{"id":10287,"date":"2025-04-11T08:19:09","date_gmt":"2025-04-11T08:19:09","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/10287\/"},"modified":"2025-04-11T08:19:09","modified_gmt":"2025-04-11T08:19:09","slug":"she-was-running-a-hair-salon-aged-just-18-then-her-world-came-crashing-down","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/10287\/","title":{"rendered":"She was running a hair salon aged just 18, then her world came crashing down"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Severe mental health problems toook their toll on Sian Marsden, but now she&#8217;s using her experiences to help shape care services in Greater Manchester<img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/0_sian51.jpg\" loading=\"eager\"  \/>Sian Marsden, 25, has become a &#8216;lived experience&#8217; representative for a mental health trust<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \">She was a succesful teenager, running a hair salon by the time she was 18.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \">But it all came crashing down for Sian Marsden when her mental health took a plunge.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \">The overwhelming nature of her job, coupled with personal struggles, led to a severe mental health crisis.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \">\u201cI felt like a walking zombie and completely dissociated with reality to protect myself and cope\u201d, she said.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \">The teen, from <a class=\"TextLink_text-link__dBSS0 TextLink_enabled__dJF3l\" href=\"https:\/\/www.manchestereveningnews.co.uk\/all-about\/tameside\" target=\"\" aria-label=\"\" tabindex=\"0\" rel=\"noopener\">Tameside<\/a>, was facing numerous obstacles at the time, including a disruptive home and school life.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \">\u201cI became so paranoid that I found myself unable to open curtains or leave my home, through fear that someone was watching me,\u201d she told the Local Democracy Service.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \">\u201cI was on so much medication that my mind was all over the place\u201d, she explained.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \">She faced multiple issues, including post-traumatic stress disorder, anxiety, emotionally-unstable personality disorder, body dysmorphia and psychosis.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \">Sian, now 25, from Hadfield, decided she needed more support. Things couldn\u2019t continue the way they were going.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \">Sian was referred to the Tameside community mental health team.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \">And the help was transformational.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \">She praised the adjustments they made to support her through her darkest times.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \">\u201cThere were some days I couldn\u2019t even leave my bedroom, but they understood my feelings,\u201d she said.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \">\u201cThey came to my house and would sit at my bedroom door to talk to me.\u201cWe would have our sessions while on a walk or having a cup of coffee, and I really felt like they adapted to my needs. Nothing was too much trouble.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Help and support<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \"><strong class=\"Strong_strong__e2x35\">Samaritans (116 123)<\/strong> <strong class=\"Strong_strong__e2x35\">samaritans.org<\/strong> operates a 24-hour service available every day of the year. If you prefer to write down how you\u2019re feeling, or if you\u2019re worried about being overheard on the phone, you can email Samaritans at <a class=\"TextLink_text-link__dBSS0 TextLink_enabled__dJF3l\" href=\"https:\/\/www.manchestereveningnews.co.uk\/news\/greater-manchester-news\/mailto:jo@samaritans.org\" target=\"\" aria-label=\"\" tabindex=\"0\" rel=\"noopener\">jo@samaritans.org<\/a>, write to Freepost SAMARITANS LETTERS (no more information needed) and visit www.samaritans.org\/branches to find your nearest branch.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \"><strong class=\"Strong_strong__e2x35\">For support for people<\/strong> <strong class=\"Strong_strong__e2x35\">feeling suicidal, if you are concerned about someone or if you are bereaved by suicide see <a class=\"TextLink_text-link__dBSS0 TextLink_enabled__dJF3l\" href=\"https:\/\/t.co\/jex29ZNwrb?amp=1\" target=\"\" aria-label=\"\" tabindex=\"0\">http:\/\/shiningalightonsuicide.org.uk<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \"><strong class=\"Strong_strong__e2x35\">CALM (0800 58 58 58) thecalmzone.net<\/strong> has a helpline is for men who are down or have hit a wall for any reason, who need to talk or find information and support. They&#8217;re open 5pm to midnight, 365 days a year.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \"><strong class=\"Strong_strong__e2x35\">Greater Manchester Bereavement Service<\/strong> Greater Manchester Bereavement Service can help to find support for anyone in Greater Manchester that has been bereaved or affected by a death. No one needs to feel alone as they deal with their grief. <a class=\"TextLink_text-link__dBSS0 TextLink_enabled__dJF3l\" href=\"http:\/\/www.greater-manchester-bereavement-service.org.uk\/\" target=\"_blank\" aria-label=\"www.greater-manchester-bereavement-service.org.ukLink opens in a new tab.\" tabindex=\"0\" rel=\"noopener\">www.greater-manchester-bereavement-service.org.uk<\/a><\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \"><strong class=\"Strong_strong__e2x35\">Childline (0800 1111 )<\/strong> runs a helpline for children and young people in the UK. Calls are free and the number won\u2019t show up on your phone bill.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \"><strong class=\"Strong_strong__e2x35\">PAPYRUS (0800 068 41 41)<\/strong> is a voluntary organisation supporting teenagers and young adults who are feeling suicidal.