{"id":105511,"date":"2025-05-16T06:01:17","date_gmt":"2025-05-16T06:01:17","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/105511\/"},"modified":"2025-05-16T06:01:17","modified_gmt":"2025-05-16T06:01:17","slug":"lorde-says-shes-in-the-middle-gender-wiseas-she-opens-up-on-identity","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/105511\/","title":{"rendered":"Lorde says she&#8217;s &#8216;in the middle gender-wise&#8217;as she opens up on identity"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>\t\t<img fetchpriority=\"high\" width=\"646\" height=\"430\" src=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/SEI_251431508-a3ed.jpg\" class=\"article-image wp-image-23095125\" alt=\"Lorde at The 2025 Met Gala Celebrating \" superfine:=\"\" tailoring=\"\" black=\"\" style=\"\" held=\"\" at=\"\" the=\"\" metropolitan=\"\" museum=\"\" of=\"\" art=\"\" decoding=\"sync\"\/><br \/>\n\t\tLorde (Picture: Gilbert Flores\/Variety via Getty Images)<\/p>\n<p>New Zealand singer <a data-ico=\"hyperlink-article\" href=\"https:\/\/metro.co.uk\/tag\/lorde\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Lorde<\/a> has opened up about her gender identity as she reveals that she has a much more \u2018expansive\u2019 feeling.<\/p>\n<p>The Kiwi singer, 28, is set to release her new album Virgin next month, her first album since <a data-ico=\"hyperlink-article\" href=\"https:\/\/metro.co.uk\/2021\/06\/11\/lorde-solar-power-video-star-releases-first-song-in-four-years-14754426\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Solar Power in 2021.<\/a><\/p>\n<p>While promoting her new record, the pop star has revealed that she had a different approach to this album, and has had some major changes in her personal life.<\/p>\n<p>\u2018My <a data-ico=\"hyperlink-article\" data-track=\"inline-tag-auto-link_article\" href=\"https:\/\/metro.co.uk\/tag\/gender\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">gender<\/a> got way more expansive when I gave my body more room,\u2019 she told <a href=\"https:\/\/www.rollingstone.com\/music\/music-news\/lorde-gender-dentity-interview-1235339017\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Rolling Stone<\/a>. The outlet adds that this change in gender expression is clear in her album, and in the opening track, she sings: \u2018Some days I\u2019m a woman\/Some days I\u2019m a man.\u2019<\/p>\n<p>When asked by the outlet how she now identifies herself, Lorde revealed that it\u2019s something she has spoken about with fellow pop sensation <a data-ico=\"hyperlink-article\" href=\"https:\/\/metro.co.uk\/tag\/chappell-roan\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Chappell Roan<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>\u2018[Chappell Roan] asked me this, she revealed. \u2018She was like, \u201cSo, are you nonbinary now?\u201d <\/p>\n<p>\u2018And I was like, \u201cI\u2019m a woman except for the days when I\u2019m a man.\u201d I know that\u2019s not a very satisfying answer, but there\u2019s a part of me that is really resistant to boxing it up.\u2019<\/p>\n<p>\t\t<img width=\"646\" height=\"968\" src=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/SEI_251431425-d8b9.jpg\" class=\"article-image wp-image-23095131\" alt=\"PARIS, FRANCE - MARCH 05: Singer Ella Marija Lani Yelich-O'Connor a.k.a. Lorde attends the Miu Miu Womenswear Fall\/Winter 2024-2025 show as part of Paris Fashion Week on March 05, 2024 in Paris, France. (Photo by Marc Piasecki\/WireImage)\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\"\/><br \/>\n\t\tThe star has been open about how she now feels about her identity (Picture: Marc Piasecki\/WireImage)<\/p>\n<p>She said that she still considers herself a cis woman and her pronouns are still she\/her but she says she describes herself as \u2018in the middle gender-\u00adwise.\u2019 <\/p>\n<p>She added that as part of her gender discovery, she has found herself trying on men\u2019s clothing in shops in 2023, adding: \u2018This was before I had any sense of my gender broadening at all.\u2019<\/p>\n<p>She also revealed that she is now off birth control after a decade on hormones and most definitely feeling the effects, saying that her natural menstrual cycle is the best drug she\u2019s taken.<\/p>\n<p>\u2018But I hadn\u2019t ovulated in 10 years. And when I ovulated for the first time, I cannot describe to you how crazy it was. <\/p>\n<p>\u2018One of the best drugs I\u2019ve ever done.