{"id":205588,"date":"2025-06-22T17:04:12","date_gmt":"2025-06-22T17:04:12","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/205588\/"},"modified":"2025-06-22T17:04:12","modified_gmt":"2025-06-22T17:04:12","slug":"why-queen-elizabeth-told-friends-kate-middleton-was-a-problem-early-in-romance-with-prince-william","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/205588\/","title":{"rendered":"Why Queen Elizabeth Told Friends Kate Middleton Was a &#8220;Problem&#8221; Early in Romance With Prince William"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">When you buy through links on our articles, Future and its syndication partners may earn a commission.<\/p>\n<p><img alt=\" Kate Middleton wears a dark green dress with a black hat and Queen Elizabeth wears a bright pink coat. \" loading=\"lazy\" width=\"960\" height=\"960\" decoding=\"async\" data-nimg=\"1\" class=\"rounded-lg\" style=\"color:transparent\" src=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/376b8b4ca387e6b96ff79aa8c1576c43.jpeg\"\/><\/p>\n<p>Credit: Getty Images\/Alex Moss\/FilmMagic<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">After <a href=\"https:\/\/www.marieclaire.com\/celebrity\/royals\/prince-william-refused-to-sign-prenup-ahead-of-marrying-kate-middleton\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"slk:marrying Prince William;elm:context_link;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\" class=\"link \">marrying Prince William<\/a> on <a href=\"https:\/\/www.yahoo.com\/news\/princess-kate-prince-william-following-162902373.html\" data-ylk=\"slk:April 29, 2011;elm:context_link;itc:0;sec:content-canvas;outcm:mb_qualified_link;_E:mb_qualified_link;ct:story;\" class=\"link  yahoo-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">April 29, 2011<\/a>, Kate Middleton appeared to develop <a href=\"https:\/\/www.yahoo.com\/news\/princess-kate-duchess-sophies-sisterly-175737331.html\" data-ylk=\"slk:a strong relationship;elm:context_link;itc:0;sec:content-canvas;outcm:mb_qualified_link;_E:mb_qualified_link;ct:story;\" class=\"link  yahoo-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">a strong relationship<\/a> with <a href=\"https:\/\/www.yahoo.com\/entertainment\/prince-william-recognizes-actress-once-182257752.html\" data-ylk=\"slk:her husband&#039;s grandmother;elm:context_link;itc:0;sec:content-canvas;outcm:mb_qualified_link;_E:mb_qualified_link;ct:story;\" class=\"link  yahoo-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">her husband&#8217;s grandmother<\/a>, Queen Elizabeth II. However, several <a href=\"https:\/\/www.yahoo.com\/entertainment\/articles\/body-language-experts-reveal-prince-191841286.html\" data-ylk=\"slk:royal experts;elm:context_link;itc:0;sec:content-canvas;outcm:mb_qualified_link;_E:mb_qualified_link;ct:story;\" class=\"link  yahoo-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">royal experts<\/a> have suggested that <a href=\"https:\/\/www.yahoo.com\/entertainment\/queen-elizabeths-final-five-word-154206385.html\" data-ylk=\"slk:the late Queen;elm:context_link;itc:0;sec:content-canvas;outcm:mb_qualified_link;_E:mb_qualified_link;ct:story;\" class=\"link  yahoo-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">the late Queen<\/a> shared some concerns about <a href=\"https:\/\/www.yahoo.com\/news\/kate-middleton-gave-adorable-response-134405529.html\" data-ylk=\"slk:Princess Kate;elm:context_link;itc:0;sec:content-canvas;outcm:mb_qualified_link;_E:mb_qualified_link;ct:story;\" class=\"link  yahoo-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Princess Kate<\/a> with friends, and allegedly went so far as to say she had a &#8220;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.yahoo.com\/entertainment\/princess-kate-working-repair-royal-111103277.html\" data-ylk=\"slk:Kate problem;elm:context_link;itc:0;sec:content-canvas;outcm:mb_qualified_link;_E:mb_qualified_link;ct:story;\" class=\"link  yahoo-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Kate problem<\/a>.