{"id":101461,"date":"2025-05-14T18:27:12","date_gmt":"2025-05-14T18:27:12","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/101461\/"},"modified":"2025-05-14T18:27:12","modified_gmt":"2025-05-14T18:27:12","slug":"truth-behind-meghan-markle-kate-middleton-bridesmaid-fight-revealed-by-royal-staffer","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/101461\/","title":{"rendered":"Truth behind Meghan Markle, Kate Middleton bridesmaid fight revealed by royal staffer"},"content":{"rendered":"<p id=\"mntl-sc-block_2-0\">Meghan Markle\u00a0and\u00a0Kate Middleton royally clashed in 2018.<\/p>\n<p>In Tom Quinn\u2019s new book, \u201cYes, Ma\u2019am: The Secret Life of Royal Servants,\u201d an anonymous royal staffer claims that the sisters-in-law made each other cry <a href=\"https:\/\/nypost.com\/2023\/08\/02\/meghan-markle-feels-kate-middleton-got-away-with-abuse\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">when they were at odds<\/a> over the dress Princess Charlotte would wear as part of Markle\u2019s wedding party.<\/p>\n<p>In the lead-up to <a href=\"https:\/\/nypost.com\/2024\/05\/27\/entertainment\/prince-harry-and-meghan-markles-wedding-was-miserable-and-a-disaster-royal-photographer\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Markle\u2019s wedding to\u00a0Prince Harry<\/a>, it was alleged that the women got into a tiff over the tailoring of then-3-year-old Charlotte\u2019s dress that left Middleton crying.<\/p>\n<p>Tom Quinn\u2019s new biography. Biteback Publishing<\/p>\n<p>Princess Charlotte and Kate Middleton during Meghan Markle and Prince Harry\u2019s wedding. POOL\/AFP via Getty Images<\/p>\n<p>However, during a 2021 <a href=\"https:\/\/nypost.com\/2021\/03\/07\/meghan-markles-interview-was-full-of-bull\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">sit-down interview with Oprah Winfrey, <\/a>the Duchess of Sussex, 43, claimed \u201cthe reverse happened,\u201d meaning she was the one crying over what transpired.<\/p>\n<p id=\"mntl-sc-block_15-0\">\u201cIt was a really hard week of the wedding,\u201d Markle said, noting that Middleton, also 43, was \u201cupset about something,\u201d but later \u201cowned it.\u201d<\/p>\n<p id=\"mntl-sc-block_19-0\">According to Markle, the future queen later \u201cbrought me flowers and a note apologizing.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Prince Harry and Meghan Markle\u2019s wedding day. Getty Images<\/p>\n<p id=\"mntl-sc-block_19-0\">\u201cI actually think it\u2019s \u2014 I don\u2019t think it\u2019s fair to her to get into the details of that because she apologized, and I\u2019ve forgiven her,\u201d Markle said of her sister-in-law.<\/p>\n<p>The \u201cSuits\u201d alum found it \u201cshocking\u201d that the press ran with the incident months after the wedding.<\/p>\n<p id=\"mntl-sc-block_21-0\">\u201cI would have never wanted that to come out about her ever, even though it happened,\u201d Markle insisted.<\/p>\n<p>Kate Middleton and Meghan Markle. John Rainford\/WENN<\/p>\n<p id=\"mntl-sc-block_6-0\">Now, the royal staffer insists that the \u201cpapers and commentators got this wrong.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cThe truth is that as with many of these spats between sisters, brothers or even sisters-in-law, both sides were really upset,\u201d the staffer told Quinn, per\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.newsweek.com\/meghan-markle-princess-kate-cried-bridesmaids-dresses-book-2071438\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Newsweek<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cThe truth is that during the discussions about [Charlotte\u2019s] bridesmaid\u2019s dress, Meghan said a few things she regretted and Kate said a few things she later regretted, but it was all in the heat of the moment. Both women were crying their eyes out!\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Kate Middleton and Meghan Markle at Buckingham Palace in 2018. Getty Images<\/p>\n<p>At the time, sources told People there was significant \u201cstress\u201d leading up to the wedding.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cKate had only just given birth to\u00a0Prince Louis\u00a0and was feeling quite emotional,\u201d royal reporter Camilla Tominey wrote in\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.telegraph.co.uk\/royal-family\/2018\/11\/26\/kate-meghan-royal-sisterhood-really-breaking-point\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">the Telegraph<\/a> in 2018.<\/p>\n<p>In <a href=\"https:\/\/nypost.com\/tag\/prince-harry-spare-book\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Harry\u2019s 2023 memoir \u201cSpare,\u201d<\/a> the royal, 40,\u00a0wrote that Middleton texted Markle four days prior to their nuptials, saying: \u201cCharlotte\u2019s dress is too big, too long, too baggy. She cried when she tried it on at home.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Kate and Meghan watch the Wimbledon Women\u2019s Final. MEGA<\/p>\n<p>Markle then told Middleton to have Charlotte see the tailor \u201cstanding by\u201d at Kensington Palace. The Princess of Wales allegedly refused, expressing \u201call the dresses need to be remade.