{"id":1143673,"date":"2026-08-12T03:23:28","date_gmt":"2026-08-12T03:23:28","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/1143673\/"},"modified":"2026-08-12T03:23:28","modified_gmt":"2026-08-12T03:23:28","slug":"shes-in-pain-teen-boy-branded-immature-after-refusing-to-disturb-sleeping-girlfriend","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/1143673\/","title":{"rendered":"&#8220;She&#8217;s in Pain!&#8221;: Teen Boy Branded Immature After Refusing to Disturb Sleeping Girlfriend"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>\t\t\t\t\t\t<img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-864829\" class=\"wp-image-864829\" src=\"https:\/\/twistedsifter.com\/wp-content\/plugins\/lazy-load-0.7\/images\/1x1.trans.gif\" alt=\"Man holding his GF while she sleeps off a migraine\" width=\"800\" height=\"450\" title=\"Shes in Pain!: Teen Boy Branded Immature After Refusing to Disturb Sleeping Girlfriend\" data-lazy-src=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/08\/TWISTED-IMAGES-JPG-quality-75-size-180KB-2026-08-09T183149.725.jpg\" data-lazy- data-lazy-\/><\/p>\n<p id=\"caption-attachment-864829\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Pexels\/Reddit<\/p>\n<p>Taking care of someone you love can put you in a tough spot when other people expect your help too.<\/p>\n<p>One teenager found that out after <a href=\"https:\/\/www.reddit.com\/r\/AmItheAsshole\/comments\/1vexiwv\/aita_for_not_walking_the_dog_because_my_gf_had_a\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener nofollow\">his girlfriend<\/a> developed a migraine and finally fell asleep against him.<\/p>\n<p>Not long after she dozed off, his mom texted and asked him to help walk the family dogs, including one that can be difficult to handle.<\/p>\n<p>He said no for the moment and offered to do the dishes instead so his dad could take the dog later.<\/p>\n<p>However, his family thought he was being ridiculous and accused his girlfriend of manipulating him.<\/p>\n<p>Keep reading to learn the full story.<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p>I (19M) and my girlfriend (19F) were at my house yesterday, and we were just sitting in my room watching TV.<\/p>\n<p>After a while, she started getting a migraine. She ended up lying against me with her head on my chest and rested there, and also mentioned that it felt worse than her normal ones. Her migraine meds make her a little drowsy, so she was asleep.<\/p>\n<p>A little later, my mom texted me asking if I could come help with the dogs. We have two dogs, and one of them is a bigger dog that pulls pretty hard when he gets excited. Usually, me or my dad takes that dog, just depending on whoever is home\/not busy, but he was in the middle of cooking dinner and couldn\u2019t just leave what he was doing at the moment.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>At this time, his mom wanted him to help.<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p>My mom texted me in the family group chat asking if I could take the bigger dog while she took our other dog.<\/p>\n<p>I texted back saying I couldn\u2019t right now because my girlfriend had a migraine and was resting on me.<\/p>\n<p>My mom replied saying she could sit by herself for a little bit and that I was being ridiculous. My dad texted after saying it would only take 20 minutes and that I needed to help out, and that my girlfriend was being a baby.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>Then, his dad got involved.<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p>I told them I understood, but I didn\u2019t want to wake my girlfriend up and move her when she was finally comfortable, and that my dad could just take him after dinner, and that I\u2019d wash the dishes in return so that my dad didn\u2019t have to do them after cooking and could walk the dog.<\/p>\n<p>My dad told me I was being very immature, and I told them that I really didn\u2019t want to get up because of how she was feeling, and that I would do the dishes after I took her home.<\/p>\n<p>They both just texted me, \u201cOK,\u201d and ended up walking the dogs.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>Now, both of his parents are upset with him.<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p>The next day, my dad was annoyed, and we argued about it. He said it was ridiculous that I wouldn\u2019t get up for 20 minutes just because my girlfriend was lying on me. Before I could even speak, my sister (14F) added that it sounded like she was being manipulative.<\/p>\n<p>I said that I just wanted to stay with her since she was in pain, and that they were all being ridiculous, and that I did the dishes to make up for it.<\/p>\n<p>My dad said that it wasn\u2019t the point and that I skipped helping family for some whiny girl. I told him to screw off and left, and we haven\u2019t spoken since. My mom told me that I was being incredibly rude and told me to apologize, and I feel bad for how I reacted and think I overreacted.