{"id":223152,"date":"2026-07-04T19:43:10","date_gmt":"2026-07-04T19:43:10","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ro\/223152\/"},"modified":"2026-07-04T19:43:10","modified_gmt":"2026-07-04T19:43:10","slug":"durerea-parintilor-adolescentei-care-a-cerut-sa-fie-eutanasiata-la-16-ani-se-simtea-intr-o-gaura-neagra","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ro\/223152\/","title":{"rendered":"Durerea p\u0103rin\u021bilor adolescentei care a cerut s\u0103 fie eutanasiat\u0103 la 16 ani: \u201eSe sim\u021bea \u00eentr-o gaur\u0103 neagr\u0103\u201d"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>O adolescent\u0103 din Olanda, care a suferit ani la r\u00e2nd de depresie sever\u0103 \u0219i de o afec\u021biune neurologic\u0103, a murit la v\u00e2rsta de 19 ani dup\u0103 ce a ales s\u0103 \u00ee\u0219i \u00eencheie via\u021ba printr-o procedur\u0103 legal\u0103 cunoscut\u0103 sub numele de oprire voluntar\u0103 a alimenta\u021biei \u0219i hidrat\u0103rii (VSED), \u00een timp ce se afla \u00eenc\u0103 pe lista de a\u0219teptare pentru eutanasie.<\/p>\n<p>\t\t\t<img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/07\/1783194190_889_index.webp\" alt=\"P\u0103rin\u021bii tinerei, Omar \u0219i Cissy Dekke\" width=\"1400\" height=\"750\" loading=\"eager\" fetchpriority=\"high\" class=\"svelte-h45upf\"\/><\/p>\n<p>Iris \u00eempreun\u0103 cu p\u0103rin\u021bii ei FOTO: X<\/p>\n<p>publicitate&#8221;); background-position: center center; background-repeat: no-repeat;&#8221;&gt;<\/p>\n<p>P\u0103rin\u021bii tinerei, Omar \u0219i Cissy Dekker, au vorbit public despre drama prin care au trecut \u00een ultimii ani \u0219i despre decizia fiicei lor, Iris, pe care au descris-o drept \u201eo fat\u0103 sensibil\u0103, inteligent\u0103 \u0219i extrem de curioas\u0103\u201d.<\/p>\n<p>\t\t\tPrimele simptome au ap\u0103rut la 13 ani<\/p>\n<p>Potrivit p\u0103rin\u021bilor, Iris avea 13 ani c\u00e2nd au ap\u0103rut primele semne ale bolii: atacuri severe de panic\u0103, dureri de cap \u0219i de stomac, urmate ulterior de diagnosticul de depresie sever\u0103 \u0219i tulburare neurologic\u0103 func\u021bional\u0103 (FND).<\/p>\n<p>\u00cen urma unei crize neurologice, adolescenta a r\u0103mas imobilizat\u0103 \u00een scaun cu rotile timp de aproape doi ani.\u00a0\u201eDin ziua \u00een care s-a n\u0103scut, Iris a fost mereu curioas\u0103. \u00centreba tot timpul cum func\u021bioneaz\u0103 lucrurile \u0219i voia s\u0103 \u00een\u021beleag\u0103 lumea\u201d, a povestit mama sa, Cissy Dekker, pentru\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.dailymail.com\/news\/article-15937893\/parents-daughter-die-suicidal.html\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">dailymail.<\/a><\/p>\n<p>Tat\u0103l ei \u00ee\u0219i aminte\u0219te c\u0103 Iris era pasionat\u0103 de citit, desen, tenis \u0219i atletism.<\/p>\n<p>\t\t\tDou\u0103 tentative de suicid \u0219i ani \u00eentregi de tratamente<\/p>\n<p>Starea psihic\u0103 a adolescentei s-a deteriorat progresiv. Ea a \u00eenceput s\u0103 se izoleze, s\u0103 petreac\u0103 tot mai mult timp \u00een camera sa \u0219i s\u0103 sufere de insomnii.\u00a0\u201eAvea din ce \u00een ce mai pu\u021bin contact cu noi \u0219i cu ceilal\u021bi oameni. Devenise mai t\u0103cut\u0103 \u0219i prefera s\u0103 stea singur\u0103\u201d, a declarat Omar Dekker.<\/p>\n<p>La v\u00e2rsta de 15 ani, Iris a \u00eencercat de dou\u0103 ori s\u0103 \u00ee\u0219i ia via\u021ba.\u00a0\u201e\u00cencercase s\u0103 se sp\u00e2nzure, dar tentativa a e\u0219uat\u201d, a povestit mama sa despre primul episod.