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.yahoo.com\/news\/duchess-sophie-never-got-overly-154155803.html\" data-ylk=\"slk:Royal expert Katie Nicholl;elm:context_link;itc:0;sec:content-canvas;outcm:mb_qualified_link;_E:mb_qualified_link;ct:story;\" class=\"link  yahoo-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Royal expert Katie Nicholl<\/a> discussed <a href=\"https:\/\/www.yahoo.com\/entertainment\/queen-elizabeth-said-she-hated-182611827.html\" data-ylk=\"slk:Queen Elizabeth II&#039;s viewpoint;elm:context_link;itc:0;sec:content-canvas;outcm:mb_qualified_link;_E:mb_qualified_link;ct:story;\" class=\"link  yahoo-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Queen Elizabeth II&#8217;s viewpoint<\/a> in the book <a href=\"https:\/\/target.georiot.com\/Proxy.ashx?tsid=141596&amp;GR_URL=https%3A%2F%2Famazon.com%2FWilliam-Harry-Behind-Palace-Walls-ebook%2Fdp%2FB00486U3CW%3Ftag%3Dhawk-future-20%26ascsubtag%3Dmarieclaireusyahoo-us-6760074754180805173-20\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"slk:William and Harry;elm:context_link;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\" class=\"link \">William and Harry<\/a>: Behind the Palace Walls. &#8220;If Kate was not with <a href=\"https:\/\/www.yahoo.com\/entertainment\/princess-kate-prince-william-spend-194031624.html\" data-ylk=\"slk:William at Balmoral;elm:context_link;itc:0;sec:content-canvas;outcm:mb_qualified_link;_E:mb_qualified_link;ct:story;\" class=\"link  yahoo-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">William at Balmoral<\/a> then the couple were skiing or holidaying <a href=\"https:\/\/www.yahoo.com\/lifestyle\/details-princess-kate-prince-williams-201041847.html\" data-ylk=\"slk:on Mustique;elm:context_link;itc:0;sec:content-canvas;outcm:mb_qualified_link;_E:mb_qualified_link;ct:story;\" class=\"link  yahoo-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">on Mustique<\/a>,&#8221; Nicholl explained (via the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.dailymail.co.uk\/news\/royals\/article-14802111\/stinging-advice-late-Queen-Kate-Middleton-wedding-Prince-William.html\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"slk:Daily Mail;elm:context_link;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\" class=\"link \">Daily Mail<\/a>). &#8220;Kate was there so often the press dubbed her <a href=\"https:\/\/www.yahoo.com\/lifestyle\/kate-middleton-organized-mom-caroles-202911248.html\" data-ylk=\"slk:Queen of Mustique;elm:context_link;itc:0;sec:content-canvas;outcm:mb_qualified_link;_E:mb_qualified_link;ct:story;\" class=\"link  yahoo-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Queen of Mustique<\/a>, a title that had previously belonged to Princess Margaret.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">As a result, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.yahoo.com\/news\/former-prime-minister-boris-johnson-211003683.html\" data-ylk=\"slk:the late monarch;elm:context_link;itc:0;sec:content-canvas;outcm:mb_qualified_link;_E:mb_qualified_link;ct:story;\" class=\"link  yahoo-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">the late monarch<\/a> was allegedly concerned about the optics regarding Princess Kate, with Nicholl writing, &#8220;Such frivolous <a href=\"https:\/\/www.yahoo.com\/lifestyle\/rich-girl-scarf-hack-everyone-165742720.html\" data-ylk=\"slk:displays of wealth;elm:context_link;itc:0;sec:content-canvas;outcm:mb_qualified_link;_E:mb_qualified_link;ct:story;\" class=\"link  yahoo-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">displays of wealth<\/a> were unpalatable to [Queen Elizabeth].&#8221;<\/p>\n<p><img alt=\"Queen Elizabeth waving from the balcony at Buckingham Palace with Prince Charles, Prince William and Kate Middleton in 2012\" loading=\"lazy\" width=\"960\" height=\"615\" decoding=\"async\" data-nimg=\"1\" class=\"rounded-lg\" style=\"color:transparent\" src=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/9098fc723d8b43fb4ff60e3a20bf5e01.jpeg\"\/><\/p>\n<p>Queen Elizabeth allegedly shared some concerns about Princess Kate with friends. | Credit: Getty Images<\/p>\n<p><img alt=\"William and Harry\" loading=\"lazy\" width=\"500\" height=\"500\" decoding=\"async\" data-nimg=\"1\" class=\"rounded-lg\" style=\"color:transparent\" src=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/0bb41e0559bebc64f9ae23716e416db2.jpeg\"\/><\/p>\n<p>&#8216;William and Harry&#8217;<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\"><a class=\"link  athena-button\" href=\"https:\/\/target.georiot.com\/Proxy.ashx?tsid=141596&amp;GR_URL=https%3A%2F%2Famazon.com%2FWilliam-and-Harry-Katie-Nicholl-audiobook%2Fdp%2FB004ADRZ92%3Ftag%3Dhawk-future-20%26ascsubtag%3Dmarieclaireusyahoo-us-5925663975804698996-20\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"slk:View Deal;elm:context_link;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\">View Deal<\/a><\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">Queen Elizabeth was apparently so concerned about Kate that she wanted Prince William to wait before proposing marriage. &#8220;The Queen believed an announcement should be postponed until Kate was settled in a career,&#8221; Nicholl explained. According to the royal expert, an &#8220;insider&#8221; shared, &#8220;It is Her Majesty&#8217;s opinion that if Kate is one day going to be William&#8217;s consort, then she needs a proper job.