{"id":142073,"date":"2025-05-29T18:32:15","date_gmt":"2025-05-29T18:32:15","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/142073\/"},"modified":"2025-05-29T18:32:15","modified_gmt":"2025-05-29T18:32:15","slug":"britain-is-dying-of-loneliness","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/142073\/","title":{"rendered":"Britain is dying of loneliness"},"content":{"rendered":"

For the first time in more than a century, life expectancy in Britain has stalled. In many poorer communities, it is actually falling. In north-east Lincolnshire, recent data suggests life expectancy has dropped by more than eight years in just a decade<\/a>. Commentators still rehearse well-worn explanations about poor lifestyle choices. But a more brutal, distinctly 21st-century cause is increasingly notable \u2013 that is, the isolation and loneliness that now blight older people\u2019s lives.<\/p>\n

spiked has long lamented the collapse of public life \u2013 the loss of community spirit, the retreat from collective life into private, atomised existence. Now, the human cost of this is becoming harder to ignore. The predicament for many older, working-class people is not only a lack of public bonds, but private connections as well. Older people are more likely to experience privacy without intimacy and independence without connection. These are profound losses. Without the bonds of marriage, family or community, millions of older people are left to fend for themselves in lonely flats, enduring the corrosive effects of neglect long before they die.<\/p>\n

Professor Michael Marmot<\/a> put it plainly: \u2018Social isolation kills: it\u2019s as predictive as smoking for life expectancy in people 50 and above.\u2019 You don\u2019t need to be a doctor to see why. A spouse or family member notices when you lose weight, urges you to see a GP, calls an ambulance when you collapse. When there\u2019s no one there, the smallest medical emergency can become a death sentence. Here, the personal really is political. And in this case, it can be fatal.<\/p>\n

Tragedies like the death of Kenneth Battersby<\/a> in Skegness and his two-year-old son, Bronson, last year expose this reality in all its cruelty. Kenneth died of a heart attack at home. Bronson, left alone, died of starvation. Or consider Doreen Chappell<\/a>, an elderly disabled woman who, during the pandemic, succumbed to Covid-19 without family by her side \u2013 the result of a deadly combination of social distancing, bureaucratic indifference and the atomisation of care. <\/p>\n

These are not isolated cases. A 2023 study found a sharp rise in so-called \u2018lonely deaths\u2019<\/a>, the British variant of Japan\u2019s infamous kodokushi phenomenon, when people die alone and are not discovered for some time. This is set to get worse, too. As of 2023, 8.4million people<\/a> in the UK are living alone. When it comes to over-50s, a quarter of them (around 5million) live alone. Among those over 65, the figures are even starker. Half of all people living alone in Britain today are pensioners. And the number of men aged over 65 living alone has surged by 66 per cent over the past two decades. <\/p>\n

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What\u2019s new is how the collapse of social bonds is mirrored by a collapse in private life, too. It\u2019s not just that pubs, clubs and churches are vanishing \u2013 it\u2019s that marriage, family and long-term relationships are weakening at the same time. In the past, public and private solidarities buttressed one another. A trip to the pub, Sunday lunch with the family, a visit from the neighbours \u2013 all these rituals reinforced belonging, connection and responsibility. Today, both spheres are crumbling.<\/p>\n

Nowhere is this clearer than in the death of the British pub<\/a>. Over the past 20 years, more than 13,000 pubs have closed. These weren\u2019t just places to drink. They were informal hubs of sociability, especially for older men. Their loss has stripped countless communities of their only remaining third space \u2013 the place outside work and home where you could meet, talk and feel part of something larger. In their place? A handful of soulless coffee chains and shopping centres, spaces of pure consumption rather than community. The war on pubs was often justified on public-health grounds, but the consequence has been a more atomised society, contributing to worsening health outcomes for the elderly.<\/p>\n

This is the true cost of Britain\u2019s cultural shift towards hyper-individualism. We\u2019ve dismantled the institutions that held society together and celebrated our \u2018freedom\u2019 from obligation. But the result is not liberation \u2013 it\u2019s abandonment.<\/p>\n

If we\u2019re serious about arresting Britain\u2019s decline, not just in life expectancy, but also in the quality of life itself, we need to revalorise solidarity, duty and commitment. That means more than a few extra pounds for social-care budgets. It means rethinking marriage, family, friendship and public life. It means standing up unapologetically for the institutions and traditions that bind people together.<\/p>\n

Neil Davenport<\/strong> is a writer based in London.<\/p>\n

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