\u2019<\/p>\n<p>\t\t<img width=\"646\" height=\"841\" src=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/SEI_251431490-53b7.jpg\" class=\"article-image wp-image-23095133\" alt=\"HOLLYWOOD, CA - SEPTEMBER 25: Singer\/songwriter Lorde poses before performing on the ALT 98.7 Penthouse stage at The Historic Hollywood Tower on September 25, 2013 in Hollywood, California. (Photo by Amanda Edwards\/WireImage)\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\"\/><br \/>\n\t\tLorde first came into the spotlight as a teenager (Picture: Amanda Edwards\/WireImage)<\/p>\n<p>Speaking about drugs, the singer revealed that she explored a drug therapy that saw her combine MDMA and psilocybin therapy (a type of PTSD treatment) to try and help her combat her crippling stage fright.<\/p>\n<p>She revealed that the sessions took place between 2022 and 2024 and had a huge impact on her mind and body.<\/p>\n<p>\u2018I was touring without stage fright for the first time,\u2019 she said, adding that it also helped her to connect with her music.<\/p>\n<p>\u2018I would play \u2018Supercut, and all of a sudden there was a hook around my guts and everyone in the room was having the same feeling, [like] there\u2019d been a huge pressure change. It made me realise how much I love and kind of need that very deep, visceral response to feel my music.\u2019<\/p>\n<p>In an interview earlier this year with<a href=\"https:\/\/www.documentjournal.com\/2025\/05\/the-magic-lives-close-to-the-edge-lorde-and-artist-martine-syms-on-the-beauty-of-the-self\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\"> Document Journal<\/a>, she spoke more about how the psychedelic therapy helped her.<\/p>\n<p>\u2018Reading is huge for me. Psychedelic therapy, honestly, is a huge cornerstone to my well-being and practice and just keeps me alive to what\u2019s out there and what\u2019s possible.\u2019<\/p>\n<p>She then emphasised the importance drug-taking has played in her art: \u2018I\u2019m obviously really fortunate not to have the genes of an addictive personality, but I remember first smoking weed as a teenager, and seeing my brain for what it was. <\/p>\n<p>\u2018If I hadn\u2019t smoked weed, I don\u2019t think I would be an artist.\u2019<\/p>\n<p class=\"has-text-align-center\"><strong>Got a story?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"has-text-align-center\">If you\u2019ve got a celebrity story, video or pictures get in touch with the <a data-ico=\"hyperlink-article\" href=\"https:\/\/metro.co.uk\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Metro.co.uk<\/a> entertainment team by emailing us celebtips@metro.co.uk, calling 020 3615 2145 or by visiting our <a data-ico=\"hyperlink-article\" href=\"https:\/\/metro.co.uk\/submit-stuff\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Submit Stuff<\/a> page \u2013 we\u2019d love to hear from you.<\/p>\n<p class=\"metro-more-link\">Arrow<br \/>\nMORE: <a data-ico=\"hyperlink-article\" href=\"https:\/\/metro.co.uk\/2025\/05\/15\/rock-band-forced-cancel-european-tour-drummer-forcibly-removed-plane-detained-us-border-control-23094298\/?ico=more_text_links\" class=\"\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Rock band cancels tour after drummer hauled off plane and detained by US border control<\/a><\/p>\n<p class=\"metro-more-link\">Arrow<br \/>\nMORE: <a data-ico=\"hyperlink-article\" href=\"https:\/\/metro.co.uk\/2025\/05\/15\/julia-fox-wears-period-blood-pride-23093624\/?ico=more_text_links\" class=\"\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Julia Fox wears her period blood with pride<\/a><\/p>\n<p class=\"metro-more-link\">Arrow<br \/>\nMORE: <a data-ico=\"hyperlink-article\" href=\"https:\/\/metro.co.uk\/2025\/05\/15\/james-bond-actor-joe-don-baker-dies-aged-89-23093570\/?ico=more_text_links\" class=\"\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">James Bond actor Joe Don Baker dies aged 89<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Lorde (Picture: Gilbert Flores\/Variety via Getty Images) New Zealand singer Lorde has opened up about her gender identity&hellip;\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":105512,"comment_status":"","ping_status":"","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[3936],"tags":[77,25402,269,693,16,15,1675],"class_list":{"0":"post-105511","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-music","8":"tag-entertainment","9":"tag-lorde","10":"tag-music","11":"tag-showbiz","12":"tag-uk","13":"tag-united-kingdom","14":"tag-us-showbiz-news"},"share_on_mastodon":{"url":"https:\/\/pubeurope.com\/@uk\/114515993289943761","error":""},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/105511","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=105511"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/105511\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/105512"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=105511"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=105511"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=105511"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}