">Straks tre m\u00e5neder p\u00e5 vei. Men fortsatt hadde hun ikke f\u00e5tt med legen p\u00e5 \u00e5 godkjenne at hun kunne f\u00e5 abort. <\/p>\n<p class=\"_paragraph_145nj_4 _paragraph_6fko5_10 layout-component text-serif-m layout-normal text-serif-m layout-padded\">For denne unge kvinnen bor i landet med en av Europas strengeste abortlover.<\/p>\n<p><img alt=\"\" class=\"_image_jw3bv_65 layout-component layout-normal\" data-fullscreen- data-track-element-type=\"Article image fullscreen\" data-track-name=\"ImageFullscreen\" decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" height=\"5504\" itemprop=\"image\"  src=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/no\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/a8964145-cf72-3deb-8e5d-9dae9abd7319.jpeg\"  style=\"object-position:0% 0%\" width=\"7319\"\/><img alt=\"\" class=\"_image_jw3bv_65 layout-component layout-normal\" data-fullscreen- data-track-element-type=\"Article image fullscreen\" data-track-name=\"ImageFullscreen\" decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" height=\"5504\" itemprop=\"image\"  src=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/no\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/d4c44b92-d3eb-30e7-b54a-a6758970b8fa.jpeg\"  style=\"object-position:0% 0%\" width=\"8256\"\/><\/p>\n<p class=\"_paragraph_145nj_4 _paragraph_6fko5_10 layout-component text-serif-m layout-normal text-serif-m layout-padded\">VG treffer henne i <a href=\"https:\/\/www.vg.no\/tag\/faeroeyene?utm_source=vg-article&amp;utm_medium=auto-tagger&amp;utm_campaign=ArpOpE\" class=\"_link_145nj_39\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">F\u00e6r\u00f8yenes<\/a> hovedstad T\u00f3rshavn, hvor hun bor. <br \/>Det har g\u00e5tt fem \u00e5r siden russetiden, men minnene fra den tiden sitter vondt i kroppen. <\/p>\n<p class=\"_paragraph_145nj_4 _paragraph_6fko5_10 layout-component text-serif-m layout-normal text-serif-m layout-padded\">For det var ogs\u00e5 tiden da klassen debatterte et forslag til ny abortlov. T\u00e5rene siler mens hun snakker om det.<\/p>\n<p><img alt=\"\" class=\"_image_jw3bv_65 layout-component layout-normal\" data-fullscreen- data-track-element-type=\"Article image fullscreen\" data-track-name=\"ImageFullscreen\" decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" height=\"4592\" itemprop=\"image\"  src=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/no\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/bac96da9-11d5-3155-b365-90b16fe73887.jpeg\"  style=\"object-position:0% 0%\" width=\"3444\"\/><\/p>\n<p class=\"_paragraph_145nj_4 _paragraph_6fko5_10 layout-component text-serif-m layout-normal text-serif-m layout-padded\"> \u2013 De snakket s\u00e5 stygt om kvinner som tar abort. Mange i min klasse sa at det var drap, at man burde i fengsel for det. Og der var jeg, omringet av dette mens jeg i hemmelighet pr\u00f8vde \u00e5 finne veien gjennom systemet for min egen abort.<\/p>\n<p>Sv\u00e6rt konservativt<\/p>\n<p class=\"_paragraph_145nj_4 _paragraph_6fko5_10 layout-component text-serif-m layout-normal text-serif-m layout-padded\">P\u00e5 mange m\u00e5ter f\u00f8les F\u00e6r\u00f8yene som et stykke Norden ute i Atlanterhavet. Her er gr\u00f8nne fjellsider, sauer p\u00e5 beite, og fisk er grunnlaget for \u00f8konomien. <\/p>\n<p><img alt=\"\" class=\"_image_jw3bv_65 layout-component layout-normal\" data-fullscreen- data-track-element-type=\"Article image fullscreen\" data-track-name=\"ImageFullscreen\" decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" height=\"8256\" itemprop=\"image\"  src=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/no\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/f2b165a7-c067-395c-a5fc-97fb0a64bc1e.jpeg\"  style=\"object-position:0% 0%\" width=\"5504\"\/><\/p>\n<p class=\"_paragraph_145nj_4 _paragraph_6fko5_10 layout-component text-serif-m layout-normal text-serif-m layout-padded\">Historien strekker seg tilbake til vikingtiden og spr\u00e5ket har r\u00f8tter i gammelnorsk. <\/p>\n<p class=\"_paragraph_145nj_4 _paragraph_6fko5_10 layout-component text-serif-m layout-normal text-serif-m layout-padded\">Men p\u00e5 ett omr\u00e5de har F\u00e6r\u00f8yene lenge skilt seg ut fra sine nordiske naboer.