{"id":86916,"date":"2025-11-14T10:20:10","date_gmt":"2025-11-14T10:20:10","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/no\/86916\/"},"modified":"2025-11-14T10:20:10","modified_gmt":"2025-11-14T10:20:10","slug":"tone-damli-om-sosterens-selvmord-sorgen-er-overveldende-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/no\/86916\/","title":{"rendered":"Tone Damli om s\u00f8sterens selvmord: \u2013 Sorgen er overveldende"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"_lead_o9xde_2 _lead_xtcu6_50 layout-component text-serif-m layout-normal text-serif-l layout-component layout-wide layout-padded _wide_17hqh_1 layout-padded\">I et intervju med A-magasinet \u00e5pner artisten opp om s\u00f8sterens bortgang.<\/p>\n<p><img alt=\"ARTIST: Tone Damli mistet s\u00f8steren til selvmord tidligere i \u00e5r. Her under NRKs lansering av h\u00f8stens TV-programmer p\u00e5 Marienlyst i Oslo. Foto: Jonas F\u00e6ste Laksekj\u00f8n \/ NTB\" class=\"_image_qp4xg_65 layout-component layout-wide\" data-fullscreen- data-track-element-type=\"Article image fullscreen\" data-track-name=\"ImageFullscreen\" fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"sync\" loading=\"eager\" height=\"4000\" itemprop=\"image\"  src=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/no\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/1763115609_716_0ffafa1d-4360-4d77-a75a-98c898577089\"  style=\"object-position:0% 0%\" width=\"6000\"\/>ARTIST: Tone Damli mistet s\u00f8steren til selvmord tidligere i \u00e5r. Her under NRKs lansering av h\u00f8stens TV-programmer p\u00e5 Marienlyst i Oslo. Foto: Jonas F\u00e6ste Laksekj\u00f8n \/ NTB<\/p>\n<ul aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"_images_18f0k_111\">\n<li><a class=\"_link_18f0k_116\" href=\"https:\/\/www.vg.no\/forfatter\/nora-kvernmo-rindal\" style=\"z-index:1\" title=\"Nora Kvernmo Rindal\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\"><img alt=\"Bilde av Nora Kvernmo Rindal\" class=\"_image_18f0k_93\" fetchpriority=\"low\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" itemprop=\"image\"  src=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/no\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/1763115610_386_e9a8dfd1-f394-4db6-b4c7-25003539a55e\"  width=\"480\"\/><\/a><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p> Oppdatert fredag 14. november kl. 09:43     <\/p>\n<p class=\"_paragraph_o9xde_4 _paragraph_xtcu6_10 layout-component text-serif-m layout-normal text-serif-m layout-padded\">9. april i \u00e5r fikk Tone Damli en SMS fra samboeren som endret alt. Stores\u00f8steren Tale Aaberge Nesse hadde tatt sitt eget liv, bare 38 \u00e5r gammel.<\/p>\n<p class=\"_paragraph_o9xde_4 _paragraph_xtcu6_10 layout-component text-serif-m layout-normal text-serif-m layout-padded\">\u2013 Jeg spurte ham om det hadde skjedd, om Tale var d\u00f8d. Det var hun. Jeg hyperventilerte og gikk inn i dusjen. Ikke fordi jeg var redd for at noen skulle h\u00f8re meg, men fordi jeg m\u00e5tte f\u00e5 vann over hodet, for liksom \u00e5 v\u00e5kne. Pr\u00f8ve \u00e5 v\u00e5kne fra et mareritt, forteller Damli i et stort intervju i <a href=\"https:\/\/www.aftenposten.no\/amagasinet\/i\/zAd17O\/da-tone-damli-mistet-soesteren-sin-i-selvmord-mistet-hun-ogsaa-litt-av-seg-selv\" class=\"_link_o9xde_39\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">A-magasinet.<\/a><\/p>\n<p><img alt=\"Tone Damli Aaberge og s\u00f8steren Tale sammen i Billies d\u00e5p.  Foto: Fredrik Solstad \/ VG\" class=\"_image_qp4xg_65 layout-component layout-normal\" data-fullscreen- data-track-element-type=\"Article image fullscreen\" data-track-name=\"ImageFullscreen\" decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" height=\"3456\" itemprop=\"image\"  src=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/no\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/1763115610_410_a11a5d76-103d-48bd-98e4-61076bca7425\"  style=\"object-position:0% 0%\" width=\"5184\"\/>Tone Damli Aaberge og s\u00f8steren Tale sammen i Billies d\u00e5p.  Foto: Fredrik Solstad \/ VG<\/p>\n<p class=\"_paragraph_o9xde_4 _paragraph_xtcu6_10 layout-component text-serif-m layout-normal text-serif-m layout-padded\">Artisten beskriver hvordan hun m\u00e5tte fortelle barna sine, Billie (9) og Marlon (5), at tante Tale var d\u00f8d.<\/p>\n<p class=\"_paragraph_o9xde_4 _paragraph_xtcu6_10 layout-component text-serif-m layout-normal text-serif-m layout-padded\">\u2013 Jeg husker Billie kom l\u00f8pende mot meg, smilende og glad. Og jeg visste at om noen f\u00e5 minutter skal jeg ta imot henne i huset t\u00e5kelagt av sorg, sier hun.<\/p>\n<p>Trenger du noen \u00e5 snakke med?<\/p>\n<p class=\"_paragraph_o9xde_4 _paragraph_xtcu6_10 _paragraph_16v91_10 layout-component text-serif-m layout-normal text-sans-m layout-padded\">Mental Helse: 116 123<\/p>\n<p class=\"_paragraph_o9xde_4 _paragraph_xtcu6_10 _paragraph_16v91_10 layout-component text-serif-m layout-normal text-sans-m layout-padded\">Kirkens SOS: 22 40 00 40<\/p>\n<p>Vis mer<\/p>\n<p class=\"_paragraph_o9xde_4 _paragraph_xtcu6_10 layout-component text-serif-m layout-normal text-serif-m layout-padded\">Familien valgte \u00e5 v\u00e6re \u00e5pne om at det var selvmord.<\/p>\n<p class=\"_paragraph_o9xde_4 _paragraph_xtcu6_10 layout-component text-serif-m layout-normal text-serif-m layout-padded\">\u2013 Selvmord er ikke noe en trenger \u00e5 skamme seg over i det hele tatt. Psykisk lidelse og mentale utfordringer er sykdommer som kan ramme alle, og vi m\u00e5 bli kvitt tabuer rundt selvmord, sier Damli.<\/p>\n<p class=\"_paragraph_o9xde_4 _paragraph_xtcu6_10 layout-component text-serif-m layout-normal text-serif-m layout-padded\">Syv m\u00e5neder senere sliter hun fortsatt med sorgen.<\/p>\n<p class=\"_paragraph_o9xde_4 _paragraph_xtcu6_10 layout-component text-serif-m layout-normal text-serif-m layout-padded\">\u2013 Livet er ikke lettbent lenger. Tapet av Tale er mitt f\u00f8rste m\u00f8te med knallhard sorg. Det har v\u00e6rt og er grusomt. For sorgen er overalt, og rommer s\u00e5 mange f\u00f8lelser, forteller hun.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"I et intervju med A-magasinet \u00e5pner artisten opp om s\u00f8sterens bortgang. 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