{"id":43260,"date":"2026-06-19T23:21:35","date_gmt":"2026-06-19T23:21:35","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/spain\/43260\/"},"modified":"2026-06-19T23:21:35","modified_gmt":"2026-06-19T23:21:35","slug":"in-spain-elderly-uk-expats-struggle-for-care-post-brexit-as-90-day-rule-hits-hard","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/spain\/43260\/","title":{"rendered":"In Spain, elderly UK expats struggle for care post-Brexit as 90 day rule hits hard"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Daniel Northover left his home in Liverpool this month, which marks the 10th anniversary of Britain&#8217;s <a href=\"https:\/\/www.majorcadailybulletin.com\/tag\/Brexit.html?utm_source=Inline-tag&amp;utm_medium=internal\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Brexit<\/a> \u200breferendum, to move in with his 80-year-old mother in Turre, a town of 4,500 people in Andalusia in southern Spain. After his stepfather died \u200clast summer, Northover, 53, has taken turns with his sister to travel back and forth to Spain to care for his mother Carole, who cannot cook, clean or dress by herself after suffering several strokes.<\/p>\n<p>But with non-EU residents only allowed to remain in the bloc for 90 days in every 180 without a visa, he said it had become unsustainable. A project manager for local councils \u200band charities, Northover did not meet the requirements for a working visa. Visas to care for a dependent family member are only available if it is \u200bthe UK citizen needing the care.<\/p>\n<p>A senior European Commission official said cases where the absence of a family member providing care \u2060would force the elderly beneficiary of the Withdrawal Agreement to leave the host state were evaluated on merit. Otherwise, general migration rules applied. <\/p>\n<p>Northover&#8217;s sister&#8217;s application for a family \u200breunification visa was rejected.<\/p>\n<p>That left Northover and his partner with no choice but to sell their house to raise the funds for a so-called &#8220;non-lucrative&#8221; visa \u2014 which bars them from \u200bworking \u2014 and become full-time carers. &#8220;The way the (Brexit) withdrawal agreement was written means we&#8217;ve had to give up our lives and careers,&#8221; Northover said.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;The agreement was terrible. They didn&#8217;t think it through,&#8221; said Carole, waving her fist in anger as she sat in her wheelchair in the Spanish sun next to her son. I&#8217;m so ashamed I\u2019ve caused [my children] this stress.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Northover&#8217;s situation mirrors that of tens \u200bof thousands of families of British retirees in Spain scrambling to find ways to care for their infirm parents abroad. Britain voted by 52% to 48% in a referendum \u200bon June 23, 2016, to exit the European Union after more than four decades of membership. The decision meant an end to Britons&#8217; automatic right to live and work without restrictions \u200cin EU member \u2060states.<\/p>\n<p>Spain&#8217;s resident British population, the largest in the EU at around 266,000 according to official statistics, is ageing fast. The number of over-75s has grown from 36,000 in July 2016 to over 51,000 at the start of last year, Spanish data shows.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;This is a recurring problem that isn&#8217;t going to go away,&#8221; said Sally Myburgh, a British resident of Malaga who runs a Facebook group offering advice for navigating Spain post-Brexit.<\/p>\n<p>Myburgh said she regularly encounters families in Northover\u2019s situation.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;The attitude is they should just go back to \u200bEngland&#8230; but these people are at the \u200bend of their lives,&#8221; she said \u2060of the retirees. &#8220;This is their home.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>The number of Britons living in Spain has remained largely stable since the Brexit vote, official data shows. About a third of them are <a href=\"https:\/\/www.majorcadailybulletin.com\/tag\/Pensioners.html?utm_source=Inline-tag&amp;utm_medium=internal\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">pensioners<\/a>, and many live in villages and towns dotted along Spain&#8217;s Costa Blanca \u200band Costa del Sol coastlines.<\/p>\n<p>Report Ad<img decoding=\"async\" src=\"data:;base64,&lt;svg%20xmlns=\" http:=\"\" width=\"16\" height=\"16\" fill=\"#31bad2\" viewbox=\"0 0 16 16\" loading=\"lazy\"\/>&#8221; border=&#8221;0&#8243; style=&#8221;width: 14px; height: 14px; flex-shrink: 0; margin-left: 3px;&#8221; \/&gt;<\/p>\n<p>The Spanish social care system provides home care to infirm citizens and residents, but this is \u200bcapped at 94 hours a \u2060month for those classified as suffering from a &#8220;total loss of autonomy&#8221; &#8211; around 3 hours a day.<\/p>\n<p>Returning to the UK is a daunting and unrealistic prospect for those who have spent decades in Spain and have no community or property to return to, said Neal Anderson, a welfare officer at the &#8216;Help at Home Costa Blanca&#8217; charity providing support to elderly Britons \u2060in the area.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;My \u200bmum is 80. A major upheaval is distressing. Uprooting her to a place she doesn&#8217;t know \u200bwith people she doesn&#8217;t know&#8230; it could kill her,&#8221; Northover said, adding he feared that even if she survived the move, registering her in Britain&#8217;s overburdened social care system would take months.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I can&#8217;t imagine living [in the \u200bUK] now&#8230; I love Spain&#8230; This is home,&#8221; said Carole, who voted to remain in the EU. &#8220;Everyone knows me here.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"text-module__text__0GDob text-module__dark-grey__UFC18 text-module__regular__qJJtA text-module__extra_small__8Buss body-module__full_width__kCIGb body-module__extra_small_body__Bfz20 sign-off-module__text__LQAMP\" data-testid=\"SignOff\">Reporting by Victoria Waldersee, Michael Gore; Editing by Gareth Jones<\/p>\n<p class=\"text-module__text__0GDob text-module__dark-grey__UFC18 text-module__regular__qJJtA text-module__small__sph8i body-module__base__o--Cl body-module__small_body__gOmDf article-body-module__element__5eCce article-body-module__trust-badge__5mS3f\" data-testid=\"Body\">Our Standards: <a class=\"text-module__text__0GDob text-module__dark-grey__UFC18 text-module__medium__2Rl30 text-module__small__sph8i link-module__link__INqxZ link-module__underline_default__-okuC link-module__with-icon__qlg76\" href=\"https:\/\/www.thomsonreuters.com\/en\/about-us\/trust-principles.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener nofollow\" data-testid=\"Link\">The Thomson Reuters Trust Principles.<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Daniel Northover left his home in Liverpool this month, which marks the 10th anniversary of Britain&#8217;s Brexit \u200breferendum,&hellip;\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":43261,"comment_status":"","ping_status":"","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[2],"tags":[19825,1935,19823,19824,605,19822,17],"class_list":["post-43260","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","category-spain","tag-90-day-rule-spain","tag-brexit","tag-brits-in-spain","tag-elderly-nursing-homes","tag-latest-headlines","tag-pensioners","tag-spain"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/spain\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/43260","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/spain\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/spain\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/spain\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/spain\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=43260"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/spain\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/43260\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/spain\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/43261"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/spain\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=43260"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/spain\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=43260"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/spain\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=43260"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}