<\/p>\n<p class=\"_paragraph_145nj_4 _paragraph_6fko5_10 layout-component text-serif-m layout-normal text-serif-m layout-padded\"><strong class=\"_strong_145nj_25\">\u00d8ysamfunnet med rundt 56.000 innbyggere er dypt preget av konservativ kristendom. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img alt=\"\" class=\"_image_jw3bv_65 layout-component layout-normal\" data-fullscreen- data-track-element-type=\"Article image fullscreen\" data-track-name=\"ImageFullscreen\" decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" height=\"4537\" itemprop=\"image\"  src=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/no\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/a2d2fd64-7484-3fc8-b6ae-f9577ec7894a.jpeg\"  style=\"object-position:0% 0%\" width=\"6049\"\/><\/p>\n<p class=\"_paragraph_145nj_4 _paragraph_6fko5_10 layout-component text-serif-m layout-normal text-serif-m layout-padded\">Her fikk likekj\u00f8nnede gifte seg f\u00f8rst i 2017. Medm\u00f8dre fikk like rettigheter i 2022. Og lenge har en av Europas strengeste abortlover gjort at kvinner ikke selv har kunnet bestemme om de vil avbryte en graviditet.<\/p>\n<p class=\"_paragraph_145nj_4 _paragraph_6fko5_10 layout-component text-serif-m layout-normal text-serif-m layout-padded\"><strong class=\"_strong_145nj_25\">Den 1. juli forventes det b\u00e5de gledesmarkeringer og demonstrasjoner i T\u00f3rshavns gater n\u00e5r det lille landet i Nord-Atlanteren n\u00e5r en milep\u00e6l:  Innf\u00f8ringen av 12 ukers selvbestemt abort.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img alt=\"\" class=\"_image_jw3bv_65 layout-component layout-normal\" data-fullscreen- data-track-element-type=\"Article image fullscreen\" data-track-name=\"ImageFullscreen\" decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" height=\"5504\" itemprop=\"image\"  src=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/no\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/9e8c1112-b4a6-3cce-86fc-c65db8019fc2.jpeg\"  style=\"object-position:0% 0%\" width=\"5936\"\/><\/p>\n<p class=\"_paragraph_145nj_4 _paragraph_6fko5_10 layout-component text-serif-m layout-normal text-serif-m layout-padded\">Seieren som forkjemperne for abortrettigheter har f\u00e5tt i Lagtinget, er likevel s\u00e5 knapp den kunne blitt: 17 stemmer for den mer liberale loven, og 16 stemmer mot.<\/p>\n<p class=\"_lead_145nj_2 _lead_6fko5_53 layout-component text-serif-m layout-normal text-serif-l layout-component layout-normal layout-padded layout-padded\"><strong class=\"_strong_145nj_25\">For her er det<\/strong><br \/><strong class=\"_strong_145nj_25\">mange som slett<\/strong><br \/><strong class=\"_strong_145nj_25\">ikke vil at kvinner <\/strong><br \/><strong class=\"_strong_145nj_25\">skal kunne velge.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img alt=\"\" class=\"_image_jw3bv_65 layout-component layout-fullscreen\" data-fullscreen- data-track-element-type=\"Article image fullscreen\" data-track-name=\"ImageFullscreen\" decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" height=\"4409\" itemprop=\"image\"  src=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/no\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/321a4747-a369-388f-9af1-66de1f5d02a0.jpeg\"  style=\"object-position:38.37606837606838% 42.730777954184624%\" width=\"4680\"\/>\u2013 Du kan gi barnet bort<\/p>\n<p class=\"_paragraph_145nj_4 _paragraph_6fko5_10 layout-component text-serif-m layout-normal text-serif-m layout-padded\">Utenfor et hvitmalt, lite hus i utkanten av bygda Fuglafj\u00f8rdur er t\u00f8rkesnora fylt med en lang rekke fargerike t\u00f8ybleier.<\/p>\n<p class=\"_paragraph_145nj_4 _paragraph_6fko5_10 layout-component text-serif-m layout-normal text-serif-m layout-padded\">F\u00f8r VG rekker \u00e5 banke p\u00e5, er tre nysgjerrige sm\u00e5 fjes ute p\u00e5 balkongen, i ferd med \u00e5 sjekke ut bes\u00f8ket.