An expat who moved to Spain from the UK has revealed the truth about Spanish culture and the lifestyle changes she had to make after living in the country for 12 years
A popular choice for many Brits is Spain, largely due to its appealing climate (stock image)(Image: undefined via Getty Images)
Relocating to a new country is a significant life change, with numerous factors to consider such as accommodation, job prospects, and living expenses. A popular choice for many Brits is Spain, largely due to its appealing climate.
However, one British expat has offered an insight into the Spanish way of life that you won’t find in your typical travel guide.
Carly took to Instagram to post a video captioned ‘This is the part of Spanish culture no one talks about’. She remarked: “Most people think Spain is all about sunshine, siestas, and sangria.”
But her experience has revealed a different reality, with Carly confessing to “some lifestyle changes”. Delving deeper, Carly noted: “I didn’t expect the deep shift in how people live. Everything here is more social.”
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She observed: “You’ll find kids playing in the square until midnight, people chatting in cafes for hours, neighbours saying good morning and meaning it.”
For Carly, this isn’t just about manners but about forming genuine connections. She believes that “It’s not just about being polite, it’s about connection. That connection, that human warmth that permeates every gesture and encounter, is for her one of Spain’s hidden gems.”
She also touched on the subject of adaptability, commenting: “Then there’s flexibility. Yes, there are rules, but there’s a kind of relaxed logic to things”.
Carly suggests that Spaniards have a more laid-back approach to life and culture, adding: “Don’t stress, life will sort itself.”
She clarifies: “It’s not about being lazy; it’s not about letting stress rule your life, and it’s contagious,” she assures.
Carly said one of the big lifestyle shifts is the social element (stock image)(Image: undefined via Getty Images)
Carly concluded: “So no, Spanish culture isn’t just tapas and late dinners; it’s about people first,” highlighting the country’s best-kept secret. Commenters shared their own experiences, with one saying: “I loved living in Spain, everything about living there was fantastic.”
A US expat added: “It’s why we moved from the US and couldn’t believe how amazing life here is! It is so much more. Beautifully more!”.
Another commenter agreed: “Yes, yes and yes. This is how we live here. We give hugs and kisses..”