{"id":23661,"date":"2025-04-16T03:02:25","date_gmt":"2025-04-16T03:02:25","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/23661\/"},"modified":"2025-04-16T03:02:25","modified_gmt":"2025-04-16T03:02:25","slug":"britains-bullying-school-whatsapps-how-parents-gang-up-on-teachers-embarrass-children-and-humiliate-parents-in-cliquey-group-chats","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/23661\/","title":{"rendered":"Britain&#8217;s &#8216;bullying&#8217; school WhatsApps: How parents gang up on teachers, embarrass children and humiliate parents in cliquey group chats"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">At the top of most parents&#8217; worries when their children first go to school is bullying, but the playground isn&#8217;t the only place where toxic and concerning behaviour can emerge.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">A WhatsApp chat of parents seems innocent on the surface but, according to testimonies from parents across the nation, they are a place where clique conduct and humiliation run rife.\u00a0 \u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">In a recent exclusive interview with MailOnline one mother, who wished to remain anonymous, revealed how she had been called a &#8216;s***&#8217; in a parents WhatsApp chat.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">Likening them to &#8216;school bullying&#8217;, she divulged that\u00a0she was repeatedly left out by other mums, who wouldn&#8217;t invite her to meet-ups, to the point where she would &#8216;question herself&#8217;.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">Elsewhere in Hertfordshire, a community of parents was left horrified when two parents were arrested after it emerged they had been complaining about the teacher recruitment process at their daughter&#8217;s primary school.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">Times Radio producer Maxie Allen and his partner Rosalind Levine were locked in a cell for eleven hours after making the remarks, in a move the father-of-two described as &#8216;dystopian&#8217;.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">After a five-week investigation, Hertfordshire Constabulary finally concluded there was no case to answer.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">And now as schools across the UK ask lawyers to draw up\u00a0<a target=\"_self\" href=\"https:\/\/www.dailymail.co.uk\/news\/article-14604609\/schools-ask-lawyers-draw-codes-conduct-parent-WhatsApp.html\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" style=\"font-weight: bold;\"><\/a><a style=\"font-weight: bold;\" target=\"_self\" class=\"\" href=\"https:\/\/www.dailymail.co.uk\/news\/article-14604609\/schools-ask-lawyers-draw-codes-conduct-parent-WhatsApp.html\" rel=\"noopener\">codes of conduct to help police parent WhatsApp groups<\/a>\u00a0in a bid to reel parents in, some have revealed the true extent of the toxicity &#8211; where even teachers and children are named and shamed.<\/p>\n<p>   <img decoding=\"async\" id=\"i-42d4930f02ae7877\" src=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/97226435-14613687-Times_Radio_producer_Maxie_Allen_and_his_partner_Rosalind_Levine-a-2_1744722893542.jpeg\" height=\"910\" width=\"634\" alt=\"Times Radio producer Maxie Allen and his partner Rosalind Levine were arrested on suspicion of harassment and malicious communications after complaining about a teacher recruitment process at their daughters school\" class=\"blkBorder img-share\" style=\"max-width:100%\" loading=\"lazy\" \/>   <\/p>\n<p class=\"imageCaption\">Times Radio producer Maxie Allen and his partner Rosalind Levine were arrested on suspicion of harassment and malicious communications after complaining about a teacher recruitment process at their daughters school<\/p>\n<p>   <img decoding=\"async\" id=\"i-3ccee433f6fddf2e\" src=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/97226433-14613687-Schools_are_now_asking_lawyers_to_draw_up_codes_of_conduct_to_he-a-4_1744722901710.jpeg\" height=\"423\" width=\"634\" alt=\"Schools are now asking lawyers to draw up codes of conduct to help police parent WhatsApp groups\" class=\"blkBorder img-share\" style=\"max-width:100%\" loading=\"lazy\" \/>   <\/p>\n<p class=\"imageCaption\">Schools are now asking lawyers to draw up codes of conduct to help police parent WhatsApp groups<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">A mother, who posted anonymously on <a style=\"font-weight: bold;\" target=\"_self\" href=\"https:\/\/www.dailymail.co.uk\/femail\/mumsnet\/index.html\" id=\"mol-94ff5f40-19e3-11f0-83eb-bfd9637e2bf0\" class=\"\" rel=\"noopener\"><\/a><a style=\"font-weight: bold;\" class=\"\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.mumsnet.com\/talk\/education\/4930675-parents-whatsapp-group-vile-comments\">Mumsnet<\/a>, recalled how parents began hurling vile comments and &#8216;ripping [a teacher&#8217;s] character to shreds&#8217; because the educator gave a child a poor mark on a test.