<\/p>\n<p><img alt=\"\" class=\"_image_jw3bv_65 layout-component layout-normal\" data-fullscreen- data-track-element-type=\"Article image fullscreen\" data-track-name=\"ImageFullscreen\" decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" height=\"5504\" itemprop=\"image\"  src=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/no\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/06e8336b-e573-356a-8687-b5d7c96216e1.jpeg\"  style=\"object-position:0% 0%\" width=\"8256\"\/><img alt=\"\" class=\"_image_jw3bv_65 layout-component layout-normal\" data-fullscreen- data-track-element-type=\"Article image fullscreen\" data-track-name=\"ImageFullscreen\" decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" height=\"5504\" itemprop=\"image\"  src=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/no\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/fff82151-063f-3c79-b21a-b0b795e7b023.jpeg\"  style=\"object-position:0% 0%\" width=\"8256\"\/><\/p>\n<p class=\"_paragraph_145nj_4 _paragraph_6fko5_10 layout-component text-serif-m layout-normal text-serif-m layout-padded\">Det fjerde sm\u00e5barnet i ungeflokken ligger tett inntil mammas bryst i et b\u00e6resjal.<\/p>\n<p class=\"_paragraph_145nj_4 _paragraph_6fko5_10 layout-component text-serif-m layout-normal text-serif-m layout-padded\">\u2013 Vi f\u00e5r s\u00e5 mange som vi f\u00e5r. Vi har ikke satt noe grense for antall barn, smiler Bj\u00f6rk Sadembou (30) . <\/p>\n<p><img alt=\"\" class=\"_image_jw3bv_65 layout-component layout-normal\" data-fullscreen- data-track-element-type=\"Article image fullscreen\" data-track-name=\"ImageFullscreen\" decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" height=\"5209\" itemprop=\"image\"  src=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/no\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/e64e71db-39d9-3a24-a761-29004bbbd52d.jpeg\"  style=\"object-position:0% 0%\" width=\"6945\"\/><\/p>\n<p class=\"_paragraph_145nj_4 _paragraph_6fko5_10 layout-component text-serif-m layout-normal text-serif-m layout-padded\">Hun er rolig, mild, og president i den f\u00e6r\u00f8yske anti-abortorganisasjonen Pro Vitae. Hun var oppr\u00f8rt den dagen det ble klart at F\u00e6r\u00f8yene skulle liberalisere abortloven.<\/p>\n<p class=\"_paragraph_145nj_4 _paragraph_6fko5_10 layout-component text-serif-m layout-normal text-serif-m layout-padded\">\u2013 I alle andre tilfeller har vi lover som beskytter barnet. Jeg vil f\u00e5 folk til \u00e5 forst\u00e5 at ogs\u00e5 de uf\u00f8dte er barn som trenger vern. Og anerkjenner vi at dette er barn, tror jeg man vil slutte \u00e5 bruke ordet selvbestemmelse. <\/p>\n<p><img alt=\"\" class=\"_image_jw3bv_65 layout-component layout-normal\" data-fullscreen- data-track-element-type=\"Article image fullscreen\" data-track-name=\"ImageFullscreen\" decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" height=\"5243\" itemprop=\"image\"  src=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/no\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/9c5119b5-1965-3bcd-bb92-3cd6a886698c.jpeg\"  style=\"object-position:0% 0%\" width=\"5846\"\/><\/p>\n<p class=\"_paragraph_145nj_4 _paragraph_6fko5_10 layout-component text-serif-m layout-normal text-serif-m layout-padded\">Dagen da loven innf\u00f8res har Bj\u00f6rk og de andre abortmotstanderne invitert til minnestund for \u00aballe dem som allerede er d\u00f8d av abort p\u00e5 F\u00e6r\u00f8yene\u00bb. <\/p>\n<p class=\"_paragraph_145nj_4 _paragraph_6fko5_10 layout-component text-serif-m layout-normal text-serif-m layout-padded\"> Det blir b\u00f8nn, sang, blomster og taler utenfor parlamentet i hovedstaden.<\/p>\n<p class=\"_paragraph_145nj_4 _paragraph_6fko5_10 layout-component text-serif-m layout-normal text-serif-m layout-padded\">\u2013 Finnes det tilfeller der du mener det kan v\u00e6re rett \u00e5 tilby abort?, sp\u00f8r VG.<\/p>\n<p class=\"_paragraph_145nj_4 _paragraph_6fko5_10 layout-component text-serif-m layout-normal text-serif-m layout-padded\">\u2013 Nei. Jeg forst\u00e5r at det kan v\u00e6re vanskelige situasjoner. Men vil du ikke ha barn, har du valget om ikke \u00e5 v\u00e6re seksuelt aktiv. Og du kan gi barnet bort til adopsjon.