<\/p>\n<p>C\u00e2teva luni mai t\u00e2rziu, adolescenta a \u00eencercat din nou s\u0103 se sinucid\u0103, de aceast\u0103 dat\u0103 t\u0103indu-\u0219i venele. Tat\u0103l ei a g\u0103sit-o \u0219i a transportat-o de urgen\u021b\u0103 la spital.<\/p>\n<p>publicitate&#8221;); background-position: center center; background-repeat: no-repeat;&#8221;&gt;<\/p>\n<p>\u201eIris spunea c\u0103 se sim\u021bea \u00eentr-o gaur\u0103 neagr\u0103. Nu mai avea sentimente \u2013 nici bucurie, nici triste\u021be. Nu exista nimic la care s\u0103 priveasc\u0103 \u00eenainte \u0219i nimic la care s\u0103 priveasc\u0103 \u00eenapoi\u201d, a spus Omar.<\/p>\n<p>Potrivit acestuia, fiica sa \u00eei explica deseori c\u0103 percep\u021bia timpului devenise insuportabil\u0103: \u201eDac\u0103 pentru voi trece o or\u0103, pentru mine este ca \u0219i cum ar trece patru sau cinci ore.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\t\t\tCererea de eutanasie depus\u0103 la 16 ani<\/p>\n<p>La o s\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2n\u0103 dup\u0103 una dintre tentativele de suicid, Iris i-a spus psihologului s\u0103u c\u0103 nu mai dore\u0219te s\u0103 tr\u0103iasc\u0103 \u0219i a ridicat pentru prima dat\u0103 problema eutanasiei.<\/p>\n<p>\u201eC\u00e2nd terapeuta mi-a spus c\u0103 Iris vrea s\u0103 discute despre eutanasie, am fost \u0219ocat\u0103. Prima reac\u021bie a fost una foarte emo\u021bional\u0103\u201d, a declarat mama sa.<\/p>\n<p>\u00cen Olanda, persoanele de peste 16 ani pot solicita eutanasia f\u0103r\u0103 acordul p\u0103rin\u021bilor, \u00eens\u0103 familia trebuie consultat\u0103, iar pacientul trebuie s\u0103 parcurg\u0103 un proces complex de evaluare \u0219i tratament.<\/p>\n<p>La 16 ani, Iris a depus oficial cererea la Centrul de Expertiz\u0103 pentru Eutanasie din Olanda.<\/p>\n<p>A urmat luni \u00eentregi de psihoterapie \u0219i numeroase scheme de tratament medicamentos \u00een cadrul Centrului Medical Universitar Erasmus din Rotterdam. \u201eA parcurs aproape \u00eentregul protocol terapeutic pentru depresie, aproximativ \u0219apte tratamente bazate pe dovezi, \u00eens\u0103 nimic nu a func\u021bionat\u201d, a spus tat\u0103l s\u0103u.<\/p>\n<p>\t\t\t<a class=\"related-inline svelte-1t8qpgs\" data-gtrack=\"{&quot;event&quot;:&quot;utm_click&quot;,&quot;data&quot;:{&quot;event_category&quot;:&quot;article_related&quot;}}\" href=\"https:\/\/adevarul.ro\/stiri-externe\/in-lume\/un-medic-veterinar-s-a-sinucis-coplesit-emotional-2402641.html\" title=\"Alt articol de interes pentru tine\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\"><br \/>\n                    Un medic veterinar s-a sinucis, cople\u0219it emo\u021bional din cauza eutanasierilor de animale. Ce spun apropia\u021bii<\/p>\n<p>                <\/a><\/p>\n<p>Familia \u0219i-a pus ultimele speran\u021be \u00een terapia electroconvulsivant\u0103 (ECT), \u00eens\u0103 nici aceasta nu a adus \u00eembun\u0103t\u0103\u021biri.<\/p>\n<p>\t\t\t\u201eNu vreau s\u0103 mai tr\u0103iesc \u00eenc\u0103 o var\u0103\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u00cen \u00eencercarea de a-i reda dorin\u021ba de a tr\u0103i, Omar Dekker \u0219i-a dus fiica \u00eentr-o c\u0103l\u0103torie \u00een Sco\u021bia. Dup\u0103 dou\u0103 s\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2ni, Iris i-a spus c\u0103 luase decizia final\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>publicitate&#8221;); background-position: center center; background-repeat: no-repeat;&#8221;&gt;<\/p>\n<p>\u201eAcesta era ultimul lucru pe care voiam s\u0103 \u00eel \u00eencerc. Dar nici asta nu m\u0103 va ajuta. Vreau doar s\u0103 mor. Nu vreau s\u0103 mai tr\u0103iesc \u00eenc\u0103 o var\u0103. Nu vreau s\u0103 ajung la 20 de ani\u201d, i-a spus adolescenta tat\u0103lui s\u0103u.