LOND\u00ddN \u2013 Mnoh\u00ed \u013eudia veria, \u017ee sl\u00e1va, obdiv a pozornos\u0165 dok\u00e1\u017eu vyrie\u0161i\u0165 probl\u00e9my so sebavedom\u00edm \u010di nahradi\u0165 ch\u00fdbaj\u00face \u0161\u0165astie. Pod\u013ea svetozn\u00e1mej terapeutky Marisy Peerovej je v\u0161ak realita \u00faplne in\u00e1. Tvrd\u00ed, \u017ee po sl\u00e1ve \u010dasto t\u00fa\u017eia pr\u00e1ve \u013eudia s nevyrie\u0161en\u00fdmi emocion\u00e1lnymi zraneniami z detstva \u2013 a ke\u010f ju dosiahnu, ich probl\u00e9my sa neraz e\u0161te preh\u013abia.<\/p>\n
Sl\u00e1va b\u00fdva pre mnoh\u00fdch symbolom \u00faspechu, uznania a \u0161\u0165astn\u00e9ho \u017eivota. Renomovan\u00e1 britsk\u00e1 terapeutka Marisa Peerov\u00e1, ktor\u00e1 po\u010das svojej viac ako 30-ro\u010dnej kari\u00e9ry spolupracovala s hollywoodskymi hviezdami, vrcholov\u00fdmi \u0161portovcami aj gener\u00e1lnymi riadite\u013emi ve\u013ek\u00fdch spolo\u010dnost\u00ed, v\u0161ak tvrd\u00ed, \u017ee verejnos\u0165 sa na sl\u00e1vu \u010dasto pozer\u00e1 nespr\u00e1vne. Pod\u013ea nej toti\u017e sl\u00e1va \u013eud\u00ed nepokaz\u00ed. Naopak, \u010dasto ju vyh\u013ead\u00e1vaj\u00fa t\u00ed, ktor\u00ed sa u\u017e d\u00e1vno predt\u00fdm c\u00edtili nedostato\u010dn\u00ed alebo emocion\u00e1lne zranen\u00ed, p\u00ed\u0161e The Sun.<\/p>\n
Peerov\u00e1 vo svojej najnov\u0161ej knihe vysvet\u013euje, \u017ee ka\u017ed\u00fd \u010dlovek potrebuje c\u00edti\u0165 l\u00e1sku, bezpe\u010die, prijatie a pocit vlastnej hodnoty. Ak tieto potreby nie s\u00fa naplnen\u00e9 v detstve, mnoh\u00ed ich za\u010dn\u00fa h\u013eada\u0165 v dospelosti na nespr\u00e1vnych miestach. Niektor\u00ed v partnersk\u00fdch vz\u0165ahoch, in\u00ed v kari\u00e9re a \u010fal\u0161\u00ed pr\u00e1ve v sl\u00e1ve.<\/p>\n
Pod\u013ea terapeutky si \u013eudia \u010dasto vytvoria predstavu, \u017ee ak sa stan\u00fa zn\u00e1mymi, bud\u00fa kone\u010dne milovan\u00ed a re\u0161pektovan\u00ed. Sl\u00e1va v\u0161ak pod\u013ea nej nedok\u00e1\u017ee nahradi\u0165 emocion\u00e1lne potreby, ktor\u00e9 zostali nenaplnen\u00e9 v detstve. Pr\u00e1ve preto b\u00fdvaj\u00fa mnoh\u00e9 zn\u00e1me osobnosti aj napriek \u00faspechu ne\u0161\u0165astn\u00e9, z\u00e1pasia s \u00fazkos\u0165ami, z\u00e1vislos\u0165ami alebo probl\u00e9mami vo vz\u0165ahoch.<\/p>\n
\u0160tyri role z detstva<\/p>\n
Peerov\u00e1 opisuje \u0161tyri z\u00e1kladn\u00e9 role, ktor\u00e9 si deti pod\u013ea nej nevedome osvojuj\u00fa v rodin\u00e1ch, kde sa nec\u00edtia dostato\u010dne viden\u00e9 alebo prij\u00edman\u00e9. Naz\u00fdva ich \u201echor\u00e9 die\u0165a\u201c, \u201egeni\u00e1lne die\u0165a\u201c, \u201eopatrovate\u013e\u201c a \u201erebel\u201c. Pr\u00e1ve posledn\u00e1 skupina je pod\u013ea nej najviac n\u00e1chyln\u00e1 k vyh\u013ead\u00e1vaniu pozornosti a nesk\u00f4r aj k t\u00fa\u017ebe po sl\u00e1ve.<\/p>\n
Tak\u00e9to deti sa pod\u013ea nej \u010dasto sna\u017eia z\u00edska\u0165 pozornos\u0165 v\u00fdrazn\u00fdm spr\u00e1van\u00edm, vzdorom alebo dramatick\u00fdmi prejavmi. V dospelosti sa potom m\u00f4\u017eu prirodzene prikl\u00e1\u0148a\u0165 k profesi\u00e1m, ktor\u00e9 im prin\u00e1\u0161aj\u00fa verejn\u00fa pozornos\u0165 a obdiv.<\/p>\n
Sl\u00e1va m\u00f4\u017ee by\u0165 aj bremenom<\/p>\n
