{"id":153012,"date":"2025-06-02T20:45:14","date_gmt":"2025-06-02T20:45:14","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/153012\/"},"modified":"2025-06-02T20:45:14","modified_gmt":"2025-06-02T20:45:14","slug":"moved-from-the-us-to-england-5-years-ago-what-surprised-me","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/153012\/","title":{"rendered":"Moved From the US to England 5 Years Ago; What Surprised Me"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>                    2025-06-02T17:53:01Z<\/p>\n<p>                            Share<\/p>\n<p>                          Facebook<br \/>\n                                <a class=\"dropdown-item label-md\" data-email=\"\" href=\"mailto:?subject=I'm an American who moved to the UK 5 years ago. 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Log in.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li class=\"body-md\">After spending most of my life in the US, I <a target=\"\" class=\"\" href=\"https:\/\/www.businessinsider.com\/moved-to-glasgow-scotland-after-countryside-photos-2022-8\" data-autoaffiliated=\"false\" data-track-click=\"{&quot;element_name&quot;:&quot;summary_bullets&quot;,&quot;event&quot;:&quot;tout_click&quot;,&quot;index&quot;:&quot;bi_value_unassigned&quot;,&quot;product_field&quot;:&quot;bi_value_unassigned&quot;}\" rel=\"noopener\">moved to the English countryside<\/a> five years ago.<\/li>\n<li class=\"body-md\">I expected a culture shift, but I didn&#8217;t realize that even small talk would look different here.<\/li>\n<li class=\"body-md\">I wish I&#8217;d known that many groceries here tend to expire faster and that I&#8217;d be walking much more.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Having grown up watching the &#8220;Harry Potter&#8221; movies and &#8220;The Parent Trap&#8221; on repeat, part of me always dreamed of <a target=\"_self\" class=\"\" href=\"https:\/\/www.businessinsider.com\/moved-from-us-to-uk-health-drastically-improved-2025-2\" data-track-click=\"{&quot;element_name&quot;:&quot;body_link&quot;,&quot;event&quot;:&quot;tout_click&quot;,&quot;index&quot;:&quot;bi_value_unassigned&quot;,&quot;product_field&quot;:&quot;bi_value_unassigned&quot;}\" rel=\"noopener\">moving to England<\/a> \u2014 but the reality of living here has been full of ups and downs.<\/p>\n<p>I was born and raised in <a target=\"_self\" class=\"\" href=\"https:\/\/www.businessinsider.com\/how-i-visited-portland-oregon-for-cheap-itinerary-photos-2022-6\" data-track-click=\"{&quot;element_name&quot;:&quot;body_link&quot;,&quot;event&quot;:&quot;tout_click&quot;,&quot;index&quot;:&quot;bi_value_unassigned&quot;,&quot;product_field&quot;:&quot;bi_value_unassigned&quot;}\" rel=\"noopener\">Portland, Oregon<\/a>, and went to college in Orange County, California. I lived abroad for a couple of years before meeting my British husband and settling down in the UK countryside.<\/p>\n<p>Even though the lack of a language barrier made this an easier adjustment than some of my other moves, there have still been more moments of culture shock than I expected.<\/p>\n<p>                          Groceries seem to expire faster, but they taste fresher.<\/p>\n<p>                                <img decoding=\"async\" class=\"lazy-image label-md\" src=\"data:image\/svg+xml,%3Csvg xmlns=\" http:=\"\" viewbox=\"0 0 1 1\" data-content-type=\"image\/jpeg\" data-srcs=\"{&quot;https:\/\/i.insider.com\/68370f466ffb6822ec619c07&quot;:{&quot;contentType&quot;:&quot;image\/jpeg&quot;,&quot;aspectRatioW&quot;:3863,&quot;aspectRatioH&quot;:2900}}\" alt=\"Fruits and produce from a grocery store in the UK.\"\/><\/p>\n<p>                                  In my experience, groceries in the UK taste much fresher.