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p><img alt=\"Queen Elizabeth, Prince Philip, Prince William, Prince Charles, Prince Harry, Princess Kate, Princess Charlotte and Prince George on the balcony at Buckingham Palace,\" loading=\"lazy\" width=\"960\" height=\"541\" decoding=\"async\" data-nimg=\"1\" class=\"rounded-lg\" style=\"color:transparent\" src=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/63cc766e601c5d2f588d303fb8095de6.jpeg\"\/><\/p>\n<p>Queen Elizabeth reportedly wanted Kate Middleton to develop a career. | Credit: Getty Images<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">The Mail on Sunday (via the Daily Mail) quoted a senior royal aide who allegedly told them, &#8220;The Queen has had conversations with a few trusted friends about how to tackle what is being called the Kate problem.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">Per the outlet, the aide suggested that the late monarch believed Princess Kate was &#8220;a nice enough girl,&#8221; but Elizabeth had &#8220;no idea what Kate actually does.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">Essentially, it seems as though Queen Elizabeth wanted Princess Kate to be &#8220;in <a href=\"https:\/\/www.yahoo.com\/entertainment\/could-royal-job-perfect-way-172750315.html\" data-ylk=\"slk:a stable job;elm:context_link;itc:0;sec:content-canvas;outcm:mb_qualified_link;_E:mb_qualified_link;ct:story;\" class=\"link  yahoo-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">a stable job<\/a>&#8221; by the time <a href=\"https:\/\/www.yahoo.com\/entertainment\/prince-william-emotionally-revisits-proposing-173040622.html\" data-ylk=\"slk:Prince William proposed;elm:context_link;itc:0;sec:content-canvas;outcm:mb_qualified_link;_E:mb_qualified_link;ct:story;\" class=\"link  yahoo-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Prince William proposed<\/a> to her, per the Daily Mail.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">Of course, the Princess of Wales did have two jobs <a href=\"https:\/\/www.yahoo.com\/entertainment\/prince-william-very-clear-why-172756226.html\" data-ylk=\"slk:prior to marrying Prince William;elm:context_link;itc:0;sec:content-canvas;outcm:mb_qualified_link;_E:mb_qualified_link;ct:story;\" class=\"link  yahoo-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">prior to marrying Prince William<\/a>. She worked for the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.yahoo.com\/lifestyle\/apparently-always-carole-middleton-master-201713831.html\" data-ylk=\"slk:Middleton family business;elm:context_link;itc:0;sec:content-canvas;outcm:mb_qualified_link;_E:mb_qualified_link;ct:story;\" class=\"link  yahoo-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Middleton family business<\/a>, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.marieclaire.com\/celebrity\/carole-middleton-photo-kate-middleton-james-pippa-party-pieces\/\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"slk:Party Pieces;elm:context_link;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\" class=\"link \">Party Pieces<\/a>, before securing a part-time role with womenswear brand Jigsaw, where she <a href=\"https:\/\/www.marieclaire.com\/celebrity\/a22767425\/kate-middleton-had-these-two-very-normal-jobs-before-she-became-a-royal\/\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"slk:worked as an accessories buyer;elm:context_link;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\" class=\"link \">worked as an accessories buyer<\/a>.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"When you buy through links on our articles, Future and its syndication partners may earn a commission. 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