{"id":128337,"date":"2026-03-06T09:29:09","date_gmt":"2026-03-06T09:29:09","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ro\/128337\/"},"modified":"2026-03-06T09:29:09","modified_gmt":"2026-03-06T09:29:09","slug":"regula-nr-1-pentru-o-relatie-de-durata-este-simpla","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ro\/128337\/","title":{"rendered":"regula nr. 1 pentru o rela\u021bie de durat\u0103 este simpl\u0103"},"content":{"rendered":"

Miercuri, 04 Martie 2026, ora 22:00<\/p>\n

3030 citiri<\/p>\n

\"Povestea<\/a><\/p>\n

Cuplu de b\u0103tr\u00e2ni FOTO Pixabay<\/p>\n

Rosalyn Engelman avea doar 15 ani c\u00e2nd \u0219i-a cunoscut viitorul so\u021b, Irwin, spune ea. Se \u00eent\u00e2mpla \u00een 1953.<\/p>\n

Cei doi au fost prezenta\u021bi de un prieten comun, iar c\u00e2nd Irwin, care avea atunci 19 ani, a venit s\u0103 o ia de acas\u0103, din Bronx, \u201ecu siguran\u021b\u0103 nu mai ie\u0219isem cu cineva precum b\u0103rbatul \u00eenalt, brunet \u0219i chipe\u0219, \u00eembr\u0103cat \u00eentr-un costum bleumarin \u0219i cu serviet\u0103, care mi-a b\u0103tut la u\u0219\u0103\u201d, \u00ee\u0219i aminte\u0219te ea.<\/p>\n

\u201eAr\u0103ta ca o vedet\u0103<\/a> de cinema.\u201d Irwin a dus-o la film \u0219i la un milkshake, iar p\u00e2n\u0103 la sf\u00e2r\u0219itul serii deja erau \u00eendr\u0103gosti\u021bi, spune ea. Dup\u0103 trei ani de rela\u021bie, s-au c\u0103s\u0103torit \u00een noiembrie 1956.<\/p>\n

\u00cen aproape 70 de ani \u00eempreun\u0103, au avut dou\u0103 fiice, au trecut unul l\u00e2ng\u0103 cel\u0103lalt prin boli care le-au pus via\u021ba \u00een pericol, au c\u0103l\u0103torit \u00een jurul lumii \u0219i \u0219i-au construit carierele. Irwin a lucrat ca director financiar la companii precum Xerox, iar Engelman a fost pictori\u021b\u0103 \u0219i artist\u0103, lucr\u0103rile ei fiind expuse \u00een \u00eentreaga lume, spune ea.<\/p>\n

Acum locuiesc la Apsley, un centru de \u00eengrijire asistat\u0103 din Manhattan.<\/p>\n

24 de ani de Sentimente.ro. Mii de cupluri formate. Incepe-ti povestea. Oferta aniversara>><\/a><\/p>\n

Pentru cuplurile care caut\u0103 sfaturi despre cum s\u0103 r\u0103m\u00e2n\u0103 fericite \u00eempreun\u0103 timp de decenii, iat\u0103 recomandarea lui Engelman.<\/p>\n

\u201e\u00cencearc\u0103 s\u0103 \u00eel \u00een\u021belegi pe cel\u0103lalt\u201d<\/p>\n

Pentru Engelman, totul se reduce la un singur sfat: \u201e\u00cencearc\u0103 s\u0103 \u00eel \u00een\u021belegi pe cel\u0103lalt\u201d, spune ea.<\/p>\n

Acest lucru se poate aplica \u00een multe feluri.<\/p>\n

Dac\u0103, de exemplu, partenerul \u00ee\u0219i prioritizeaz\u0103 uneori munca, pune-te \u00een locul lui. \u201eNu i-am repro\u0219at niciodat\u0103 timpul pe care \u00eel dedica muncii\u201d, spune ea, \u201e\u0219i nu cred c\u0103 el mi-a repro\u0219at faptul c\u0103 eram plin\u0103 de vopsea.\u201d<\/p>\n

\u00cencearc\u0103 s\u0103 te interesezi \u0219i de pasiunile lui. \u201eLui \u00eei pl\u0103cea mai mult opera, am \u00eenv\u0103\u021bat s\u0103 \u00eemi plac\u0103 opera\u201d, spune ea. \u201eMie \u00eemi place \u00een special muzica clasic\u0103, el a \u00eenv\u0103\u021bat s\u0103 iubeasc\u0103 muzica clasic\u0103.\u201d<\/p>\n

\u00cen cele din urm\u0103, a te \u00een\u021belege unul pe cel\u0103lalt poate \u00eensemna \u0219i s\u0103 v\u0103 ierta\u021bi gre\u0219elile<\/a>, mari sau mici. Engelman \u00ee\u0219i aminte\u0219te prima dat\u0103 c\u00e2nd a \u00eencercat s\u0103 le g\u0103teasc\u0103 cina. A ales varz\u0103 de Bruxelles, hot dog \u0219i porumb. Iar cina nu a ie\u0219it deloc cum pl\u0103nuise. Varza de Bruxelles avea gust de cauciuc, spune ea.<\/p>\n

Irwin nu s-a sup\u0103rat. \u00cen schimb, \u201eam \u00eenceput s\u0103 r\u00e2dem \u0219i am ie\u0219it la pizza\u201d, spune ea.<\/p>\n

Acesta este genul de \u00een\u021belegere reciproc\u0103 ce poate men\u021bine o rela\u021bie puternic\u0103, scrie cnbc.com<\/a>.<\/p>\n

\u021ai-a pl\u0103cut articolul?<\/p>\n

Vrem s\u0103 producem mai multe, \u00eens\u0103 avem nevoie de sus\u021binerea ta. Orice dona\u021bie conteaz\u0103 pentru jurnalismul independent <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Miercuri, 04 Martie 2026, ora 22:00 3030 citiri Cuplu de b\u0103tr\u00e2ni FOTO Pixabay Rosalyn Engelman avea doar 15…\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":128338,"comment_status":"","ping_status":"","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[18],"tags":[4328,16046,171,170,212,41,40,38,39],"class_list":{"0":"post-128337","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-divertisment","8":"tag-casnicie","9":"tag-cuplu","10":"tag-divertisment","11":"tag-entertainment","12":"tag-regula","13":"tag-ro","14":"tag-romana","15":"tag-romania","16":"tag-romanian"},"share_on_mastodon":{"url":"https:\/\/pubeurope.com\/@ro\/116181530199803322","error":""},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ro\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/128337","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ro\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ro\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ro\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ro\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=128337"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ro\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/128337\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ro\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/128338"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ro\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=128337"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ro\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=128337"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ro\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=128337"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}