{"id":235999,"date":"2025-07-03T23:52:26","date_gmt":"2025-07-03T23:52:26","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/235999\/"},"modified":"2025-07-03T23:52:26","modified_gmt":"2025-07-03T23:52:26","slug":"princess-margaret-ended-up-giving-queen-elizabeth-advice-after-ironic-role-reversal","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/235999\/","title":{"rendered":"Princess Margaret Ended Up Giving Queen Elizabeth Advice After &#8220;Ironic&#8221; Role &#8220;Reversal&#8221;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Although their royal roles\u2014and personalities\u2014couldn&#8217;t have been more different, <a data-analytics-id=\"inline-link\" href=\"https:\/\/www.marieclaire.com\/celebrity\/royals\/princess-margaret-ill-mannered-queen-elizabeth-queen-mother\/\" data-before-rewrite-localise=\"https:\/\/www.marieclaire.com\/celebrity\/royals\/princess-margaret-ill-mannered-queen-elizabeth-queen-mother\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Queen Elizabeth and Princess Margaret<\/a> shared a close bond throughout their lives. The late Queen&#8217;s only sibling, who died in 2002, has long been remembered as an outspoken, ultra-glam <a data-analytics-id=\"inline-link\" href=\"https:\/\/www.marieclaire.com\/culture\/a29473283\/did-princess-margaret-want-to-be-queen-the-crown\/https:\/\/www.marieclaire.com\/culture\/a29628660\/princess-margaret-roddy-mustique-photos-the-crown\/\" data-before-rewrite-localise=\"https:\/\/www.marieclaire.com\/culture\/a29473283\/did-princess-margaret-want-to-be-queen-the-crown\/https:\/\/www.marieclaire.com\/culture\/a29628660\/princess-margaret-roddy-mustique-photos-the-crown\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">wild child<\/a>. But after three of Queen Elizabeth&#8217;s <a data-analytics-id=\"inline-link\" href=\"https:\/\/www.marieclaire.com\/celebrity\/royals\/queen-elizabeth-blunt-honest-parenting-advice-raising-children-in-public-eye\/\" data-before-rewrite-localise=\"https:\/\/www.marieclaire.com\/celebrity\/royals\/queen-elizabeth-blunt-honest-parenting-advice-raising-children-in-public-eye\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">four children<\/a> <a data-analytics-id=\"inline-link\" href=\"https:\/\/www.marieclaire.com\/celebrity\/a36842801\/princess-diana-royal-family-divorce-bbc-interview\/\" data-before-rewrite-localise=\"https:\/\/www.marieclaire.com\/celebrity\/a36842801\/princess-diana-royal-family-divorce-bbc-interview\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">ended up divorced<\/a> in the &#8217;90s, the sisters experienced a role reversal that no one expected.<\/p>\n<p>In a classic case of heir and spare, <a data-analytics-id=\"inline-link\" href=\"https:\/\/www.marieclaire.com\/tag\/princess-margaret\/\" data-auto-tag-linker=\"true\" data-before-rewrite-localise=\"https:\/\/www.marieclaire.com\/tag\/princess-margaret\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Princess Margaret<\/a> is said to have suffered from an inferiority complex when it came to Elizabeth. &#8220;As a young woman she had always felt that the Queen was so good and perfect while she was very much the opposite, doomed to an unhappy marriage and a succession of unsuitable romances,&#8221; author Ingrid Seward wrote in her book My Mother and I (via the <a data-analytics-id=\"inline-link\" href=\"https:\/\/www.dailymail.co.uk\/news\/royals\/article-14683609\/Princess-Margaret-Queen-divorces.html\" target=\"_blank\" data-url=\"https:\/\/www.dailymail.co.uk\/news\/royals\/article-14683609\/Princess-Margaret-Queen-divorces.html\" referrerpolicy=\"no-referrer-when-downgrade\" data-hl-processed=\"none\" rel=\"noopener\">Daily Mail)<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Despite this, Margaret loved her sister dearly, and after her own divorce in 1978, she became the perfect person to give advice to Queen Elizabeth. In 