{"id":18487,"date":"2025-04-14T06:03:07","date_gmt":"2025-04-14T06:03:07","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/18487\/"},"modified":"2025-04-14T06:03:07","modified_gmt":"2025-04-14T06:03:07","slug":"were-kurt-cobain-and-dave-grohl-actually-friends","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/18487\/","title":{"rendered":"Were Kurt Cobain and Dave Grohl actually friends?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p> <img width=\"1140\" height=\"855\" src=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/Kurt-Cobain-Dave-Grohl-Nirvana-Far-Out-Magazine-1140x855.jpg\" class=\"attachment-single-feature size-single-feature wp-post-image\" alt=\"\" layout=\"fill\"  style=\"object-position: 50% 50%\" loading=\"eager\" fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" \/><\/p>\n<p>(Credit: Julie Kramer)<\/p>\n<p> Sun 13 April 2025 10:30, UK <\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s pretty wild to think that Dave Grohl only knew Kurt Cobain for about three years. At this point, Grohl is, with a bullet, the second most famous person involved with\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/faroutmagazine.co.uk\/tags\/nirvana\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Nirvana<\/a>, and that separation between drummer and singer only gets closer by the day. Perhaps not for the reasons Grohl intended; however, as everyone who has gotten the ultimate grunge pub quiz question wrong will tell you, he wasn\u2019t the first drummer in Nirvana and doesn\u2019t even play on their first album.<\/p>\n<p>No, Grohl was a replacement for original drummer Chad Channing. He was a fine enough stickman for a band still working things out\u2014good enough for Grohl to give Channing his flowers during his section of the speech for Nirvana\u2019s induction into the Rock and Roll Hall of Fame. There was always a feeling that he was there supporting Kurt and bassist Krist Novoselic, though. After all, he wasn\u2019t the only drummer on\u00a0Bleach, and that tends to be a bad sign for an up-and-coming instrumentalist.<\/p>\n<p>By 1990, <a href=\"https:\/\/faroutmagazine.co.uk\/how-iggy-pop-knew-kurt-cobain-hated-chad-channing\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\" title=\"\">Kurt just couldn\u2019t ignore the flaws<\/a> in Channing\u2019s playing and that, combined with Channing\u2019s dissatisfaction about being left out of the songwriting process, got him sacked from the group. Within months, they found Grohl and, as Novoselic told Michael Azerrad for his seminal book Come as You Are: The Story of Nirvana, \u201cWe knew in two minutes that he was the right drummer.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Cobain was, typically, more catty about it. He said in a 1991 interview with Studio Brussels, \u201cThis is the first time we\u2019ve felt like a very definite unit. The band is finally complete because all the other drummers we had pretty much sucked.\u201d With the way Grohl talks about Cobain today, one would assume that his time in the band was all sunshine and roses until the singer\u2019s personal issues began souring everything. That\u2019s not entirely the case, either.<\/p>\n<p>In a 2021 interview with The Big Issue, Grohl discussed his personal connection with Cobain and compared it to his current band, <a href=\"https:\/\/faroutmagazine.co.uk\/foo-fighters-song-dave-grohl-thinks-his-fans-hate\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\" title=\"\">Foo Fighters<\/a>. He said, \u201cWhen I first met Kurt and Krist\u2026musically, it was a match made in heaven. But personally, it was a bit off, to be honest. Of course, we loved each other. We were friends. But, you know, there was a dysfunction in Nirvana that a band like Foo Fighters doesn\u2019t have.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Music became the one form of communication available to them, and, to be clear, that was enough. They didn\u2019t spend their time together at each other\u2019s throats; it seemed more like a brotherly relationship, the kind most dudes in bands have. Very, very rarely, though, they would let that macho posturing slide and be open with each other. The first time that happened came a few months after Grohl joined the band, and it\u2019s clearly a moment that the Foo Fighters frontman looks back on fondly.<\/p>\n<p>In an interview with GQ, Grohl talked about the first tour that he went on with Nirvana, a jaunt around England and Scotland with L7. He revealed, \u201cI had been in the band for a month. I remember being at some underground disco with the L7 girls, Kurt and Krist, and we were all downstairs drinking and dancing to bad 1980s new wave. Kurt came up and said, \u2018I\u2019m so glad you\u2019re in this band, man. I\u2019m so glad.\u2019 And I was like, [in comic dork voice] \u2018Wow, that was really nice of him! Holy moly!\u2019 It was two and a half years before the next compliment.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Cobain may have been a difficult person at the best of times, but he really did know what talent he had in Grohl. Moments like that were few and far between, but with the trajectory and tragedy of the Nirvana story, it makes perfect sense that that three-year period would well and truly change Dave Grohl\u2019s life.<\/p>\n<\/p>\n<p>Related Topics<\/p>\n<p>Subscribe To The Far Out Newsletter  <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"(Credit: Julie Kramer) Sun 13 April 2025 10:30, UK It\u2019s pretty wild to think that Dave Grohl only&hellip;\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":18488,"comment_status":"","ping_status":"","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[3940],"tags":[4080,12285,77,12286,4159,16,15],"class_list":{"0":"post-18487","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-celebrities","8":"tag-celebrities","9":"tag-dave-grohl","10":"tag-entertainment","11":"tag-kurt-cobain","12":"tag-nirvana","13":"tag-uk","14":"tag-united-kingdom"},"share_on_mastodon":{"url":"https:\/\/pubeurope.com\/@uk\/114334807408037480","error":""},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18487","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=18487"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18487\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/18488"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=18487"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=18487"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=18487"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}