NEW YORK \u2013 Kedysi boli ozna\u010dovan\u00e9 za zlatokopky, dnes tvrdia, \u017ee ide len o \u00faprimnos\u0165. \u010coraz viac finan\u010dne nez\u00e1visl\u00fdch \u017eien prizn\u00e1va, \u017ee pri v\u00fdbere partnera zohr\u00e1va d\u00f4le\u017eit\u00fa \u00falohu aj jeho finan\u010dn\u00e9 zabezpe\u010denie. Odborn\u00edci hovoria o novej \u00e9re zoznamovania.<\/p>\n
Pred nieko\u013ek\u00fdmi rokmi bolo takzvan\u00e9 \u201esugar dating\u201c spojen\u00e9 najm\u00e4 s mlad\u00fdmi \u017eenami, ktor\u00e9 v\u00fdmenou za luxusn\u00fd \u017eivot vyh\u013ead\u00e1vali bohat\u0161\u00edch partnerov. Dnes sa v\u0161ak tento trend men\u00ed. Ako informoval denn\u00edk New York Post, \u010doraz viac \u00faspe\u0161n\u00fdch a finan\u010dne nez\u00e1visl\u00fdch \u017eien otvorene prizn\u00e1va, \u017ee pri h\u013eadan\u00ed partnera chc\u00fa mu\u017ea, ktor\u00fd je ambici\u00f3zny, \u00faspe\u0161n\u00fd a dok\u00e1\u017ee zabezpe\u010di\u0165 \u017eivotn\u00fd \u0161t\u00fdl, ak\u00fd si predstavuj\u00fa.<\/p>\n
Otvorenos\u0165 namiesto pretv\u00e1rky<\/p>\n
Jednou z nich je modelka a influencerka Jessica S., ktor\u00e1 priznala, \u017ee mala dos\u0165 ne\u00faspe\u0161n\u00fdch rande a nejasn\u00fdch o\u010dak\u00e1van\u00ed. Na odpor\u00fa\u010danie kamar\u00e1tky sa preto zaregistrovala na zoznamovacej platforme Seeking, ktor\u00e1 bola kedysi zn\u00e1ma pod n\u00e1zvom Seeking Arrangement a presl\u00e1vila sa pr\u00e1ve \u201esugar datingom\u201c.<\/p>\n
Jessica tvrd\u00ed, \u017ee ju prekvapilo, ak\u00e9 osvie\u017euj\u00face bolo stretn\u00fa\u0165 \u010dloveka, ktor\u00fd od za\u010diatku otvorene povedal, \u010do od vz\u0165ahu o\u010dak\u00e1va. \u201eRandenie je ove\u013ea jednoduch\u0161ie, ke\u010f s\u00fa obaja \u00faprimn\u00ed v tom, \u010do chc\u00fa. U\u0161etr\u00ed to \u010das a vytvor\u00ed pevnej\u0161\u00ed z\u00e1klad vz\u0165ahu,\u201c povedala.<\/p>\n
Peniaze u\u017e nie s\u00fa tabu<\/p>\n
Pod\u013ea newyorsk\u00e9ho rozvodov\u00e9ho pr\u00e1vnika Jamesa Sextona nejde o nov\u00fd fenom\u00e9n, ale o zmenu spolo\u010densk\u00e9ho postoja.<\/p>\n
\u201eKa\u017ed\u00fd vz\u0165ah je istou formou v\u00fdmeny hodn\u00f4t. Rozdiel je len v tom, \u017ee dnes sa \u013eudia u\u017e neboja nahlas hovori\u0165 aj o financi\u00e1ch,\u201c vysvetlil. Pod\u013ea neho s\u00fa rozhovory o peniazoch, amb\u00edci\u00e1ch \u010di \u017eivotnom \u0161t\u00fdle \u010doraz be\u017enej\u0161ou s\u00fa\u010das\u0165ou prv\u00fdch stretnut\u00ed.<\/p>\n
Podobn\u00fd n\u00e1zor m\u00e1 aj zoznamovac\u00ed kou\u010d Drew Henry, ktor\u00fd pracuje s \u00faspe\u0161n\u00fdmi klientmi. Tvrd\u00ed, \u017ee otvorenos\u0165 pom\u00e1ha \u013eu\u010fom r\u00fdchlej\u0161ie n\u00e1js\u0165 partnera s podobn\u00fdmi hodnotami a o\u010dak\u00e1vaniami. Niektor\u00ed jeho klienti napr\u00edklad u\u017e vo svojich profiloch uv\u00e1dzaj\u00fa, \u017ee si nevedia predstavi\u0165 cestovanie ekonomickou triedou alebo \u017ee h\u013eadaj\u00fa partnera s tradi\u010dn\u00fdm poh\u013eadom na rozdelenie finan\u010dn\u00fdch povinnost\u00ed vo vz\u0165ahu.<\/p>\n