<\/p>\n<p>                                      Wirestock Creators\/Shutterstock<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;ve found that some perishables can go stale very quickly here. Part of the reason is that a lot of the preservatives we add to produce in the US aren&#8217;t allowed in the UK.<\/p>\n<p>Although a chicken breast or parsley would have lasted me at least a week in the US, these same goods expire within three to four days in the UK.<\/p>\n<p>This has made <a target=\"_self\" class=\"\" href=\"https:\/\/www.businessinsider.com\/what-aldi-is-like-uk-cheapest-supermarket-for-family-2023-6\" data-track-click=\"{&quot;element_name&quot;:&quot;body_link&quot;,&quot;event&quot;:&quot;tout_click&quot;,&quot;index&quot;:&quot;bi_value_unassigned&quot;,&quot;product_field&quot;:&quot;bi_value_unassigned&quot;}\" rel=\"noopener\">grocery shopping<\/a> a new kind of challenge, but my meals taste a lot fresher.<\/p>\n<p>                          Non-gel, roll-on deodorant feels practically nonexistent.<\/p>\n<p>                                <img decoding=\"async\" class=\"lazy-image label-md\" src=\"data:image\/svg+xml,%3Csvg xmlns=\" http:=\"\" viewbox=\"0 0 1 1\" data-content-type=\"image\/jpeg\" data-srcs=\"{&quot;https:\/\/i.insider.com\/68372642ca50259add4d2ef4&quot;:{&quot;contentType&quot;:&quot;image\/jpeg&quot;,&quot;aspectRatioW&quot;:4500,&quot;aspectRatioH&quot;:3000}}\" alt=\"A drugstore aisle in the UK.\"\/><\/p>\n<p>                                  Since moving to the UK, I&#8217;ve had a difficult time finding my favorite type of deodorant.<\/p>\n<p>                                      1000 Words\/Shutterstock<\/p>\n<p>One thing that was nearly impossible to find for my first three years <a target=\"_self\" class=\"\" href=\"https:\/\/www.businessinsider.com\/social-life-differences-living-in-uk-compared-to-us\" data-track-click=\"{&quot;element_name&quot;:&quot;body_link&quot;,&quot;event&quot;:&quot;tout_click&quot;,&quot;index&quot;:&quot;bi_value_unassigned&quot;,&quot;product_field&quot;:&quot;bi_value_unassigned&quot;}\" rel=\"noopener\">living in the UK<\/a>? A non-aerosol deodorant.<\/p>\n<p>I came across a couple of sticks (also called roll-ons) in stores here, but the formulas were all gel-based. Now, whenever I&#8217;m back in the US, I stock up on my favorite non-gel, roll-on deodorants.<\/p>\n<p>                          Conversational language is very different.<\/p>\n<p>                                <img decoding=\"async\" class=\"lazy-image label-md\" src=\"data:image\/svg+xml,%3Csvg xmlns=\" http:=\"\" viewbox=\"0 0 1 1\" data-content-type=\"image\/jpeg\" data-srcs=\"{&quot;https:\/\/i.insider.com\/683728cbc6ad288d14820dc5&quot;:{&quot;contentType&quot;:&quot;image\/jpeg&quot;,&quot;aspectRatioW&quot;:768,&quot;aspectRatioH&quot;:576}}\" alt=\"The writer poses in front of the doorway to a garden in the UK.\"\/><\/p>\n<p>                                  I was surprised that casual communication looks so different in the UK.<\/p>\n<p>                                      Nishaa Sharma<\/p>\n<p>I came to the UK knowing that some words would take on new meanings: Underwear would become &#8220;pants,&#8221; for instance, and pants would become &#8220;trousers.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Still, I didn&#8217;t expect casual small talk to look so different. It&#8217;s not uncommon to hear &#8220;You all right?&#8221; or &#8220;You OK?&#8221; while patronizing a supermarket or caf\u00e9.<\/p>\n<p>As I quickly learned, people asking these questions aren&#8217;t worried that I was having a bad day. They&#8217;re basically asking, &#8220;What&#8217;s up?