<\/p>\n<p>AITA?<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>Wow! It sounds like he was trying to make everyone happy, but fell short.<\/p>\n<p>Let\u2019s take a look at what the readers over at Reddit think he should\u2019ve done.<\/p>\n<p>Here\u2019s a reader who would take many conditions over a migraine.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/twistedsifter.com\/wp-content\/plugins\/lazy-load-0.7\/images\/1x1.trans.gif\" alt=\"envelope 80 Shes in Pain!: Teen Boy Branded Immature After Refusing to Disturb Sleeping Girlfriend\" height=\"60\" width=\"60\" title=\"Shes in Pain!: Teen Boy Branded Immature After Refusing to Disturb Sleeping Girlfriend\" data-lazy-src=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/envelope-80.jpg\"\/><\/p>\n<p>Never Miss a Story<\/p>\n<p>Sign up to get our BEST stories of the week straight to your inbox.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-864825\" src=\"https:\/\/twistedsifter.com\/wp-content\/plugins\/lazy-load-0.7\/images\/1x1.trans.gif\" alt=\"Migraine 3 Shes in Pain!: Teen Boy Branded Immature After Refusing to Disturb Sleeping Girlfriend\" width=\"800\" height=\"588\" title=\"Shes in Pain!: Teen Boy Branded Immature After Refusing to Disturb Sleeping Girlfriend\" data-lazy-src=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/08\/Migraine-3.jpg\" data-lazy- data-lazy-\/><\/p>\n<p>These are some harsh words.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-864826\" src=\"https:\/\/twistedsifter.com\/wp-content\/plugins\/lazy-load-0.7\/images\/1x1.trans.gif\" alt=\"Migraine 2 Shes in Pain!: Teen Boy Branded Immature After Refusing to Disturb Sleeping Girlfriend\" width=\"800\" height=\"592\" title=\"Shes in Pain!: Teen Boy Branded Immature After Refusing to Disturb Sleeping Girlfriend\" data-lazy-src=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/08\/Migraine-2.jpg\" data-lazy- data-lazy-\/><\/p>\n<p>This person thinks he did the right thing.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-864827\" src=\"https:\/\/twistedsifter.com\/wp-content\/plugins\/lazy-load-0.7\/images\/1x1.trans.gif\" alt=\"Migraine 1 Shes in Pain!: Teen Boy Branded Immature After Refusing to Disturb Sleeping Girlfriend\" width=\"800\" height=\"779\" title=\"Shes in Pain!: Teen Boy Branded Immature After Refusing to Disturb Sleeping Girlfriend\" data-lazy-src=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/08\/Migraine-1.jpg\" data-lazy- data-lazy-\/><\/p>\n<p>If you enjoyed this story, <a href=\"https:\/\/twistedsifter.com\/2026\/07\/man-is-regularly-asked-to-drive-5-hours-to-work-on-his-grandparents-investment-property-but-he-doesnt-want-to-do-it-anymore\/?utm_source=IN-ARTICLE&amp;utm_medium=IN-ARTICLE&amp;utm_campaign=IN-ARTICLE\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">check out this post<\/a> about a grandson who is tired of driving 5 hours one way to work on his grandparent\u2019s investment property for free.<\/p>\n<p>Yet another reader who thinks he did the right thing.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-864828\" src=\"https:\/\/twistedsifter.com\/wp-content\/plugins\/lazy-load-0.7\/images\/1x1.trans.gif\" alt=\"Migraine Shes in Pain!: Teen Boy Branded Immature After Refusing to Disturb Sleeping Girlfriend\" width=\"800\" height=\"706\" title=\"Shes in Pain!: Teen Boy Branded Immature After Refusing to Disturb Sleeping Girlfriend\" data-lazy-src=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/08\/Migraine.jpg\" data-lazy- data-lazy-\/><\/p>\n<p>He was just trying to do what was right.<\/p>\n<p>Sure, his parents needed help too, but waiting a little while to walk the dog really wasn\u2019t the end of the world.<\/p>\n<p>BUT\u2026 what he said to his dad probably took things a little too far.<\/p>\n<p>At this point, he\u2019s best off apologizing to his parents and not letting it get that far again.<\/p>\n<p>Enjoyed this story? Readers who liked this also read <a href=\"https:\/\/twistedsifter.com\/2026\/07\/a-teenager-saved-up-his-excitement-for-his-first-day-of-work-until-his-mom-stood-in-his-way\/?utm_source=IN-ARTICLE&amp;utm_medium=IN-ARTICLE&amp;utm_campaign=IN-ARTICLE\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">this story<\/a> about a teenager who wants to work, but his mom thinks working past 8pm is too late for high school.