{"id":161002,"date":"2025-06-05T19:25:10","date_gmt":"2025-06-05T19:25:10","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/161002\/"},"modified":"2025-06-05T19:25:10","modified_gmt":"2025-06-05T19:25:10","slug":"queen-elizabeth-and-kate-middleton-both-broke-this-royal-wedding-custom-in-favor-of-a-beloved-american-tradition","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/161002\/","title":{"rendered":"Queen Elizabeth and Kate Middleton Both Broke This Royal Wedding Custom in Favor of a Beloved American Tradition"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Key Takeaways<\/p>\n<ul class=\"mb-4\">\n<li class=\"ml-4 list-disc\">\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">For her wedding, Queen Elizabeth made her sister, Princess Margaret, one of her bridesmaids, breaking with royal protocol that stated only children should be part of the wedding party.<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<li class=\"ml-4 list-disc\">\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">Decades later, Kate Middleton made the same decision, asking her sister, Pippa, to be her maid of honor.<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<li class=\"ml-4 list-disc\">\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">By doing so, both royals embraced the common American tradition of making close friends and family members part of your wedding party.<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">While Prince William and Kate Middleton adhered to a number of <a class=\"link \" href=\"https:\/\/www.brides.com\/royal-wedding-etiquette-rules-traditions-8748926\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"slk:royal wedding traditions;elm:context_link;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\">royal wedding traditions<\/a> before, during, and after their nuptials on April 29, 2011, including issuing a formal engagement announcement, incorporating seasonal flowers, and having a midday ceremony followed by a luncheon, there was one custom that they decided to break. Typically, at such an occasion, only children are allowed to be in the wedding party, as they serve to represent joy and innocence on the big day. However, for her ceremony, Kate opted to forgo this approach, wanting to include her sister, Pippa, in her wedding party as her <a class=\"link \" href=\"https:\/\/www.brides.com\/story\/modern-maid-of-honor-duties\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"slk:maid of honor;elm:context_link;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\">maid of honor<\/a>. And it appears that the princess may not have been the only royal bride to do so.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">During <a class=\"link \" href=\"https:\/\/www.brides.com\/surprising-facts-queen-elizabeth-prince-philip-royal-wedding-8748573\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"slk:Queen Elizabeth&#039;s royal wedding to Prince Philip;elm:context_link;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\">Queen Elizabeth&#8217;s royal wedding to Prince Philip<\/a> she also elected to break with this time-honored tradition by including her sister, Princess Margaret, as a bridesmaid <a href=\"https:\/\/www.royal.uk\/70-facts-about-queen-and-duke-edinburghs-wedding\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"slk:in her wedding party;elm:context_link;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\" class=\"link \">in her wedding party<\/a>. While it&#8217;s unclear what specific duties Margaret had on the day of the nuptials, it&#8217;s evident that she supported her sister over the course of the day. After Elizabeth and Philip said &#8220;I do&#8221; at <a class=\"link \" href=\"https:\/\/www.brides.com\/gallery\/inside-the-royal-wedding-venues\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"slk:Westminster Abbey;elm:context_link;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\">Westminster Abbey<\/a>, they headed to the balcony of Buckingham Palace to greet members of the public. In her role both as a member of the royal family and as a bridesmaid, Margaret stood next to her sister as the newlyweds waved to eager onlookers.<\/p>\n<p><img alt=\"Ian Gavan\/GP\u00a0\/\u00a0Contributor \/ Getty Imah\" loading=\"lazy\" width=\"640\" height=\"470\" decoding=\"async\" data-nimg=\"1\" class=\"rounded-lg\" style=\"color:transparent\" src=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/c921eb1eef36ba377980b1334a8ae4e6.jpeg\"\/><\/p>\n<p>Ian Gavan\/GP \/ Contributor \/ Getty Imah<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">At Kate&#8217;s nuptials in 2011, Pippa was a noticeable presence, helping manage the younger members of the <a class=\"link \" href=\"https:\/\/www.brides.com\/wedding-party-roles-4845435\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"slk:wedding party;elm:context_link;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\">wedding party<\/a>\u2014and assisting her older sister with her nine-foot train as she entered the church. However, even though the bride may embraced an <a class=\"link \" href=\"https:\/\/www.brides.com\/american-wedding-traditions-5199242\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"slk:American tradition;elm:context_link;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\">American tradition<\/a> by asking her sibling to be her maid of honor, she still honored other British customs, particularly when it came to the outfits of the bridal party. While it&#8217;s considered a faux pas at American weddings to don anything in a white hue, the British royal custom is just the opposite, as the bridesmaids are expected to wear the neutral color. In her role, Pippa stayed true to the tradition, opting for an ivory satin-based crepe gown that was designed by Sarah Burton at Alexander McQueen. &#8220;Culturally speaking white is a symbol of purity, cleanliness, immaculacy and perfection, which is why it&#8217;s the natural colour choice for bridal dresses, doctors&#8217; coats and seafarers,&#8221; Gabi Winters, a color expert, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.hellomagazine.com\/brides\/20221017154377\/why-royal-bridesmaids-wear-white\/\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"slk:told Hello!;elm:context_link;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\" class=\"link \">told Hello!<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">Related: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.brides.com\/queen-elizabeth-wedding-crasher-guest-etiquette-mistake-11747130\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"slk:Queen Elizabeth Once Made a Major Wedding Guest Etiquette Mistake\u2014Here&#039;s How to Avoid the Same Faux Pas;elm:context_link;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\" class=\"link \">Queen Elizabeth Once Made a Major Wedding Guest Etiquette Mistake\u2014Here&#8217;s How to Avoid the Same Faux Pas<\/a><\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">It&#8217;s a tradition that many royal brides have embraced\u2014from Queen Elizabeth in 1923 and <a class=\"link \" href=\"https:\/\/www.brides.com\/story\/princess-diana-wedding-day-wedding-dress\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"slk:Princess Diana in 1981;elm:context_link;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\">Princess Diana in 1981<\/a> to Kate Middleton in 2011 and <a class=\"link \" href=\"https:\/\/www.brides.com\/meghan-markle-wedding-dress-5094694\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"slk:Meghan Markle in 2018;elm:context_link;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\">Meghan Markle in 2018<\/a>. However, even though the custom stipulates that the bridesmaids should wear white gowns, some members of the British royal family have put a bit of a modern twist on it, opting to add a hint of color to the ensemble. For example, both Diana and Kate decided to add sashes with a hint of color to the dresses.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">Up Next: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.brides.com\/wedding-guests-white-dress-with-print-6754374\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"slk:Is It Ever Acceptable to Wear White to a Wedding?;elm:context_link;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\" class=\"link \">Is It Ever Acceptable to Wear White to a Wedding?<\/a><\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">Read the original article on <a href=\"https:\/\/www.brides.com\/queen-elizabeth-kate-middleton-broke-royal-wedding-tradition-11748787\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"slk:Brides;elm:context_link;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\" class=\"link \">Brides<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Key Takeaways For her wedding, Queen Elizabeth made her sister, Princess Margaret, one of her bridesmaids, breaking with&hellip;\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":161003,"comment_status":"","ping_status":"","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[7708],"tags":[67796,533,67797,11572,26766,5105,7710,519,30763,24553,448,67798,67795],"class_list":{"0":"post-161002","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-royals","8":"tag-american-tradition","9":"tag-kate-middleton","10":"tag-maid-of-honor","11":"tag-prince-philip","12":"tag-princess-margaret","13":"tag-royal","14":"tag-royal-families","15":"tag-royal-family","16":"tag-royal-protocol","17":"tag-royal-wedding","18":"tag-royals","19":"tag-the-wedding-party","20":"tag-wedding-party"},"share_on_mastodon":{"url":"https:\/\/pubeurope.com\/@uk\/114632400980351613","error":""},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/161002","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=161002"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/161002\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/161003"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=161002"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=161002"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=161002"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}