Former England prop Joe Marler has lifted the lid on a terrifying condition that leaves him frozen in fear — and it’s something that’s plagued him for years.
The Harlequins hardman made the chilling admission during an episode of his Things People Do podcast, where he was joined by BBC Uncanny host and paranormal investigator Danny Robins.
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Robins, 49, has made his career by delving into real-life encounters with the supernatural. And while Marler, 34, has long labelled himself a sceptic when it comes to ghosts, he revealed one recurring and unnerving experience that has shaken him to his core.
“I am intrigued to know if some of the stuff I have experienced is due to a ghost or if there is an explanation,” Marler said.
“I always have this recurring moment that there is this figure in my doorway and it is not me or one of the four kids.
“It is bigger, a figure in the doorway. It is like I can feel him staring at me and I am s***ing myself and I can’t move.
“I am paralysed and screaming at the top of my voice ‘f*** off get out of here what do you want’.
“I want to reach for my baseball bat but I can’t and then that happens so many times but there is this perverse thing in me that kind of enjoys it.”
It’s a terrifying ordeal for anyone — let alone a 6ft international rugby veteran — but Robins was quick to offer an explanation that didn’t involve ghosts or demons.
He told Marler he was likely experiencing sleep paralysis, a phenomenon that affects thousands of people and has long been mistaken for supernatural encounters.
“I can tell you what is happening here, it is called sleep paralysis and many people who think they have seen a ghost have just experienced this,” Robins explained.
“Basically your body locks you down so you don’t act out your dreams.
“It paralyses you so you don’t get up and jump out of a window.
“But sometimes it goes wrong and you are stuck in a state when you are awake and your body is locking you down and you are seeing sleep imagery in front of you.
“The classic is seeing a dark shadowy figure in your room and sometimes you hear people calling your name.
“But it is a weird state and it can be terrifying. Often you can feel this pressure on your chest and people often speak about feeling a demon or witch sitting on your chest.”
Chilling stuff — but thankfully for Marler, there’s a scientific explanation behind the night-time horror.
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