Nie zlatokopky, ale jasn\u00e9 o\u010dak\u00e1vania<\/p>\n
Pod\u013ea s\u00fa\u010dasn\u00e9ho vedenia platformy Seeking sa nemenia ani tak samotn\u00e9 po\u017eiadavky \u017eien, ako sk\u00f4r ich ochota hovori\u0165 o nich bez pocitu hanby.<\/p>\n
Spoluriadite\u013eka spolo\u010dnosti Dana Rosewall tvrd\u00ed, \u017ee \u017eeny nechc\u00fa ni\u010d v\u00fdnimo\u010dn\u00e9. \u201eChc\u00fa ma\u0165 mo\u017enos\u0165 vybra\u0165 si partnera pod\u013ea vlastn\u00fdch predst\u00e1v bez toho, aby ich niekto ozna\u010doval za zlatokopky,\u201c povedala.<\/p>\n
Zakladate\u013e platformy Brandon Wade dod\u00e1va, \u017ee ich cie\u013eom nikdy nebolo podporova\u0165 \u010disto finan\u010dn\u00e9 vz\u0165ahy, ale vytvori\u0165 priestor, kde bud\u00fa \u013eudia od za\u010diatku \u00faprimn\u00ed vo svojich o\u010dak\u00e1vaniach.<\/p>\n
Pod\u013ea odborn\u00edkov sa tak men\u00ed aj samotn\u00e1 kult\u00fara zoznamovania. To, \u010do bolo e\u0161te pred nieko\u013ek\u00fdmi rokmi pova\u017eovan\u00e9 za tabu, sa dnes st\u00e1va be\u017enou s\u00fa\u010das\u0165ou rozhovorov medzi partnermi. Peniaze u\u017e nie s\u00fa t\u00e9mou, o ktorej sa ml\u010d\u00ed, ale jedn\u00fdm z faktorov, ktor\u00e9 mnoh\u00ed pova\u017euj\u00fa za d\u00f4le\u017eit\u00e9 pri budovan\u00ed dlhodob\u00e9ho vz\u0165ahu.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"NEW YORK \u2013 Kedysi boli ozna\u010dovan\u00e9 za zlatokopky, dnes tvrdia, \u017ee ide len o \u00faprimnos\u0165. \u010coraz viac finan\u010dne…\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":148877,"comment_status":"","ping_status":"","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":"","_share_on_mastodon":"0"},"categories":[8],"tags":[1556,33,44947,43,40,42,36,44948,50,49,48,1610],"class_list":["post-148876","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","category-svet","tag-muzi","tag-news","tag-poziadavky","tag-sk","tag-slovak","tag-slovencina","tag-spravy","tag-sugar-baby","tag-svet","tag-world","tag-world-news","tag-zeny"],"share_on_mastodon":{"url":"https:\/\/pubeurope.com\/@sk\/117081696048236411","error":""},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/sk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/148876","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/sk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/sk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/sk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/sk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=148876"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/sk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/148876\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/sk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/148877"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/sk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=148876"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/sk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=148876"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/sk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=148876"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}