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \"><strong class=\"Strong_strong__e2x35\">Beat Eating Disorders: <\/strong>Beat provides helplines for adults and young people offering support and information about eating disorders. These helplines are free to call from all phones. Adult Helpline: 0808 801 0677, Studentline: 0808 801 0811, Youthline: 0808 801 0711. <a class=\"TextLink_text-link__dBSS0 TextLink_enabled__dJF3l\" href=\"http:\/\/www.beateatingdisorders.org.uk\/\" target=\"\" aria-label=\"\" tabindex=\"0\" rel=\"noopener\">www.beateatingdisorders.org.uk<\/a><\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \"><strong class=\"Strong_strong__e2x35\">Anorexia &amp; Bulimia Care: <\/strong>ABC provide on-going care, emotional support and practical guidance for anyone affected by eating disorders, those struggling personally and parents, families and friends. Helpline: 03000 11 12 13. <a class=\"TextLink_text-link__dBSS0 TextLink_enabled__dJF3l\" href=\"http:\/\/www.anorexiabulimiacare.org.uk\/\" target=\"\" aria-label=\"\" tabindex=\"0\" rel=\"noopener\">www.anorexiabulimiacare.org.uk\/<\/a><\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \"><strong class=\"Strong_strong__e2x35\">Students Against Depression<\/strong> is a website for students who are depressed, have a low mood or are having suicidal thoughts. Bullying UK is a website for both children and adults affected by bullying <a class=\"TextLink_text-link__dBSS0 TextLink_enabled__dJF3l\" href=\"https:\/\/www.google.com\/url?q=http%3A%2F%2Fstudentsagainstdepression.org%2F&amp;sa=D&amp;source=hangouts&amp;ust=1525206057433000&amp;usg=AFQjCNF4vskKmFfVBw3ctko-7lRw4JnUnA\" target=\"\" aria-label=\"\" tabindex=\"0\" rel=\"noopener\">studentsagainstdepression.org<\/a><\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \">For information and links to charities and organisations that can help with substance abuse, visit <a class=\"TextLink_text-link__dBSS0 TextLink_enabled__dJF3l\" href=\"https:\/\/www.supportline.org.uk\/problems\/drugs\/\" target=\"\" aria-label=\"\" tabindex=\"0\" rel=\"noopener\">https:\/\/www.supportline.org.uk\/problems\/drugs\/<\/a><\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \">Sian also received her official diagnosis while under the team, something that brought her clarity and validation. She said: \u201cMy final puzzle piece fell into place, and I could finally understand and make sense of my mind.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \">\u201cIt was such a relief to be able to hear the words, and to be referred for the specific treatment I needed,\u201d she said.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \">As well as mental health support, the team noticed how Sian\u2019s living situation was having a negative impact on her recovery.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \">They supported her to find and secure a new home, where she could have her own space. Sian had a new sense of independence and positive outlook on her future.<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/0_pennine20.jpg\" loading=\"lazy\"  \/>Sian has co-interviewed potential new staff at the trust (Image: ASP)<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \">She said: \u201cThe support I received from the community team and during a short stay as a patient on a mental health ward definitely saved my life.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \">\u201cI was inspired to help others and make a real difference in my local area.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \">Working closely with Tameside and Glossop involvement team, part of Pennine Care <a class=\"TextLink_text-link__dBSS0 TextLink_enabled__dJF3l\" href=\"https:\/\/www.manchestereveningnews.co.uk\/all-about\/nhs\" target=\"\" aria-label=\"\" tabindex=\"0\" rel=\"noopener\">NHS<\/a> Foundation Trust, Sian is now making a significant impact on local mental health services by sharing her insight and experiences.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \">Sian heard about Tameside involvement team through her support workers and was intrigued by the idea of using her voice to make positive change to services.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \">Sian has supported the team to review website content, team workbooks and training, with a focus on making sure patient care is at the heart of everything.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \">She\u2019s written a guest edition of the community mental health team\u2019s newsletter to encourage others to come forward. And she has also supported recruitment by co-interviewing new staff.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \">\u201cAs someone who has lived experience of inpatient and community mental health services, I feel I can bring lots of value to the table\u201d, Sian said.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \">\u201cIt\u2019s great to have an outlet where you can be honest and offer your opinion on how things could change for the better.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \">Rob Baker, Pennine Care\u2019s assistant involvement co-ordinator added: \u201cWorking in partnership with people with lived experience is crucial for mental health services.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \">\u201cOne of our ambitions is listening to improve, demonstrating how passionate we feel about it.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \">\u201cPeople like Sian offer unique insights that professionals might miss and they help identify service gaps and suggest practical improvements.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \">\u201cIt supports us to be more effective and patient-focused, so we can better meet the needs of those we serve.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \">When asked about her message to people who have not yet sought help, Sian said: \u201cThe mind is dangerous and being in your own head is the worst place you can possibly be. It\u2019s so important to talk to people and tell them what\u2019s going on.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \">\u201cI felt stupid and thought I would be judged, but once I spoke up it took the weight off my shoulders.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \">\u201cThe hardest step is always the first, but once it\u2019s done you\u2019ll find it\u2019s the best thing you\u2019ve ever done. I now have my own voice and control of my life.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \">\u201cOne day you\u2019ll thank yourself for never giving up.\u201d<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Severe mental health problems toook their toll on Sian Marsden, but now she&#8217;s using her experiences to help&hellip;\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":10288,"comment_status":"","ping_status":"","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[4317],"tags":[105,218,7079,1026,16,15],"class_list":{"0":"post-10287","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-mental-health","8":"tag-health","9":"tag-mental-health","10":"tag-pennine-nhs-trust","11":"tag-tameside","12":"tag-uk","13":"tag-united-kingdom"},"share_on_mastodon":{"url":"https:\/\/pubeurope.com\/@uk\/114318354954565952","error":""},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10287","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=10287"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10287\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/10288"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=10287"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=10287"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=10287"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}