{"id":137615,"date":"2025-05-28T03:38:13","date_gmt":"2025-05-28T03:38:13","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/137615\/"},"modified":"2025-05-28T03:38:13","modified_gmt":"2025-05-28T03:38:13","slug":"ellie-simmonds-breaks-down-in-tears-over-her-birth-mothers-confession-as-her-moving-documentary-leaves-viewers-broken-hearted","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/137615\/","title":{"rendered":"Ellie Simmonds breaks down in tears over her birth mother&#8217;s confession as her moving documentary leaves viewers &#8216;broken-hearted&#8217;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">Ellie Simmonds left viewers &#8216;broken-hearted&#8217; with her emotional documentary on Tuesday, as she broke down in tears during a moving conversation with her birth mother.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">In the film, titled Should I Have Children?, the Paralympian explores her fears around becoming a parent, and what it would mean if she were to\u00a0have a child who inherits the genes for dwarfism.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">Whilst on this journey of whether or not to become a mother, Ellie decided to contact her birth mother, and ask her why she decided to give her up for adoption.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">Ellie&#8217;s mother, whose identity has been protected by the swimmer, shared the abrupt way her condition was first revealed.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">She said: &#8216;We went to a geneticist and she was very abrupt, said &#8221;There you go, that&#8217;s what your baby is going to look like.&#8221; I remember coming back thinking, I can&#8217;t cope with this.&#8217;<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">From A-list scandals and red carpet mishaps to exclusive pictures and viral moments, subscribe to the<a style=\"font-weight: bold;\" rel=\"nofollow noreferrer noopener\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/dailymail.substack.com\/subscribe\" class=\"\"> DailyMail\u2019s new Showbiz newsletter to stay in the loop<\/a>.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>   <img decoding=\"async\" id=\"i-65dad2a3a857c0ba\" src=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/98806715-14755465-image-a-31_1748389695423.jpg\" height=\"358\" width=\"634\" alt=\"Ellie Simmonds left viewers 'broken-hearted' with her emotional documentary on Tuesday, as she broke down in tears during a moving conversation with her birth mother\" class=\"blkBorder img-share\" style=\"max-width:100%\" loading=\"lazy\" \/>   <\/p>\n<p class=\"imageCaption\">Ellie Simmonds left viewers &#8216;broken-hearted&#8217; with her emotional documentary on Tuesday, as she broke down in tears during a moving conversation with her birth mother<\/p>\n<p>   <img decoding=\"async\" id=\"i-224eb96540e17bbb\" src=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/98806743-14755465-In_the_film_titled_Should_I_Have_Children_the_Paralympian_explor-m-33_174838972239.jpeg\" height=\"531\" width=\"634\" alt=\"In the film, titled Should I Have Children, the Paralympian explores her fears around becoming a parent (pictured during her childhood in the programme)\" class=\"blkBorder img-share\" style=\"max-width:100%\" loading=\"lazy\" \/>   <\/p>\n<p class=\"imageCaption\">In the film, titled Should I Have Children, the Paralympian explores her fears around becoming a parent (pictured during her childhood in the programme)<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">Detailing the turmoil she suffered while giving birth to her daughter, Ellie&#8217;s mother added: &#8216;You&#8217;re physically not right, you&#8217;re mentally not right, it&#8217;s a hard time to make a decision about anything.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">&#8216;There was a lot in the background going on. I&#8217;d given birth on my own.&#8217;<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">Ellie&#8217;s mother then shared that her daughter&#8217;s disability became &#8216;all she should see,&#8217; and said: &#8216;I grieved the child that I thought you should have been. It was absolutely horrendous. I left you and you were my baby. I just handed you over.&#8217;<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">Breaking down in tears on the phone, she confessed: &#8216;You really could never get over the guilt. The guilt was horrendous. So you live with it all the time.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">&#8216;It&#8217;s something that you&#8217;ll have that you&#8217;ll never forget. I thought about you every day. I think sometimes it was quite cowardly, to be honest.&#8217;<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">While Ellie was noticeably quiet during the exchange, she could be seen wiping away tears during the call.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">The entire conversation left many viewers moved, with some praising Ellie for her work on the show.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">Posts on X included: &#8216;This documentary is breaking me! @EllieSimmonds1 is so brave to speak out, and find out how things have changed.