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">The chaos was sparked by a parent, who had taken a swipe at the young tutor for her child&#8217;s poor performance, arguing that the questions were &#8216;ambiguous&#8217; and &#8216;badly worded&#8217;, branding the teacher &#8216;an idiot&#8217;.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">And when another parent pointed out it was &#8216;inappropriate&#8217; to discuss her child&#8217;s teacher in such a way, citing it undermines the school authority, she was brutally shunned by the chat.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">&#8216;Several other women started having a go at me also stating concerns with the teacher due to her harsh marking and strictness,&#8217; the woman <a style=\"font-weight: bold;\" class=\"\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.mumsnet.com\/talk\/education\/4930675-parents-whatsapp-group-vile-comments\">wrote<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">&#8216;They said the WhatsApp group was the place to discuss concerns about the teacher and if I did not like it, I could leave the group.&#8217;<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">She also noted several other vulgar comments about the teacher, including comments about the educator &#8216;need[ing] a good s**g&#8217;, as well as jibes that said: &#8216;She looks like a frump&#8217;.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">Torn between the advantages of the group, such as staying informed on last minute school trip changes and more, and telling the teacher, the mother feared creating a &#8216;bad feeling&#8217; between the mothers and the school.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">&#8216;I also don&#8217;t know what it would achieve if I broach this with the school but I think that undermining a teacher is not the most appropriate use of the WhatsApp parents group,&#8217; she added.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">Elsewhere, another distressed mother was on the verge of reporting her WhatsApp class&#8217; chat which includes other parents from her son&#8217;s primary school.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">In a similar tale, a group of guardians took an &#8216;immense&#8217; dislike to a year six teacher, who they believed was &#8216;expecting too much&#8217; from their children on an upcoming grammar test.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">They took issue with the educator raising her voice with the students, warning them they could fail their upcoming exams.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">According to a parent, who was involved in the group chat, others began to &#8216;pile on&#8217; the teacher, with the witch-hunt taking a nasty turn and another threatening to take the teacher on legally for &#8216;gross misconduct&#8217;.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">&#8216;I thought it would blow over and didn&#8217;t really want to get involved so kept my head down and didn&#8217;t comment either way,&#8217; the concerned mother penned to the <a style=\"font-weight: bold;\" class=\"\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"http:\/\/ps\/\/www.mumsnet.com\/talk\/am_i_being_unreasonable\/4352415-to-report-a-class-group-chat\">parenting advice site<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">&#8216;One parent seems hell bent on rallying the troops to get this teacher out, she has accused the teacher of gross misconduct, emotional abuse and is threatening legal action.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">&#8216;I wonder whether I should inform the school,&#8217; she added: &#8216;I come from a family of teachers so this may be clouding my vision.&#8217;<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">More than four in five school leaders say they have been abused by parents in the past year, a survey conducted by the <a style=\"font-weight: bold;\" class=\"\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.naht.org.uk\/News\/Latest-comments\/Press-room\/ArtMID\/558\/ArticleID\/2653\/Abuse-towards-school-staff-must-stop-says-NAHT\">National Association of Head Teachers<\/a> (NHAT) has revealed\u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">Verbal abuse was the most common suffered with 85 percent of school leaders saying they had experienced this in the past year.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">Nearly half of educators said they experienced online abuse, with over a fifth having suffered discriminatory language.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">Paul Whiteman, general secretary of school leaders\u2019 union NAHT, said: &#8216;There is never any place for abuse of teachers, school leaders or any school staff by parents, but it is something our members tell us has increased in recent years.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">&#8216;We have heard reports of trolling on social media and in parent groups on WhatsApp and Facebook, as well as appalling instances of hate campaigns and harassment and intimidation.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">&#8216;While this abuse is perpetrated by a small minority of parents, it is completely unacceptable, and can have an enormous impact upon dedicated professionals trying to focus on delivering the best possible education for children.