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cA short time later, I arrived home and found Meg on the floor. Sobbing,\u201d Harry claimed in his book. \u201cI was horrified to see her so upset but didn\u2019t think it was a catastrophe.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>He added that Middleton stopped by the next day with flowers and a card.<\/p>\n<p>The Prince of Wales poses for an official portrait to mark his 70th Birthday. MEGA<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/pagesix.com\/2023\/01\/12\/kate-and-meghans-tailor-speaks-on-bridesmaids-dress-text-drama\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">The tailor, Ajay Mirpui, spoke out after Harry\u2019s book<\/a> was published and recounted the tense situation.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cIf anything happened in the background, it didn\u2019t happen in front of me,\u201d the tailor told the\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.dailymail.co.uk\/news\/article-11620179\/Tailor-centre-Meghan-Kates-bridesmaid-dress-row-speaks-out.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Daily Mail<\/a>\u00a0in an interview at the time. \u201cBut yes, weddings are stressful at the best of times \u2014 and especially one at this high level; you\u2019ve got to respect that. They were faced with a problem like anyone gets at a wedding, with last-minute hitches. I can understand why anybody would be upset if the dresses weren\u2019t fitting \u2014 it\u2019s nerve-wracking.\u201d <\/p>\n<p>\u201cI feel for them all because you wouldn\u2019t want the children to go out on a big stage in an ill-fitting dress \u2014 and that\u2019s what they were,\u201d Mirpuri admitted. \u201cAll six bridesmaids\u2019 dresses had to be fixed, and we did it.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Meghan Markle and Prince Harry\u2019s wedding photo. AP<\/p>\n<p>This wasn\u2019t the first time Markle and Middleton feuded. In the 2022 Netflix series \u201cHarry &amp; Meghan,\u201d Markle recounted her awkward first encounter with Middleton and Prince William.<\/p>\n<p id=\"mntl-sc-block_43-0\">\u201cLike I was a hugger, always been a hugger,\u201d Markle began. \u201cI didn\u2019t realize that that is really jarring for a lot of Brits.\u201d<\/p>\n<p id=\"mntl-sc-block_45-0\">\u201cI guess I\u2019d start to understand very quickly that the formality on the outside, carried through on the inside,\u201d she noted. \u201cThere is a forward-facing way of being, and then you close the door and you relax now. But that formality carries over on both sides, and that was surprising to me.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Prince Harry and Meghan Markle tie the knot. Getty Images<\/p>\n<p>Markle and Harry, who share kids Archie, 6, and Lilibet, 3, <a href=\"https:\/\/nypost.com\/2025\/05\/10\/entertainment\/meghan-markle-and-prince-harry-make-it-a-date-night-at-beyonces-la-concert\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">relocated to Montecito, California<\/a> in 2020 after stepping back from their royal duties. They last saw Harry\u2019s family in-person at the 2022 funeral for Queen Elizabeth II.<\/p>\n<p>Earlier this month, <a href=\"https:\/\/nypost.com\/2025\/05\/02\/entertainment\/prince-harry-reveals-if-hell-ever-bring-archie-and-lilibet-back-to-the-uk\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Markle and Harry lost their bid for security in the UK.<\/a><\/p>\n<p>William, Kate, Harry and Meghan at Windsor Castle. ZUMAPRESS.com<\/p>\n<p>Prince Harry\u2019s <a href=\"https:\/\/nypost.com\/2025\/05\/02\/entertainment\/prince-harry-loses-final-bid-for-taxpayer-funded-security\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">final appeal against the United Kingdom<\/a>\u00a0government over taxpayer-funded security was denied.<\/p>\n<p>He alleged he was\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/nypost.com\/2025\/04\/08\/entertainment\/prince-harry-arrives-at-london-court-claims-he-was-singled-out-for-inferior-treatment-after-losing-taxpayer-funded-uk-security\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">singled out for \u201cunjustified and inferior treatment\u201d<\/a>\u00a0after he and his family were stripped of their publicly funded security detail.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI can\u2019t see a world in which I would be bringing my wife and children back to the UK at this point,\u201d Prince Harry\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.bbc.com\/news\/articles\/c8074n5z597o\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">told the BBC <\/a>after the verdict. <\/p>\n<p>\u201cThe things that they\u2019re going to miss is, well, everything. I love my country. I always have done. Despite what some people in that country have done,\u201d he went on. \u201cI miss the UK, I miss parts of the UK, of course I do. I think that it\u2019s really quite sad that I won\u2019t be able to show my children my homeland.\u201d<a href=\"https:\/\/nypost.com\/2025\/05\/10\/entertainment\/meghan-markle-and-prince-harry-make-it-a-date-night-at-beyonces-la-concert\/#\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Meghan Markle\u00a0and\u00a0Kate Middleton royally clashed in 2018. 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