<\/p>\n<p><img alt=\"\" class=\"_image_jw3bv_65 layout-component layout-normal\" data-fullscreen- data-track-element-type=\"Article image fullscreen\" data-track-name=\"ImageFullscreen\" decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" height=\"3825\" itemprop=\"image\"  src=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/no\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/de27bdd9-4002-3617-86d7-4afe4154743c.jpeg\"  style=\"object-position:0% 0%\" width=\"5100\"\/><\/p>\n<p class=\"_paragraph_145nj_4 _paragraph_6fko5_10 layout-component text-serif-m layout-normal text-serif-m layout-padded\">\u2013 Og ved voldtekt? <\/p>\n<p class=\"_paragraph_145nj_4 _paragraph_6fko5_10 layout-component text-serif-m layout-normal text-serif-m layout-padded\">\u2013 Det overgrepet en kvinne har opplevd vil ikke gj\u00f8res godt igjen ved en abort. Da m\u00e5 vi heller ha strengere straff for voldtekt.<\/p>\n<p>\u2013 Vi elsker v\u00e5re familier<strong class=\"_strong_145nj_25\"> <\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"_paragraph_145nj_4 _paragraph_6fko5_10 layout-component text-serif-m layout-normal text-serif-m layout-padded\">P\u00e5 kj\u00f8kkenbenken st\u00e5r et krukke med surdeigsstarter og putrer, og et halvspist hjemmelaget br\u00f8d ligger igjen p\u00e5 fj\u00f8la. Minstemann p\u00e5 fire m\u00e5neder knirker forn\u00f8yd mens han dier.<\/p>\n<p><img alt=\"\" class=\"_image_jw3bv_65 layout-component layout-normal\" data-fullscreen- data-track-element-type=\"Article image fullscreen\" data-track-name=\"ImageFullscreen\" decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" height=\"5490\" itemprop=\"image\"  src=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/no\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/5a11bad1-08ac-35e4-bb2c-b80d3f335d36.jpeg\"  style=\"object-position:0% 0%\" width=\"7320\"\/><\/p>\n<p class=\"_paragraph_145nj_4 _paragraph_6fko5_10 layout-component text-serif-m layout-normal text-serif-m layout-padded\">Barnehagen ligger rett over veien, peker Bj\u00f6rk, men den benytter de seg egentlig ikke av. Ungene leker jo med hverandre, sier hun.<\/p>\n<p class=\"_paragraph_145nj_4 _paragraph_6fko5_10 layout-component text-serif-m layout-normal text-serif-m layout-padded\">Bj\u00f6rk mener den nye lovens sv\u00e6rt knappe flertall beviser at grunnlaget for den er skj\u00f8rt. <\/p>\n<p><img alt=\"\" class=\"_image_jw3bv_65 layout-component layout-normal\" data-fullscreen- data-track-element-type=\"Article image fullscreen\" data-track-name=\"ImageFullscreen\" decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" height=\"5401\" itemprop=\"image\"  src=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/no\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/d9e8c6fd-399e-3eae-958b-4c48d448fa05.jpeg\"  style=\"object-position:0% 0%\" width=\"4051\"\/><\/p>\n<p class=\"_paragraph_145nj_4 _paragraph_6fko5_10 layout-component text-serif-m layout-normal text-serif-m layout-padded\">Frem til de siste sju \u00e5rene har F\u00e6r\u00f8yene hatt blant de h\u00f8yeste f\u00f8dselstallene i Europa, med rundt 2,5 barn per kvinne \u2013 et niv\u00e5 de fleste europeiske land bare kunne dr\u00f8mme om.<\/p>\n<p class=\"_paragraph_145nj_4 _paragraph_6fko5_10 layout-component text-serif-m layout-normal text-serif-m layout-padded\">For F\u00e6r\u00f8yene er annerledes, sier firebarnsmoren Bj\u00f6rk.<\/p>\n<p class=\"_lead_145nj_2 _lead_6fko5_53 layout-component text-serif-m layout-normal text-serif-l layout-component layout-normal layout-padded layout-padded\"><strong class=\"_strong_145nj_25\">\u2013 Vi elsker<\/strong><br \/><strong class=\"_strong_145nj_25\"> v\u00e5re familier<\/strong><br \/><strong class=\"_strong_145nj_25\"> virkelig h\u00f8yt. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img alt=\"\" class=\"_image_jw3bv_65 layout-component layout-fullscreen\" data-fullscreen- data-track-element-type=\"Article image fullscreen\" data-track-name=\"ImageFullscreen\" decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" height=\"5504\" itemprop=\"image\"  src=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/no\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/78bf736c-68ef-36e7-87c5-8d0ddc08bc49.jpeg\"  style=\"object-position:54.82679263565892% 41.133720930232556%\" width=\"8256\"\/>\u00abUegnet\u00bb til \u00e5 bli mor<\/p>\n<p class=\"_paragraph_145nj_4 _paragraph_6fko5_10 layout-component text-serif-m layout-normal text-serif-m layout-padded\"><strong class=\"_strong_145nj_25\">Abortloven fra 1956 sier at en kvinne p\u00e5 F\u00e6r\u00f8yene m\u00e5 gjennom f\u00f8rst \u00e9n, s\u00e5 en andre, og tilslutt en tredje lege og bli trodd av alle tre