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">&#8216;Schools will not always get everything right, but concerns should always be raised respectfully, and where they cannot be resolved all schools have complaints processes.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">&#8216;We need the government to send a clear signal to parents that abuse \u2013 whether in person or on social media \u2013 will not be tolerated.&#8217;<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">But teachers aren&#8217;t the only ones to receive flack in the world of school WhatsApp chats, some parents have had their child publicly humiliated in front of an entire group of caregivers.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">A mother divulged how another parent, who also works at the school, shamed her young child by pointing out she had caused another child&#8217;s concussion.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">The conversation began with a caregiver of the injured child asking how to treat the bump on her child&#8217;s head after the incident at school.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">However a staff member, who supervises the children at lunch, took it upon herself to share the name of the woman&#8217;s daughter who had caused the young boy&#8217;s concussion.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">The girl&#8217;s mother asked the <a style=\"font-weight: bold;\" class=\"\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.mumsnet.com\/talk\/am_i_being_unreasonable\/5275870-breach-of-confidentiality\">parenting platform<\/a>: &#8216;Is she allowed to do this? Would this be a breach in confidentiality?\u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">&#8216;I&#8217;m upset not only because I found out about this incident this way, but that this could have an impact on my child&#8217;s reputation,&#8217; she said whilst sharing that both children involved were &#8216;best friends&#8217;.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">Other mums have taken to TikTok to warn others of the clique nature of such group chats, urging parents to avoid them altogether.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">&#8216;Don&#8217;t join the WhatsApp groups. Stay out of it,&#8217; Leanne Grant told her following of 28,700 <a style=\"font-weight: bold;\" class=\"\" rel=\"nofollow noreferrer noopener\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@lealea14x\/video\/7461223586632568096?_r=1&amp;_t=ZN-8vY8rN0hbAE\">TikTok followers.<\/a>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">While acknowledging the benefits, such as quick communication and information about her child&#8217;s school, that came with the chats, she also unveiled the power struggles that go on behind the scenes between parents.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">Discussing her experience in a Parent Teacher Association (PTA) group, she said: &#8216;One time, head of the PTA sent a message into the group, in capital letters&#8230;basically shouting at us all saying &#8216;Some of you lot aren&#8217;t contributing enough.&#8217;<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">&#8216;And I said &#8220;hey not me getting shouted at by a woman I don&#8217;t even know.&#8221; There were loads of people in this WhatsApp group who had never spoken before and when they got that message everybody rose up.&#8217;<\/p>\n<p>Your browser does not support iframes.<\/p>\n<p>Your browser does not support iframes.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">She added: &#8216;Safe to say that lady who sent that text was no longer in charge of the PTA after that message, she stepped down.&#8217;\u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">Daniel Kebede, General Secretary of the National Education Union: &#8216;WhatsApp groups can throw up some tricky issues for school leaders, although they can be really useful to publicise school news like fundraising or school events.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">&#8216;What\u2019s key is that dialogue between parents and schools must be respectful. While parents will find WhatsApp groups useful, they aren\u2019t the way to resolve concerns that families may have.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">&#8216;Schools always have clear procedures for dealing with parental questions or concerns about the school and these should be used, not whats app.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">&#8216;Resolution though the correct channels is to the benefit of all and it\u2019s not good for children or young people if an individual situation is discussed publically\u201d.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">Last March, Times Producer Maxie Allen and his partner Rosalind Levine were held in a police cell for eleven hours on suspicion of harassment and malicious communications after a &#8216;trivial&#8217; dispute.