1992, Elizabeth&#8217;s only daughter, <a data-analytics-id=\"inline-link\" href=\"https:\/\/www.marieclaire.com\/tag\/princess-anne\/\" data-auto-tag-linker=\"true\" data-before-rewrite-localise=\"https:\/\/www.marieclaire.com\/tag\/princess-anne\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Princess Anne<\/a>, finalized her divorce from husband Mark Phillips, and the same year\u2014dubbed her &#8220;annus horribilis&#8221; by the late Queen\u2014both <a data-analytics-id=\"inline-link\" href=\"https:\/\/www.marieclaire.com\/tag\/prince-charles\/\" data-auto-tag-linker=\"true\" data-before-rewrite-localise=\"https:\/\/www.marieclaire.com\/tag\/prince-charles\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Prince Charles<\/a> and <a data-analytics-id=\"inline-link\" href=\"https:\/\/www.marieclaire.com\/tag\/diana\/\" data-auto-tag-linker=\"true\" data-before-rewrite-localise=\"https:\/\/www.marieclaire.com\/tag\/diana\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Princess Diana<\/a> and <a data-analytics-id=\"inline-link\" href=\"https:\/\/www.marieclaire.com\/tag\/prince-andrew\/\" data-auto-tag-linker=\"true\" data-before-rewrite-localise=\"https:\/\/www.marieclaire.com\/tag\/prince-andrew\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Prince Andrew<\/a> and <a data-analytics-id=\"inline-link\" href=\"https:\/\/www.marieclaire.com\/tag\/sarah-ferguson\/\" data-auto-tag-linker=\"true\" data-before-rewrite-localise=\"https:\/\/www.marieclaire.com\/tag\/sarah-ferguson\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Sarah Ferguson<\/a> <a data-analytics-id=\"inline-link\" href=\"https:\/\/www.marieclaire.com\/celebrity\/royals\/princess-diana-sarah-ferguson-prince-andrew-divorce-road-map\/\" data-before-rewrite-localise=\"https:\/\/www.marieclaire.com\/celebrity\/royals\/princess-diana-sarah-ferguson-prince-andrew-divorce-road-map\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">announced their separations<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>You may like<\/p>\n<p class=\"vanilla-image-block\" style=\"padding-top:68.18%;\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/07\/y5AgibrXTPuPrWx8rVn2g.jpg\" alt=\"Princess Margaret in a blue coat pointing something out to Queen Elizabeth, dressed in a red hat and coat\"   loading=\"lazy\" data-original-mos=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/07\/y5AgibrXTPuPrWx8rVn2g.jpg\" data-pin-media=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/07\/y5AgibrXTPuPrWx8rVn2g.jpg\"\/><\/p>\n<p>Princess Margaret, seen with Queen Elizabeth in 1996, supported her sister through multiple divorces in the family. <\/p>\n<p>(Image credit: Getty Images)<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;For all her personal problems and temperamental behaviour, she was a natural mother,&#8221; Seward wrote of Princess Margaret, who shared daughter Sarah Chatto and son David Armstrong-Jones with ex-husband Antony Armstrong-Jones. And when Queen Elizabeth was struggling with her <a data-analytics-id=\"inline-link\" href=\"https:\/\/www.marieclaire.com\/celebrity\/queen-children-divorces-upsetting-robert-hardman\/\" data-before-rewrite-localise=\"https:\/\/www.marieclaire.com\/celebrity\/queen-children-divorces-upsetting-robert-hardman\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">children&#8217;s divorces<\/a>, Margaret was there to lend an ear.<\/p>\n<p>Describing Princess Margaret as developing &#8220;a new kind of confidence,&#8221; Seward wrote that the princess &#8220;felt able to give the Queen advice, rather than the other way around&#8221; for the &#8220;first time&#8221; ever.