p\u00e5 at hun oppfyller \u00e9n av tre gyldige unntak fra abortforbudet: <\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"_paragraph_145nj_4 _paragraph_6fko5_10 layout-component text-serif-m layout-normal text-serif-m layout-padded\">1. Fosteret eller morens liv er i fare<\/p>\n<p class=\"_paragraph_145nj_4 _paragraph_6fko5_10 layout-component text-serif-m layout-normal text-serif-m layout-padded\">2. Kvinnen er blitt gravid etter voldtekt &#8211; men her m\u00e5 det finnes en dom for voldtekt, noe det skjelden gj\u00f8r tidlig i et svangerskap. <\/p>\n<p class=\"_paragraph_145nj_4 _paragraph_6fko5_10 layout-component text-serif-m layout-normal text-serif-m layout-padded\">3.Kvinnen er  \u00abuegnet\u00bb til \u00e5 v\u00e6re mor. <\/p>\n<p><img alt=\"\" class=\"_image_jw3bv_65 layout-component layout-normal\" data-fullscreen- data-track-element-type=\"Article image fullscreen\" data-track-name=\"ImageFullscreen\" decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" height=\"5489\" itemprop=\"image\"  src=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/no\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/c533fed0-d913-369a-8398-fde2644c27a6.jpeg\"  style=\"object-position:0% 0%\" width=\"7318\"\/><\/p>\n<p class=\"_paragraph_145nj_4 _paragraph_6fko5_10 layout-component text-serif-m layout-normal text-serif-m layout-padded\">Det finnes ingen p\u00e5litelige tall for hvor mange f\u00e6r\u00f8yske kvinner som f\u00e5r utf\u00f8rt abort \u00e5rlig, fordi en betydelig andel reiser til Danmark for inngrepet. <\/p>\n<p class=\"_paragraph_145nj_4 _paragraph_6fko5_10 layout-component text-serif-m layout-normal text-serif-m layout-padded\"><strong class=\"_strong_145nj_25\">\u00c5 f\u00e5 nedskrevet i helsejournalen at en kvinne er \u00abuegnet\u00bb til \u00e5 bli mor, har gjennom \u00e5rtier blitt utveien for mange kvinner som \u00f8nsker en abort. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"_paragraph_145nj_4 _paragraph_6fko5_10 layout-component text-serif-m layout-normal text-serif-m layout-padded\">Det var noe 18 \u00e5r gamle Milia visste. <\/p>\n<p class=\"_paragraph_145nj_4 _paragraph_6fko5_10 layout-component text-serif-m layout-normal text-serif-m layout-padded\">Og siden hun ble gravid under covid og det \u00e5 reise til Danmark for abort ikke var mulig, f\u00f8lte hun at hun sto igjen med kun \u00e9n utvei. <\/p>\n<p class=\"_paragraph_145nj_4 _paragraph_6fko5_10 layout-component text-serif-m layout-normal text-serif-m layout-padded\">En utvei som kan sette spor flere steder enn i helsejournalen. <\/p>\n<p class=\"_lead_145nj_2 _lead_6fko5_53 layout-component text-serif-m layout-normal text-serif-l layout-component layout-normal layout-padded layout-padded\">71 \u00e5r gamle<br \/>Marna Jacobsen<br \/>er fortsatt rasende. <\/p>\n<p><img alt=\"\" class=\"_image_jw3bv_65 layout-component layout-fullscreen\" data-fullscreen- data-track-element-type=\"Article image fullscreen\" data-track-name=\"ImageFullscreen\" decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" height=\"5504\" itemprop=\"image\"  src=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/no\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/7dd4ec50-9ec9-3333-a206-bd3bdc564936.jpeg\"  style=\"object-position:51.88347868217055% 52.852470930232556%\" width=\"8256\"\/><\/p>\n<p class=\"_paragraph_145nj_4 _paragraph_6fko5_10 layout-component text-serif-m layout-normal text-serif-m layout-padded\">Det har hun v\u00e6rt i 54 \u00e5r, helt siden hun som 17-\u00e5ring ble uplanlagt gravid og s\u00f8kte hjelp til abort .<\/p>\n<p class=\"_paragraph_145nj_4 _paragraph_6fko5_10 layout-component text-serif-m layout-normal text-serif-m layout-padded\">\u2013 Det var helt forferdelig. Det er en opplevelse som jeg aldri glemmer.<\/p>\n<p class=\"_paragraph_145nj_4 _paragraph_6fko5_10 layout-component text-serif-m layout-normal text-serif-m layout-padded\">Den ellers s\u00e5 uredde og direkte kvinnen stopper opp i fortellingen og tar av seg brillene.