<\/p>\n<p>De\u0219i se afla \u00een fruntea listei de a\u0219teptare pentru<a href=\"https:\/\/adevarul.ro\/stiri-interne\/societate\/cazul-noelia-ce-arata-dezbaterea-despre-2518478.html\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\"> eutanasie<\/a>, familia nu primea niciun termen concret pentru aprobarea cererii.<\/p>\n<p>\u201e\u00ab\u00cen fruntea listei\u00bb putea \u00eensemna \u0219ase luni, un an sau dou\u0103 s\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2ni. Nimeni nu \u0219tia\u201d, a explicat Omar.<\/p>\n<p>\t\t\tDecizia de a recurge la VSED<\/p>\n<p>\u00cen cele din urm\u0103, Iris a descoperit procedura VSED \u2013 oprirea voluntar\u0103 a alimenta\u021biei \u0219i hidrat\u0103rii, o metod\u0103 legal\u0103 \u00een anumite condi\u021bii \u00een Olanda \u0219i desf\u0103\u0219urat\u0103 sub supraveghere medical\u0103 \u00eentr-un centru de \u00eengrijiri paliative.<\/p>\n<p>\u201eAm fost \u0219ocat c\u00e2nd mi-a vorbit pentru prima dat\u0103 despre asta. Mi se p\u0103rea un mod teribil de a muri\u201d, a m\u0103rturisit tat\u0103l s\u0103u.<\/p>\n<p>El spera \u00eens\u0103 c\u0103 instinctul biologic de supravie\u021buire o va face s\u0103 renun\u021be:\u00a0\u201eM\u0103 g\u00e2ndeam c\u0103, atunci c\u00e2nd va deveni foarte greu, va ap\u0103rea dorin\u021ba de a tr\u0103i. Dar nu s-a \u00eent\u00e2mplat niciodat\u0103.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\t\t\t\u201eSc\u00e2nteia din ochii ei s-a \u00eentors\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Dup\u0103 ce internarea \u00eentr-un spital a fost aprobat\u0103, p\u0103rin\u021bii au observat o schimbare nea\u0219teptat\u0103 la fiica lor.\u00a0\u201eOchii ei fuseser\u0103 \u00eentuneca\u021bi \u00een ultimii patru ani. Nu mai exista nicio sc\u00e2nteie \u00een ei. \u00cen spital, acea sc\u00e2nteie s-a \u00eentors\u201d, a spus mama sa.<\/p>\n<p>\t\t\t<a class=\"related-inline svelte-1t8qpgs\" data-gtrack=\"{&quot;event&quot;:&quot;utm_click&quot;,&quot;data&quot;:{&quot;event_category&quot;:&quot;article_related&quot;}}\" href=\"https:\/\/adevarul.ro\/stiri-externe\/europa\/vreau-sa-mor-frumoasa-povestea-noeliei-tanara-2518232.html\" title=\"Alt articol de interes pentru tine\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\"><br \/>\n                    \u201eVreau s\u0103 mor frumoas\u0103\u201d. Povestea Noeliei, t\u00e2n\u0103ra de 25 de ani din Spania eutanasiat\u0103 ast\u0103zi: de ce a ales moartea<\/p>\n<p>                <\/a><\/p>\n<p>\u00cen ultimele s\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2ni, Iris \u0219i-a petrecut timpul cu familia \u0219i prietenii, a ie\u0219it la cump\u0103r\u0103turi \u00eempreun\u0103 cu tat\u0103l s\u0103u \u0219i a petrecut o sear\u0103 doar cu mama ei.<\/p>\n<p>Pentru prima dat\u0103 dup\u0103 ani \u00eentregi, \u0219i-a \u00eembr\u0103\u021bi\u0219at din nou p\u0103rin\u021bii.\u00a0\u201eNe-a spus: \u00abVeni\u021bi aici\u00bb. Am putut s\u0103 o \u021binem din nou \u00een bra\u021be\u201d, \u00ee\u0219i aminte\u0219te Cissy.<\/p>\n<p>publicitate&#8221;); background-position: center center; background-repeat: no-repeat;&#8221;&gt;<\/p>\n<p>Ultimele zile<\/p>\n<p>Dup\u0103 14 zile f\u0103r\u0103 hran\u0103 \u0219i ap\u0103,<a href=\"https:\/\/adevarul.ro\/stiri-externe\/in-lume\/eutanasia-a-reprezentat-4percent-din-totalul-deceselor-2311350.html\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\"> organismul adolescentei a \u00eenceput s\u0103 cedeze<\/a>. Medicii au \u00eenceput sedarea paliativ\u0103 pentru a-i reduce suferin\u021ba.