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">The couple had <a style=\"font-weight: bold;\" target=\"_self\" class=\"\" href=\"https:\/\/www.dailymail.co.uk\/news\/article-14548379\/Father-complained-teacher-recruitment-process-parents-WhatsApp-group-arrested-harassment-interrogated-11-HOURS.html\" rel=\"noopener\">complained about recruitment process of a new headteacher<\/a> at the primary school attended by their eldest daughter.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">In their messages, the couple were disparaging of the hunt for a new head led by Jackie Spriggs, the chairman of governors.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">CCTV shows six uniformed police officers descending on their suburban home before they were led away in front of their crying daughter.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">After a five-week investigation, Hertfordshire Constabulary finally concluded there was no case to answer.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">Ms Levine wrote in the WhatsApp group: &#8216;Can you imagine what the &#8216;action&#8217; is? Hello, 999, one of the school mums said something mean about me in a school mum WhatsApp group. Please can you arrest them?&#8217;<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">Mr Allen chipped in and wrote: &#8216;No public body has the power to control what people say about it.&#8217;<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">Another parent replied: &#8216;This should be a safe group where parents feel free to speak and share opinions about how they feel about the school and its actions and activities, nothing more or less, end of story.&#8217;<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">Supporting her view, another parent wrote: &#8216;Everyone&#8217;s talking about it in the playground as well. It&#8217;s ridiculous.&#8217;<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">Friends of a couple have spoken of their &#8216;shock and anger&#8217; at the couple&#8217;s arrest for comments made in the WhatsApp group.<\/p>\n<p>   <img decoding=\"async\" id=\"i-f9e91f974a6e0a87\" src=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/97306823-14613687-image-a-8_1744728781049.jpg\" height=\"823\" width=\"634\" alt=\"'Don't join the WhatsApp groups. Stay out of it,' Leanne Grant (pictured) told her following of 28,700 TikTok followers.\" class=\"blkBorder img-share\" style=\"max-width:100%\" loading=\"lazy\" \/>   <\/p>\n<p class=\"imageCaption\">&#8216;Don&#8217;t join the WhatsApp groups. Stay out of it,&#8217; Leanne Grant (pictured) told her following of 28,700 TikTok followers.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">One fellow mother-of-two, a former member of the same WhatsApp group, told MailOnline: &#8216;I was utterly shocked when I heard that Maxie and Ros had been arrested \u2013 it was a hysterical reaction to the situation and I simply couldn&#8217;t believe it.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">&#8216;I&#8217;ve known Ros for six years and she&#8217;s the nicest person I know. They are both lovely, reasonable people, and for anyone thinking there must be more to this \u2013 there really isn&#8217;t.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">&#8216;There was nothing in those WhatsApp messages to take offence at \u2013 last time I checked, people are allowed to voice their concerns and criticisms without being arrested in this country.&#8217;<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">Mr Allen, 50, a Times Radio producer, has branded the police action &#8216;dystopian&#8217; and a &#8216;massive overreach&#8217;, and accused Cowley Hill Primary School of trying to &#8216;silence awkward parents&#8217;.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">Now, schools have asked lawyers to draw up codes of conduct to help police parent the groups.\u00a0\u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">The Employment Rights Bill, which is currently being debated in the House of Lords, could make employers liable if they do not take &#8216;all reasonable steps&#8217; to protect their staff from harassment.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">Such a measure may mean that teachers can sue their employer if they receive abuse in parent WhatsApp groups.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">To prevent possibly having to pay-out to suing employees, schools are now reportedly rushing to have lawyers draw up codes of conduct for the online chats.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">It is thought that concern is growing amongst headteachers that they could actually be found liable if parent WhatsApp groups are used to <a style=\"font-weight: bold;\" target=\"_self\" href=\"https:\/\/www.dailymail.co.uk\/sciencetech\/article-6391387\/Group-chat-cyberbullying-big-worry-parents-survey-shows.html\" rel=\"noopener\">spread false rumours or racist and homophobic abuse about staff<\/a>.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">And those concerns have arisen when teachers are usually not even a part of these WhatsApp groups, which are routinely made by parents of pupils often in classes together.