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\n\t\tKyle Ingram-Baldwin was given the devastating diagnosis at the hospital (Picture: SWNS)<\/p>\n
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\n\t\tKyle Ingram-Baldwin was given the devastating diagnosis at the hospital (Picture: SWNS)<\/p>\n
A dad whose stomach ache turned out to be stage four bowel cancer has died days after setting up a fundraiser to pay for his treatment.<\/p>\n
Kyle Ingram-Baldwin, 40, from Minster, Kent, was diagnosed with stage-four bowel cancer after going to see his GP for a stomach ache. <\/p>\n
He went through six rounds of chemo and another, more targeted course, but these were not able to get the disease, which spread to his liver, under control.<\/p>\n
On June 8, he launched a GoFundMe as he was \u2018wasn\u2019t ready to give up\u2019, and more than \u00a315,000 was raised towards finding alternative treatments.<\/p>\n
But Kyle\u2019s wife, Becky, has now confirmed that he died on June 16.<\/p>\n
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Start your day informed with Metro’s News Updates<\/a><\/strong> newsletter or get Breaking News<\/a> <\/strong>alerts the moment it happens. <\/p>\n In an update on the fundraising page, she wrote: \u2018Unfortunately, Kyle took a very sudden and unexpected turn and we lost him yesterday.<\/p>\n \u2018He was the most incredible man I have ever met, and I know he would want me to thank everyone for all your sharing and donations. I wanted to personally thank each and every one of you who donated to try and help Kyle. I\u2019m so sorry we didn\u2019t get to.\u2019<\/p>\n \t\t He recently bravely spoke of his battle with cancer and how it had impacted his wife and children aged 12, nine, three and one.<\/p>\n He said: \u2018It\u2019s really hard to put into words, because I love my kids so much. You just worry about their future.<\/p>\n \u2018They\u2019ve got the best mum in the world, and I genuinely mean that. My wife\u2019s incredible.\u2019<\/p>\n Today,Becky told donors they would all be receiving a refund, but after an \u2018overwhelming\u2019 number of messages, she set up a new fundraiser to support her and Kyle\u2019s young children.<\/a><\/p>\n She added: \u2018As we raised such an incredible amount from so many selfless people, I thought maybe (and it feels so weird and uncomfortable) if people wanted to, once they get refunded, they can gift money to our children.<\/p>\n \u2018I don\u2019t know if this is the right thing to do, but the amount of messages I\u2019ve had is just overwhelming. If you want to give your donation to charity or just make memories with your families, that\u2019s what you should do. It didn\u2019t feel right for me to make that decision.\u2019<\/p>\n \t\t Kyle\u2019s ordeal began in October last year, when he sought his doctor\u2019s advice after suffering from a stomach ache for a couple of weeks.<\/p>\n The dad-of-four had suspected his pain was stress-related, and expected the diagnosis to be gallstones. After his pain got worse, he went to A&E.<\/p>\n An ultrasound found bulges on his liver, and a CT scan followed, before a call into a room of doctors, where he was given the devastating diagnosis.<\/p>\n He said: \u2018I was thinking, what\u2019s going on here? What have I done wrong? I was putting the blame on my own feet and worrying about the future for my wife and kids.<\/p>\n \u2018That\u2019s probably the hardest thing \u2013 the mental side. Don\u2019t get me wrong, the physical is not funny either, but it\u2019s a mental challenge.\u2019<\/p>\n Before his death, he said he was \u2018blown away\u2019 by the huge sum raised by the fundraiser and said it had given him hope.<\/p>\n Kyle worked for Automatic Retailing, a wholesale supplier for vending machines, and helped run the Men\u2019s Mental Health Support Talking Football project in Minster.<\/p>\n He wanted to encourage others to get checked out urgently if something doesn\u2019t feel right.<\/p>\n He added: \u2018I didn\u2019t present with any of the conventional symptoms. If you think anything\u2019s wrong, please press your GP and go get it checked, because I genuinely wouldn\u2019t want anyone being in my position.\u2019<\/p>\n Get in touch with our news team by emailing us at webnews@metro.co.uk<\/a>.<\/strong><\/strong><\/strong><\/p>\n For more stories like this, <\/strong>check our news page<\/strong><\/a>.<\/p>\n Arrow![\"FILE](\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/SEI_255972490-a368.jpg\")
\n\t\tKyle was amazed by the amount of donations before his death (Picture: SWNS)<\/p>\n![\"Kyle](\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/SEI_255962416-1d59.jpg\")
\n\t\tHe leaves behind four children and his \u2018amazing\u2019 wife (Picture: SWNS)<\/p>\n
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