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;The ironic poignancy of this reversal was not lost on the Queen or <a data-analytics-id=\"inline-link\" href=\"https:\/\/www.marieclaire.com\/tag\/prince-philip\/\" data-auto-tag-linker=\"true\" data-before-rewrite-localise=\"https:\/\/www.marieclaire.com\/tag\/prince-philip\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Prince Philip<\/a>,&#8221; the biographer added. &#8220;This is not how anyone could ever have seen things turning out, with Margaret at ease with herself and her children happily settled, while the Queen and Philip were faced with three out of their four children getting divorced.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/target.georiot.com\/Proxy.ashx?tsid=141596&amp;GR_URL=https%3A%2F%2Famazon.com%2FMY-FAMILY-I-author%2Fdp%2F1398515175%2Fref%3Dsr_1_1%3Ftag%3Dhawk-future-20%26ascsubtag%3Dmarieclaireus-us-2237177247513951498-20\" data-model-name=\"My Mother and I\" data-url=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/MY-FAMILY-I-author\/dp\/1398515175\/ref=sr_1_1\" target=\"_blank\" referrerpolicy=\"no-referrer-when-downgrade\" rel=\"sponsored noopener\" data-hl-processed=\"hawklinks\" data-placeholder-url=\"https:\/\/target.georiot.com\/Proxy.ashx?tsid=141596&amp;GR_URL=https%3A%2F%2Famazon.com%2FMY-FAMILY-I-author%2Fdp%2F1398515175%2Fref%3Dsr_1_1%3Ftag%3Dhawk-future-20%26ascsubtag%3Dhawk-custom-tracking-20\" data-google-interstitial=\"false\" data-merchant-name=\"Amazon US\" data-merchant-id=\"1471\" data-merchant-network=\"Amazonus\" data-merchant-url=\"amazon.com\"><\/p>\n<p class=\"vanilla-image-block\" data-bordeaux-image-check=\"\" style=\"padding-top:150%\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/07\/X7ZhY4VgPgPjncQ8g6547V.jpg\" alt=\"My Mother and I\" class=\"featured_image\"   loading=\"lazy\" data-original-mos=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/07\/X7ZhY4VgPgPjncQ8g6547V.jpg\" data-pin-media=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/07\/X7ZhY4VgPgPjncQ8g6547V.jpg\"\/><\/p>\n<p><\/a><\/p>\n<p class=\"vanilla-image-block\" style=\"padding-top:156.27%;\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/07\/GVEhjGWJdnPYzu4taESatP.jpg\" alt=\"Queen Elizabeth wearing a purple and green gown standing next to Princess Margaret in a yellow gown\"   loading=\"lazy\" data-original-mos=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/07\/GVEhjGWJdnPYzu4taESatP.jpg\" data-pin-media=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/07\/GVEhjGWJdnPYzu4taESatP.jpg\"\/><\/p>\n<p>The sisters are seen at a 1995 concert. <\/p>\n<p>(Image credit: Getty Images)<\/p>\n<p class=\"vanilla-image-block\" style=\"padding-top:67.14%;\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/07\/Vqwzz9aDdYBy4mTZKrH9x5.jpg\" alt=\"Princess Margaret wearing a head scarf sitting in a car with her kids David and Sarah\"   loading=\"lazy\" data-original-mos=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/07\/Vqwzz9aDdYBy4mTZKrH9x5.jpg\" data-pin-media=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/07\/Vqwzz9aDdYBy4mTZKrH9x5.jpg\"\/><\/p>\n<p>Princess Margaret poses with her children David and Sarah in a 1968 photo. <\/p>\n<p>(Image credit: Getty Images)<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/target.georiot.com\/Proxy.ashx?tsid=141596&amp;GR_URL=https%3A%2F%2Famazon.com%2FQueen-Our-Times-Elizabeth-Commemorative%2Fdp%2F163936367X%2Fref%3Dsr_1_1%3Ftag%3Dhawk-future-20%26ascsubtag%3Dmarieclaireus-us-7476068835996313798-20\" data-model-name=\"Queen of Our Times: the Life of Queen Elizabeth II: Commemorative Edition\" data-url=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Queen-Our-Times-Elizabeth-Commemorative\/dp\/163936367X\/ref=sr_1_1\" target=\"_blank\" referrerpolicy=\"no-referrer-when-downgrade\" rel=\"sponsored noopener\" data-hl-processed=\"hawklinks\" data-placeholder-url=\"https:\/\/target.georiot.com\/Proxy.ashx?tsid=141596&amp;GR_URL=https%3A%2F%2Famazon.com%2FQueen-Our-Times-Elizabeth-Commemorative%2Fdp%2F163936367X%2Fref%3Dsr_1_1%3Ftag%3Dhawk-future-20%26ascsubtag%3Dhawk-custom-tracking-20\" data-google-interstitial=\"false\" data-merchant-name=\"Amazon