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>                          The humor is much drier.<\/p>\n<p>                                <img decoding=\"async\" class=\"lazy-image label-md\" src=\"data:image\/svg+xml,%3Csvg xmlns=\" http:=\"\" viewbox=\"0 0 1 1\" data-content-type=\"image\/jpeg\" data-srcs=\"{&quot;https:\/\/i.insider.com\/6837292f6ffb6822ec61a129&quot;:{&quot;contentType&quot;:&quot;image\/jpeg&quot;,&quot;aspectRatioW&quot;:3535,&quot;aspectRatioH&quot;:2290}}\" alt=\"Group of friends with pints of beer at a pub in the UK.\"\/><\/p>\n<p>                                  I&#8217;ve had a few uncomfortable moments adjusting to British humor.<\/p>\n<p>                                      Tint Media\/Shutterstock<\/p>\n<p>I don&#8217;t have the strongest sarcasm detector, which made adjusting to the British sense of humor a challenge.<\/p>\n<p>It took me a solid two years to get used to the self-deprecating, dry jokes here. As a sensitive soul used to America&#8217;s brand of straightforward humor, I even had to ask those around me to dial down the jabs.<\/p>\n<p>                          Almost everything closes early \u2014 especially on Sundays.<\/p>\n<p>                                <img decoding=\"async\" class=\"lazy-image label-md\" src=\"data:image\/svg+xml,%3Csvg xmlns=\" http:=\"\" viewbox=\"0 0 1 1\" data-content-type=\"image\/jpeg\" data-srcs=\"{&quot;https:\/\/i.insider.com\/68370bb2c6ad288d14820848&quot;:{&quot;contentType&quot;:&quot;image\/jpeg&quot;,&quot;aspectRatioW&quot;:6123,&quot;aspectRatioH&quot;:4082}}\" alt=\"A town center in the UK.\"\/><\/p>\n<p>                                  Even fast-food restaurants tend to close around 10 or 11 p.m. in my UK town.<\/p>\n<p>                                      Pete Stuart\/Shutterstock<\/p>\n<p>Outside major cities like London, Birmingham, and <a target=\"_self\" class=\"\" href=\"https:\/\/www.businessinsider.com\/what-its-like-living-in-cheapest-city-in-world-manchester-2022-3\" data-track-click=\"{&quot;element_name&quot;:&quot;body_link&quot;,&quot;event&quot;:&quot;tout_click&quot;,&quot;index&quot;:&quot;bi_value_unassigned&quot;,&quot;product_field&quot;:&quot;bi_value_unassigned&quot;}\" rel=\"noopener\">Manchester<\/a>, it&#8217;s unusual to find shops open after 5 p.m. \u2014 or 6 p.m., if you&#8217;re lucky. Even grocery stores typically close by 8 on weekdays.<\/p>\n<p>On Sundays, most local shops and eateries shut down even earlier. Pubs typically serve Sunday roast dinner between 12 and 4 p.m., and the average town center is fully quiet by 4 p.m.<\/p>\n<p>This was an adjustment for me. Growing up in Oregon, grocery stores were typically open until 9 p.m., and some near my college in Southern California didn&#8217;t even close until 1 a.m.<\/p>\n<p>                          I find myself walking much more often.<\/p>\n<p>                                <img decoding=\"async\" class=\"lazy-image label-md\" src=\"data:image\/svg+xml,%3Csvg xmlns=\" http:=\"\" viewbox=\"0 0 1 1\" data-content-type=\"image\/jpeg\" data-srcs=\"{&quot;https:\/\/i.insider.com\/68372a46c6ad288d14820e29&quot;:{&quot;contentType&quot;:&quot;image\/jpeg&quot;,&quot;aspectRatioW&quot;:5459,&quot;aspectRatioH&quot;:3639}}\" alt=\"A nature trail in the UK.\"\/><\/p>\n<p>                                  There&#8217;s no shortage of nature trails throughout the UK.<\/p>\n<p>                                      edhphotography\/Shutterstock<\/p>\n<p>In most of the US, having a car is a necessity. <\/p>\n<p>Meanwhile, in the UK, many of the town centers I&#8217;ve lived around \u2014 and explored \u2014 are designed to be more walkable, with roads limited to pedestrian, bus, and cyclist access only.