<\/p>\n<p><img alt=\"\" class=\"_image_jw3bv_65 layout-component layout-normal\" data-fullscreen- data-track-element-type=\"Article image fullscreen\" data-track-name=\"ImageFullscreen\" decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" height=\"4874\" itemprop=\"image\"  src=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/no\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/1f9882dd-a3e0-324a-a2cc-87affc8524b6.jpeg\"  style=\"object-position:0% 0%\" width=\"6499\"\/><\/p>\n<p class=\"_paragraph_145nj_4 _paragraph_6fko5_10 layout-component text-serif-m layout-normal text-serif-m layout-padded\"> Det som sitter sterkest igjen mer enn 50 \u00e5r senere, er ikke selve aborten, men behandlingen hun fikk.<\/p>\n<p class=\"_paragraph_145nj_4 _paragraph_6fko5_10 layout-component text-serif-m layout-normal text-serif-m layout-padded\">\u2013 Jeg blir s\u00e5 oppr\u00f8rt bare av \u00e5 snakke om det n\u00e5. Det var s\u00e5 vemmelig, s\u00e5 avvisende og ford\u00f8mmende, fra b\u00e5de leger og sykepleiere.<\/p>\n<p class=\"_paragraph_145nj_4 _paragraph_6fko5_10 layout-component text-serif-m layout-normal text-serif-m layout-padded\">Hun sto helt alene i det og visste at dersom hun ble mor som 17-\u00e5ring, ville planen om studier og et liv som b\u00f8d p\u00e5 mer enn en f\u00e6r\u00f8ysk landsbygd, ryke.<\/p>\n<p><img alt=\"\" class=\"_image_jw3bv_65 layout-component layout-normal\" data-fullscreen- data-track-element-type=\"Article image fullscreen\" data-track-name=\"ImageFullscreen\" decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" height=\"5439\" itemprop=\"image\"  src=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/no\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/3e475a25-f411-3a35-a2bc-bc1be2e99203.jpeg\"  style=\"object-position:0% 0%\" width=\"7252\"\/><\/p>\n<p class=\"_paragraph_145nj_4 _paragraph_6fko5_10 layout-component text-serif-m layout-normal text-serif-m layout-padded\"><strong class=\"_strong_145nj_25\">Men for \u00e5 f\u00e5 abort m\u00e5tte hun overbevise en psykiater om at hun risikerte \u00e5 bli psykisk syk dersom hun m\u00e5tte fullf\u00f8re svangerskapet, slik at hun skulle oppfylle unntaket \u00ab uegnet til \u00e5 bli mor\u00bb.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"_paragraph_145nj_4 _paragraph_6fko5_10 layout-component text-serif-m layout-normal text-serif-m layout-padded\">Marna, som n\u00e5 er mor til fire, bestemor til ni og oldemor til to, husker fortsatt sp\u00f8rsm\u00e5let legen stilte idet hun hadde tilbakelagt alle faser og forsert alle hindre, og l\u00e5 p\u00e5 benken klar for narkose:<\/p>\n<p class=\"_paragraph_145nj_4 _paragraph_6fko5_10 layout-component text-serif-m layout-normal text-serif-m layout-padded\"> \u00abAngrer du?\u00bb<\/p>\n<p><img alt=\"\" class=\"_image_jw3bv_65 layout-component layout-normal\" data-fullscreen- data-track-element-type=\"Article image fullscreen\" data-track-name=\"ImageFullscreen\" decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" height=\"5278\" itemprop=\"image\"  src=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/no\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/19fa6c45-1a7c-39b0-b4e6-57cf32b3c0a3.jpeg\"  style=\"object-position:0% 0%\" width=\"7038\"\/>\u00abWow, er det s\u00e5 tungt?\u00bb <\/p>\n<p class=\"_paragraph_145nj_4 _paragraph_6fko5_10 layout-component text-serif-m layout-normal text-serif-m layout-padded\">Hun har de samme fregnene, og samme lange, glansfulle h\u00e5r som fem \u00e5r tilbake. Men n\u00e5r Milia snakker om hva hun har g\u00e5tt igjennom, virker hun eldre enn sine 24 \u00e5r.<\/p>\n<p><img alt=\"\" class=\"_image_jw3bv_65 layout-component layout-normal\" data-fullscreen- data-track-element-type=\"Article image fullscreen\" data-track-name=\"ImageFullscreen\" decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" height=\"4733\" itemprop=\"image\"  src=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/no\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/7e81e4ea-83bb-3440-bd74-2e2b35c3d0df.jpeg\"  style=\"object-position:0% 0%\" width=\"7209\"\/><img alt=\"\" class=\"_image_jw3bv_65 layout-component layout-normal\" data-fullscreen- data-track-element-type=\"Article image fullscreen\" data-track-name=\"ImageFullscreen\" decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" height=\"5189\" itemprop=\"image\"  src=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/no\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/c3a56101-1a6f-34ca-8f91-feebf537c4a0.jpeg\"  