{"id":161067,"date":"2026-04-19T17:20:08","date_gmt":"2026-04-19T17:20:08","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ro\/161067\/"},"modified":"2026-04-19T17:20:08","modified_gmt":"2026-04-19T17:20:08","slug":"unde-sunt-parintii-de-ce-normalizam-asa-ceva","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ro\/161067\/","title":{"rendered":"\u201eUnde sunt p\u0103rin\u021bii? De ce normaliz\u0103m a\u0219a ceva?\u201d"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Virgil Ian\u021bu a avut o reac\u021bie ferm\u0103 dup\u0103 ce a v\u0103zut o<a href=\"https:\/\/l.facebook.com\/l.php?u=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.instagram.com%2Freel%2FDXPKu0gCJwl%2F%3Figsh%3DMWlnYTQxYm8xaGd2ag%253D%253D%26fbclid%3DIwZXh0bgNhZW0CMTAAYnJpZBExc3pHUGNNS2h1bHVucHVicHNydGMGYXBwX2lkEDIyMjAzOTE3ODgyMDA4OTIAAR7YpMI7A2tUKenXRIYirzb867nZoOCoMP67HHEagl0X8MXEXsmJP3v22pECaQ_aem_Me3Rj9s-l9FQr-wXcCOo4Q&amp;h=AT6jzcJPWo2XGoRzdm1svHNMdVb6vpLm3COiZKUpX05tnbewbkXwXPaghMwyCt5GCCrM_6kxdeQ9bpIGQNY1UQYnjDhdkrgkc1uOIk94sdkUaxRw0W4y7kTfBNRrVh4j6XKP0sH8ebzZBftk&amp;__tn__=-UK*F&amp;c%5B0%5D=AT6cbP9mSzmmF3WO1nEWNWNRu-6PilEB_jHEBL6wfRDa-Bm4iGgpxGB2Xl3G6ABxWCyGpX2OLDpBKIN-VzYgtUge4QVFCVRSSUWzcH9y3AO05icfdhDj7KwwXLwpTt02oc6I5Wqp2Y2l3fAlYQAFZTnf81Tj0rupbVVgg3fjwx9VI3MG9_lJqczEw_-uLUkJoV1cD2Oy3FdFc-1VrDan5kcMsw\" data-skip-linkfix=\"1\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\"> filmare devenit\u0103 viral\u0103 de la un banchet de clasa a VIII-a<\/a>, \u00een care mai mul\u021bi elevi dansau pe manele \u00een jurul unei c\u00e2nt\u0103re\u021be. Imaginile au st\u00e2rnit controverse \u00een mediul online, iar prezentatorul TV nu a r\u0103mas indiferent.<\/p>\n<p>\u201eCopiii no\u0219tri nu mai sunt copii \u0219i noi privim o filmare ca asta, unii cu z\u00e2mbetul pe buze, al\u021bii cu lacrimi \u00een ochi. Filmarea \u00een cauz\u0103 e f\u0103cut\u0103 la un banchet de clasa a VIII-a. COPII. Nu adolescen\u021bi rebeli, nu tineri \u00abcu experien\u021b\u0103\u00bb, ci copii\u201d, \u0219i-a \u00eenceput acesta mesajul.<\/p>\n<p>Ian\u021bu a subliniat c\u0103 problema nu \u021bine de un anumit gen muzical, ci de contextul \u00een care copiii sunt expu\u0219i unor mesaje nepotrivite v\u00e2rstei lor. \u201eNu e doar despre o melodie sau despre libertate \u0219i distrac\u021bie. Este despre context, despre moment, despre V\u00c2RST\u0102. Despre cum alegem, ca adul\u021bi, s\u0103 ne l\u0103s\u0103m copiii s\u0103 sar\u0103 etape sau, mai grav, despre cum \u00eei \u00eempingem noi s\u0103 o fac\u0103\u201d, a explicat el.<\/p>\n<p>De asemenea, el a atras aten\u021bia asupra fenomenului de \u201enormalizare\u201d a unor comportamente \u0219i mesaje care, \u00een opinia sa, nu ar trebui asociate copil\u0103riei. \u201eNe place s\u0103 spunem c\u0103 \u2018a\u0219a e genera\u021bia\u2019, dar genera\u021bia nu apare din neant, ea este crescut\u0103, educat\u0103, modelat\u0103. Dac\u0103 la 14-15 ani copilul c\u00e2nt\u0103 despre lucruri pe care ar trebui abia s\u0103 le descopere, atunci cineva i-a spus, direct sau indirect, c\u0103 e \u00een regul\u0103\u201d, a ad\u0103ugat acesta.<\/p>\n<p>\u00cen mesajul s\u0103u, Ian\u021bu a vorbit \u0219i despre consecin\u021bele pe termen lung ale unor astfel de experien\u021be. \u201eFetele acelea, care ast\u0103zi danseaz\u0103 f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 \u00een\u021beleag\u0103 pe deplin ce exprim\u0103, vor cre\u0219te, iar lumea nu va mai fi la fel de indulgent\u0103. Iar b\u0103ie\u021bii de l\u00e2ng\u0103 ele \u00eenva\u021b\u0103, f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103-\u0219i dea seama, cum s\u0103 priveasc\u0103 o femeie\u201d, a spus el.<\/p>\n<p>Acesta a criticat \u0219i atitudinea unor p\u0103rin\u021bi care, \u00een loc s\u0103 stabileasc\u0103 limite, aleg s\u0103 valideze astfel de comportamente. \u201eNu putem controla tot ce v\u0103d copiii no\u0219tri, dar putem controla ce valid\u0103m. Putem spune: \u2018Nu aici, nu acum!