{"id":115189,"date":"2025-05-19T20:05:14","date_gmt":"2025-05-19T20:05:14","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/115189\/"},"modified":"2025-05-19T20:05:14","modified_gmt":"2025-05-19T20:05:14","slug":"woman-has-been-saving-money-to-buy-her-first-home-but-her-broke-family-member-has-been-guilt-tripping-her-to-share-her-money-twistedsifter","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/115189\/","title":{"rendered":"Woman Has Been Saving Money To Buy Her First Home, But Her Broke Family Member Has Been Guilt-Tripping Her To Share Her Money \u00bb TwistedSifter"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>\t\t\t\t\t\t<img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-489906\" class=\"wp-image-489906\" src=\"https:\/\/twistedsifter.com\/wp-content\/plugins\/lazy-load-0.7\/images\/1x1.trans.gif\" alt=\"Person counting and keeping track of their cash\" width=\"800\" height=\"420\" title=\"Woman Has Been Saving Money To Buy Her First Home, But Her Broke Family Member Has Been Guilt Tripping Her To Share Her Money\" data-lazy-src=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/Twisted-Sifter-648.jpg\" data-lazy- data-lazy-\/><\/p>\n<p id=\"caption-attachment-489906\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Pexels\/Reddit<\/p>\n<p>Some family members can be so entitled.<\/p>\n<p>If you have something they want, they may try to make you feel guilty until you break down and give it to them, but giving in isn\u2019t always a good idea.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.reddit.com\/r\/AmItheAsshole\/comments\/1jtcizm\/aita_for_not_sharing_my_savings_account\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">This woman<\/a> has been saving up to buy a house, but a family member wants her to share her money with them.<\/p>\n<p>What should she do?<\/p>\n<p>Check out the full story for all the details.<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p>One of my family members is upset with me because I have grown a savings account, and they feel like I should be helping them.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<blockquote>\n<p>Mind you, they are older than me and has a steady job and all.<\/p>\n<p>They want to spend their money on new vehicles and gadgets.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>This woman plans to buy a house.<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p>I\u2019m saving to buy my first house.<\/p>\n<p>But I\u2019m over here\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Being guilt-tripped.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>The other family member sounds irresponsible.<\/p>\n<p>Let\u2019s check out the comments of other people on Reddit.<\/p>\n<p>You have to look out for yourself, advises this user.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-489905\" src=\"https:\/\/twistedsifter.com\/wp-content\/plugins\/lazy-load-0.7\/images\/1x1.trans.gif\" alt=\"Screenshot 2025 04 16 at 11.03.56\u202fPM Woman Has Been Saving Money To Buy Her First Home, But Her Broke Family Member Has Been Guilt Tripping Her To Share Her Money\" width=\"800\" height=\"425\" title=\"Woman Has Been Saving Money To Buy Her First Home, But Her Broke Family Member Has Been Guilt Tripping Her To Share Her Money\" data-lazy-src=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/Screenshot-2025-04-16-at-11.03.56\u202fPM.png\" data-lazy- data-lazy-\/><\/p>\n<p>This person shares their personal thoughts.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-489904\" src=\"https:\/\/twistedsifter.com\/wp-content\/plugins\/lazy-load-0.7\/images\/1x1.trans.gif\" alt=\"Screenshot 2025 04 16 at 11.04.25\u202fPM Woman Has Been Saving Money To Buy Her First Home, But Her Broke Family Member Has Been Guilt Tripping Her To Share Her Money\" width=\"800\" height=\"360\" title=\"Woman Has Been Saving Money To Buy Her First Home, But Her Broke Family Member Has Been Guilt Tripping Her To Share Her Money\" data-lazy-src=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/Screenshot-2025-04-16-at-11.04.25\u202fPM.png\" data-lazy- data-lazy-\/><\/p>\n<p>This person offers useful advice.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-489903\" src=\"https:\/\/twistedsifter.com\/wp-content\/plugins\/lazy-load-0.7\/images\/1x1.trans.gif\" alt=\"Screenshot 2025 04 16 at 11.04.46\u202fPM Woman Has Been Saving Money To Buy Her First Home, But Her Broke Family Member Has Been Guilt Tripping Her To Share Her Money\" width=\"800\" height=\"434\" title=\"Woman Has Been Saving Money To Buy Her First Home, But Her Broke Family Member Has Been Guilt Tripping Her To Share Her Money\" data-lazy-src=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/Screenshot-2025-04-16-at-11.04.46\u202fPM.png\" data-lazy- data-lazy-\/><\/p>\n<p>Here\u2019s a short but similar thought.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-489902\" src=\"https:\/\/twistedsifter.com\/wp-content\/plugins\/lazy-load-0.7\/images\/1x1.trans.gif\" alt=\"Screenshot 2025 04 16 at 11.05.02\u202fPM Woman Has Been Saving Money To Buy Her First Home, But Her Broke Family Member Has Been Guilt Tripping Her To Share Her Money\" width=\"800\" height=\"258\" title=\"Woman Has Been Saving Money To Buy Her First Home, But Her Broke Family Member Has Been Guilt Tripping Her To Share Her Money\" data-lazy-src=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/Screenshot-2025-04-16-at-11.05.02\u202fPM.png\" data-lazy- data-lazy-\/><\/p>\n<p>Finally, more insightful advice from this person.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-489901\" src=\"https:\/\/twistedsifter.com\/wp-content\/plugins\/lazy-load-0.7\/images\/1x1.trans.gif\" alt=\"Screenshot 2025 04 16 at 11.05.20\u202fPM Woman Has Been Saving Money To Buy Her First Home, But Her Broke Family Member Has Been Guilt Tripping Her To Share Her Money\" width=\"800\" height=\"331\" title=\"Woman Has Been Saving Money To Buy Her First Home, But Her Broke Family Member Has Been Guilt Tripping Her To Share Her Money\" data-lazy-src=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/Screenshot-2025-04-16-at-11.05.20\u202fPM.png\" data-lazy- data-lazy-\/><\/p>\n<p>Saving money is not a problem.<\/p>\n<p>If you thought that was an interesting story, check this one out about <a href=\"https:\/\/twistedsifter.com\/2023\/12\/this-is-the-final-result-over-the-last-3-years-of-my-life-grandfather-creates-points-system-for-his-inheritance-and-a-family-friend-ends-up-getting-majority-share\/?utm_source=IN-ARTICLE&amp;utm_medium=IN-ARTICLE&amp;utm_campaign=IN-ARTICLE\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">a man who created a points system for his inheritance, and a family friend ends up getting almost all of it.<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Pexels\/Reddit Some family members can be so entitled. 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