style=\"object-position:0% 0%\" width=\"8229\"\/><\/p>\n<p class=\"_paragraph_145nj_4 _paragraph_6fko5_10 layout-component text-serif-m layout-normal text-serif-m layout-padded\">Dagen f\u00f8r Milias 19-\u00e5rsdag ble hun lagt inn p\u00e5 sykehuset. Det var etter to runder med ren \u00abflaks\u00bb: Gjennom familie og venner fikk hun kontakt med danske, liberale leger. <\/p>\n<p class=\"_paragraph_145nj_4 _paragraph_6fko5_10 layout-component text-serif-m layout-normal text-serif-m layout-padded\">\u00abJeg ser du er 18, og det er jo et argument i seg selv for at du skal f\u00e5 bestemme hva du \u00f8nsker,\u00bb gjenforteller Milia at den danske legen sa.<\/p>\n<p class=\"_lead_145nj_2 _lead_6fko5_53 layout-component text-serif-m layout-normal text-serif-l layout-component layout-normal layout-padded layout-padded\">Milia m\u00e5tte selv<br \/>korrigere legen. <\/p>\n<p><img alt=\"\" class=\"_image_jw3bv_65 layout-component layout-fullscreen\" data-fullscreen- data-track-element-type=\"Article image fullscreen\" data-track-name=\"ImageFullscreen\" decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" height=\"4325\" itemprop=\"image\"  src=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/no\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/1f601929-b61f-3456-9d1e-6c9fd19967b6.jpeg\"  style=\"object-position:43.685953019076145% 33.59537572254335%\" width=\"6343\"\/><\/p>\n<p class=\"_paragraph_145nj_4 _paragraph_6fko5_10 layout-component text-serif-m layout-normal text-serif-m layout-padded\">\u2013 Nei, du kan ikke si det her p\u00e5 F\u00e6r\u00f8yene. Da kan du komme i fengsel. Du m\u00e5 skrive i journalen at jeg er \u00abuegnet til \u00e5 bli mor\u00bb, forklarte Milia, som hadde lest seg opp.<\/p>\n<p class=\"_paragraph_145nj_4 _paragraph_6fko5_10 layout-component text-serif-m layout-normal text-serif-m layout-padded\">Med t\u00e5rer i \u00f8yene noterte den danske legen i journalen hennes. <\/p>\n<p class=\"_paragraph_145nj_4 _paragraph_6fko5_10 layout-component text-serif-m layout-normal text-serif-m layout-padded\">14 uker gravid fikk hun aborten hun hadde kjempet for i m\u00e5nedsvis.<\/p>\n<p class=\"_paragraph_145nj_4 _paragraph_6fko5_10 layout-component text-serif-m layout-normal text-serif-m layout-padded\"> \u2013 Jeg husker at jeg tenkte: \u00abWow, er det s\u00e5 tungt?\u00bb Det verste var at jeg f\u00f8lte meg s\u00e5 uendelig alene i det, sier hun til VG. <\/p>\n<p>\u2013 Skuespillet f\u00f8les uverdig<\/p>\n<p class=\"_paragraph_145nj_4 _paragraph_6fko5_10 layout-component text-serif-m layout-normal text-serif-m layout-padded\">Det er den f\u00e6r\u00f8yske gynekologen Diana Reynstind, VG snakker med. Hun har i \u00e5revis v\u00e6rt en av legene som m\u00e5tte avgj\u00f8re om kvinner fikk abort eller ikke.<\/p>\n<p class=\"_paragraph_145nj_4 _paragraph_6fko5_10 layout-component text-serif-m layout-normal text-serif-m layout-padded\">Legen har lenge kjempet for en endring av den strenge abortloven i hjemlandet. <\/p>\n<p><img alt=\"\" class=\"_image_jw3bv_65 layout-component layout-normal\" data-fullscreen- data-track-element-type=\"Article image fullscreen\" data-track-name=\"ImageFullscreen\" decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" height=\"7268\" itemprop=\"image\"  src=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/no\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/874f0bb9-8e75-36c3-bf98-dd0af408f626.jpeg\"  style=\"object-position:0% 0%\" width=\"5451\"\/><\/p>\n<p class=\"_paragraph_145nj_4 _paragraph_6fko5_10 layout-component text-serif-m layout-normal text-serif-m layout-padded\">Hun er lettet over en liberalisering, men mener likevel at loven har en stor svakhet: <\/p>\n<p class=\"_paragraph_145nj_4 _paragraph_6fko5_10 layout-component text-serif-m layout-normal text-serif-m layout-padded\">Den s\u00e5kalte samvittighetsreservasjonen, som betyr at leger, jordm\u00f8dre eller sykepleiere kan si nei til \u00e5 medvirke ved abort fordi det strider mot deres overbevisning.<\/p>\n<p class=\"_paragraph_145nj_4 _paragraph_6fko5_10 layout-component text-serif-m layout-normal text-serif-m layout-padded\">\u2013 I det sv\u00e6rt konservative\u00a0 religi\u00f8se samfunnet p\u00e5 F\u00e6r\u00f8yene er det langt mer enn en teoretisk mulighet.