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>   <img decoding=\"async\" id=\"i-4ba7fa151a892612\" src=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/98806761-14755465-image-a-34_1748389765480.jpg\" height=\"357\" width=\"634\" alt=\"Whilst on this journey of whether or not to become a mother, Ellie decided to contact her birth mother, and ask her why she decided to give her up for adoption\" class=\"blkBorder img-share\" style=\"max-width:100%\" loading=\"lazy\" \/>   <\/p>\n<p class=\"imageCaption\">Whilst on this journey of whether or not to become a mother, Ellie decided to contact her birth mother, and ask her why she decided to give her up for adoption<\/p>\n<p>   <img decoding=\"async\" id=\"i-59cdbedb685517f3\" src=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/98806667-14755465-image-a-35_1748389779313.jpg\" height=\"357\" width=\"634\" alt=\"Ellie's mother, whose identity has been protected by the swimmer, admitted her daughter's disability was 'all she could see'\" class=\"blkBorder img-share\" style=\"max-width:100%\" loading=\"lazy\" \/>   <\/p>\n<p class=\"imageCaption\">Ellie&#8217;s mother, whose identity has been protected by the swimmer, admitted her daughter&#8217;s disability was &#8216;all she could see&#8217;<\/p>\n<p>   <img decoding=\"async\" id=\"i-93e083b6fe90b54d\" src=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/98806653-14755465-image-a-36_1748389799477.jpg\" height=\"160\" width=\"634\" alt=\"\" class=\"blkBorder img-share\" style=\"max-width:100%\" loading=\"lazy\" \/>      <img decoding=\"async\" id=\"i-8c46646d8e91099d\" src=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/98806649-14755465-image-a-37_1748389802767.jpg\" height=\"121\" width=\"634\" alt=\"\" class=\"blkBorder img-share\" style=\"max-width:100%\" loading=\"lazy\" \/>      <img decoding=\"async\" id=\"i-9eee7b6d2e9263b7\" src=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/98806651-14755465-image-a-39_1748389810247.jpg\" height=\"106\" width=\"634\" alt=\"\" class=\"blkBorder img-share\" style=\"max-width:100%\" loading=\"lazy\" \/>      <img decoding=\"async\" id=\"i-d8906fb65df0b131\" src=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/98806647-14755465-image-a-38_1748389808775.jpg\" height=\"299\" width=\"634\" alt=\"The conversation left many viewers moved, with some praising Ellie for her work on the emotional documentary\" class=\"blkBorder img-share\" style=\"max-width:100%\" loading=\"lazy\" \/>   <\/p>\n<p class=\"imageCaption\">The conversation left many viewers moved, with some praising Ellie for her work on the emotional documentary<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">&#8216;Such an inspirational woman, who has achieved so much &#8211; &#8216;there is ability in every disability&#8217; Having a year 3 class at our school named after you is a privilege;&#8217;<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">&#8216;There are so many superlatives I could use to describe #EllieSimonds. She is such a beautiful soul, both inside and out. Her documentary is so informative and poignant. #ShouldIHaveChildren;&#8217;<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">&#8216;I LOVE @EllieSimmonds1! What a woman \ufffd\ufffd\ufffd\ufffd\u2764\ufe0f your documentary is something to be incredibly proud of, as is all of your work for people with disabilities #ShouldIHaveChildren;&#8217;<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">&#8216;Ellie Simmonds is breaking my heart #elliesimmonds;&#8217;<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">&#8216;#ShouldIHaveChildren amazing documentary well done #elliesimmonds \ufffd\ufffd so informative.&#8217;<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">Following the call, Ellie seemed overcome with emotion, but later reflected on the exchange in a voiceover.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">She said: &#8216;It seems like she held that guilt for a long time. That&#8217;s sad isn&#8217;t it? We put a lot of pressure on the mum in society.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">&#8216;It&#8217;s amazing that she&#8217;s so honest and open talking about what she went through.&#8217;<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">Ellie was\u00a0adopted by Steve and Val Simmonds when she was three months old, and grew up with four older siblings.\u00a0<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Ellie Simmonds left viewers &#8216;broken-hearted&#8217; with her emotional documentary on Tuesday, as she broke down in tears during&hellip;\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":137616,"comment_status":"","ping_status":"","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[3935],"tags":[92,77,3943,382,16,15],"class_list":{"0":"post-137615","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-movies","8":"tag-dailymail","9":"tag-entertainment","10":"tag-movies","11":"tag-tv","12":"tag-uk","13":"tag-united-kingdom"},"share_on_mastodon":{"url":"https:\/\/pubeurope.com\/@uk\/114583378787279021","error":""},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/137615","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=137615"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/137615\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/137616"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=137615"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=137615"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=137615"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}