Att flirta och dejta kan vara nerv\u00f6st f\u00f6r de flesta. Men enligt Riksf\u00f6rbundet f\u00f6r sexuell upplysning, RFSU, \u00e4r ensamheten st\u00f6rre bland killar \u00e4n tjejer och d\u00e4rf\u00f6r har man nu tagit fram en s\u00e4rskild dejtingmanual som ska \u00f6ka killars chanser att skapa n\u00e4ra relationer.<\/p>\n
\u2013 Men manualen funkar f\u00f6r alla, s\u00e4ger Christoffer Strokirk p\u00e5 RFSU.<\/p>\n
Han uppger ocks\u00e5 att den upplevda ensamheten \u00e4r extra stor bland unga m\u00e4n som spelar online-spel. D\u00e4rf\u00f6r lanserades broschyren nyligen p\u00e5 datorspelsfestivalen Dreamhack p\u00e5 \u00c4lvsj\u00f6m\u00e4ssan i Stockholm. <\/p>\n
\u201dSpegling\u201d en viktig del<\/p>\n
Ett tips i RFSU:s nya guide \u00e4r att f\u00f6rst fundera p\u00e5 vad det \u00e4r f\u00f6r person man s\u00f6ker. Under sj\u00e4lva dejten uppmanar man till att st\u00e4lla fr\u00e5gor och f\u00f6ljdfr\u00e5gor. Och att f\u00f6rst\u00e5 vad \u201dspegling\u201d \u00e4r \u2013 det tysta spr\u00e5ket som skapar kemi och visar vad som p\u00e5g\u00e5r under ytan.<\/p>\n
\u201dOm du l\u00e4gger handen p\u00e5 din dejts arm \u2013 v\u00e4nta p\u00e5 att dejten svarar p\u00e5 ditt initiativ innan du tar ett till. Om dejten inte g\u00f6r n\u00e5got f\u00f6rs\u00f6k att vara n\u00e4rmare dig \u2013 ta bort handen fr\u00e5n personens arm\u201d, rekommenderar guiden.<\/p>\n
\u00c4ven renlighet uppmuntras; \u201dDuscha och tv\u00e4tta h\u00e5ret. (…) Om det finns chans f\u00f6r sex: ha med kondomer, b\u00e4dda s\u00e4ngen och fr\u00e4scha upp hemma innan du \u00e5ker hemifr\u00e5n.\u201d<\/p>\n
Vill hellre f\u00f6rst\u00e4rka positivt \u00e4n att f\u00f6rmana<\/p>\n
Men borde manualen lyfta mer av de problem som kvinnor ibland m\u00f6ter i n\u00e4tdejtingv\u00e4rlden? Enligt RFSU vill man hellre jobbar \u201dfr\u00e4mjande\u201d, snarare \u00e4n tillr\u00e4ttavisande.<\/p>\n
\u2013 Vi vet att utsattheten \u00e4r st\u00f6rre hos kvinnor, men det kan vara ganska sv\u00e5rt idag att veta vad man ska g\u00f6ra, om man bara f\u00e5r veta vad man inte ska g\u00f6ra.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Att flirta och dejta kan vara nerv\u00f6st f\u00f6r de flesta. Men enligt Riksf\u00f6rbundet f\u00f6r sexuell upplysning, RFSU, \u00e4r…\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":98920,"comment_status":"","ping_status":"","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[12],"tags":[22,23,26,27,17,21,24,25,28,29,15,16,18,34,31,33,32,30,19,20],"class_list":{"0":"post-98919","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-sverige","8":"tag-breaking-news","9":"tag-breakingnews","10":"tag-featured-news","11":"tag-featurednews","12":"tag-headlines","13":"tag-huvudnyheter","14":"tag-latest-news","15":"tag-latestnews","16":"tag-main-news","17":"tag-mainnews","18":"tag-news","19":"tag-nyheter","20":"tag-rubriker","21":"tag-se","22":"tag-svenska","23":"tag-sverige","24":"tag-sweden","25":"tag-swedish","26":"tag-top-stories","27":"tag-topstories"},"share_on_mastodon":{"url":"https:\/\/pubeurope.com\/@se\/115675178276586199","error":""},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/se\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/98919","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/se\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/se\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/se\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/se\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=98919"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/se\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/98919\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/se\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/98920"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/se\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=98919"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/se\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=98919"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/se\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=98919"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}