US\" data-merchant-id=\"1471\" data-merchant-network=\"Amazonus\" data-merchant-url=\"amazon.com\"><\/p>\n<p class=\"vanilla-image-block\" data-bordeaux-image-check=\"\" style=\"padding-top:150%\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/07\/rZoKzfsa5GanAMQL9WW8vN.jpg\" alt=\"Queen of Our Times: the Life of Queen Elizabeth Ii: Commemorative Edition, 1926-2022\" class=\"featured_image\"   loading=\"lazy\" data-original-mos=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/07\/rZoKzfsa5GanAMQL9WW8vN.jpg\" data-pin-media=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/07\/rZoKzfsa5GanAMQL9WW8vN.jpg\"\/><\/p>\n<p><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Queen of Our Times: the Life of Queen Elizabeth II: Commemorative Edition<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Princess Margaret prided herself on being a good mother and it made her feel that at least she had managed to get something right,&#8221; Seward added. &#8220;Unlike her sister, who put her husband before the children, Princess Margaret put her children first.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"newsletter-form__strapline\">Get exclusive access to fashion and beauty trends, hot-off-the-press celebrity news, and more.<\/p>\n<p>In his book Queen of Our Times: The Life of Queen <a data-analytics-id=\"inline-link\" href=\"https:\/\/www.marieclaire.com\/tag\/queen-elizabeth-ii\/\" data-auto-tag-linker=\"true\" data-before-rewrite-localise=\"https:\/\/www.marieclaire.com\/tag\/queen-elizabeth-ii\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Elizabeth II<\/a>, royal biographer Robert Hardman wrote that the series of divorces impacted Elizabeth &#8220;much more than she let on.&#8221; A former palace staffer recalled, via the Daily Mail, telling the late Queen that divorces were &#8220;almost common practice&#8221; in the &#8217;90s.<\/p>\n<p>However, Queen Elizabeth exclaimed, &#8220;Three out of four!&#8221; in a tone filled with &#8220;sheer sadness and exasperation.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>TOPICS<\/p>\n<p><a class=\"flex-none p-2.5 text-white bg-neutral-950 hover:bg-neutral-500 hover:underline hover:underline-offset-2\" href=\"https:\/\/www.marieclaire.com\/tag\/queen-elizabeth-ii\/\" data-before-rewrite-localise=\"\/tag\/queen-elizabeth-ii\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Queen Elizabeth II<\/a><br \/>\n<a class=\"flex-none p-2.5 text-white bg-neutral-950 hover:bg-neutral-500 hover:underline hover:underline-offset-2\" href=\"https:\/\/www.marieclaire.com\/tag\/princess-margaret\/\" data-before-rewrite-localise=\"\/tag\/princess-margaret\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Princess Margaret<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Although their royal roles\u2014and personalities\u2014couldn&#8217;t have been more different, Queen Elizabeth and Princess Margaret shared a close bond&hellip;\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":236000,"comment_status":"","ping_status":"","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[7708],"tags":[5105,7710,519,448],"class_list":{"0":"post-235999","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-royals","8":"tag-royal","9":"tag-royal-families","10":"tag-royal-family","11":"tag-royals"},"share_on_mastodon":{"url":"https:\/\/pubeurope.com\/@uk\/114791995690571430","error":""},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/235999","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=235999"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/235999\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/236000"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=235999"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=235999"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=235999"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}