{"id":225855,"date":"2025-06-30T05:42:10","date_gmt":"2025-06-30T05:42:10","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/225855\/"},"modified":"2025-06-30T05:42:10","modified_gmt":"2025-06-30T05:42:10","slug":"i-couldnt-stop-thinking-about-this-story-the-irish-times","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/225855\/","title":{"rendered":"\u2018I couldn\u2019t stop thinking about this story\u2019 \u2013 The Irish Times"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"c-paragraph\">The Story of a Heart is a beautifully written account of how the lives of two families \u2013 both facing immeasurable suffering \u2013 become inextricably entwined through the donation of a heart from a nine-year-old girl with catastrophic brain injuries to a nine-year-old boy with end-stage heart failure.<\/p>\n<p class=\"c-paragraph paywall\">First published in 2024, with compassion and clarity, Rachel Clarke draws readers into the details of the lives of Keira Ball\u2019s family, who made the decision to donate her organs when they realised that she wasn\u2019t going to recover from the injuries she suffered in a car crash which also left her brother Bradley and her mother Loanna seriously wounded. <\/p>\n<p class=\"c-paragraph paywall\">\u201cI couldn\u2019t stop thinking about this story when I first read about it in 2017,\u201d explains Clarke, a palliative care doctor and former broadcast journalist.<\/p>\n<p class=\"c-paragraph paywall\">The two families had told the story of their meeting to journalist Jeremy Armstrong. This meeting broke all the rules of anonymity, usually sacrosanct in organ donation protocols. It came months after Loanna Ball reached out to Emma Johnson, the mother of Max, after the Ball family received their anonymous letter of thanks.<\/p>\n<p class=\"c-paragraph paywall\">In her Facebook message to  Johnson,  Ball wrote: \u201cI think you may have our daughter\u2019s heart and it\u2019s the most beautiful heart in the world.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"c-paragraph paywall\">Max\u2019s identity was already public after the Daily Mirror had earlier told the story of his long wait for a heart transplant as part of its campaign for opt-out rather than opt-in legislation for organ donation. (When the legislation for opt-out organ donation was introduced into Britain in May 2020, the law was called Max and Keira\u2019s Law). <\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" data-chromatic=\"ignore\" alt=\"The Story of a Heart will bring readers to tears again and again as the details of parents and siblings spending time with their youngest sister before she died are told in parallel to that of a young boy, hanging on by a thread, knowing that he will die without a heart transplant\" class=\"c-image\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/5V5C4GD26JB2VOICP7BTPADTVI.jpg\"   width=\"400\" height=\"616\"\/>The Story of a Heart will bring readers to tears again and again as the details of parents and siblings spending time with their youngest sister before she died are told in parallel to that of a young boy, hanging on by a thread, knowing that he will die without a heart transplant <\/p>\n<p class=\"c-paragraph paywall\">Clarke made contact first with Keira\u2019s family, meeting them for several hours, asking them to consider her telling their story. \u201cThey immediately said yes, but I gave them a few months to change their minds. When they didn\u2019t change their minds, I approached Max\u2019s family and the NHS Blood and Transplant,\u201d she explains. <\/p>\n<p class=\"c-paragraph paywall\">Therein began four years of research and interviews with family members and key health professionals who cared for both children and worked on the transplant teams. <\/p>\n<p class=\"c-paragraph paywall\">The Story of a Heart will bring readers to tears again and again as the details of parents and siblings spending time with their youngest sister before she died are told in parallel to that of a young boy, hanging on by a thread, knowing that he will die without a heart transplant. <\/p>\n<p class=\"c-paragraph paywall\">In June, Clarke won the<a href=\"https:\/\/www.irishtimes.com\/culture\/books\/2025\/06\/12\/yael-van-der-wouden-and-rachel-clarke-win-womens-prizes\/\" target=\"_self\" rel=\"noopener\" title=\"https:\/\/www.irishtimes.com\/culture\/books\/2025\/06\/12\/yael-van-der-wouden-and-rachel-clarke-win-womens-prizes\/\"> 2025 Women\u2019s Prize for Non-Fiction<\/a> for her extraordinary book. The prize, which complements the long-running Women\u2019s Prize for Fiction, was first awarded in 2024 after research found that female non-fiction writers were less likely to be reviewed (26.5 per cent of non-fiction reviews in national newspapers were allocated to female writers) or win prizes than their male counterparts (one in three prize winners across seven UK non-fiction prizes over the past 10 years were women).<\/p>\n<p class=\"c-paragraph paywall\">In the story, Clarke writes: \u201cFrom the moment Keira was fatally injured, her heart began a journey so momentous it was scarcely believable. First, there was the emergency chest compressions at the scene of the crash\u2026 Next, the strange metaphysical limbo between life and death as Keira lay in intensive care, warm, flushed, apparently sleeping, yet somehow \u2013 unfathomably &#8211; brain dead. Then, the moment when her heart was stilled by an anaesthetist\u2019s drugs so that the surgeons, silently at work within the cave of her chest, no longer faced a moving target.<\/p>\n<p class=\"c-paragraph paywall\">\u201cFrom there, the light-aircraft dash halfway across the country to deliver the organ, chilled on ice, into gloved and poised surgical hands. Finally, the intricate knitting of the heart\u2019s great vessels into another child\u2019s torso \u2013 and the agonising wait to see if its chambers would resume their vital work.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"c-paragraph paywall\">As well as telling the personal stories so sensitively, Clarke weaves through the book rich details of medical research and history. Such as the origins of intensive care units or the importance of immunosuppressant medicines or how the heart is the first of our organs to form and the last to die. Or how, one in five children die while waiting for an organ transplant.