{"id":21043,"date":"2025-04-15T04:31:14","date_gmt":"2025-04-15T04:31:14","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/21043\/"},"modified":"2025-04-15T04:31:14","modified_gmt":"2025-04-15T04:31:14","slug":"bowen-yang-got-real-about-undergoing-conversion-therapy-as-a-teenager","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/21043\/","title":{"rendered":"Bowen Yang Got Real About Undergoing Conversion Therapy As A Teenager"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">Of course, you know <a href=\"http:\/\/buzzfeed.com\/tag\/bowen-yang\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"slk:Bowen Yang;elm:context_link;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\" class=\"link \">Bowen Yang<\/a> from <a href=\"http:\/\/buzzfeed.com\/tag\/saturday-night-live\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"slk:Saturday Night Live;elm:context_link;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\" class=\"link \">Saturday Night Live<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p><img alt=\"Bowen Yang wearing a patterned suit and round glasses, posed on a formal event backdrop\" loading=\"lazy\" width=\"700\" height=\"1050\" decoding=\"async\" data-nimg=\"1\" class=\"rounded-lg\" style=\"color:transparent\" src=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/f2b15b1a79bb17e566ff5c394de4cd21.jpeg\"\/><\/p>\n<p> Taylor Hill \/ FilmMagic<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">You probably also know that Bowen is openly gay \u2014 but when he was younger, there were some early struggles with coming out to his family.<\/p>\n<p><img alt=\"Bowen Yang smiles on the SAG Awards red carpet, wearing a classic black suit with a white shirt\" loading=\"lazy\" width=\"700\" height=\"1014\" decoding=\"async\" data-nimg=\"1\" class=\"rounded-lg\" style=\"color:transparent\" src=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/799ea6b09c8ffb72b228823a010754da.jpeg\"\/><\/p>\n<p> Jeff Kravitz \/ FilmMagic<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">In an <a href=\"https:\/\/go.redirectingat.com\/?id=74679X1524629&amp;sref=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.buzzfeed.com%2Flarryfitzmaurice%2Fbowen-yang-had-conversion-therapy-as-teenager&amp;url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.today.com%2Fpopculture%2Fbowen-yang-converstion-therapy-rcna200444&amp;xcust=7860799%7C0%7CRSS%7C61408425&amp;xs=1\" data-i13n=\"elm:affiliate_link;elmt:premonetized\" rel=\"sponsored noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"slk:interview;elm:affiliate_link;elmt:premonetized;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\" class=\"link  rapid-with-clickid etailiffa-link\">interview<\/a> with TODAY&#8217;s Willie Geist that&#8217;s set to air tomorrow, the comedian and actor revealed that his parents had him undergo conversion therapy as a teenager. Conversion therapy is <a href=\"https:\/\/go.redirectingat.com\/?id=74679X1524629&amp;sref=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.buzzfeed.com%2Flarryfitzmaurice%2Fbowen-yang-had-conversion-therapy-as-teenager&amp;url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.lgbtmap.org%2Fequality-maps%2Fconversion_therapy&amp;xcust=7860799%7C0%7CRSS%7C61408431&amp;xs=1\" data-i13n=\"elm:affiliate_link;elmt:premonetized\" rel=\"sponsored noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"slk:currently banned;elm:affiliate_link;elmt:premonetized;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\" class=\"link  rapid-with-clickid etailiffa-link\">currently banned<\/a> in 23 <a href=\"https:\/\/www.buzzfeed.com\/jonmichaelpoff\/us-states-quiz\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"slk:US states;elm:context_link;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\" class=\"link \">US states<\/a> \u2014 including Colorado, the state in which he was raised \u2014 as well as in Washington, DC.<\/p>\n<p><img alt=\"Bowen Yang smiling at the BFI Flare Film Festival, wearing a patterned sweater and glasses\" loading=\"lazy\" width=\"700\" height=\"1050\" decoding=\"async\" data-nimg=\"1\" class=\"rounded-lg\" style=\"color:transparent\" src=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/837706c082d2b55202b66da4711a43a3.jpeg\"\/><\/p>\n<p> Jordan Peck \/ Jordan Peck|Getty Images for ABA<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">Bowen explained that his parents had given him an ultimatum: If he underwent conversion therapy, he would be allowed to attend <a href=\"https:\/\/www.buzzfeed.com\/bigbuffguy246\/are-you-a-buffalonian\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"slk:New York;elm:context_link;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\" class=\"link \">New York<\/a> University and live with his sister in NYC. &#8220;Those poor people did not realize it&#8217;s one of the gayest schools in the country,&#8221; he laughed. &#8220;I just knew I had to live there.