<\/p>\n<p>La 1 martie 2026, Iris a murit \u00een prezen\u021ba p\u0103rin\u021bilor s\u0103i, \u00een timp ce \u00een camer\u0103 r\u0103suna muzica lui Frank Sinatra.\u00a0\u201eA murit foarte lini\u0219tit\u0103. Se vedea pe chipul ei c\u0103 era \u00eemp\u0103cat\u0103 \u0219i chiar avea un z\u00e2mbet\u201d, a spus Omar.<\/p>\n<p>T\u00e2n\u0103ra a fost \u00eenmorm\u00e2ntat\u0103 chiar \u00een ziua \u00een care ar fi \u00eemplinit 20 de ani, pe 6 martie.<\/p>\n<p>\u00cenainte de moarte, ea \u0219i-a planificat \u00eentreaga ceremonie funerar\u0103, aleg\u00e2nd sicriul, florile \u0219i muzica. La finalul slujbei, cei aproximativ 160 de participan\u021bi au l\u0103sat l\u00e2ng\u0103 morm\u00e2nt cutii mici cu suc de mere, \u00een amintirea unui moment petrecut \u00een spital, c\u00e2nd Iris a spus c\u0103 gustul sucului \u00eei adusese pentru scurt timp bucurie.<\/p>\n<p>Pe cartea sa funerar\u0103, t\u00e2n\u0103ra a l\u0103sat un ultim mesaj pentru cei r\u0103ma\u0219i \u00een urm\u0103: \u201eFi\u021bi buni, sinceri \u0219i one\u0219ti unii cu al\u021bii. Iubi\u021bi-v\u0103 \u0219i ave\u021bi grij\u0103 unii de al\u021bii.\u201d<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"O adolescent\u0103 din Olanda, care a suferit ani la r\u00e2nd de depresie sever\u0103 \u0219i de o afec\u021biune neurologic\u0103,&hellip;\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":223153,"comment_status":"","ping_status":"","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":"","_share_on_mastodon":"0"},"categories":[12],"tags":[62409,32,33,31,6469,36079,13511,36,37,27,74,34,35,25,284,41,40,38,39,26,28,29,30,71,72,73],"class_list":["post-223152","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","category-international","tag-afectiune-neurologica","tag-breaking-news","tag-breakingnews","tag-cele-mai-populare-subiecte","tag-depresie","tag-eutanasiere","tag-fata","tag-featured-news","tag-featurednews","tag-headlines","tag-international","tag-latest-news","tag-latestnews","tag-news","tag-olanda","tag-ro","tag-romana","tag-romania","tag-romanian","tag-stiri","tag-titluri","tag-top-stories","tag-topstories","tag-world","tag-world-news","tag-worldnews"],"share_on_mastodon":{"url":"https:\/\/pubeurope.com\/@ro\/116863422343079047","error":""},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ro\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/223152","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ro\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ro\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ro\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ro\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=223152"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ro\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/223152\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ro\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/223153"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ro\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=223152"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ro\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=223152"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ro\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=223152"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}