<\/p>\n<p class=\"_lead_145nj_2 _lead_6fko5_53 layout-component text-serif-m layout-normal text-serif-l layout-component layout-normal layout-padded layout-padded\">En salig ro fyller<br \/>rommet der Milia n\u00e5<br \/>sitter med sin tre <br \/>uker gamle baby ved brystet.<\/p>\n<p><img alt=\"\" class=\"_image_jw3bv_65 layout-component layout-fullscreen\" data-fullscreen- data-track-element-type=\"Article image fullscreen\" data-track-name=\"ImageFullscreen\" decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" height=\"3853\" itemprop=\"image\"  src=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/no\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/015a9058-4d13-36be-83bb-619204c9f721.jpeg\"  style=\"object-position:33.056343737332796% 50.23358422008825%\" width=\"4934\"\/><\/p>\n<p class=\"_paragraph_145nj_4 _paragraph_6fko5_10 layout-component text-serif-m layout-normal text-serif-m layout-padded\">Sammen med mor og barn sitter Peter, den samme kj\u00e6resten som Milia hadde da hun var 18 \u00e5r. N\u00e5 er han lykkelig nybakt far. <\/p>\n<p><img alt=\"\" class=\"_image_jw3bv_65 layout-component layout-normal\" data-fullscreen- data-track-element-type=\"Article image fullscreen\" data-track-name=\"ImageFullscreen\" decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" height=\"7240\" itemprop=\"image\"  src=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/no\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/d39e43ff-f3df-39cd-a560-59c84b49ae03.jpeg\"  style=\"object-position:0% 0%\" width=\"5430\"\/><\/p>\n<p class=\"_paragraph_145nj_4 _paragraph_6fko5_10 layout-component text-serif-m layout-normal text-serif-m layout-padded\">Denne gangen er alt annerledes.<\/p>\n<p class=\"_paragraph_145nj_4 _paragraph_6fko5_10 layout-component text-serif-m layout-normal text-serif-m layout-padded\">\u2013 Vi kjenner hverandre. Vi er i gang med utdannelsene v\u00e5re, og vi har kj\u00f8pt et hus. <\/p>\n<p class=\"_paragraph_145nj_4 _paragraph_6fko5_10 layout-component text-serif-m layout-normal text-serif-m layout-padded\">Hun ser ned p\u00e5 datteren.<\/p>\n<p class=\"_paragraph_145nj_4 _paragraph_6fko5_10 layout-component text-serif-m layout-normal text-serif-m layout-padded\">\u2013 Jeg kunne godt ha forestilt meg at man hadde f\u00e5tt litt bitterhet mot barnet hvis man ikke var klar til det.<\/p>\n<p class=\"_paragraph_145nj_4 _paragraph_6fko5_10 layout-component text-serif-m layout-normal text-serif-m layout-padded\">S\u00e5 smiler hun.<\/p>\n<p class=\"_paragraph_145nj_4 _paragraph_6fko5_10 layout-component text-serif-m layout-normal text-serif-m layout-padded\">\u2013 N\u00e5 er vi p\u00e5 et mye, mye, mye bedre sted. Vi har overskuddet til \u00e5 gi henne all den kj\u00e6rligheten hun fortjener. <\/p>\n<p><img alt=\"\" class=\"_image_jw3bv_65 layout-component layout-normal\" data-fullscreen- data-track-element-type=\"Article image fullscreen\" data-track-name=\"ImageFullscreen\" decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" height=\"7111\" itemprop=\"image\"  src=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/no\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/5a93c6c5-b5ff-337f-9fe6-fd4bd9d737a1.jpeg\"  style=\"object-position:0% 0%\" width=\"5333\"\/><\/p>\n<p class=\"_paragraph_145nj_4 _paragraph_6fko5_10 layout-component text-serif-m layout-normal text-serif-m layout-padded\">1. juli skal Milia delta p\u00e5 feiringen av den nye loven om selvbestemt abort i T\u00f3rshavn. Denne gangen med barnevogn.<\/p>\n<p><img alt=\"\" class=\"_image_jw3bv_65 layout-component layout-normal\" data-fullscreen- data-track-element-type=\"Article image fullscreen\" data-track-name=\"ImageFullscreen\" decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" height=\"5493\" itemprop=\"image\"  src=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/no\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/16d9059d-d0f2-3917-b5cc-6ba79c00a9e8.jpeg\"  style=\"object-position:0% 0%\" width=\"4120\"\/>    <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Milia Egilsnes Anda kjempet for \u00e5 f\u00e5 abort p\u00e5 F\u00e6r\u00f8yene, som har en av Europas strengeste abortlover. 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