{"id":115774,"date":"2025-05-20T01:13:10","date_gmt":"2025-05-20T01:13:10","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/115774\/"},"modified":"2025-05-20T01:13:10","modified_gmt":"2025-05-20T01:13:10","slug":"what-princess-kate-learned-from-the-late-prince-philip","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/115774\/","title":{"rendered":"What Princess Kate learned from the late Prince Philip"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>It\u2019s not an easy job, playing second fiddle to a monarch. But future queen <a href=\"https:\/\/www.nowtolove.co.nz\/tag\/catherine-princess-of-wales\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Catherine, Princess of Wales<\/a> has been preparing for when she\u2019ll be consort by following the example of someone who is the perfect role model.<\/p>\n<p>Her late grandfather-in-law, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.nowtolove.co.nz\/tag\/prince-philip-duke-of-edinburgh\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Prince Philip<\/a>, has been a huge influence on Kate and even though he\u2019s no longer around to share his wisdom, his legacy of how to carry out the tricky job of being the sovereign\u2019s other half will help Prince William\u2019s wife when her turn comes to tackle the position.<\/p>\n<p>Kate, 43, won\u2019t want to take on the role anytime soon, but <a href=\"https:\/\/www.nowtolove.co.nz\/celebrity\/royal-recovery-update\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">the King\u2019s cancer diagnosis<\/a> has forced the royal family and their aides to look ahead to a time when King William V is on the throne and Queen Catherine is by his side.<\/p>\n<p>Kate knows she will play a pivotal role in William\u2019s tenure as King. She started learning from Philip about what makes a good consort when she joined the royal family in 2011.<\/p>\n<p>Philip, who married the late Queen in 1947, was pleased when William, 42, started dating Kate, according to author Gyles Brandreth. The Duke of Edinburgh had been saddened that his former daughter-in-law, Princess Diana, had \u201callowed her popularity to go to her head\u201d, says Gyles, and was relieved to find Kate was \u201csuch a level-headed girl\u201d.<\/p>\n<p>William, while paying tribute to Philip after his death at 99 in April 2021, said he was grateful \u201cthat my wife had so many years to get to know my grandfather and for the kindness he showed her\u201d.<\/p>\n<p>Philip gave her some strong advice right from the beginning, says Gyles. \u201cHe told her, \u2018If you believe the attention is for you personally, you\u2019re going to end up in trouble. The attention is for your role, what you do, what you\u2019re supporting. It isn\u2019t for you as an individual. You are not a celebrity. You represent the royal family. That\u2019s all.\u2019\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Philip also gave her instructions on how to behave while in public, tells Gyles. \u201cDon\u2019t look at the camera. The Queen never looks at the camera. Look at who you\u2019re talking to.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Former naval officer Philip had to give up a career he loved when his wife became Queen in 1952. There were times when he grumbled about his role, including being unhappy that his children didn\u2019t take his surname (a protocol he got Elizabeth to change in 1960).<\/p>\n<p><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1920\" height=\"1600\" src=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/1905-kate-and-philip-2-682a5b7e9d93a.jpg\" alt=\"Wills and Kate with their kids, the Queen and Philip in Buckingham Palace\" class=\"wp-image-313702\"  \/>The Queen and Philip in 2015 with a young Prince George and baby Charlotte.<\/p>\n<p>But he always understood that being married to the Queen came with an extensive set of rules.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cIt was always a challenging role to take, but he did it with the most extraordinary flair, tact and diplomacy,\u201d says his youngest son, Prince Edward, 61. \u201cHe never tried to overshadow the Queen in any shape or form.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s something Kate has learned in her years in the royal family.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cShe never tries to outshine William,\u201d says royal biographer Penny Junor. \u201cShe\u2019s not on an ego trip and her head has not been turned by celebrity. She\u2019s like Prince Philip was.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Nor is she in <a href=\"https:\/\/www.nowtolove.co.nz\/celebrity\/royals\/william-and-kate-romance-timeline\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">her husband<\/a>\u2019s shadow. And although fans see her role as a supporting one, she has a lot of sway that the public doesn\u2019t always see.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cShe is hugely influential behind the scenes in hiring staff and the decision-making,\u201d says an insider. \u201cThey\u2019re a good double act.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Kate also sees her role as making life easier for William. That way, he can focus on his royal duties without sacrificing family time.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cShe is very good at acting as a gatekeeper to ensure William can do his work while also finding time to be a hands-on father, and that everyone understands that this is the deal.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Royal author Tom Quinn says Kate will make a perfect consort for William because their personalities are so complementary.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cKate is so calm and stable, and that\u2019s what William needs. She\u2019s a rock. And I think that\u2019s why the royal family feels very safe.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Court Jester<\/p>\n<p><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1920\" height=\"1600\" src=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/1905-kate-and-philip-1-682a5b79ad4cc.jpg\" alt=\"Princess Kate chatting to Philip on the Buckingham balcony\" class=\"wp-image-313701\"  \/><\/p>\n<p>Kate and Philip had a close bond, and people often saw him making her laugh at family events. Their connection actually went back to before they met \u2013 as a teenager, Kate took part in the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.dofe.org\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Duke of Edinburgh Awards<\/a>, founded by Philip in 1956. She once recalled trying to complete an activity to earn her gold award, but things not going to plan.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI can remember trying to cook bacon in the soaking wet,\u201d she said at an event. \u201cEverything was just sopping. I remember saying, \u2018You know what, I think we\u2019re just going to have plain sandwiches. Bread, basic bread and butter.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\n\tRelated\n<\/p>\n<p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<a href=\"https:\/\/www.nowtolove.co.nz\/author\/judy-kean\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><br \/>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" alt=\"Profile picture of Judy Kean\" src=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/d41d8cd98f00b204e9800998ecf8427e\" class=\"avatar avatar-128 photo avatar-default\" height=\"128\" width=\"128\"\/>\t\t\t\t\t<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"It\u2019s not an easy job, playing second fiddle to a monarch. 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