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p><img alt=\"Bowen Yang in a formal suit with a bow tie stands smiling on a red carpet\" loading=\"lazy\" width=\"960\" height=\"1440\" decoding=\"async\" data-nimg=\"1\" class=\"rounded-lg\" style=\"color:transparent\" src=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/0633c9f8c01159389a46404a09a08eb1.jpeg\"\/><\/p>\n<p> Christopher Polk \/ Variety via Getty Images<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">&#8220;And so I kind of played along and I kind of just humored them and myself into seeing what it was, not knowing that it was ultimately very painful and detrimental,&#8221; he said. &#8220;And there was a lot of healing that happened after that.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p><img alt=\"Bowen Yang in a velvet suit speaks animatedly on stage, gesturing with hands\" loading=\"lazy\" width=\"960\" height=\"640\" decoding=\"async\" data-nimg=\"1\" class=\"rounded-lg\" style=\"color:transparent\" src=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/339e9307efe21901b2616f9d5a591b51.jpeg\"\/><\/p>\n<p> Rich Polk \/ Penske Media via Getty Images<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">Bowen also explained that he didn&#8217;t so much directly come out to his parents, as it happened that they &#8220;just sort of stumbled upon something, and they were like, &#8216;Oh, we didn&#8217;t realize this is what we were dealing with. Where we come from, this doesn&#8217;t happen,'&#8221; he explained. &#8220;That was sort of their concept of it. And so I give them a lot of grace for that, because they just have no context for it.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p><img alt=\"Bowen Yang in a stylish leather jacket with floral embroidery, smiling at an event\" loading=\"lazy\" width=\"960\" height=\"640\" decoding=\"async\" data-nimg=\"1\" class=\"rounded-lg\" style=\"color:transparent\" src=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/9e39d4130bac3953d6b304258993a2b3.jpeg\"\/><\/p>\n<p> JC Olivera \/ WWD via Getty Images<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">Bowen also explained that he &#8220;really didn&#8217;t get to work through&#8221; his identity as a queer person before his parents found out. &#8220;I think I probably wasn&#8217;t brave enough back then to express that, or to package it in a way that they could understand,&#8221; he explained, &#8220;because it felt completely foreign to them, and it was completely foreign to them.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p><img alt=\"Bowen Yang on red carpet wearing glasses, a black blazer, white shirt with a scarf tie. Netflix and Screen Actors Guild Awards backdrop\" loading=\"lazy\" width=\"960\" height=\"1440\" decoding=\"async\" data-nimg=\"1\" class=\"rounded-lg\" style=\"color:transparent\" src=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/215232b2f485f06ed0e1e7440478cb6a.jpeg\"\/><\/p>\n<p> Frazer Harrison \/ WireImage<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">&#8220;Identity is this really fickle thing,&#8221; he added. &#8220;It&#8217;s not something that you arrive at until much later in life, I think. I didn\u2019t really get a grasp on who I was until like, two years ago.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p><img alt=\"Bowen Yang in bold suit with scarf, standing in front of &quot;SNL&quot; backdrop, smiling\" loading=\"lazy\" width=\"960\" height=\"640\" decoding=\"async\" data-nimg=\"1\" class=\"rounded-lg\" style=\"color:transparent\" src=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/cc7c998f5617acd9fe02992b30d75a65.jpeg\"\/><\/p>\n<p> Sean Zanni \/ Patrick McMullan via Getty Images<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">You can tune in to TODAY on NBC tomorrow morning for the full interview.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Of course, you know Bowen Yang from Saturday Night Live. 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