\u2019\u201d, a transmis prezentatorul.<\/p>\n<p>Totodat\u0103, el a continuat \u0219irul declara\u021biilor, pun\u00e2nd sub semnul \u00eentreb\u0103rii responsabilitatea adul\u021bilor \u0219i pierderea copil\u0103riei: \u201eChiar nu mai putem p\u0103stra acel spa\u021biu \u00een care copil\u0103ria s\u0103 existe? Pentru c\u0103, dac\u0103 o pierd prea devreme, nu o mai recupereaz\u0103 niciodat\u0103. Poate c\u0103 \u00eentrebarea nu e cum am ajuns aici, ci c\u00e2nd am \u00eencetat s\u0103 mai fim adul\u021bii din camer\u0103?\u201d.<\/p>\n<p>Cite\u0219te \u0219i:\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.digifm.ro\/stiri\/entertainment\/virgil-iantu-s-a-casatorit-in-secret-cu-mama-fiicei-sale-dupa-mai-bine-de-20-de-ani-de-iubire-i-am-facut-o-surpriza-226795\" data-skip-linkfix=\"1\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Virgil Ian\u021bu s-a c\u0103s\u0103torit \u00een secret cu mama fiicei sale, dup\u0103 mai bine de 20 de ani de iubire: &#8222;I-am f\u0103cut o surpriz\u0103&#8221;<\/a><\/p>\n<p>Ascult\u0103 <a href=\"https:\/\/www.digifm.ro\/on-air\" target=\"_blank\" style=\"text-decoration: none;\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">Digi FM Live<\/a>, pentru cele mai noi \u0219tiri, la fiecare 30 de minute. <br \/>Ca s\u0103 \u0219tii!<\/p>\n<p>Pute\u0163i urm\u0103ri \u0218tirile Digi FM \u015fi pe <a href=\"https:\/\/news.google.com\/publications\/CAAqIggKIhxDQklTRHdnTWFnc0tDV1JwWjJsbWJTNXlieWdBUAE?hl=ro&amp;gl=RO&amp;ceid=RO%3Aro\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">Google News<\/a> \u015fi <a href=\"https:\/\/whatsapp.com\/channel\/0029Va8pMKK4o7qIwr1HqY0p \" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">WhatsApp<\/a>! <\/p>\n<p>Vrei s\u0103 ascul\u021bi mai u\u0219or? <br \/>Descarc\u0103 aplica\u021bia Digi FM<\/p>\n<p>          <script async src=\"\/\/www.instagram.com\/embed.js\"><\/script><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Virgil Ian\u021bu a avut o reac\u021bie ferm\u0103 dup\u0103 ce a v\u0103zut o filmare devenit\u0103 viral\u0103 de la un&hellip;\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":161068,"comment_status":"","ping_status":"","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[5],"tags":[43684,32,33,31,46831,36,37,27,34,35,25,41,40,38,39,26,28,29,30,46830],"class_list":{"0":"post-161067","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-titluri","8":"tag-banchet","9":"tag-breaking-news","10":"tag-breakingnews","11":"tag-cele-mai-populare-subiecte","12":"tag-clasa-a-viii-a","13":"tag-featured-news","14":"tag-featurednews","15":"tag-headlines","16":"tag-latest-news","17":"tag-latestnews","18":"tag-news","19":"tag-ro","20":"tag-romana","21":"tag-romania","22":"tag-romanian","23":"tag-stiri","24":"tag-titluri","25":"tag-top-stories","26":"tag-topstories","27":"tag-virgil-iantu"},"share_on_mastodon":{"url":"https:\/\/pubeurope.com\/@ro\/116432523962732834","error":""},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ro\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/161067","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ro\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ro\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ro\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ro\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=161067"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ro\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/161067\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ro\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/161068"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ro\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=161067"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ro\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=161067"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ro\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=161067"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}