<\/p>\n<p>The UK&#8217;s walking culture has also impacted my social life and leisure activities. Although I lived near some beautiful greenery in the US, I often had to drive to visit a walkable nature trail.<\/p>\n<p>Here in southwest England, though, I&#8217;ve found many nature pathways in both bigger cities and smaller towns. Now, walks are a major part of our weekends and social lives.<\/p>\n<p>                          The average salary is lower here \u2014 but the PTO allowances are higher.<\/p>\n<p>                                <img decoding=\"async\" class=\"lazy-image label-md\" src=\"data:image\/svg+xml,%3Csvg xmlns=\" http:=\"\" viewbox=\"0 0 1 1\" data-content-type=\"image\/jpeg\" data-srcs=\"{&quot;https:\/\/i.insider.com\/68372ae8c6ad288d14820e50&quot;:{&quot;contentType&quot;:&quot;image\/jpeg&quot;,&quot;aspectRatioW&quot;:5360,&quot;aspectRatioH&quot;:3577}}\" alt=\"A town street in Somerset, UK.\"\/><\/p>\n<p>                                  I was surprised and disappointed by UK salaries.<\/p>\n<p>                                      Helen Hotson\/Shutterstock<\/p>\n<p>One of the biggest drawbacks of living and working in the UK is the pay is generally lower. <\/p>\n<p>For example, according to data from the <a target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.ons.gov.uk\/peoplepopulationandcommunity\/personalandhouseholdfinances\/incomeandwealth\/bulletins\/householddisposableincomeandinequality\/financialyearending2023\" data-track-click=\"{&quot;click_type&quot;:&quot;other&quot;,&quot;element_name&quot;:&quot;body_link&quot;,&quot;event&quot;:&quot;outbound_click&quot;}\" rel=\" nofollow noopener\">Office for National Statistics<\/a>, the median household income in the UK in 2023 was \u00a334,500. <\/p>\n<p>Meanwhile, the same year, <a target=\"_blank\" class=\"\" href=\"https:\/\/www.census.gov\/library\/publications\/2024\/demo\/p60-282.html\" data-track-click=\"{&quot;click_type&quot;:&quot;other&quot;,&quot;element_name&quot;:&quot;body_link&quot;,&quot;event&quot;:&quot;outbound_click&quot;}\" rel=\"noopener\">census data<\/a> showed that the median household income in the US was just over $80,000, about \u00a359,200. <\/p>\n<p>On the plus side, full-time employees receive a minimum of 28 paid days off a year here in the UK,<strong> <\/strong>whereas US workers aren&#8217;t guaranteed any. <\/p>\n<p>We also have a universal healthcare system in the UK, which helps bridge the pay gap in some ways.<\/p>\n<p>                          The country feels pretty well-connected by public transportation.<\/p>\n<p>                                <img decoding=\"async\" class=\"lazy-image label-md\" src=\"data:image\/svg+xml,%3Csvg xmlns=\" http:=\"\" viewbox=\"0 0 1 1\" data-content-type=\"image\/jpeg\" data-srcs=\"{&quot;https:\/\/i.insider.com\/6835be2bca50259add4d0d71&quot;:{&quot;contentType&quot;:&quot;image\/jpeg&quot;,&quot;aspectRatioW&quot;:1024,&quot;aspectRatioH&quot;:768}}\" alt=\"Tower Bridge in London on a cloudy day.\"\/><\/p>\n<p>                                  Whenever I travel to London, I have an easy time getting around.<\/p>\n<p>                                      Nishaa Sharma<\/p>\n<p>Even though I live in a fairly remote town in the countryside, accessing the major cities is still easy. Many of the UK&#8217;s buses and trains run almost every hour.<\/p>\n<p>Whenever I&#8217;m in <a target=\"_self\" class=\"\" href=\"https:\/\/www.businessinsider.com\/best-things-to-do-london-england-what-to-skip-2024-1\" data-track-click=\"{&quot;element_name&quot;:&quot;body_link&quot;,&quot;event&quot;:&quot;tout_click&quot;,&quot;index&quot;:&quot;bi_value_unassigned&quot;,&quot;product_field&quot;:&quot;bi_value_unassigned&quot;}\" rel=\"noopener\">London<\/a>, I find the nation&#8217;s capital easier to navigate than many US cities. The city&#8217;s tube system is intuitive and fast, with tubes departing roughly every five minutes.