{"id":125397,"date":"2025-05-23T13:48:08","date_gmt":"2025-05-23T13:48:08","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/125397\/"},"modified":"2025-05-23T13:48:08","modified_gmt":"2025-05-23T13:48:08","slug":"ex-butler-shares-cruel-incident-that-left-harry-devastated-and-jealous-of-william","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/125397\/","title":{"rendered":"Ex-Butler Shares Cruel Incident that Left Harry &#8216;Devastated&#8217; and Jealous of William"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img data-mm-src=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/basic-cover-13-1747902624695.jpg\" alt=\"basic cover\"  data- width=\"1200\" height=\"628\" class=\"sc-fFSRdu efvKbs\"\/>Source: Getty Images | Tim Graham<\/p>\n<p>Diana, Princess of Wales with her sons, Prince William and Prince Harry, at the piano in Kensington Palace.<\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-iXeIkk hNIPOc\">May 23 2025, Published 9:03 a.m. ET<\/p>\n<p><a class=\"sc-kTCrpv gTDCyN\" href=\"https:\/\/www.theroyalobserver.com\/p\/royal-butler-shares-cruel-incident-that-left-harry-devastated-and-jealous-of-william-you-could-see#insticator-commenting\" data-ext-page-id=\"royal-butler-shares-cruel-incident-that-left-harry-devastated-and-jealous-of-william-you-could-see\" data-page-id=\"royal-butler-shares-cruel-incident-that-left-harry-devastated-and-jealous-of-william-you-could-see\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><\/p>\n<p>Prince William and Prince Harry\u2019s childhood was anything but normal. The two brothers faced several difficulties at a young age, from their parents\u2019 divorce playing out in the media to their <a href=\"https:\/\/www.theroyalobserver.com\/p\/princess-dianas-explosive-letter-hints-her-death-was-no-accident-my-husband-is-planning\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">mother\u2019s passing<\/a>. Through it all, the two had each other, as they later shared in interviews. A royal butler, however, argues the brothers didn&#8217;t always get along well. With William being the heir to the throne, the aide claimed Harry often resented his elder brother for being privy to favoritism. <\/p>\n<p>Article continues below advertisement<\/p>\n<\/p>\n<p>Princess Diana\u2019s former butler, Paul Burrell, who began working for the royal family at 18, closely saw the two princes grow up and understood how Harry allegedly envied William. During his appearance on the Channel 5 documentary The Palace: What the Royal Servants Saw, Burrell, according to <a href=\"https:\/\/www.express.co.uk\/news\/royal\/2033931\/prince-harry-devastation-prince-william-special-treatment-royal-staff\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Express<\/a>, recalled how William and Harry\u2019s royal destinies came between them. He said, \u201cI heard one of the nannies say to William, \u2018I&#8217;m going to give you three sausages, William. You need to grow big and strong, because you&#8217;re going to be king one day.\u2019\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Article continues below advertisement<\/p>\n<\/p>\n<p>The difference in treatment allegedly left Harry &#8216;devastated&#8217;. The butler spilled, \u201cPoor Harry&#8217;s face across the table. I looked at him [and knew he was thinking] &#8216;Why did you get three sausages and I got two?\u2019\u201d Burrell argued that Harry continued to feel the same even as a grown-up. He said, \u201cI met both William and Harry in their early 20s, at a polo match, and chatted to them&#8230;You could see that Harry always felt he was in second place.\u201d <\/p>\n<p>Article continues below advertisement<\/p>\n<\/p>\n<p>Royal biographer Robert Jobson chimed in, throwing light on Harry\u2019s \u2018complex character.\u2019 He said, \u201cEven though he had this persona of being this happy-go-lucky guy that was well respected, the reality, I think, is that he always had a complex character. He was always struggling with the idea of the service, of having a public role.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Article continues below advertisement<\/p>\n<\/p>\n<p>In a 2023 interview with journalist Anderson Cooper, the Duke of Sussex himself described his not-so-rosy relationship with his brother. As reported by <a href=\"https:\/\/www.hellomagazine.com\/royalty\/831315\/prince-harry-school-eton-experience-prince-william\/\" style=\"text-align: start;\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><strong>Hello! magazine<\/strong><\/a>, Harry, describing his first few days at Eton, shared how William was rather cold to him. Harry claims William ordered him to act as if they didn\u2019t know each other. Harry recalled, \u201cAt the time, it hurt. I couldn\u2019t make sense of it. I was like, \u2018What do you mean? We\u2019re now at the same school.\u201d In his memoir, Spare, Harry shared that sports ultimately helped him grow out of feeling like an outsider. Harry penned, \u201cI played every dry sport, though rugby captured my heart. I simply didn&#8217;t feel pain the way other boys did, which made me scary on a pitch. \u201d <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Source: Getty Images | Tim Graham Diana, Princess of Wales with her sons, Prince William and Prince Harry,&hellip;\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":125398,"comment_status":"","ping_status":"","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[7708],"tags":[7709,7721,7719,7718,1501,7720,1281,447,7710,519,7802,7711],"class_list":{"0":"post-125397","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-royals","8":"tag-british-royal-family","9":"tag-duchess-of-sussex","10":"tag-duke-of-sussex","11":"tag-harry","12":"tag-latest-news","13":"tag-meghan","14":"tag-meghan-markle","15":"tag-prince-harry","16":"tag-royal-families","17":"tag-royal-family","18":"tag-royal-rebels","19":"tag-uk-royal-family"},"share_on_mastodon":{"url":"https:\/\/pubeurope.com\/@uk\/114557465802339490","error":""},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/125397","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=125397"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/125397\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/125398"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=125397"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=125397"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=125397"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}