Terapeutka z\u00e1rove\u0148 upozor\u0148uje, \u017ee mnoh\u00e9 celebrity po rokoch prizn\u00e1vaj\u00fa, \u017ee keby si mohli vybra\u0165 znova, \u00faspech by nemenili, no sl\u00e1vu \u00e1no. Verejn\u00fd \u017eivot pod\u013ea nej prin\u00e1\u0161a obrovsk\u00fd tlak, neust\u00e1le hodnotenie a stratu s\u00fakromia.<\/p>\n
Psychol\u00f3govia dlhodobo upozor\u0148uj\u00fa, \u017ee popularita m\u00f4\u017ee zintenz\u00edvni\u0165 existuj\u00face psychick\u00e9 probl\u00e9my. Mnoh\u00ed zn\u00e1mi \u013eudia otvorene hovoria o pocitoch osamelosti, \u00fazkosti \u010di depresii napriek tomu, \u017ee ich obdivuj\u00fa mili\u00f3ny fan\u00fa\u0161ikov.<\/p>\n
Najd\u00f4le\u017eitej\u0161ie veci si nek\u00fapime<\/p>\n
Pod\u013ea Peerovej je rie\u0161en\u00edm nie\u010do ove\u013ea jednoduch\u0161ie, ale z\u00e1rove\u0148 n\u00e1ro\u010dnej\u0161ie. \u010clovek sa mus\u00ed nau\u010di\u0165 c\u00edti\u0165 vlastn\u00fa hodnotu bez toho, aby ju potvrdzovali ostatn\u00ed. Tvrd\u00ed, \u017ee potreba patri\u0165, by\u0165 prijat\u00fd a c\u00edti\u0165 sa dostato\u010dn\u00fd patr\u00ed k z\u00e1kladn\u00fdm \u013eudsk\u00fdm potreb\u00e1m, no ich naplnenie nemo\u017eno delegova\u0165 na publikum, soci\u00e1lne siete ani verejn\u00fd obdiv.<\/p>\n
\u201e\u017diadna telev\u00edzna \u0161ou, \u017eiadne publikum a \u017eiadna sl\u00e1va nedok\u00e1\u017eu nahradi\u0165 to, \u010do \u010dlovek potrebuje n\u00e1js\u0165 s\u00e1m v sebe,\u201c odkazuje terapeutka. A pr\u00e1ve preto pod\u013ea nej sl\u00e1va nikdy nie je liekom na vn\u00fatorn\u00e9 zranenia \u2013 bez oh\u013eadu na to, ako ve\u013emi tomu \u013eudia chc\u00fa veri\u0165.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"LOND\u00ddN \u2013 Mnoh\u00ed \u013eudia veria, \u017ee sl\u00e1va, obdiv a pozornos\u0165 dok\u00e1\u017eu vyrie\u0161i\u0165 probl\u00e9my so sebavedom\u00edm \u010di nahradi\u0165 ch\u00fdbaj\u00face…\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":111637,"comment_status":"","ping_status":"","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":"","_share_on_mastodon":"0"},"categories":[13],"tags":[43,753,40,39,42,41,69,68,37404,37405],"class_list":["post-111636","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","category-sport","tag-sk","tag-slava","tag-slovak","tag-slovakia","tag-slovencina","tag-slovensko","tag-sport","tag-sports","tag-terapeutka","tag-zranitelnost"],"share_on_mastodon":{"url":"https:\/\/pubeurope.com\/@sk\/116835051522918529","error":""},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/sk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/111636","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/sk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/sk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/sk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/sk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=111636"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/sk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/111636\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/sk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/111637"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/sk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=111636"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/sk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=111636"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/sk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=111636"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}