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">Head of the education group at the country&#8217;s leading law firm, Mischon de Reya, told <a style=\"font-weight: bold;\" class=\"\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.thetimes.com\/life-style\/parenting\/article\/school-parents-whatsapp-group-chat-code-conduct-c90f5n7rd\">The Times\u00a0<\/a>that both independent and state schools have sought his company&#8217;s advice over the possibility of drawing up a code of conduct for parent groups.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">&#8216;Schools are very concerned about the impact on staff and being held liable, for what&#8217;s been said in class WhatsApp groups and are <a style=\"font-weight: bold;\" target=\"_self\" href=\"https:\/\/www.dailymail.co.uk\/news\/article-7117543\/Schools-ask-parents-sign-contracts-promising-not-spread-malicious-gossip-WhatsApp-groups.html\" class=\"\" rel=\"noopener\">implementing codes of conduct for parents<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">&#8216;If a parent WhatsApp group was creating an intimidating or hostile environment for a teacher, for example horrendously homophobic statements, the school would in theory be expected to do something about it.&#8217;<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">As well as abusive exchanges, concerns have arisen over the possible spread of misinformation on these WhatsApp chats.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>   <img decoding=\"async\" id=\"i-51ff10fc94a92056\" src=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/97165355-14613687-History_teacher_Vanessa_Brown_said_she_suffered_unspeakable_deva-a-35_174476702699.jpeg\" height=\"637\" width=\"634\" alt=\"History teacher Vanessa Brown said she suffered 'unspeakable devastation and trauma' after she was left to stew in a policy custody cell for more than seven hours\" class=\"blkBorder img-share\" style=\"max-width:100%\" loading=\"lazy\" \/>   <\/p>\n<p class=\"imageCaption\">History teacher Vanessa Brown said she suffered &#8216;unspeakable devastation and trauma&#8217; after she was left to stew in a policy custody cell for more than seven hours\u00a0\u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">Alistair Wood, chief executive of Edapt, which also offers legal support for teachers, said: &#8216;We frequently support staff where issued have escalated after misinformation or misunderstanding shared online.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">&#8216;These situations can quickly erode trust and take significant time for school leaders to resolve, drawing them away from their core role of running the school.&#8217;<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">It comes after mother of two was left to stew in a police custody cell for more than seven hours after she confiscated <a style=\"font-weight: bold;\" target=\"_self\" class=\"\" href=\"https:\/\/www.dailymail.co.uk\/news\/article-14600307\/Disputes-mother-arrested-confiscated-childrens-iPads.html\" rel=\"noopener\">two iPads belonging to her children<\/a> &#8211; and was accused of theft.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">Vanessa Brown, a 50-year-old history teacher, revealed the &#8216;unspeakable devastation and trauma&#8217; she suffered after being taken to Staines police station.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">Ms Brown was searched and had custody photographs and fingerprints taken after taking away her daughters&#8217; devices in an attempt to ensure they were not distracted from their studies.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">Surrey Police, who also visited the children&#8217;s school, pulling one of Ms Brown&#8217;s daughters out of class, have since acknowledged their error. The force said they swooped after getting a report of an alleged theft from a man in his 40s.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">Ms Brown was apprehended at her mother&#8217;s home in Cobham, Surrey. Officers said a tracking device showed the iPads were at the address and she was &#8216;detained after refusing to cooperate.&#8217;<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">She was eventually returned home, only after a 12-hour ordeal that, due to her bail conditions, threatened to prevent her from seeing her children on Mother&#8217;s Day.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">&#8216;I find it quite traumatic even talking about this now,&#8217; Ms Brown told LBC.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">&#8216;They were able to send a police car with police officers to my children&#8217;s school, they were able to send another police car or two to arrest me.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">&#8216;I know people are making reports of thefts, of assaults and very violent crimes in and around our neighbourhood, and they&#8217;re not getting a response for days.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">&#8216;I cannot get to the bottom of why it was done in such a quick turnaround, maybe less than an hour &#8211; all these police cars and police officers going to an address over a completely false report of a theft.