{"id":1182226,"date":"2026-09-02T09:50:15","date_gmt":"2026-09-02T09:50:15","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/1182226\/"},"modified":"2026-09-02T09:50:15","modified_gmt":"2026-09-02T09:50:15","slug":"rachael-stirling-on-her-mother-diana-rigg-i-eat-her-ashes-before-going-on-stage","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/1182226\/","title":{"rendered":"Rachael Stirling on her mother Diana Rigg: \u2018I eat her ashes before going on stage\u2019"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>This idyll was shattered when Rigg was sent, aged eight, to boarding school in England. Stirling\u2019s chin wobbles as we discuss her mother\u2019s brave-face letters home from Fulneck Girls\u2019 School. \u201cI\u2019ve basically been sobbing for two years since reading those,\u201d says Stirling, who believes that James and Beryl\u2019s \u201cabandonment\u201d of their daughter reprogrammed the child. \u201cThat little person, who was eight, came to expect everybody would leave her, betray her at some point.\u201d Rigg was sad for 10 months and then rebuilt herself. She\u2019d found the fun in life again, but \u201cshe was a different little girl. She had become a survivor.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Stirling was saddened to learn that the future sex symbol didn\u2019t like her body as a young teenager. She quotes Rigg\u2019s recollection of finding herself \u201cinsufficient\u201d at 14, \u201choping that something inside was going to pop out and was going to be better. Had to be\u201d. She also gives a delicious account of her mum\u2019s early career, raging through bit parts at the RSC. The director Peter Hall remembered her as \u201cthe rudest walk-on I have ever seen. I remember very well her Roman Citizen [in Coriolanus] glowering from under her helmet at Vanessa Redgrave, who had been given a part with lines.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Coming of age in the pre-MeToo days, Rigg learnt that \u201cscorn works a treat\u201d when it came to fending off the lechers and gropers. She also saw the absurd side of some men\u2019s entitlement. Stirling eye-rolls at George Lazenby, who had little acting experience when he was cast in On Her Majesty\u2019s Secret Service (Rigg found him \u2018ghastly\u2019). When I mention <a class=\"ck-custom-link\" href=\"https:\/\/www.google.com\/goto?url=CAESnQEB6zswFZYykxrYTua8AX289x5D3lboW6VhOhR8ygo9HOCLgfekD4CxcjvVg9fjSzVWFjq8EQAh450VJ3zGcc00sXU-Lls-1SWERVLNBkdepMWCJInK5rWA5BvTstpWQ_nMRx-10bMIdWwt9clgXUacKqmh6YxGfewORdcGuuh1FxbpuSg50AtYMtOLmH3aP3VhZ2MUpa10Ntda5kBp\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Benny Hill<\/a>, Stirling guffaws. In 1958, when the comic invited Rigg to his home for a drink, she hadn\u2019t realised that she would be the only guest. Nervously studying the herb garden while he fetched a drink, she was astonished to see him return with her glass in hand and a semi-erect penis on display. Panicking, she pointed at the ground and exclaimed: \u201cLook! Parsley!\u201d Hill zipped himself up and showed her out.<\/p>\n<p>Seven years later, Rigg was cast in the Avengers as Emma Peel, the swashbuckling brainiac who never let a man get the better of her. But in real life, Rigg didn\u2019t get the romantic commitment she deserved. Stirling shakes her head over her mother\u2019s devotion to early boyfriend, director Philip Saville, whose \u201cappalling absenteeism\u201d reduced her to frequently penning pining letters. But Stirling is full of admiration for the nobility with which Rigg conducted herself through her divorce from Stirling\u2019s unfaithful father, theatre producer Archie Stirling. \u201cMama wore her suffering \u2013 bereavements, divorce \u2013 so honourably. She just got on with life.\u201d<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"This idyll was shattered when Rigg was sent, aged eight, to boarding school in England. 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