<\/p>\n<p class=\"c-paragraph paywall\">She also includes details such as how surgeons will sometimes write up operation notes for teddy bears, used for comfort, distraction and to demonstrate to a child certain procedures. And how a nurse can find time to bring a distraught sibling for a hot chocolate while his younger brother lies in hospital close to death. <\/p>\n<p class=\"c-paragraph paywall\">Clarke draws readers into the lives of these brave and dignified families sharing a time in their lives when they are at their most vulnerable. \u201cHow Keira\u2019s family in the darkest, bleakest circumstances can summon all their strength to look outwards to save others from the fate that befell them,\u201d she says.<\/p>\n<p class=\"c-paragraph b-it-article-body__interstitial-link\">[\u00a0<a aria-label=\"Open related story\" class=\"c-link\" href=\"https:\/\/www.irishtimes.com\/health\/your-wellness\/2023\/02\/15\/how-to-be-an-organ-donor-the-surgeon-said-he-wasnt-going-to-take-my-kidney-out-if-i-wasnt-sure\/\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" target=\"_blank\">How to be an organ donor: \u2018The surgeon said he wasn\u2019t going to take my kidney out if I wasn\u2019t sure\u2019Opens in new window<\/a>\u00a0]<\/p>\n<p class=\"c-paragraph paywall\">Keira Ball\u2019s family have since set up the charity, Inspired by Keira, to raise awareness of the importance of organ donation and to support families in the south of England confronting the sudden loss of a child. <\/p>\n<p class=\"c-paragraph paywall\">And while she chronicles in detail the \u201cthe modern day miracle of transplantation\u201d and the hundreds of health professionals who make it happen, Clarke is also cogently aware that more organs are needed to be donated. \u201cWhen then [UK] prime minster  Theresa May brought in the legislation for opt-out organ donations, it was to be called, Max\u2019s Law,\u201d explains Clarke. But, after Max himself said it should be called, Max and Keira\u2019s Law, it was.<\/p>\n<p class=\"c-paragraph paywall\">Seven years on from his transplant, Max Johnson has just completed his GCSE exams. <\/p>\n<p class=\"c-paragraph paywall\">Similar legislation to allow opt-out rather than opt-in (ie, assumption that the person agrees to donating their organs unless they have specifically registered their objection to it) was <a href=\"https:\/\/www.irishtimes.com\/health\/2025\/06\/17\/what-are-the-new-rules-around-organ-donation-in-ireland-and-what-if-i-want-to-opt-out\/\" target=\"_self\" rel=\"noopener\" title=\"https:\/\/www.irishtimes.com\/health\/2025\/06\/17\/what-are-the-new-rules-around-organ-donation-in-ireland-and-what-if-i-want-to-opt-out\/\">introduced into Ireland in June 2025<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p class=\"c-paragraph paywall\">\u201cChanging the law has helped but not as much as people thought. Awareness is what counts. Make sure that you have signed opt-in for organ donation on your driver\u2019s licence and tell loved ones what your wishes are and ask your family members and children what their views are on organ donation,\u201d she says. <\/p>\n<p class=\"c-paragraph paywall\">Because, in spite of the opt-out legislation now in place in Britain and Ireland, ultimately, it\u2019s the family who decides when facing the death of a loved one. \u201cIf that person\u2019s wishes to donate their organs are known, 90 per cent of families will say yes, but if that person\u2019s wishes are not known, only 40 per cent will say yes,\u201d explains Clarke.<\/p>\n<p class=\"c-paragraph paywall\">Clarke says that studying medicine as a mature student, she has always \u201ccared about patients as people, not just body parts\u201d. She says that she firmly believes stories such as this display such deep humanity, making them an antidote to the depressing newspaper headlines and \u201cdoom scrolling\u201d that we all do. \u201cIt says something very profound about our species,\u201d she adds.<\/p>\n<p class=\"c-paragraph b-it-article-body__interstitial-link\">[\u00a0<a aria-label=\"Open related story\" class=\"c-link\" href=\"https:\/\/www.irishtimes.com\/health\/your-family\/2025\/05\/13\/organ-donor-awareness-week-we-had-forgotten-what-hope-really-felt-like\/\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Waiting for an organ donor: \u2018It was the beginning of the hardest chapter in our family\u2019s life\u2019Opens in new window<\/a>\u00a0]<\/p>\n<p class=\"c-paragraph paywall\">Clarke now works as a palliative care consultant in a hospital in England. \u201cI knew when I returned to study medicine as a mature student [she was 29 when she left broadcast journalism to train as a doctor] that I wanted to work in oncology, haematology or palliative care,\u201d she explains. <\/p>\n<p class=\"c-paragraph paywall\">But that didn\u2019t stop her writing. Her first book, Your Life is in My Hands chronicles her life as a junior doctor. Next came, Dear Life, a book exploring death, dying and end-of-life care. And in 2020, she wrote  Breathtaking, a book about the first wave of Covid in the UK which was later adapted for a television series.<\/p>\n<p class=\"c-paragraph paywall\">Clarke says that while being around dying people makes a lot of people nervous, she finds the combination of the physical and moral challenges fulfilling. \u201cEnd-of-life care is profoundly important. There is a huge amount you can do for people at the end of their life.<\/p>\n<p class=\"c-paragraph paywall\">\u201cIn my work, I see more of the goodness, strength and decency people are capable of. It\u2019s not just the physical complications we have to deal with, but the suffering that comes with having to lose everyone in the world dear to you.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"c-paragraph paywall\">And, yes, it has influenced her entire philosophy of life. \u201cWe are all a whisper away from tragedy. Living your life holding on to just how precious it is is an important way to try to live. 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