&#8217;<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">She said the heavy-handed approach of police, who took more than 24 hours from the moment she was arrested to inform her that no further action would be taken, had left her in a &#8216;catatonic state&#8217;.<\/p>\n<p>   <img decoding=\"async\" id=\"i-9d50a9e7d6f65ad8\" src=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/97165357-14613687-Ms_Brown_was_held_at_Staines_police_station_above_after_a_report-a-11_174472301281.jpeg\" height=\"389\" width=\"634\" alt=\"Ms Brown was held at Staines police station, above, after a report concerning two stolen two iPads. In fact, the devices belonged to her children, from whom she had confiscated them\" class=\"blkBorder img-share\" style=\"max-width:100%\" loading=\"lazy\" \/>   <\/p>\n<p class=\"imageCaption\">Ms Brown was held at Staines police station, above, after a report concerning two stolen two iPads. In fact, the devices belonged to her children, from whom she had confiscated them\u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">&#8216;At no point did they think to themselves, &#8216;Oh, this is a little bit of an overreaction,&#8221; said Ms Brown. &#8216;It was thoroughly unprofessional. They were speaking to my mother, who is in her 80s, like she was a criminal.&#8217;<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">The Tory MP Anthony Stansfeld, the former police and crime commissioner for Thames Valley, called on police to apologise for their inexpert handling of the incident.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">&#8216;It seems to me incompetence and a certain amount of overzealousness at a junior level, which the local inspector should have put a rapid stop to,&#8217; he said.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">&#8216;It was quite unnecessary to put a reputable 50-year-old history teacher into a cell for seven hours.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">&#8216;It&#8217;s hardly likely that she would have absconded abroad and I would hope that the chief constable goes and apologises personally to the poor lady.&#8217;<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">Ms Brown has been involved in fraught disputes with two different men in recent years after relationships broke down, it&#8217;s understood, including the father of her children.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">She is head of Theology, Philosophy and Ethics at school close to her home in Cobham, Surrey where she has lived for almost 20 years.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">As well as her own two daughters she has two step-sons and a number of pets.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">She is a keen rugby player and registered at her local club.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">&#8216;A tracking device on the iPads showed that they were at the address and a 50-year-old woman from Cobham was arrested on suspicion of theft,&#8217; said the spokesperson.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">&#8216;A search was then carried out using post-arrest powers and the iPads were located.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">&#8216;The woman was subsequently released on conditional bail while further enquiries were carried out.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">&#8216;The police bail conditions included not speaking to her daughters, who were connected to the investigation, while officers carried out their enquiries.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">&#8216;Following these enquiries, officers discovered that the iPads belonged to the woman&#8217;s children and that she was entitled to confiscate items from her own children.&#8217;<\/p>\n<p><script async src=\"\/\/www.tiktok.com\/embed.js\"><\/script><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"At the top of most parents&#8217; worries when their children first go to school is bullying, but the&hellip;\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":23662,"comment_status":"","ping_status":"","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[5018,3,4],"tags":[748,92,393,4884,12,1144,712,16,15,1764,599],"class_list":{"0":"post-23661","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-britain","8":"category-uk","9":"category-united-kingdom","10":"tag-britain","11":"tag-dailymail","12":"tag-england","13":"tag-great-britain","14":"tag-news","15":"tag-northern-ireland","16":"tag-scotland","17":"tag-uk","18":"tag-united-kingdom","19":"tag-wales","20":"tag-whatsapp"},"share_on_mastodon":{"url":"https:\/\/pubeurope.com\/@uk\/114345420054485743","error":""},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/23661","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=23661"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/23661\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/23662"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=23661"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=23661"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=23661"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}