<br \/>\n<a href=\"https:\/\/twistedsifter.com\/2026\/07\/a-teenager-saved-up-his-excitement-for-his-first-day-of-work-until-his-mom-stood-in-his-way\/?utm_source=IN-ARTICLE&amp;utm_medium=IN-ARTICLE&amp;utm_campaign=IN-ARTICLE\" class=\"sifter-post-promo-button\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Read Story\u2192<\/a><\/p>\n<p>\t\t\t\t\t<a href=\"https:\/\/twistedsifter.com\/author\/heatherhall\/\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">&#13;<br \/>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<img alt=\"\" src=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/08\/1c0f2c82f57140c48a9251be90084b5cb80e2f6da07ee881797c506e339441e9.png\"  class=\"avatar avatar-120 photo\" height=\"120\" width=\"120\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\"\/>\t\t\t\t\t<\/a><\/p>\n<p>Heather Hall | Contributing Writer, Life &amp; Drama<\/p>\n<p>Heather Hall is a contributing writer for TwistedSifter specializing in internet culture, workplace conflict, and viral customer service stories. With over a decade of editorial experience in digital publishing, Heather excels at curating trending online discussions and providing insightful commentary on the daily dramas that capture the internet&#8217;s attention.<\/p>\n<p>Since beginning her career in 2011, she has developed deep expertise in SEO-driven digital content, having written for a wide array of publications covering lifestyle, business, and travel. At TwistedSifter, Heather focuses on synthesizing complex social media threads into engaging, highly readable narratives that highlight the human element of viral news.<\/p>\n<p>When she isn\u2019t analyzing the latest internet discourse, Heather is a dedicated mother of three sons who takes family gaming nights entirely too seriously\u2014whether she is dominating in Mario Kart, exploring The Legend of Zelda, or jumping into Roblox.<\/p>\n<p>Connect with Heather on <a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/heather.dawn.359\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Facebook<\/a> and <a href=\"https:\/\/twistedsifter.com\/2026\/08\/shes-in-pain-teen-boy-branded-immature-after-refusing-to-disturb-sleeping-girlfriend\/linkedin.com\/in\/heather-hall-1607ab1b\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">LinkedIn<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>\n\t\tCategories: <a href=\"https:\/\/twistedsifter.com\/category\/life-drama\/family-and-relationships\/\" rel=\"category tag nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Family &amp; Relationships<\/a>, <a href=\"https:\/\/twistedsifter.com\/category\/life-drama\/\" rel=\"category tag nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Life &amp; Drama<\/a>\t\t<br \/>Tags:  \u00b7 <a href=\"https:\/\/twistedsifter.com\/tag\/aita\/\" rel=\"tag nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">aita<\/a>, <a href=\"https:\/\/twistedsifter.com\/tag\/family-drama\/\" rel=\"tag nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">family drama<\/a>, <a href=\"https:\/\/twistedsifter.com\/tag\/girlfriend\/\" rel=\"tag nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">girlfriend<\/a>, <a href=\"https:\/\/twistedsifter.com\/tag\/migraine\/\" rel=\"tag nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">migraine<\/a>, <a href=\"https:\/\/twistedsifter.com\/tag\/picture\/\" rel=\"tag nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">picture<\/a>, <a href=\"https:\/\/twistedsifter.com\/tag\/reddit\/\" rel=\"tag nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">reddit<\/a>, <a href=\"https:\/\/twistedsifter.com\/tag\/sleeping\/\" rel=\"tag nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">sleeping<\/a>, <a href=\"https:\/\/twistedsifter.com\/tag\/teen-boy\/\" rel=\"tag nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">teen boy<\/a>, <a href=\"https:\/\/twistedsifter.com\/tag\/top\/\" rel=\"tag nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">top<\/a>, <a href=\"https:\/\/twistedsifter.com\/tag\/walking-dogs\/\" rel=\"tag nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">walking dogs<\/a>\t<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Pexels\/Reddit Taking care of someone you love can put you in a tough spot when other people expect&hellip;\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":1143674,"comment_status":"","ping_status":"","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":"","_share_on_mastodon":"0"},"categories":[11],"tags":[8725,78080,13942,105,5588,8726,2511,85504,310946,1067,16,15,310947],"class_list":["post-1143673","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","category-health","tag-aita","tag-family-drama","tag-girlfriend","tag-health","tag-migraine","tag-picture","tag-reddit","tag-sleeping","tag-teen-boy","tag-top","tag-uk","tag-united-kingdom","tag-walking-dogs"],"share_on_mastodon":{"url":"https:\/\/pubeurope.com\/@uk\/117080401533840441","error":""},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1143673","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1143673"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1143673\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/1143674"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1143673"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1143673"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1143673"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}