<\/p>\n<p>On the other hand, many trains I&#8217;d used to travel between US cities felt slower and more outdated. When I was in college, even getting around a major city like Los Angeles felt next to impossible without a car.<\/p>\n<p>                          Still, trains within the UK cost more than flights to mainland Europe.<\/p>\n<p>                                <img decoding=\"async\" class=\"lazy-image label-md\" src=\"data:image\/svg+xml,%3Csvg xmlns=\" http:=\"\" viewbox=\"0 0 1 1\" data-content-type=\"image\/jpeg\" data-srcs=\"{&quot;https:\/\/i.insider.com\/68372f6dca50259add4d312b&quot;:{&quot;contentType&quot;:&quot;image\/jpeg&quot;,&quot;aspectRatioW&quot;:7680,&quot;aspectRatioH&quot;:4320}}\" alt=\"A train on an autumn day in the UK.\"\/><\/p>\n<p>                                  Train prices in the UK can vary. <\/p>\n<p>                                      David Hughes\/Shutterstock<\/p>\n<p>Although <a target=\"_self\" class=\"\" href=\"https:\/\/www.businessinsider.com\/trains-through-uk-europe-better-than-flying-2023-7\" data-track-click=\"{&quot;element_name&quot;:&quot;body_link&quot;,&quot;event&quot;:&quot;tout_click&quot;,&quot;index&quot;:&quot;bi_value_unassigned&quot;,&quot;product_field&quot;:&quot;bi_value_unassigned&quot;}\" rel=\"noopener\">trains to London<\/a> are frequent and fast, they can also be really expensive.<\/p>\n<p>A weekday round-trip ticket can cost up to \u00a3150 from where I live, nearly triple the price of a <a target=\"_self\" class=\"\" href=\"https:\/\/www.businessinsider.com\/how-to-find-cheapest-flight-deal-frequent-flyer-air-travel-2022-9\" data-track-click=\"{&quot;element_name&quot;:&quot;body_link&quot;,&quot;event&quot;:&quot;tout_click&quot;,&quot;index&quot;:&quot;bi_value_unassigned&quot;,&quot;product_field&quot;:&quot;bi_value_unassigned&quot;}\" rel=\"noopener\">budget flight<\/a> to Spain, Croatia, or Greece.<\/p>\n<p>On the flip side, though, the accessibility of mainland Europe is one of the best parts of living here \u2014 and makes planning those extra PTO days I&#8217;ve banked much more fun.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"2025-06-02T17:53:01Z Share Facebook Email X LinkedIn Copy link lighning bolt icon An icon in the shape of a&hellip;\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":153013,"comment_status":"","ping_status":"","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[5008],"tags":[748,9695,557,12058,12452,393,4884,3391,65168,65169,20257,22883,65171,52651,65170,16,15,3118],"class_list":{"0":"post-153012","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-england","8":"tag-britain","9":"tag-business-insider","10":"tag-california","11":"tag-college","12":"tag-down","13":"tag-england","14":"tag-great-britain","15":"tag-living","16":"tag-me","17":"tag-orange-county","18":"tag-oregon","19":"tag-part","20":"tag-portland","21":"tag-reality","22":"tag-repeat","23":"tag-uk","24":"tag-united-kingdom","25":"tag-year"},"share_on_mastodon":{"url":"https:\/\/pubeurope.com\/@uk\/114615728817112907","error":""},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/153012","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=153012"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/153012\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/153013"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=153012"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=153012"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=153012"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}